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It's around Sucide is Painless and Hurt for me.
TrogL
(32,822 posts)rocktivity
(44,576 posts)I once asked a dentist if he could play one of her albums instead of giving me a Novocaine shot.
rocktivity
hibbing
(10,096 posts)Hey,
Made me crack up, even though I like some of her stuff.
Peace
Doc_Technical
(3,526 posts)lastlib
(23,213 posts)Annie Haslam can sing that song in my living room any time she wants to!
rug
(82,333 posts)How you are my hero
How your never here though
Remember times when you put me on your shoulders
How I wish it was forever you would hold us
Right now I'm too young to know
How in the future it will affect me when you go
You could have had it all
You, me, and mum y'know
Anything was possible
I wont be the lonely one
Sitting on my own and sad
A fifty year old
Reminiscing what I had
I wont be the lonely one
Sitting on my own and sad
Forget your dad, he's gone
All I wanted was a kick-a-bout in the park
For you to race me home when it was nearly getting dark
How I could've been yours, and you be mine
It could've been me and you until the end of time
Do what you want, when you want
Be as fuckin' insincere as you can
What kind of way is that to treat your wife
To see your son on Saturdays
What way is that to live your life?
I wont be the lonely one
Sitting on my own and sad
A fifty year old
Reminiscing what I had
I wont be the lonely one
Sitting on my own and sad
Forget your dad, he's gone
aint_no_life_nowhere
(21,925 posts)I guess because I had just broken up with someone important to me at the time. The second one isn't a very happy song either.
sharp_stick
(14,400 posts)This one is just way way too much for me to watch or listen to, it's just over the top sadness in every respect.
NoGOPZone
(2,971 posts)graywarrior
(59,440 posts)Tabasco_Dave
(1,259 posts)graywarrior
(59,440 posts)sinkingfeeling
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(21,925 posts)about the poor little white cloud that no one loved. No one could sing a song like the late, great Johnnie Ray.
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)The beginning, for some reason, is about Johnny Ray, even though it's a British band. Now that I see a video of Ray, I can see why he was popular.
Mr.Bill
(24,282 posts)The only song ever that describes how I feel about the artist.
uriel1972
(4,261 posts)Very depressing, but at the same time I love it to bits
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)discntnt_irny_srcsm
(18,479 posts)Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)discntnt_irny_srcsm
(18,479 posts)I left this for another but you might like it as well:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1018&pid=306326
tg
(105 posts)Populist_Prole
(5,364 posts)I have no idea why.
AsahinaKimi
(20,776 posts)and the ending
RedCloud
(9,230 posts)ok_cpu
(2,050 posts)But that video is pure heartbreak.
Here's one that gets me for personal reasons.
Tommy_Carcetti
(43,174 posts)The whole Adore album is strikingly beautiful yet extremely depressing. Ironically, Adore--and not Mellon Collie--is the trule meloncholy album by the Pumpkins. Fans didn't know what to make of it after the much more guitar heavy (yet epic) Siamese Dream and Mellon Collie, and it initially got a rather negative response. Only after a few years had past did fans begin to truly appreciate it as a work of art.
Here's something I suggest, based on personal experience. If you find yourself really, really sad about something, have a glass of wine or two, and then listen to Adore from beginning to end, in the dark, with the knowledge that Billy wrote it in the shadow of his mother's death and at the end of a relationship. You'll seriously bawl your eyes out, yet after it's all done it's actually extremely cathatric.
ok_cpu
(2,050 posts)are exactly why I picked it, having lost my own mother to cancer when she was far too young.
It might not have been the most well-received of their albums, but I've always loved it - and appreciated it for the story behind the music. It's just taken on more meaning since Mom passed last year.
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)In a little while from now
If Im not feeling any less sour
I promise myself to treat myself
And visit a nearby tower
And climbing to the top will throw myself off
In an effort to make it clear to who
Ever what its like when youre shattered
Left standing in the lurch at a church
Where people saying: "My God, thats tough
She's stood him up"
No point in us remaining
We may as well go home
As I did on my own
Alone again, naturally
To think that only yesterday
I was cheerful, bright and gay
Looking forward to well wouldnt do
The role I was about to play
But as if to knock me down
Reality came around
And without so much, as a mere touch
Cut me into little pieces
Leaving me to doubt
Talk about God and His mercy
Or if He really does exist
Why did He desert me in my hour of need
I truly am indeed Alone again, naturally
It seems to me that there are more hearts
broken in the world that cant be mended
Left unattended
What do we do? What do we do?
