Thu Feb 7, 2019, 08:00 AM
happybird (3,255 posts)
Today is the dayLast edited Thu Feb 7, 2019, 05:32 PM - Edit history (3)
After 11 long years, today is my last dose of methadone.
![]() I'm so excited and proud and nervous. It's only a small 2.5 mg. drop to nothing(!), my very last dose of a long, gradual tapering. I'm sure I'll feel a little crappy for a week or so, just like with every other incremental decrease ... it just feels so weird that I'll be completely done. FINALLY!! Methadone absolutely saved my life, I have zero doubts about that. I just can't believe it's been 11 goddamn years. Edit: Thank you all so much! I certainly wasn't expecting this large of a response! (and I didn't realize the post would show up outside of the Addiction section, lol!) It's overwhelming to have so much support. I truly appreciate all the kind words, thoughts, and encouragement. It means a lot to me, especially today. Whenever I'm feeling a little rough on this last taper, I'm going to come back here to reread all these lovely comments. Thank you. ![]() Medication assisted treatment WORKS! I cannot wait until the stigma and misinformation surrounding it are gone and it's finally easy for anyone who wants help to get it, that day.
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happybird | Feb 2019 | OP |
Squinch | Feb 2019 | #1 | |
Lefta Dissenter | Feb 2019 | #2 | |
Dead_Parrot | Feb 2019 | #3 | |
Scarsdale | Feb 2019 | #4 | |
bluecollar2 | Feb 2019 | #5 | |
knightmaar | Feb 2019 | #6 | |
happybird | Feb 2019 | #38 | |
PWPippinesq | Feb 2019 | #7 | |
FailureToCommunicate | Feb 2019 | #8 | |
Freddie | Feb 2019 | #9 | |
Soxfan58 | Feb 2019 | #10 | |
safeinOhio | Feb 2019 | #11 | |
SaveOurDemocracy | Feb 2019 | #12 | |
handmade34 | Feb 2019 | #13 | |
Lonestarblue | Feb 2019 | #14 | |
ProfessorPlum | Feb 2019 | #15 | |
Callalily | Feb 2019 | #16 | |
volstork | Feb 2019 | #17 | |
deek | Feb 2019 | #18 | |
dlk | Feb 2019 | #19 | |
Fuzzpope | Feb 2019 | #20 | |
Moostache | Feb 2019 | #21 | |
ET Awful | Feb 2019 | #22 | |
FakeNoose | Feb 2019 | #23 | |
Ponietz | Feb 2019 | #24 | |
KY_EnviroGuy | Feb 2019 | #25 | |
thinkingagain | Feb 2019 | #26 | |
lillypaddle | Feb 2019 | #27 | |
vlyons | Feb 2019 | #28 | |
chia | Feb 2019 | #29 | |
panader0 | Feb 2019 | #30 | |
TygrBright | Feb 2019 | #31 | |
Fatemah2774 | Feb 2019 | #32 | |
happybird | Feb 2019 | #37 | |
Blue Owl | Feb 2019 | #33 | |
BigmanPigman | Feb 2019 | #34 | |
rurallib | Feb 2019 | #35 | |
happybird | Feb 2019 | #36 | |
Dem2theMax | Feb 2019 | #39 | |
chowder66 | Feb 2019 | #40 | |
jls4561 | Feb 2019 | #41 | |
lunatica | Feb 2019 | #42 | |
Honeycombe8 | Feb 2019 | #43 | |
Daddy J | Feb 2019 | #44 | |
littlemissmartypants | Feb 2019 | #45 | |
sellitman | Feb 2019 | #46 | |
akraven | Feb 2019 | #47 | |
yonder | Feb 2019 | #48 | |
Karadeniz | Feb 2019 | #49 | |
Fla Dem | Feb 2019 | #50 | |
stevil | Feb 2019 | #51 | |
Generic Brad | Feb 2019 | #52 | |
proud patriot | Feb 2019 | #53 | |
RainCaster | Feb 2019 | #54 | |
Nitram | Feb 2019 | #55 | |
Blue_playwright | Feb 2019 | #56 | |
Stonepounder | Feb 2019 | #57 | |
pnwmom | Feb 2019 | #58 | |
Stuart G | Feb 2019 | #59 |
Response to happybird (Original post)
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 08:03 AM
Squinch (42,372 posts)
1. Well done! That is wonderful. All the best to you!
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Thu Feb 7, 2019, 08:04 AM
Lefta Dissenter (6,532 posts)
2. Wow!
Congratulations!
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Response to happybird (Original post)
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 08:18 AM
Dead_Parrot (14,478 posts)
3. well done dude! n/t
Response to happybird (Original post)
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 08:22 AM
Scarsdale (9,426 posts)
4. Congratulations!
You stuck with it, and it worked. So happy for you. Keep up the good work, it is worth it.
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Response to happybird (Original post)
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 08:22 AM
bluecollar2 (3,366 posts)
5. Well done!!!
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Response to happybird (Original post)
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 08:23 AM
knightmaar (736 posts)
6. It takes eleven years to bring it down to zero?
That's incredible determination, seeing that all the way through.
