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Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
Wed Jul 9, 2014, 05:43 AM Jul 2014

Two years and counting

Last edited Wed Jul 9, 2014, 05:05 PM - Edit history (1)

I have been quit for 2 Years, 3 Days, 12 hours, 34 minutes and 40 seconds (733 days). I have saved $6,535.68 by not smoking 22,005 cigarettes. I have saved 2 Months, 2 Weeks, 9 hours and 45 minutes of my life. My Quit Date: 7/5/2012 5:00 PM


I was talking to a guy at work on 7/5/2012 and we were both smoking cigarettes. I mentioned that I was thinking about trying to quit. I was 39 years old. He said that although he still smokes, he has emphysema. He was 51. That got the wheels turning. I went home from work that evening, sat out on the porch, drank two beers, and smoked two cigarettes. I then threw the rest of my cigarettes away and I haven't used tobacco or any nicotine replacement products since then.

It was pretty rough for about a month for me, but the first 3 days were the worst part. After that it starts getting easier as your confidence in your cessation grows. There is an excellent video posted here in the lounge by Babel 17 about quitting tobacco. I highly recommend it to anyone who has ever used tobacco.

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Two years and counting (Original Post) Tobin S. Jul 2014 OP
Yay shenmue Jul 2014 #1
Way to go! hedgehog Jul 2014 #2
Congratulations! bpollen Jul 2014 #3
Big Congrats! Callalily Jul 2014 #4
Good for you, Tobin! mnhtnbb Jul 2014 #5
You are an inspiration Demeter Jul 2014 #6
Congrats! nt TBF Jul 2014 #7
Way to go, I am still in the sucky part! Dustlawyer Jul 2014 #8
Keep at it. You'll get comfortable with being a ex-smoker soon. Tobin S. Jul 2014 #12
Thanks! Dustlawyer Jul 2014 #23
Congratulations. Quite an achievement. BRAVO! JDPriestly Jul 2014 #9
Looks like I will soon to be "forced" into your numbers ... 1StrongBlackMan Jul 2014 #10
Yeah, trying to force people to quit doesn't usually work. Tobin S. Jul 2014 #11
Out of spite is ... 1StrongBlackMan Jul 2014 #14
My company tried a smoke-free campus for a bit OriginalGeek Jul 2014 #15
I expect ... 1StrongBlackMan Jul 2014 #16
Well done. Aristus Jul 2014 #13
Congrats!!! Wounded Bear Jul 2014 #17
I'm really proud of you, my dear Tobin! CaliforniaPeggy Jul 2014 #18
Looks like you beat one of the big 3 of addictions that Americans give themselves rurallib Jul 2014 #19
Yes, my parents were smokers. I smoked for 20 years. n/t Tobin S. Jul 2014 #24
mine also - They died of lung cancer rurallib Jul 2014 #25
Congratulations!!! Mojorabbit Jul 2014 #20
WTG!!! nt MrScorpio Jul 2014 #21
Way to go and Congratulations!!!! magical thyme Jul 2014 #22

bpollen

(110 posts)
3. Congratulations!
Wed Jul 9, 2014, 06:26 AM
Jul 2014

I quit over 10 years ago. I was fairly slow and stupid about it. I finally quit, about 2 weeks before my mother died of lung cancer. I was DAMN sure I wasn't gonna have another cigarette after that, and so far so good.

Callalily

(14,887 posts)
4. Big Congrats!
Wed Jul 9, 2014, 06:49 AM
Jul 2014

I know how difficult it is to quit smoking - I've been there too! As you know, you did one of the best things you can do for yourself - and Jen too!

You continue to inspire!

Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
12. Keep at it. You'll get comfortable with being a ex-smoker soon.
Wed Jul 9, 2014, 05:19 PM
Jul 2014

Soon you'll feel better than you did when you were smoking. You'll feel like you were trying to feel by lighting up but never quite getting there. That is, GOOD!

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
10. Looks like I will soon to be "forced" into your numbers ...
Wed Jul 9, 2014, 08:46 AM
Jul 2014

my employer is going to a "tobacco-free campus" model. So, soon, there will be no smoker's haven, anywhere in walking distance.

I've stocked up on the books and am psychically loading up for the big quit moment; but I've read that a/the key determinate in quitting success is the internal desire/decision to quit. And to be honest, my non-smoker boss, and the equally non-smoker committee of "Wellness" folks' declaration, just hasn't gotten me there.

Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
11. Yeah, trying to force people to quit doesn't usually work.
Wed Jul 9, 2014, 05:15 PM
Jul 2014

I think it actually has the opposite effect. You'll be loading up on nicotine more than usual before and after work partially out of spite. It also forces people to suffer more than usual through the work day. If I ran a business, I would be realistic about the issue and have a designated smoking area outdoors on the site somewhere.

