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retrowire

(10,345 posts)
Thu Aug 11, 2016, 09:28 PM Aug 2016

remember yesterday I said my cat was breathing funny?

Today, for the first time in my life I had to choose euthanasia as an option.

We brought him to the vet today.

They diagnosed him with FIP. Incurable. He only had days or weeks to live.

And now we're without our fat baby, Caesar Crookshanks Bullock.

He taught me how to be a cat person. And we will forever keep him in our hearts.

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remember yesterday I said my cat was breathing funny? (Original Post) retrowire Aug 2016 OP
I am so sorry, my dear retrowire... CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2016 #1
Very sorry for your loss. Behind the Aegis Aug 2016 #2
Ohhh... frogmarch Aug 2016 #3
I am so sorry for your loss. n/t phylny Aug 2016 #4
So sorry! FIP is an awful disease - sadly, nothing can be done for it. The Velveteen Ocelot Aug 2016 #5
You made the kind decision. Caesar loves you and always will. CurtEastPoint Aug 2016 #6
So sorry to hear this. It is never easy and there just aren't words enough to make it better. Purveyor Aug 2016 #7
So sorry for your loss... PoiBoy Aug 2016 #8
So very sorry for your loss! Freddie Aug 2016 #9
I'm so sorry, Freddie. He was much too young. catbyte Aug 2016 #11
Oh, retrowire! I'm so very sorry about the loss of your precious Caesar Crookshanks Bullock. catbyte Aug 2016 #10
Sorry for your loss. n/t Little Tich Aug 2016 #12
So very sorry, retrowire. Granny M Aug 2016 #13
I am so sorry. Lunabell Aug 2016 #14
This message was self-deleted by its author japple Aug 2016 #15
Oh so sorry, retrowire. No doubt you saved your boy from suffering. japple Aug 2016 #16
My Sympathy Number9Dream Aug 2016 #17
I'm so sorry for your loss meow2u3 Aug 2016 #18
My heart breaks for you for your loss. hamsterjill Aug 2016 #19
I'm sorry for your loss. sinkingfeeling Aug 2016 #20
I'm so sorry retro. RIP Caesar. Fla Dem Aug 2016 #21
Very sad at hearing your news. So sorry. No one knows how wonderful they are until living with one. Judi Lynn Aug 2016 #22
I am so sorry... I know that heartbreak myself... losing the one who made me a cat person. Lisa0825 Aug 2016 #23
the worst part was that we thought retrowire Aug 2016 #24

Behind the Aegis

(53,939 posts)
2. Very sorry for your loss.
Thu Aug 11, 2016, 09:30 PM
Aug 2016

It is never easy to make that decision because we don't want to let them go, but we know we can't let them live in agony. He left his footprints on your heart, and those will never fade!

PoiBoy

(1,542 posts)
8. So sorry for your loss...
Thu Aug 11, 2016, 09:59 PM
Aug 2016

...losing a family member is never easy... we can only take solace in the fact that they are free of their pain and in a better place...













Freddie

(9,258 posts)
9. So very sorry for your loss!
Thu Aug 11, 2016, 11:34 PM
Aug 2016

We lost our very beloved Freddie (my DU alias) to FIP last fall. He had always been on the chubby side and when his belly started getting even bigger I didn't think much of it. Gradually he stopped coming upstairs and then stopped eating. His big belly was fluid. Took the vet 4 days of inpatient care and $3000 to diagnose him (not happy about that!) We took him home to give him some more time in his environment and had an appointment to put him to sleep a few days later but he went to the Bridge at home the day of the appointment. He was only 9. Freddie was a big orange tabby and the best cat ever.
We've since gotten 2 kittens and changed vets.
So sorry for the loss of your beloved fur child

catbyte

(34,364 posts)
10. Oh, retrowire! I'm so very sorry about the loss of your precious Caesar Crookshanks Bullock.
Thu Aug 11, 2016, 11:41 PM
Aug 2016

They are family.

Granny M

(1,395 posts)
13. So very sorry, retrowire.
Fri Aug 12, 2016, 02:58 AM
Aug 2016

It's so painful to lose our beloved babies. Sending you thoughts of peace and comfort.

Lunabell

(6,075 posts)
14. I am so sorry.
Fri Aug 12, 2016, 04:36 AM
Aug 2016

I hope it was an easy passing. And when you are feeling better, please consider rescuing another fur baby.

Response to retrowire (Original post)

japple

(9,819 posts)
16. Oh so sorry, retrowire. No doubt you saved your boy from suffering.
Fri Aug 12, 2016, 07:38 AM
Aug 2016

I am sure your kitty is grateful to have been released from his sick body and is purring in paradise. Bless you for having the courage to let him go.

(edit to add: somehow I duplicated this post but self-deleted the other one)

meow2u3

(24,761 posts)
18. I'm so sorry for your loss
Fri Aug 12, 2016, 10:38 AM
Aug 2016

FIP rapidly kills a cat and there was nothing you could do to save him. You had no other choice but to have him euthanized.
So sorry he's gone, but now he's in kitty heaven.


hamsterjill

(15,220 posts)
19. My heart breaks for you for your loss.
Fri Aug 12, 2016, 11:11 AM
Aug 2016

FIP is a horrible, horrid disease. We've had several cats in our rescue that have developed it. It's hard to diagnose and it's hard when you come to the realization that there is nothing more that can be done.

I am so sorry for your pain. I wish you peace and comfort.

Judi Lynn

(160,515 posts)
22. Very sad at hearing your news. So sorry. No one knows how wonderful they are until living with one.
Sat Aug 13, 2016, 11:53 PM
Aug 2016

Best wishes for your days ahead.

Lisa0825

(14,487 posts)
23. I am so sorry... I know that heartbreak myself... losing the one who made me a cat person.
Sun Aug 14, 2016, 11:18 PM
Aug 2016

Every time I know someone who loses a furbaby, I have the same thought... I'm so glad that baby had someone who loved them, when others are not as lucky. It hurts so much to lose them, because of the joy they bring to our hearts.

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
24. the worst part was that we thought
Sun Aug 14, 2016, 11:58 PM
Aug 2016

We were just going in to get some worms meds or something.

He'd been sick before and got through it just fine.

We had no idea the kind of curve ball we were driving to that day.

Thank you.

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