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Response to knightmaar (Reply #6)
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 04:30 PM
happybird (3,255 posts)
38. Everyone is different
Some can do it much faster, but I needed the long road. It took me 5 or 6 years on a consistent, high dose (a blocking dose) to lose the desire to use heroin and to get my life sorted out. After that, I tapered down by about half and then stopped to re-stabilize at the lower dose for a couple years. Did that process twice, and have been on 20 mg. for the last 2-3 years. I finally bit the bullet in August and began my final charge. The last 20 mg. have been the hardest- which has been super annoying because it's such a (relatively) piddly amount.
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Response to happybird (Original post)
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 08:25 AM
PWPippinesq (181 posts)
7. Well done!
You persevered and won.
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Thu Feb 7, 2019, 08:26 AM
FailureToCommunicate (12,992 posts)
8. Congratulations! Crank up some Dead and be grateful...
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Response to happybird (Original post)
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 08:41 AM
Freddie (8,078 posts)
9. Yay!!!
My son is a recovering heroin addict. 3 years clean this month. It’s good to hear about people who have stuck with it for a long time!
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Response to happybird (Original post)
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 08:47 AM
Soxfan58 (3,101 posts)
10. Good job!
You should be very proud!
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Thu Feb 7, 2019, 08:51 AM
safeinOhio (27,358 posts)
11. Congrats..Not easy, but
well worth it.
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Thu Feb 7, 2019, 09:00 AM
SaveOurDemocracy (4,234 posts)
12. Welcome to the rest of your life.
My son struggled with addiction for 10 years. Actually, the whole family struggled.
Clean and sober 3+ years and loving life. Good luck, stick with it. |
Response to happybird (Original post)
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 09:21 AM
handmade34 (21,648 posts)
13. congratulations!
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Thu Feb 7, 2019, 09:31 AM
Lonestarblue (5,457 posts)
14. Congratulations on a battle well fought!
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Thu Feb 7, 2019, 09:35 AM
ProfessorPlum (11,115 posts)
15. so happy for you
be tender with yourself. you've been through a lot.
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Thu Feb 7, 2019, 09:45 AM
Callalily (13,063 posts)
16. What an amazing accomplishment!
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Thu Feb 7, 2019, 09:51 AM
volstork (5,105 posts)
17. Kudos to you!
Well done and best of luck each day going forward!
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Response to happybird (Original post)
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 09:53 AM
deek (3,414 posts)
18. congratulations
you must be so proud
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Thu Feb 7, 2019, 09:58 AM
dlk (9,273 posts)
19. Congratulations-This is an Epic Accomplishment!
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Thu Feb 7, 2019, 10:00 AM
Moostache (9,471 posts)
21. Congratulations! Stay strong and with your supporters.
Best wishes for a continued daily victory for you.
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Thu Feb 7, 2019, 10:00 AM
ET Awful (24,692 posts)
22. I'll get up and fly away. . . .
Good job! Keep it up and if you get confused, listen to the music play.
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Thu Feb 7, 2019, 10:01 AM
FakeNoose (23,641 posts)
23. Good job, now the rest is up to you
We're all rooting for you Happybird!
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Response to happybird (Original post)
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 10:13 AM
Ponietz (2,123 posts)
24. Slaying the dragon...
...well done, amigo.
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Thu Feb 7, 2019, 10:21 AM
KY_EnviroGuy (13,683 posts)
25. ODAT and Congratulations, Happybird.
From a friend in recovery.....a lifetime journey!.........
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Thu Feb 7, 2019, 10:31 AM
thinkingagain (771 posts)
26. Congratulations
Have the most beautiful day!
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Thu Feb 7, 2019, 10:38 AM
lillypaddle (9,322 posts)
27. Congrats to you
What a long, hard row it has been for you.
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Response to happybird (Original post)
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 10:49 AM
vlyons (8,354 posts)
28. Patience is a virtue
So is enthusiastic perseverance a virtue. So congratulations. Your long and persistent struggle with this difficulty demonstrates that you are a virtuous person. Go celebrate!
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Response to happybird (Original post)
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 10:53 AM
chia (1,916 posts)
29. Congratulations - I am in awe of your accomplishment
May the wind be at your back and the sun on your face as you take your next steps on this journey of life.
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Response to happybird (Original post)
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:00 AM
panader0 (24,066 posts)
30. Recommended.
You should be proud.
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Response to happybird (Original post)
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:14 AM
TygrBright (19,485 posts)
31. Wow! Well done, you. Hang in there.
Sometimes it can hit you like a ton of bricks with a delay. Take it ONE day at a time and you KNOW you can do this!
appreciatively, Bright |
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Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:20 AM
Fatemah2774 (245 posts)
32. I have tears in my eyes
Of joy for you. I'm battling addiction too and have an appointment today.
May I have a similar success as you and others who have posted. |
Response to Fatemah2774 (Reply #32)
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 04:11 PM
happybird (3,255 posts)
37. Thinking of you
and sending positive vibes. Deciding to make a change and making the first appointment is such an enormous, scary step. Be proud of yourself, it's a big deal! Well done! Once you and the doc get your correct dosage figured out and you stabilize, it's like the world reopens to you. You get your life back. Day by day, it will get little better- you just have to hang in there until they get your dosage right. It's so worth it, I promise.
