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Both Barbara Bush and John McCain died within two days (Original Post) question everything Aug 2018 OP
yeah, they can ghostsinthemachine Aug 2018 #1
Oof unblock Aug 2018 #3
I am so very sorry. Rhiannon12866 Aug 2018 #5
I am sorry to hear that question everything Aug 2018 #6
I am so very sorry. dewsgirl Aug 2018 #11
I'm very sorry.. CentralMass Aug 2018 #12
There are end of life practices that come into play.or in other words the extraordinary efforts to CentralMass Aug 2018 #2
My dad had a stroke at 91 Freddie Aug 2018 #4
My dad died the day after he went into hospice - stroke, at 79. NRaleighLiberal Aug 2018 #7
My mom was in hospice care in her home,... MarianJack Aug 2018 #10
People in hospice at end of life know the signs of inpending death. kimbutgar Aug 2018 #8
Depends on what treatments are being used. RockRaven Aug 2018 #9
They likely both stopped treatment before the announcements Mosby Aug 2018 #13

ghostsinthemachine

(3,569 posts)
1. yeah, they can
Sat Aug 25, 2018, 09:47 PM
Aug 2018

pretty much at the end of life. my docs cant tell me when i will die right now, but assure they will inform when death is imminent. im stage 4 cancer.

CentralMass

(15,265 posts)
2. There are end of life practices that come into play.or in other words the extraordinary efforts to
Sat Aug 25, 2018, 09:48 PM
Aug 2018

keep the person alive are halted and they are given adequate pain medication.


Freddie

(9,258 posts)
4. My dad had a stroke at 91
Sat Aug 25, 2018, 09:50 PM
Aug 2018

He started hospice care, which ends all medications except those needed for comfort. They took him off his heart meds and he was gone in 2 days. Apparently the heart meds has been keeping him alive for years.

NRaleighLiberal

(60,013 posts)
7. My dad died the day after he went into hospice - stroke, at 79.
Sat Aug 25, 2018, 09:54 PM
Aug 2018

My wife's dad died the day they started hospice.
My wife's mom died the day after hospice began.

So, this is pretty familiar from what we've seen with our family members.

MarianJack

(10,237 posts)
10. My mom was in hospice care in her home,...
Sat Aug 25, 2018, 10:02 PM
Aug 2018

...and she lived for a little more than three weeks. She was at peace and, I n her mind and heart, ready. She was just a few months short of her 85th birthday.

RESIST!

kimbutgar

(21,103 posts)
8. People in hospice at end of life know the signs of inpending death.
Sat Aug 25, 2018, 09:56 PM
Aug 2018

With both of my parents I was told death was imminent.

RockRaven

(14,950 posts)
9. Depends on what treatments are being used.
Sat Aug 25, 2018, 10:01 PM
Aug 2018

And if ALL treatments, or just attempted-curative treatments, or just life-prolonging treatments are being discontinued.

If any treatments related to breathing are in play, the predictive power could be on the scale of minutes to hours. But in general, the last phases of a slowly progressing but terminal disease like these two people had are rather predictable once that situation is upon you. Within that range at least.

You have to remember, to some degree this is like predicting the final score of a sportsball match a moment before it ends. Three months before these two people died, none of their doctors staked out 90 days as a prediction, as opposed to 60 or 80 or 95. The closer you get to the end, the tighter of a prediction you can make w/o jerking everyone around.

Mosby

(16,295 posts)
13. They likely both stopped treatment before the announcements
Sat Aug 25, 2018, 11:33 PM
Aug 2018

And when death was imminent a statement was made.

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