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MontanaMama

(23,295 posts)
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 03:30 PM Aug 2021

In memory of my beloved dog, Tag.

I can hardly breathe. In two hours, we'll be at the vet for the last time. Tag is 14 years old...he's tired, painful and he has let me know that things aren't fun for him any more.

Tag was born in 2007 on a working sheep ranch at the base of the Mission Mountains. He was a ball of black and white fuzz that was hell on wheels for his first two years of life. I named him Tag because nobody could catch him when he didn't want to be caught. He was head strong and I loved that about him. Even when he chewed the legs off of an antique chair, or ate a new pair of Birkenstocks, I just couldn't be mad at him.

Tag loved to catch anything thrown through the air...and he could indeed catch anything! It was years before we could take him fishing because he would try to catch your fly out of the air before it hit the water. Tag would try to catch snow flakes falling in the winter and rain drops in the summer.

Tag wasn't just an average border collie, Tag epitomized the breed...he loved herding his backyard chickens and anything else that needed to be organized in a group. Tag herded me and the lawnmower, me and the laundry basket, me and the shopping bags. He herded my son and his friends when they were small...he had a collection of balls that he would herd together when he got bored. He would herd minnows at the creek. If it moved, Tag would herd it.

When Tag came into my life, I had a toddler underfoot, a grandma, parents and a brother. My son is now 16 and all the family I had are gone. Tag got me through a lot of loss...whenever I was sad, he would nudge to take him for a walk or throw the Frisbee so that I would feel better and he was right....every. single. time.

I will miss Tag's endless cheer and his enthusiasm for life. I will miss his wet nose nudges and watching him snooze on the lawn on sunny summer afternoons...always with his head upright, of course, so I would know he was working.

I know all dogs are angels...but this boy truly is. He's the dog of my life. I will miss him terribly.



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In memory of my beloved dog, Tag. (Original Post) MontanaMama Aug 2021 OP
So sorry sweetie! Hugh_Lebowski Aug 2021 #1
My heart goes out to you...I'm sorry to hear of this journey's end. Moostache Aug 2021 #2
RIP Tag & Condolences to you MM -beautiful collie dog so sorry luckone Aug 2021 #3
Beautiful. MuseRider Aug 2021 #4
thank you for sharing your sweet boy with us...(((hugs))) samnsara Aug 2021 #5
Thanks for taking such good care of that beautiful boy. ZZenith Aug 2021 #6
I'm so very sorry, MontanaMama catbyte Aug 2021 #7
What a beautiful eulogy you have written! Diamond_Dog Aug 2021 #8
Sorry. One of the toughest obligations people have is yonder Aug 2021 #9
I'm sorry you are losing your beautiful Tag. brer cat Aug 2021 #10
So sorry to hear this SheltieLover Aug 2021 #11
My heart is breaking for you. So so sorry. mahina Aug 2021 #12
You will meet again MFM008 Aug 2021 #13
I'm so sorry Danmel Aug 2021 #14
I am so, so sorry. It's so hard to let a beloved pet go. And Tag sounds wonderful! pnwmom Aug 2021 #15
I used to feel that way about pets that died, but you'll be surprised. patphil Aug 2021 #16
I'm so sorry. It's so heartbreaking to have to say farewell to such a dear companion. Texin Aug 2021 #17
I'm so sorry FoxNewsSucks Aug 2021 #18
I am so very sorry, MontanaMama. Blue Dawn Aug 2021 #19
Wet nose nudges! How many times did you have to move your Tadpole Raisin Aug 2021 #20
Oh Dear! 2naSalit Aug 2021 #21
Feeling you loss ... Auggie Aug 2021 #22
So sorry Picaro Aug 2021 #23
I am so sorry that you are performing your final duty as a pet parent. pazzyanne Aug 2021 #24
Condolences, Montana Mama gademocrat7 Aug 2021 #25
OK, I am in tears again... BigmanPigman Aug 2021 #26
I'm so sorry BReisen Aug 2021 #27
What a special dog KT2000 Aug 2021 #28
I'm so very sorry. StarryNite Aug 2021 #29
So truly sorry for your loss, but do take comfort in the memories. Scalded Nun Aug 2021 #30
Oh Sweetie hermetic Aug 2021 #31
Oh, it is so very difficult to say good bye to a loyal friend. waterwatcher123 Aug 2021 #32
Lady of the Beasts, please take Your little one Tag gently home in Your loving arms, and niyad Aug 2021 #33
Tears are flowing as I read your post. Duppers Aug 2021 #34
We just put down our older rescue mutt... AZ8theist Aug 2021 #35
Dogs only want to be loved and taken care of so your dog sounds like he had a great life. Pepsidog Aug 2021 #36
I'm so sorry for your loss. 😭 what a beautiful tribute! LiberalLoner Aug 2021 #37
My heart goes out to you and your family MontanaMama. GemDigger Aug 2021 #38
Shit. Blue Owl Aug 2021 #39
Aw I'm so sorry MustLoveBeagles Aug 2021 #40
My sincerest sympathies. Behind the Aegis Aug 2021 #41
Voodoo? MontanaMama Aug 2021 #42

Moostache

(9,895 posts)
2. My heart goes out to you...I'm sorry to hear of this journey's end.
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 03:36 PM
Aug 2021

My family is confronting a similar situation with our 12-year old dog now as she is showing signs of canine diabetes, hip problems and general aging.