I post about quitting here and there on DU. I was kind of hardcore about it for a while, but I've learned that that just pisses people off. The best way to try to get people to quit is kind encouragement. I've also got no room to be preachy having used tobacco for about 20 years.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
14. Out of spite is ...
Wed Jul 9, 2014, 05:59 PM
Jul 2014

exactly correct.

In a conversation prior to the dictate, I asked the committee developing the policy (not a single tobacco user on the committee) whether e-cigs and/or vap was covered. The committee responded that both were covered as they are both tobacco products. I provided the committee documentation that neither are tobacco products.

So the next version of the policy banned all tobacco and nicotine products. I asked what about cessation aides, like the "patch" and nicotine gum? They provided no answer ... they just issued the policy banning all tobacco and nicotine products.

I told my boss that I get "wellness", and I would comply with the policy, but warned that it will be disruptive to the workforce and is, for an employer, virtually unenforceable ... the only enforcement mechanism is discipline; no company has enough supervisors, to monitor 5,000+ employees ... especially, in a space that is open to the public.

OriginalGeek

(12,132 posts)
15. My company tried a smoke-free campus for a bit
Wed Jul 9, 2014, 06:17 PM
Jul 2014

Maaaaybe 6 months. Was so disruptive that they built a patio outside away from the main building. People were driving off campus to smoke and it was so many of them the bosses couldn't fire them all and still get shit done. The patio has a roof and an ashtray but no chairs.

To their credit they will provide patches at cost which is how I finally quit in 2003. With the company subsidizing the patch they were no more expensive than cigs so I gave it a try and have been quit ever since (except for maybe 4 ~ 6 cigars a year)

I'm glad I no longer have to plan my days around when I can get a smoke but I do still miss it a little at times. One of my friends here is trying to quit and uses a pretty fancy vape kit but we also have a no vape in the building policy (you can use it in the smoking area though). I let him vape in my office so he doesn't have to go outside and take longer.

I think it's worth quitting and I wish you luck 1SBM - no matter what you decide I wish you luck (And hope your company comes to a compromise that folks can live with).

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
16. I expect ...
Wed Jul 9, 2014, 06:46 PM
Jul 2014

it'll take my employer about 6 months to figure out how disruptive their Wellness Policing will be to the company.

I predicted (to my "cigar smoking at home" boss), the first recognition will be the loss in productivity as workers leave campus to smoke; followed by an increase in inter-personal clashes as "nico-fiending" co-workers will have less patience/higher irritability, with no easy out-let; followed by an increase in employees pressing personal vendettas, though informing that a disliked co-worker is smoking "in the boys room."

I predict a complete clusterf@$%; and, my company's management will never compromise (it's a sign of weakness/an admission of being wrong). But that said, because of my position in the company, I will be quitting ... soon ... and liking it!

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,531 posts)
18. I'm really proud of you, my dear Tobin!
Wed Jul 9, 2014, 08:45 PM
Jul 2014

I'm so glad I was never able to get that habit. It made me feel sick, dizzy and nauseous the few times I had a cigarette, so finally I decided it wasn't worth it.

Your life is precious and by not smoking, you have extended it!

rurallib

(62,387 posts)
19. Looks like you beat one of the big 3 of addictions that Americans give themselves
Wed Jul 9, 2014, 09:23 PM
Jul 2014

Alcohol, nicotine and (to me) meat and dairy.

Curious - were your parents smokers? And how long did you smoke?

rurallib

(62,387 posts)
25. mine also - They died of lung cancer
Thu Jul 10, 2014, 06:27 AM
Jul 2014

one at 53 , the other at 62.

After I quit I realized that all I was basically doing was imitating the adult lifestyle I had seen all my life. Adults were supposed to smoke, drink alcohol and eat whatever they wanted til they were stuffed. Now I am working to overcome addiction #3

Mojorabbit

(16,020 posts)
20. Congratulations!!!
Wed Jul 9, 2014, 10:06 PM
Jul 2014

My quit date was July 6. I used chantix at a half dose and an ecig.
Your Quit Date is: Monday, July 06, 2009 at 12:00:00 PM
Test Time Smoke-Free: 1825 days, 16 hours, 55 minutes and 11 seconds
Cigarettes NOT smoked: 82157
Lifetime Saved: 20 months, 27 days, 14 hours
Money Saved: $14,379.75

It is great isn't it?

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
22. Way to go and Congratulations!!!!
Wed Jul 9, 2014, 10:16 PM
Jul 2014

That's very, very impressive!

I'm lucky that I'm so sensitive to the chemicals that just smelling a whiff of burning cigarette is enough to leave me hurling until there's nothing left but dry heaving. So I never got the addiction.

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