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MarianJack

(10,237 posts)
Fri Apr 27, 2012, 06:53 AM Apr 2012

My 12 year old son just made me very proud...AGAIN!

Last edited Fri Apr 27, 2012, 10:05 PM - Edit history (1)

First and foremost, you MUST watch this video. Please K&R it. I'd give it 1000 Rs if I could!

http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002616568

My so watched it with me. We were both very touched. He asked me if gay people really couldn't get married. I said that they couldn't (yet) up here in Maine. He was shocked and loudly said "WHAT?".

He then started to say that this was just the same as the way blacks were treated before civil rights and women before the right to vote. He said that it was just plain WRONG and that gays should have every right that straight people have. He asked what my wife and I would do if HE were gay and wanted to get married. I explained to him that up here in Maine we'll be voting for marriage equality this November.

Now our entire family will be working to re-elect President Obama this November, but my son said that he also wanted to work for marriage equality.

What a great kid!

PEACE!

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My 12 year old son just made me very proud...AGAIN! (Original Post) MarianJack Apr 2012 OP
You have every right to be a proud dad. racaulk Apr 2012 #1
Definitely WHEN! MarianJack Apr 2012 #3
Thank you very much for your work on behalf of human rights! yardwork Apr 2012 #7
We are simply doing what is right... MarianJack Apr 2012 #9
Today's young people give me a lot of hope. yardwork Apr 2012 #12
Awesome story! beyurslf Apr 2012 #2
It amazes me how accepting of diversity young people are. MarianJack Apr 2012 #4
In the future, marriage equality will be a reality, and people like Maggie Gallager and Barack Obama MNBrewer Apr 2012 #5
Equating President Obama with maggie gallagher is... MarianJack Apr 2012 #10
Straw man MNBrewer Apr 2012 #11
OOOPS! I'm sorry. MarianJack May 2012 #13
He is a great kid and he obviously has great parents! yardwork Apr 2012 #6
We do what we can and teach him what we believe is right. MarianJack Apr 2012 #8
Cheers to your great kid! joeybee12 May 2012 #14
Even when my wife and I want to give him a boot in his rump,... MarianJack May 2012 #15

racaulk

(11,550 posts)
1. You have every right to be a proud dad.
Fri Apr 27, 2012, 09:26 AM
Apr 2012

Reading stories like this one just further my belief that nationwide marriage equality isn't a question of if, but when.

Thank you for helping to raise such an introspective and socially aware son! And thank you in advance for your support at the ballot box this November!

MarianJack

(10,237 posts)
3. Definitely WHEN!
Fri Apr 27, 2012, 09:54 PM
Apr 2012

Last edited Sat Apr 28, 2012, 08:10 AM - Edit history (1)

Once the idea of rights for a group that has been disctiminatd against takes hold it becomes inevitable.

I think that up here in Maine, marriage equality this year is inevitable. We still. however, have to work our rumps off for it to happen.

PEACE!

yardwork

(61,599 posts)
12. Today's young people give me a lot of hope.
Sun Apr 29, 2012, 05:14 PM
Apr 2012

It makes me want to fight even harder for environmental protections and other things, so that we leave them a decent world in which to inhabit. They deserve nothing less, and their goodness - as so many young people seem to be good - deserves better than what we are leaving them.

beyurslf

(6,755 posts)
2. Awesome story!
Fri Apr 27, 2012, 11:33 AM
Apr 2012

I work with young people and have only met one who expressed gay marriage was bad, and even he said lesbian marriage would be "hot" just not two dudes.

MarianJack

(10,237 posts)
4. It amazes me how accepting of diversity young people are.
Fri Apr 27, 2012, 10:03 PM
Apr 2012

Last edited Sat Apr 28, 2012, 08:12 AM - Edit history (1)

When he heard that gays couldn't marry here in Maine and most other parts of the country, he was not only surprised but PISSED OFF!

He is a young African American man in an overwhelmingly white state and he has never been called the n word, or any other slur, in school. Sometimes I think that his friends and classmates don't even notice that he and the other black kids in the school are even different.

The young fellow you're working with may have just taken a few too many trips to the back room of the video store (if there are any left in your area). Hopefully he'll learn. When I was 12 I was a chubby little sexist homophobe. My excuse is that where I lived, EVERYBODY was a sexist homophobe. It was 1967, you know. I certainly learned.

PEACE!

MNBrewer

(8,462 posts)
5. In the future, marriage equality will be a reality, and people like Maggie Gallager and Barack Obama
Sat Apr 28, 2012, 10:41 AM
Apr 2012

will be viewed as anachronisms.

MNBrewer

(8,462 posts)
11. Straw man
Sun Apr 29, 2012, 09:40 AM
Apr 2012

I didn't "equate" the President and Maggie Gallagher. I said that in the future, their bigotry against gay marriage will be viewed the same way. It's true.

MarianJack

(10,237 posts)
15. Even when my wife and I want to give him a boot in his rump,...
Thu May 3, 2012, 08:47 PM
May 2012

...he's a great kid. Thank you!

PEACE!

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