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3catwoman3

(23,965 posts)
Tue Feb 13, 2018, 08:38 PM Feb 2018

Another damn Rainbow Bridge crossing.


We had to say a totally unexpected goodbye to the oldest of our 4 cats this afternoon - our 13 yr old lynx point Siamese, Mocha. We had gone out to do some campaign office work for a woman we are supporting in the democratic primary. We were gone about 4 hours. We got home about 2 PM to find her pretty much in extremis - breathing really hard, drooling, and unable to stand for more than a moment or two. I took her right over to the vet, who is less than 2 miles away. While I was driving her there, she flopped over in the travel cage, and her pupils dilated, so I knew it was grim. The vet was not sure what had happened, but her lungs sounded terrible, her respirations were agonal, and her pupils stayed dilated, so we agreed to liberate her spirit.

She seemed fine this morning - ate her breakfast, and was drinking from a new cat fountain we got a few weeks ago, right before we left the house. So, obviously, something catastrophic happened. I don't think it would have made a difference if we had been home. At least, I hope not.

I'm sure going to miss her big blue eyes, her little tiny face, and her stripey legs. She was a little bitty thing - not quite 6 pounds.

Just yesterday, I posted regarding the 40th "anniversary' (there should be a better word) of the death of my younger brother and only sibling. I was not expecting to have to deal with this today.

>^..^<
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Another damn Rainbow Bridge crossing. (Original Post) 3catwoman3 Feb 2018 OP
So sorry for the loss samplegirl Feb 2018 #1
That's a horrible shock to come home to. So very sorry for your loss. nocoincidences Feb 2018 #2
So very sorry, catwoman. skylucy Feb 2018 #3
I am so so sorry. irisblue Feb 2018 #4
One thing I see around here a lot.. Permanut Feb 2018 #5
yup; we very much consider pets to be family Skittles Feb 2018 #12
Very well explained by that dog... 3catwoman3 Feb 2018 #19
So sorry. FuzzyRabbit Feb 2018 #6
So sorry for your loss.... CatMor Feb 2018 #7
Love and peace to you... Freedomofspeech Feb 2018 #8
This sort of thing MFM008 Feb 2018 #9
I'm so sorry for your loss. femmedem Feb 2018 #10
Oh my God! Glamrock Feb 2018 #11
Yes, we sure were. Just on Sunday. 3catwoman3 Feb 2018 #14
I'm sorry for your loss of Mocha. Sudden loss is often the hardest sinkingfeeling Feb 2018 #13
We had to take our Cavalier to the vet today to send her to the bridge. Stonepounder Feb 2018 #15
I did post a brief reply to your thread. 3catwoman3 Feb 2018 #17
Im sorry. onecaliberal Feb 2018 #26
I'm so very sorry! What a shock. catbyte Feb 2018 #16
...It breaks our hearts to lose our little beloved family members.. So sorry for your loss. Jack-o-Lantern Feb 2018 #18
I am so terribly sorry for your loss. It's hard in any case, but to be so phylny Feb 2018 #20
Sorry doesn't seem to be enough... Phentex Feb 2018 #21
Oh no! So sorry about this sad turn of events. Bless you for giving Mocha japple Feb 2018 #22
I have a lynx point. They are precious. I am sorry you kitty died. Thirteen is too young. nt tblue37 Feb 2018 #23
I am so sorry for your loss. dixiegrrrrl Feb 2018 #24
what a terrible double whammy. mopinko Feb 2018 #25
So sorry. onecaliberal Feb 2018 #27
Deepest sympathy orangecrush Feb 2018 #28

Permanut

(5,593 posts)
5. One thing I see around here a lot..
Tue Feb 13, 2018, 08:46 PM
Feb 2018

is that you and so many other DU'ers love animals, and do what it takes to give these little critters good lives. That's the whole deal of having a pet, right there. Give them as good a life as we can. I've done that with several dogs and cats, and I have Joey the Jack Russell terrier here with me now as I type. Losing them is so hard, my deepest sympathy.

Skittles

(153,138 posts)
12. yup; we very much consider pets to be family
Tue Feb 13, 2018, 09:28 PM
Feb 2018

as one hurricane evacuee said, "My dog would never leave me...why would I leave my dog?"

3catwoman3

(23,965 posts)
19. Very well explained by that dog...
Wed Feb 14, 2018, 12:47 AM
Feb 2018

...parent. If I were ever in a situation where there was even a hint that we should evacuate, my cats and I would be in the car ASAP.

MFM008

(19,803 posts)
9. This sort of thing
Tue Feb 13, 2018, 09:09 PM
Feb 2018

Happened to my son's cat.
She just collapsed into her water dish.
Sigh. Love never dies.♡

3catwoman3

(23,965 posts)
14. Yes, we sure were. Just on Sunday.
Tue Feb 13, 2018, 09:42 PM
Feb 2018

IIRC, I was saying that she didn't have any major health problems. Nature smacks you in the face sometimes.

Stonepounder

(4,033 posts)
15. We had to take our Cavalier to the vet today to send her to the bridge.
Tue Feb 13, 2018, 10:39 PM
Feb 2018

Cancer had finally beaten her down. I know what you are going through. Whether it is a sudden surprise, or a drawn out process it is simply wrenching when they leave us. May the Memories of Mocha come to be what you remember.

Run free and without pain, Mocha. In the fullness of time you and your human will be reunited.

3catwoman3

(23,965 posts)
17. I did post a brief reply to your thread.
Tue Feb 13, 2018, 10:50 PM
Feb 2018

I chose not to introduce my story there so your thread could be all about Dulcinea. I welcome your understanding response here.

Jack-o-Lantern

(966 posts)
18. ...It breaks our hearts to lose our little beloved family members.. So sorry for your loss.
Tue Feb 13, 2018, 11:55 PM
Feb 2018

If my cats aren't in heaven I wand to go where they went.

phylny

(8,375 posts)
20. I am so terribly sorry for your loss. It's hard in any case, but to be so
Wed Feb 14, 2018, 09:43 AM
Feb 2018

unexpected is such a shock.

Phentex

(16,334 posts)
21. Sorry doesn't seem to be enough...
Wed Feb 14, 2018, 06:21 PM
Feb 2018

but I do know how much this hurts. I saw the post about your brother. I've lost two myself, in the same year no less. I understand that pain, too.

japple

(9,819 posts)
22. Oh no! So sorry about this sad turn of events. Bless you for giving Mocha
Wed Feb 14, 2018, 07:06 PM
Feb 2018

a beautiful life. Sorry it had to end too soon.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
24. I am so sorry for your loss.
Fri Feb 16, 2018, 12:23 AM
Feb 2018

It seems that each time we lose them, it hurts just as much as the first time.

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