It never gets easier when we lose anyone or anything we love forever. Hold on to the wonderful memories of a life-long relationship (and thank you for sharing them), such memories have helped me in the past when we have lost other beloved pets.

May your sorrows be short-lived, your happier memories last a lifetime and may Tag live forever in your dreams.

MuseRider

(34,095 posts)
4. Beautiful.
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 03:39 PM
Aug 2021

I am so sorry. I just lost the dog of my life 2 weeks ago. We only had him for a year and a half but he was the most wonderful rescue...wait, the most wonderful dog we ever had. I can understand your pain is magnified by all the life experiences so I am really sad for you. It hurts so much and he was such a good dog, yes they are angels. I tell myself that Elvin was needed by someone else who was in pain. I dunno if it helps you like it kinda does me but it sounds like that is exactly what your Tag would be doing.

Be at peace. It is just simply the hardest thing to get over but you will and he will smile at you from the Rainbow Bridge (sorry, that damned bridge had better be there or there will be hell to pay). Many hugs and much understanding.

samnsara

(17,604 posts)
5. thank you for sharing your sweet boy with us...(((hugs)))
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 03:49 PM
Aug 2021

...some pups leave such a huge hole in our hearts...

ZZenith

(4,115 posts)
6. Thanks for taking such good care of that beautiful boy.
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 03:51 PM
Aug 2021

It’s in the contract that we’ll eventually have to do the merciful thing, though it rips our heart out to do so. I wish you strength and courage.

catbyte

(34,333 posts)
7. I'm so very sorry, MontanaMama
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 03:56 PM
Aug 2021

I could barely get through your very eloquent tribute to your precious Tag. Tears are flowing freely in Michigan for you and Tag today.

Diamond_Dog

(31,909 posts)
8. What a beautiful eulogy you have written!
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 04:03 PM
Aug 2021

I know how much your heart will ache for Tag. They just never are with us long enough.

He is a beautiful boy and a beautiful soul. How lucky you were both to have each other.

yonder

(9,657 posts)
9. Sorry. One of the toughest obligations people have is
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 04:17 PM
Aug 2021

to call the time when that last visit to the vet is necessary. Dogs, cats....doesn't matter, it's always heart-wrenching for a loved companion.

Our doggie has been gone several years, unreplaced, but we get to visit with/dogsit our kids' dogs as proxies often enough. That's what we tell ourselves, anyway.

That's a fine photo of Tag - a challenging playface as if to say: "So YOU want to play fetch with ME, with THIS ball? I might let you grab it, I might not. Well come on, what YOU waiting for?"

brer cat

(24,523 posts)
10. I'm sorry you are losing your beautiful Tag.
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 04:19 PM
Aug 2021

It's heartbreaking to do the right thing for our beloved pets.

mahina

(17,616 posts)
12. My heart is breaking for you. So so sorry.
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 04:48 PM
Aug 2021

Good luck letting him go for now. I have a story that might make you feel a lot better and it’s a true story so drop me a PM if you want to hear it and I’ll tell you. Sending love to Tag. Tag, tell my girls I love them please.

Aloha MontanaMama.

pnwmom

(108,955 posts)
15. I am so, so sorry. It's so hard to let a beloved pet go. And Tag sounds wonderful!
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 05:19 PM
Aug 2021

i hope you can open your heart to another dog. One dog can't replace another, but a new dog can bring its own kind of joy.

patphil

(6,150 posts)
16. I used to feel that way about pets that died, but you'll be surprised.
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 05:20 PM
Aug 2021

Look around, tag II is out there. Love knows no bounds.

Texin

(2,590 posts)
17. I'm so sorry. It's so heartbreaking to have to say farewell to such a dear companion.
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 05:23 PM
Aug 2021

Such a pretty boy.

Blue Dawn

(892 posts)
19. I am so very sorry, MontanaMama.
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 05:28 PM
Aug 2021

I feel heartbroken for you. Your Tag is such a gorgeous dog. I have tears in my eyes just thinking about you at the vet for Tag's last visit.

I offer you a warm hug and my deepest empathy.

Tadpole Raisin

(972 posts)
20. Wet nose nudges! How many times did you have to move your
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 05:41 PM
Aug 2021

Coffee cup from one hand to the other as he approached?

He knew your moods and you knew his. The language you built over the years became automatic. It was understood.

