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It is done. Rusty has crossed The Bridge. (Original Post) hobbit709 Apr 2012 OP
I think we all know why you feel like crap. Stinky The Clown Apr 2012 #1
We all hate it that our furry friends have shorter lifespans than we do eridani Apr 2012 #2
You'll probably feel like crap Worried senior Apr 2012 #3
Oh, hobbit, I am sorry for you. Curmudgeoness Apr 2012 #4
I'm so sorry for your loss TorchTheWitch Apr 2012 #5
Because you loved Rusty. CottonBear Apr 2012 #6
what cottonbear said irisblue Apr 2012 #7
We all know how you feel and why you feel the way you do... virgdem Apr 2012 #8
So sorry. phylny Apr 2012 #9
I am sorry for your loss nadinbrzezinski Apr 2012 #10
I am sorry Irishonly Apr 2012 #11
so sorry. mopinko Apr 2012 #12
So sorry to hear. Best wishes. n/t Joe Shlabotnik Apr 2012 #13
because your heart is broken---condolences-- roody Apr 2012 #14
I'm so sorry for you CountAllVotes Apr 2012 #15
you did the right thing ceile Apr 2012 #16
I'm so sorry hobbit709 livetohike Apr 2012 #17
We will have some good thoughts for you. jtuck004 Apr 2012 #18
Oh hobbit. uppityperson Apr 2012 #19
. Coyote_Bandit Apr 2012 #20
I am very sorry for your loss. Safetykitten Apr 2012 #21

Stinky The Clown

(67,757 posts)
1. I think we all know why you feel like crap.
Thu Apr 5, 2012, 06:26 PM
Apr 2012

Every single member of this group knows why.

Rusty is over The Bridge, in the sunshine in The Meadow.

You need to be kind to yourself.




I dread these sorts of posts. I'm glad we can all be there for each other.

Worried senior

(1,328 posts)
3. You'll probably feel like crap
Thu Apr 5, 2012, 06:33 PM
Apr 2012

for quite a while. I bawled like a baby when ours crossed over for quite a while.

TorchTheWitch

(11,065 posts)
5. I'm so sorry for your loss
Thu Apr 5, 2012, 07:07 PM
Apr 2012

We know why it hurts so much, and I'm sure everyone here completely understands your pain in losing your dear Rusty. He had a long and happy life with you and was well loved.




irisblue

(32,917 posts)
7. what cottonbear said
Thu Apr 5, 2012, 07:33 PM
Apr 2012

and rusty loves you. you gave rusty ear skritchies, belly rubs, morning outies, walks, sneaked him treats, and loved him enough to put him first. i am so sorry. i know how hard i grieved for my fur babies.

virgdem

(2,124 posts)
8. We all know how you feel and why you feel the way you do...
Thu Apr 5, 2012, 07:36 PM
Apr 2012

you loved your Rusty and are deeply grieving his loss. I cried my eyes out when my Sammy died in early February in my kitchen. I only regret that I wasn't with her at the exact moment of her death as I was getting ready to take her to the Emergency Vet. Please take time to grieve and be kind to yourself - you did the right thing in not prolonging his suffering.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
10. I am sorry for your loss
Thu Apr 5, 2012, 09:46 PM
Apr 2012

We did that with Tuky, our beloved Cockatiel, when it was time. You need to grieve.

If you have other companions so do they.

Irishonly

(3,344 posts)
11. I am sorry
Thu Apr 5, 2012, 10:13 PM
Apr 2012

We all know how much it hurts. If it help you, think of Rusty playing at the Bridge happy and healthy again. I know the Rainbow Ridge has always helped me.

CountAllVotes

(20,865 posts)
15. I'm so sorry for you
Fri Apr 6, 2012, 02:54 AM
Apr 2012

Been through this twice in since Christmas myself and I know how you feel. At times you feel ok and then all of a sudden you simply lose it.

May Rusty RIP and for you a ...

livetohike

(22,119 posts)
17. I'm so sorry hobbit709
Fri Apr 6, 2012, 01:11 PM
Apr 2012
No one, but a pet owner can understand the feel like crap part....you have many good memories of Rusty and he will be in your heart forever.

"If there are no dogs in Heaven,
then when I die I want to go
where they went."
Will Rogers, 1897-1935
 

jtuck004

(15,882 posts)
18. We will have some good thoughts for you.
Fri Apr 6, 2012, 10:03 PM
Apr 2012

It's the ones we have to take care of the most that seem to leave the biggest hole, especially that someone else failed. At least that has been my experience.

But it's also been my experience that time will help you manage it.

Thank you for giving Rusty the life you did, and remembering the good times you had will help. Soon those memories will crowd out today.
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