Alone again, naturally
Now looking back over the years
And whatever else that appears
I remember I cried when my father died
Never wishing to hide the tears
And at sixty-five years old
My mother, God rest her soul,
Couldnt understand why the only man
She had ever loved had been taken
Leaving her to start with a heart so badly broken
Despite encouragement from me
No words were ever spoken
And when she passed away
I cried and cried all day
Alone again, naturally
Alone again, naturally
Jeff In Milwaukee
(13,992 posts)rachel1
(538 posts)Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)hibbing
(10,096 posts)Hey,
I do like the song a lot, but man, it is very hard for me to listen to.
Peace
WhoIsNumberNone
(7,875 posts)Last edited Tue Feb 12, 2013, 11:18 PM - Edit history (1)
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)I know a lot of sad songs!
Here's another one.
XRubicon
(2,212 posts)CreekDog
(46,192 posts)One Time One Night by Los Lobos (love the music on this one, but the lyrics seemed to take aim at Reagan's "Morning in America)
Red Dirt Girl by Emmylou Harris (about suicide)
Viva La Vida by Coldplay (about your best days being behind you, kind of haunting)
My Hometown by Bruce Springsteen
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)You simply cannot top Gira for sheer depressiveness. The guy makes Leonard Cohen seem like John Denver.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)ms liberty
(8,572 posts)Much of Jim Croce's songs, too. But Harry Chapin is the worst. There are other songs, but not any other songs or artists that bum me out to the same degree.
pink-o
(4,056 posts)As a parent who has spent most of my professional life traveling and when not traveling working fairly long hours, it makes you think,especially when your children start reaching adulthood and you realize you are OLD
AngryOldDem
(14,061 posts)There's also "WOLD."
Washed-up DJ to his ex-wife, when he finds out she's with someone else: "Okay, honey, I see/I guess he's better than me/Sure, old girl, I understand/You don't have to worry I'm such a happy man..."
Then you almost wait to hear a gunshot ring out. The chorus, though, is genius...sounds like an actual radio call-letter jingle.
That said, Chapin was one hell of a balladeer, although I believe his wife Sandy wrote the lyrics to "Cat's In the Cradle."
Still Blue in PDX
(1,999 posts)My kids all have turned out to be wonderful adults, but if I had to do it all over again I could have made the journey much more enjoyable for all of us.
bobclark86
(1,415 posts)It makes "W.O.L.D.," "Cats in the Cradle" and "Taxi" sound like "MmmBop."
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)These three are almost unbearable back to back, for me...
AllenVanAllen
(3,134 posts)mokawanis
(4,440 posts)This one freaked me out a little when I was a kid. How it ever made it on to top 40 radio stations is beyond me.
Another weird and depressing song from the 70's, about trapped miners who turn to cannibalism to survive. Also got a lot of airplay.
lost-in-nj
(18,339 posts)DOA kind of freaked me out to but I loved it..... I still tell people about this song and how eerie and sad it is
Thanks for this
lost
mokawanis
(4,440 posts)because it's so weird and eerie...and because we knew my dad hated it. You're the first person I've come across in a long time that's familiar with the song. It does make an impression.
pintobean
(18,101 posts)when I saw the thread title.
Arkansas Granny
(31,515 posts)They're both real downers, IMO.
Llewlladdwr
(2,165 posts)Originally composed in 1933 by Rezső Seress it's supposedly caused many people to commit suicide.
southerncrone
(5,506 posts)discntnt_irny_srcsm
(18,479 posts)Well, not that old.
Neoma
(10,039 posts)discntnt_irny_srcsm
(18,479 posts)...Christopher Walken.
He was great opposite Denzel in Man on Fire.
No slouch in Man of the Year either.
Neoma
(10,039 posts)discntnt_irny_srcsm
(18,479 posts)Still Blue in PDX
(1,999 posts)Years ago I made a CD mix for Halloween, and this was on it.