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Response to happybird (Original post)
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 01:58 PM
Blue Owl (39,871 posts)
33. You put the "done" in "methadone"
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Thu Feb 7, 2019, 03:26 PM
BigmanPigman (45,889 posts)
34. Great!
That is how Tony Bourdain was able to stop permanently.
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Thu Feb 7, 2019, 03:29 PM
rurallib (58,775 posts)
35. Quite an accomplishment, mr. bird. Huge congratulations
I have always wondered what happens to people on such programs - how long it takes, how do they feel. And now I know.
Here's to a long and happy life for you! |
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Thu Feb 7, 2019, 04:35 PM
Dem2theMax (9,419 posts)
39. Congratulations! That is an amazing accomplishment.
I can't even comprehend having to do that for 11 years, but you did it! You have every reason to be extremely proud of yourself.
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Thu Feb 7, 2019, 04:46 PM
chowder66 (6,801 posts)
40. Tomorrow is a new birthday for you! : ) nt
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Thu Feb 7, 2019, 06:13 PM
lunatica (52,997 posts)
42. Big hugs to you!
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Thu Feb 7, 2019, 06:27 PM
Honeycombe8 (37,648 posts)
43. So if you go berserko and start cussing people out....
we will understand. If it's someone else you cuss out.
![]() Congratulations for getting that monkey off your back. I can only imagine how tough that was, and will be, now. But I bet your life is a lot better these days. |
Response to happybird (Original post)
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 06:40 PM
Daddy J (11 posts)
44. Hats off to you!
People say "I wish you the best," "Good luck!", and other similar things on such an occasion. I want to express these sentiments for you and your accomplishment, too, but I'm pretty sure your quitting didn't depend on luck or fate or wishes. I bet it took a lot of courage, determination, tries, doubts, self-reflection, and help from others to get to this point. I've quit addictions (many times each), too. It sure ain't easy. I salute you!
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Response to happybird (Original post)
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 06:48 PM
littlemissmartypants (18,217 posts)
45. Congratulations!
So happy that you made it to the other side! Well done!
![]() ![]() I take an extended release opioid twice a day and hope that if I can no longer get it, for whatever reason, my physician will compassionately wean me off the drug. It has changed my life and I am miserable without pain management. But the prospect of not having it is frightening. All the best to you! |
Response to happybird (Original post)
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 07:07 PM
sellitman (11,153 posts)
46. A great accomplishment.
It goes to show people that anything can be accomplished if you really try hard. Welcome to DU. I hope we hear more of your accomplishments in the future.
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Response to happybird (Original post)
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 07:12 PM
akraven (1,975 posts)
47. Major congratulations!
A very good friend also went through this - so I know peripherally how hard it is. WAY TO GO!!!
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Response to happybird (Original post)
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 07:46 PM
yonder (7,536 posts)
48. Congratulations, happybird. Good on ya!
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Thu Feb 7, 2019, 08:00 PM
Karadeniz (15,842 posts)
49. Good on ya!
Health plans need to get real. The only experience I have of the methadone treatment was the streetcat named Bob book...the author's treatments were, I'm sure, covered by British natonal health. His description is vivid. If you haven't read it, it's good...going to be a movie!
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Response to happybird (Original post)
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 08:07 PM
Fla Dem (19,300 posts)
50. Congratulations! A truly remarkable accomplishment!👏👏👏🎉
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Thu Feb 7, 2019, 09:20 PM
stevil (1,426 posts)
51. So happy for you
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Response to happybird (Original post)
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 10:54 PM
Generic Brad (13,696 posts)
52. Congratulations!
So glad you have healed. You’ve earned your restored health.
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Response to happybird (Original post)
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:03 PM
proud patriot (100,645 posts)
53. this post brings a smile to me face
I've lost too many friends to this , am and so proud of you .. you have no idea <3
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Response to happybird (Original post)
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:57 PM
RainCaster (8,625 posts)
54. Excellent! Bravo! You win the post of the day, IMHO.
Good for you happy bird! May you remain proudly sober for the rest of your life.
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Response to happybird (Original post)
Fri Feb 8, 2019, 12:11 AM
Nitram (18,098 posts)
55. Good on you, mate!
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Fri Feb 8, 2019, 02:16 AM
Blue_playwright (1,522 posts)
56. So excited for the next phase of your journey!
Nt
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Response to happybird (Original post)
Fri Feb 8, 2019, 02:25 AM
Stonepounder (4,033 posts)
57. Congratulations and hugs!
Give yourself a really BIG pat on the back!
And for damn sure, you now know that we all are here for you. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Response to happybird (Original post)
Fri Feb 8, 2019, 02:41 AM
pnwmom (106,112 posts)
58. Thanks for sharing this happy news, happybird! And welcome to DU! n/t
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Sun Feb 10, 2019, 02:06 PM
Stuart G (33,780 posts)