So very sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself. Tag will be there when you need him!



Picaro

(1,513 posts)
23. So sorry
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 05:43 PM
Aug 2021

It makes me ache to read this. I’ve put down a lot of dogs in the last decade. Two were 15 and one 13-14 when the end came. One had a genetic small dog problem with his throat and when he couldn’t breathe without coughing and he couldn’t lie down we knew that we had to end his pain.

I miss them all.

Dogs just don’t live long enough. But they make our lives so much better and richer that the pain of their passing must simply be endured. I can’t imagine a life without dogs.

Tag was especially cool and sounds like he was a constant source of joy.

For what it is worth you have my most sincere condolences.

pazzyanne

(6,543 posts)
24. I am so sorry that you are performing your final duty as a pet parent.
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 05:46 PM
Aug 2021

Knowing that it is the loving thing to do does not make that last trip together any easier. However it becomes a kindness for our fur babies when the pain of their last months overtake them. The love that you have for Tag and that he has for you has created great memories. May those memories help you through your grief. Tag is herding sheep and speeding around as he waits for you just across the Rainbow Bridge. May you receive peace and comfort as you grieve your loss.

gademocrat7

(10,644 posts)
25. Condolences, Montana Mama
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 05:52 PM
Aug 2021

On the loss of your beloved Tag. Our pets give us their love and loyalty. Take care.

BigmanPigman

(51,567 posts)
26. OK, I am in tears again...
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 05:55 PM
Aug 2021

For both what you are going through and remembering a year ago when I went through the same misery.

BReisen

(114 posts)
27. I'm so sorry
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 05:57 PM
Aug 2021

They take a piece of our hearts with them, and leave a piece of theirs behind in us. I think we get the better end of the deal.

May your fond memories of Tag sustain you now. He’s a special boy.

KT2000

(20,568 posts)
28. What a special dog
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 05:58 PM
Aug 2021

You wrote about Tag so beautifully. I am so sorry you lost your good good friend. Peace to you MontanaMama it is a big loss.

waterwatcher123

(143 posts)
32. Oh, it is so very difficult to say good bye to a loyal friend.
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 06:21 PM
Aug 2021

Wishing you the best through this difficult time. I had to smile when you mentioned Tag herding minnows. We had a Border Collie - Aussie mix for 15.5 years and she absolutely had to have order all the time (no fast moving anything). We had to lock her in the house with the shades drawn just so our kids could use the swing-set.

May Tag live forever in your hearts. He sounds like a very special dog (they are all special in their own ways).

niyad

(113,055 posts)
33. Lady of the Beasts, please take Your little one Tag gently home in Your loving arms, and
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 06:24 PM
Aug 2021

send peace and comfort to his grieving loved ones.

M, I am so very sorry for the loss of your beloved Tag. No words can ease the sorrow, but know that your DU family is here for you.

Duppers

(28,117 posts)
34. Tears are flowing as I read your post.
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 06:24 PM
Aug 2021

Tag reminds me so much of my dear Patty (Patches, as she had a patch over half her face). She was a beautiful black & white Border Collie & had a beautiful soul just like your most dear, sweet Tag.

It helped me to create a memorial of pictures in the house to our passed furbabies. I never want to forget even the small details about them. I wrote a long letter about my Patty which I included on the backs of her photos.

Sending gentle hugs.

🕯

AZ8theist

(5,409 posts)
35. We just put down our older rescue mutt...
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 06:25 PM
Aug 2021

Maya, on Fathers Day. Heartbreaking.
We don't deserve dogs.
My sincerest condolences. It's hard to comprehend the feeling of loss when you have to say goodbye to such a beloved companion.

GemDigger

(4,305 posts)
38. My heart goes out to you and your family MontanaMama.
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 07:48 PM
Aug 2021

As sad as that was to read it also made me smile. I am so sorry for your loss.

Blue Owl

(50,259 posts)
39. Shit.
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 10:04 PM
Aug 2021

All I can say is that two spirits like yours and Tag’s are destined to be reunited — don’t know where, don’t know when… but believe it’ll happen.

Did you ever think that maybe the last 14 years was already some kind of fulfillment of a reunited destiny from a prior time? Things happen in cycles… Life is bigger than we can ever fully realize…. And dogs want you to love every moment of it…

Behind the Aegis

(53,921 posts)
41. My sincerest sympathies.
Sat Aug 7, 2021, 04:22 PM
Aug 2021

I just now returned from Tulsa with the ashes of my Voodoo. I cried uncontrollably in front of the hospital. I feel your pain and your loss.

MontanaMama

(23,295 posts)
42. Voodoo?
Sat Aug 7, 2021, 11:30 PM
Aug 2021

That’s such a great name.

I’m very sorry for your loss. I too feel what you’re going through. I can’t believe how much it hurts. Please accept my condolences.

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