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discntnt_irny_srcsm
(18,479 posts)...a Guess Who fan or enjoy a '60s type of sound, your selection reminded me of:
(maybe some tea with this; 10+ minutes)
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)(may have already been posted)
and here is one that is sad and has the name of a locale in the title
(should xpost to bluesbassman's thread, I guess but ... don't get me started on that theme ... I might break DU)
tandot
(6,671 posts)It was almost Christmas time There I stood in another line Tryin' to buy that last gift or two Not really in the Christmas mood
Standing right in front of me was A little boy waiting anxiously Pacing 'round like little boys do And in his hands he held a pair of shoes
And his clothes were worn and old He was dirty from head to toe And when it came his time to pay I couldn't believe what I heard him say
Sir, I want to buy these shoes for my mama, please It's Christmas eve and these shoes are just her size Could you hurry, sir, daddy says there's not much time You see she's been sick for quite a while And I know these shoes would make her smile And I want her to look beautiful, if mama meets Jesus tonight
He counted pennies for what seemed like years Then the cashier said, "Son, there's not enough here" He searched his pockets frantically Then he turned and he looked at me
He said, "Mama made Christmas good at our house Though most years she just did without" Tell me sir, what am I going to do Somehow I've got to buy her these Christmas shoes
So I laid the money down, I just had to help him out And I'll never forget the look on his face when he said "Mama's gonna look so great"
Sir, I want to buy these shoes for my mama, please It's Christmas eve and these shoes are just her size Could you hurry, sir, daddy says there's not much time You see she's been sick for quite a while And I know these shoes would make her smile And I want her to look beautiful, if mama meets Jesus tonight
I knew I'd caught a glimpse of heaven's love As he thanked me and ran out I knew that God had sent that little boy To remind me what Christmas is all about
Sir, I want to buy these shoes for my mama, please It's Christmas eve and these shoes are just her size Could you hurry, sir, daddy says there's not much time You see she's been sick for quite a while And I know these shoes would make her smile And I want her to look beautiful, if mama meets Jesus tonight
I want her to look beautiful If mama meets Jesus tonight
Read more: NEW SONG - THE CHRISTMAS SHOES LYRICS
datasuspect
(26,591 posts)datasuspect
(26,591 posts)mythology
(9,527 posts)Hero of War by Rise Against
Objects in the Rearview Mirror by Meat Loaf
The Wrestler by Bruce Springsteen
Time After Time either the Eva Cassidy version or the Cyndi Lauper/Sarah McLachlan
Cats in the Cradle by Harry Chapin
Gravity/Falling Down Again by Alejandro Escovedo
Last of the Great Whales by Celtic Crossroads
Time After Time and Last of the Great Whales because I'm a sucker for strong female voices singing songs of loss.
The Wrestler because I can relate to the idea of giving everything to things or people who don't give back.
Gravity/Falling Down Again because it's tied to one of my favorite episodes of Veronica Mars.
Objects in the Rearview Mirror and Cats in the Cradle because my dad was somewhat less than optimal as a parent to put it nicely.
Hero of War (and Cats in the Cradle) because they remind me of the cost of looking into the abyss to steal from Nietzsche. I see in myself the ways in which I've become a twisted reflection of my dad by working so hard to not be him.
And yes, my taste in music is a little weird.
Generic Brad
(14,274 posts)It is so sad and depressing I laugh every time I hear it, especially when he gets to the part where he sadly eats mashed potatoes.
Mojorabbit
(16,020 posts)Tom Ripley
(4,945 posts)and that is no easy task
kentauros
(29,414 posts)but the way it's used here makes it one of the saddest I'll ever know:
Grammy23
(5,810 posts)I figure if anyone is suicidal when this song comes on they will just go ahead and finish the job after listening to this one. Bleak and depressing lyrics. And the delivery by Ms. Lee makes it worse. She sings it like she is on the verge of suicide and will amble off the stage when she is finished and do herself in. Hate this song.
robertkdem1965_h89
(25 posts)So gloomy and depressing. Really suits that film well.
