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applegrove

(118,492 posts)
Fri Apr 28, 2017, 01:17 AM Apr 2017

Follow your gut folks. I had an appointment about 3 miles away. I took a taxi

there and was going to walk home. The straight line to my house goes through a rough part of town. The only other ways through are both out of the way. I thought better of it the night before and brought change for the bus. Turns out somebody was murdered on the sidewalk at the exact same time I would have been walking by. Pretty awful. Vibes to their family. Thank god i paid attention to my ptsd and took the safe way home. Even though i really wanted to walk. Even though I felt like a chicken when I got to the bus. I followed my gut.

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Follow your gut folks. I had an appointment about 3 miles away. I took a taxi (Original Post) applegrove Apr 2017 OP
It's best that the "little chicken" didn't get slaughtered! True Dough Apr 2017 #1
I can't stop thinking of the people who were destroyed by this. applegrove Apr 2017 #2
I am glad you are still with us. Doreen Apr 2017 #3
Our intuition KT2000 Apr 2017 #4
The smart man knows how to get out of trouble. Binkie The Clown Apr 2017 #5
Yes. Even if (or especially when) Ghost Dog Apr 2017 #7
Part of growth is learning to listen to that cautionary voice when it talks to you. NBachers Apr 2017 #6
Glad you followed your gut, applegrove. mnhtnbb Apr 2017 #8
The fickle finger of fate pointed you in the right direction. Glad you followed. Fla Dem Apr 2017 #9
listening to your brain/gut is a survival mechanism... oldcynic Apr 2017 #10

True Dough

(17,246 posts)
1. It's best that the "little chicken" didn't get slaughtered!
Fri Apr 28, 2017, 01:35 AM
Apr 2017

Staying safe is paramount. We lost pinboy this week. Heaven forbid if we lost applegrove too!

KT2000

(20,568 posts)
4. Our intuition
Fri Apr 28, 2017, 02:20 AM
Apr 2017

must be respected.
My intuition told me to not take a particular job but I took it anyway. Biggest mistake of my life.
Glad you are OK and you listened to you intuition.

Binkie The Clown

(7,911 posts)
5. The smart man knows how to get out of trouble.
Fri Apr 28, 2017, 02:35 AM
Apr 2017

The smarter man knows how to avoid getting into trouble in the first place.

If you want to avoid trouble, stay away from the places where trouble hangs out.

 

Ghost Dog

(16,881 posts)
7. Yes. Even if (or especially when)
Fri Apr 28, 2017, 07:15 AM
Apr 2017

the group surrounding you calls you coward.

Do train and be prepared for the inevitable, when that happens, however.

NBachers

(17,081 posts)
6. Part of growth is learning to listen to that cautionary voice when it talks to you.
Fri Apr 28, 2017, 03:30 AM
Apr 2017

We've all known times when we didn't listen, and ended up wishing we had.

I'm glad you listened, applegrove.

mnhtnbb

(31,373 posts)
8. Glad you followed your gut, applegrove.
Fri Apr 28, 2017, 09:15 AM
Apr 2017

I, too, have learned to pay attention to my intuition, gut, instinct, whatever you want to call it. And once, it involved not going on a trip
that we'd scheduled and foregoing the cost of the airfare. Turned out to be the right call, because we would have been in Vienna when
Chernobyl blew and I would have gotten a huge dose of radiation when I was 5 months pregnant and who knows what effect
that might have had on the fetus?

There have been lots of other times when I was glad I paid attention to my inner voice, but that's the really big one in my life.

oldcynic

(385 posts)
10. listening to your brain/gut is a survival mechanism...
Fri Apr 28, 2017, 06:07 PM
Apr 2017

You avoided the tiger. These days the tiger is human.

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