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WolverineDG

(22,298 posts)
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 11:47 PM Feb 2012

Anyone picking up on whether I'll have a boyfriend soon?

I haven't had any kind of relationship in over 10 years, but through this theatre group, I've met a couple of guys who have caught my interest & I wouldn't mind if things moved past friendship into something more. I really am tired of being alone & would like to know what it's like to have a boyfriend on Valentine's Day.

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Anyone picking up on whether I'll have a boyfriend soon? (Original Post) WolverineDG Feb 2012 OP
I hope love comes your way libodem Feb 2012 #1
wow, that was pretty darn specific WolverineDG Feb 2012 #3
Good wishes to you Tumbulu Feb 2012 #2
thank you! nt WolverineDG Feb 2012 #11
Nothing intuitively Howler Feb 2012 #4
Thanks, Howler! nt WolverineDG Feb 2012 #10
First impression MorningGlow Feb 2012 #5
Well, there are 2 who've piqued my interest WolverineDG Feb 2012 #9
Feels more like it could happen at the end of this year instead of now. BlueIris Feb 2012 #6
thanks BI! nt WolverineDG Feb 2012 #12
Nov/Dec would be my guess. BlueIris Feb 2012 #16
Don't worry about Valentine's Day LiberalEsto Feb 2012 #7
Thanks, but it feels like it never comes for me WolverineDG Feb 2012 #8
My suggestion is YOU take the first step MagickMuffin Feb 2012 #13
In the meantime, for Valentine's Day..Buy Yourself kimmerspixelated Feb 2012 #14
That's good advice for all unattached persons--singles, widows, orphans japple Feb 2012 #15
Thanks, Japple! kimmerspixelated Feb 2012 #19
That's the best advice BlueToTheBone Feb 2012 #18
... BlueToTheBone Feb 2012 #17

libodem

(19,288 posts)
1. I hope love comes your way
Wed Feb 8, 2012, 12:39 AM
Feb 2012

I can't claim true psychic powers so I can't predict for real. Maybe someone here can look at your chart. I read Rob Brenzy like he's an oracle.

Howler

(4,225 posts)
4. Nothing intuitively
Wed Feb 8, 2012, 11:58 AM
Feb 2012

but I don't feel that theres any reason why you would have any trouble at all WolverineDG.
If your ready He will come.

Happy Valentines day Woman.

MorningGlow

(15,758 posts)
5. First impression
Wed Feb 8, 2012, 12:07 PM
Feb 2012

"Be careful what you wish for." No, it's not as dire as all that--no scary-music cue or anything--it's more like...yes, you can have a boyfriend if you want one, but don't go out with just anyone. Again, no danger foreseen, just that you might be bored/disappointed if you "settle" for the first person who asks you. Don't know if that resonates with you or not. If not, then definitely ignore me! I just calls 'em as I hears 'em.

P.S. Saw your photo thread but didn't have time to post when I took a peek--magnificent!!

WolverineDG

(22,298 posts)
9. Well, there are 2 who've piqued my interest
Wed Feb 8, 2012, 02:24 PM
Feb 2012

it would be nice to have a choice, but since neither has made a move yet, that's where things stand.

re: photos: thanks!! I do have a video of my performance, but need to figure out how to share it first. When I do, I will post it here.

BlueIris

(29,135 posts)
16. Nov/Dec would be my guess.
Wed Feb 8, 2012, 10:06 PM
Feb 2012

I'm also sort of picking up that he is not one of the men you have met recently.

 

LiberalEsto

(22,845 posts)
7. Don't worry about Valentine's Day
Wed Feb 8, 2012, 02:01 PM
Feb 2012

Love will come when it comes. It will come to you.

I understand about V-Day - it feels like everybody's celebrating but you. I felt that way for many years. The only V-cards I ever got in school were from a couple of girls whose mothers forced them to give cards to everybody in the class. My teens and 20s were no better. My first husband was completely clueless about Valentines Day, birthdays, etc. Luckily I did better the second time around.

MagickMuffin

(15,933 posts)
13. My suggestion is YOU take the first step
Wed Feb 8, 2012, 04:30 PM
Feb 2012

Ask the one you are most drawn to and ask them if they'd like to go for coffee. Send out the positive vibrations of them accepting your offer. Don't FEAR their response! Take away ALL of the fear you are feeling inside and turn that fear into feeling COURAGEOUS.

Don't project any negative emotions, but a strong sense of self. Try this technique and see what develops.



kimmerspixelated

(8,423 posts)
14. In the meantime, for Valentine's Day..Buy Yourself
Wed Feb 8, 2012, 06:46 PM
Feb 2012

Some, flowers, chocs, or bubble bath, whatever! DATE Yourself! You are so worth it!...That's my tentative plan! Yeah buddy!

japple

(9,818 posts)
15. That's good advice for all unattached persons--singles, widows, orphans
Wed Feb 8, 2012, 07:32 PM
Feb 2012

of every stripe, and even those who are attached, but whose relationship is not what they want it to be! Thanks, Kimmers, for the reminder for us to love ourselves.

Didn't mean to hijack your thread, Wolverine. May you feel as powerful as you look in that mahvelous costume! You are awesome.

BlueToTheBone

(3,747 posts)
17. ...
Wed Feb 8, 2012, 10:24 PM
Feb 2012

I can't tell whether or not you will have a boyfriend by next week; but it sounds as though this is something to take to your cushion. I truly believe in manifesting through visualization. Not that you have to see the person in actual detail. You will know instantly when he arrives; you just will.

Look to the horizon in your mind and see him coming over the horizon and know that he will be here soon. Know that he will be here soon. Don't be anxious, don't worry, don't make up scenarios about what it will be like when he gets here. Just see him coming. See him coming closer all the time. Don't try to push this, just see it.

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