sakabatou
(42,148 posts)Liberal Veteran
(22,239 posts)Everybody Hurts - REM
cliffordu
(30,994 posts)hopemountain
(3,919 posts)because my first husband was killed on this river as were several others close to me
and eva cassidy's version of "fields of gold"
Behind the Aegis
(53,951 posts)(lyrics included in video)
She comes down from Yellow Mountain
On a dark, flat land she rides
On a pony she named Wildfire
With a whirlwind by her side
On a cold Nebraska night
Oh, they say she died one winter
When there came a killing frost
And the pony she named Wildfire
Busted down its stall
In a blizard he was lost
She ran calling Wildfire
She ran calling Wildfire
She ran calling Wildfire
By the dark of the moon - I planted
But there came an early snow
There's been a hoot-owl howling by my window now
For six nights in a row
She's coming for me I know
And on Wildfire we're both gonna go
We'll be riding Wildfire
We'll be riding Wildfire
We'll be riding Wildfire
On Wildfire we're gonna ride
Gonna leave sodbustin' behind
Get these hard times right on out of our minds
Riding Wildffire
Still Blue in PDX
(1,999 posts)Iggo
(47,549 posts)Tommy_Carcetti
(43,174 posts)Hurt (either the Cash cover or the NIN original)
Cats in The Cradle
Anything in Adore by the Smashing Pumpkins
For some reason, Nothing Compares 2 U by Sinead O'Connor (Yes, I know it's techinically a Prince original, but for all intents and purposes it's her song) always leaves me feeling emotionally drained, like a punch in the gut.
"Born in the USA" by Bruce Springsteen. I cringe whenever anyone claims it should be played as a rah-rah feel good "patriotic" song.
Tom Ripley
(4,945 posts)Tom Ripley
(4,945 posts)stick around for the crying babies
Sticky
(1,406 posts)From the 1974 movie Claudine. The song was written by Curtis Mayfield for the movie soundtrack.
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lastlib
(23,213 posts)"...I have hours only lonely,
My love is vengeance that's never free....."
Still Blue in PDX
(1,999 posts)The sun was shining and we were on our way to the St. Paul Rodeo, the summer of 1972. We both sang along and didn't care that we are both tone deaf. It wasn't sad then.
Funny to think that we've been married 39 years now. "Our" song was this one:
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Locrian
(4,522 posts)Look on down from the bridge
There's still fountains down there
Look on down from the bridge
It's still raining, up here
Everybody seems so far away from me
Everybody just wants to be free
Look away from the sky
It's no different when you're leaving home
I can't be the same thing to you now
I'm just gone, just gone
How could I say goodbye
How could I say goodbye
Goodbye
Maybe I'll just place my hands over you
And close my eyes real tight
There's a light in your eyes
And you know, yeah, you know
Look on down from the bridge
I'm still waiting for you
progressoid
(49,978 posts)raccoon
(31,110 posts)kudzu22
(1,273 posts)"
"This song should come with a prescription for antidepressants.
Neoma
(10,039 posts)Sadder...
Manifestor_of_Light
(21,046 posts)Back in the 70s I had to turn the radio off when it was a hit.
"Down by the River I shot my Baby" --Neil Young??
And from when I was a little kid, She Wore Blue Velvet
mimi85
(1,805 posts)Ray Charles version tears my heart out, but Leon Russell who wrote it has to be the one.
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Still Blue in PDX
(1,999 posts)Sherman A1
(38,958 posts)That truly is.
Brigid
(17,621 posts)It is on YouTube. I can't link it from my smartphone, but it's worth the look. It never caught on outside his fan base, but I defy you not to get teary-eyed.
And of course, there is always "My Hometown" by Springsteen. A no-fail tearjerker.
Beearewhyain
(600 posts)Wounded Bear
(58,647 posts)Last edited Thu Feb 14, 2013, 09:20 PM - Edit history (1)
I have heard the mermaids singing each to each,
I do not think that they will sing to me.
EastTennesseeDem
(2,675 posts)The fact that it is actually about a dear friend of Conor Oberst's who committed suicide makes it cut all the deeper.
Jamaal510
(10,893 posts)It's not so much because of the song itself, but because this is one of the 1st songs I have ever heard. I remember hearing it on the radio once when I returned home from kindergarten one afternoon. This is one of the main songs that make me reminisce about the days in the 90s when I was a little kid without a care in the world, and about life before Facebook, Twitter, iPods, and YouTube; a slightly simpler time.
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Arcanetrance
(2,670 posts)The song my wine in silence springs to mine more than others
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Art_from_Ark
(27,247 posts)bluedigger
(17,086 posts)distantearlywarning
(4,475 posts)This cover of a Bob Seger song is sad to start with, but Metallica's video is particularly disturbing and sad. I was pretty floored (and not in a good way) the first time I ever saw it.
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Also, The River by The Clarks (which I think is another cover song, but the Clarks are a Western PA band, and this song is a depressingly perfect vignette of a particular slice of life in dying steel mill towns in Western PA, regardless of who sang it first):
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KG
(28,751 posts)lost-in-nj
(18,339 posts)The Fields of Athenry
Pete St. John
By a lonely prison wall
I heard a young girl calling
Micheal they are taking you away
For you stole Trevelyn's corn
So the young might see the morn.
Now a prison ship lies waiting in the bay.
Low lie the Fields of Athenry
Where once we watched the small free birds fly.
Our love was on the wing we had dreams and songs to sing
It's so lonely 'round the Fields of Athenry.
By a lonely prison wall
I heard a young man calling
Nothing matters Mary when you're free,
Against the Famine and the Crown
I rebelled they ran me down
Now you must raise our child with dignity.
Low lie the Fields of Athenry
Where once we watched the small free birds fly.
Our love was on the wing we had dreams and songs to sing
It's so lonely 'round the Fields of Athenry.
By a lonely harbor wall
She watched the last star falling
As that prison ship sailed out against the sky
Sure she'll wait and hope and pray
For her love in Botany Bay
It's so lonely 'round the Fields of Athenry.
Low lie the Fields of Athenry
Where once we watched the small free birds fly.
Our love was on the wing we had dreams and songs to sing
It's so lonely 'round the Fields of Athenry.
on edit: any song from Les Mis
lost
Socal31
(2,484 posts)Machine Head - The Burning Red
Bush - Glycerine
David Cook - Permanent (about watching his brother go through cancer)
Blink 182 - Adams song
And this one is "underground hip-hop", from the previous decade after 9/11....not rap. Even if you are an "older crowd," read the lyrics as you listen and you can undertand..some very powerful, and different kind of depressing and real lyrics that you cannot find on the radio anymore. We have no "protest: music.
Zorro
(15,740 posts)Socal31
(2,484 posts)But his version of "What hurts the most" gets me every time after a bottle of Cab.
Also "Black" by Pearl-Jam. I guess we are all conditioned to emotionally connect with whatever music is available at the time when our brains are functioning at such a high level, at least activity wise. (teens)
For some people it is just the subject that makes a depressing song (suicide, death, lost love) or tune, for others it is tune + lyrics + subject. Eddie Vedder's (Pearl Jam) "Black" was very powerful if you grew up with that music.
"I know someday you'll have a beautiful life,
I know you'll be a star
in somebody else's sky, but why
Why, why can't it be,
why can't it be mine?
DFW
(54,352 posts)Hands down.
PuffedMica
(1,061 posts)Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)Still Blue in PDX
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" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>Part of it is because I have a friend who sang this song and hasn't been able to sing since suffering a stroke several years ago.
ornotna
(10,799 posts)Liam Clancy - Waltzing Matilda
aint_no_life_nowhere
(21,925 posts)where the end of the human race is nigh, Waltzing Matilda is particularly touching.
whistler162
(11,155 posts)Ahpook
(2,749 posts)Its a nice song, but a dark cloud just started forming over my house
sweetNsassy
(64 posts)Recursion
(56,582 posts)by Townes Van Zandt; I still have a bootleg of that somewhere. It's enough to make you open a vein.
Socal31
(2,484 posts)Beautifully dark lyrics:
Third Eye Blind - Slow Motion
One more by them that is more recent but has one of the most beautifully dark builds I have ever read on paper. It is about a plane crash, titled "Water Landing":
"Put on your life vest only if told to do so
Well I'm telling you now
Strap it across your chest
Prepare yourself for impending death
You and me are nose-diving
At the speed of whiplash, life passes by
In an endless plane crash
Muffled I love you through an oxygen mask
On my face, brace, brace
And the cabin erupts with religious conversions
God's sick joke as we lose the engines
Some people scream and some people are gracious
And the reason's the same
Cause the sky outside is so spacious
Its so spacious"
polly7
(20,582 posts)I loved it, and I love Johnny Cash ... he was my Dad's favourite singer (though I don't believe he ever listened to this song). Just hearing his voice reminds me of him, the lyrics combined with the way my Dad died and what I've been trying to work through since are just too much ... I can't listen to it anymore.
MrScorpio
(73,630 posts)jmowreader
(50,555 posts)This is the heartwarming tale of an alcoholic who gets drunk, drives, and causes a head on collision that kills his daughter on her birthday.
I'll Be Home for Christmas is second.
mithnanthy
(1,725 posts)That does it for me!