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frogmarch

(12,153 posts)
Wed Aug 15, 2012, 05:00 PM Aug 2012

Good vibes request

My late sister’s 24-year-old granddaughter, a single mom, contracted methicillin-resistant Staphylococcus aureus (MRSA) a couple of months ago while working as a nursing home care giver, and has had several surgeries to remove the awful, ever-appearing deep skin lesions. The infection has also damaged her heart. She is now in the hospital again, her body literally covered in sores, this time fighting for her life.

To make matters even worse, her two young daughters are now being tested for the infection. Like the rest of our family, I’m very worried. I can’t stop crying. Please send good vibes for my grand-niece and her two little girls.

Here’s a picture I took of the girls at the Sturgis rally last week with my niece, their grand-aunt. (That's a birthmark by little Kay's eye.)

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Good vibes request (Original Post) frogmarch Aug 2012 OP
Adorable looking little girls. RebelOne Aug 2012 #1
Thank you, RebelOne. frogmarch Aug 2012 #9
big vibes getting hurt at a job..ugh n/t irisblue Aug 2012 #2
irisblue, thanks. frogmarch Aug 2012 #10
I send vibes and wishes for a full recovery! dixiegrrrrl Aug 2012 #3
Their grandmother, my other niece is frogmarch Aug 2012 #4
Oh, no. frogmarch Aug 2012 #5
Best of vibes to your niece and her girls. yellerpup Aug 2012 #6
Thank you, yellerpup. Until this frogmarch Aug 2012 #11
Don't give up hope. yellerpup Aug 2012 #17
I'll try to, yellerpup. Thank you so much frogmarch Aug 2012 #19
Vibes. applegrove Aug 2012 #7
Thanks, applegrove. :-) frogmarch Aug 2012 #20
How horrifying, my dear frogmarch... CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2012 #8
Peggy, thank you. It's frogmarch Aug 2012 #12
Post removed Post removed Aug 2012 #37
(((...))) handmade34 Aug 2012 #13
Thanks, handmade. Scary times. :-( frogmarch Aug 2012 #14
my daughter handmade34 Aug 2012 #15
I'm glad she didn't get it! Yes, frogmarch Aug 2012 #16
Sending good vibes. GoCubsGo Aug 2012 #18
Thanks so much, GoCubsGo. This is frogmarch Aug 2012 #21
Oh my.... what a terrible shame. femmocrat Aug 2012 #22
Many thanks, femmocrat. Your frogmarch Aug 2012 #25
I can't begin to imagin HeiressofBickworth Aug 2012 #23
Yes, it is a very scary time. Thank you frogmarch Aug 2012 #26
Oh, many prayers headed your way! hedgehog Aug 2012 #24
Thank you, hedgehog. I appreciate frogmarch Aug 2012 #27
Sending many good thoughts and vibes susanr516 Aug 2012 #28
Many thanks, susan516. They're both frogmarch Aug 2012 #29
Prayers and hugs and more prayers and more hugs. turtlerescue1 Aug 2012 #30
Thanks, turtlerescue. There is a good chance she can frogmarch Aug 2012 #32
Yep, that's the part I'm referring to frogmarch. turtlerescue1 Aug 2012 #38
Thanks for your frogmarch Aug 2012 #41
Oh, no! You got 'em! GreenPartyVoter Aug 2012 #31
Thank you, GreenPartyVoter! frogmarch Aug 2012 #33
good vibes and prayers being sent your way blueamy66 Aug 2012 #34
Thank you, blueamy. frogmarch Aug 2012 #35
not a problem frogmarch blueamy66 Aug 2012 #36
Vibes here. HopeHoops Aug 2012 #39
HopeHoops, frogmarch Aug 2012 #40

RebelOne

(30,947 posts)
1. Adorable looking little girls.
Wed Aug 15, 2012, 05:04 PM
Aug 2012

Sending good vibes to them and their mother. Hope they will all recover soon.

frogmarch

(12,153 posts)
10. irisblue, thanks.
Wed Aug 15, 2012, 06:56 PM
Aug 2012

Nursing homes and hospitals are said to be the places where MRSA is most often spread.

frogmarch

(12,153 posts)
4. Their grandmother, my other niece is
Wed Aug 15, 2012, 05:08 PM
Aug 2012

watching the girls. They can't return to daycare until the results of their tests are in. If they test positive for the disease, I don't know what will happen, but they won't be returning to daycare.

yellerpup

(12,253 posts)
6. Best of vibes to your niece and her girls.
Wed Aug 15, 2012, 05:16 PM
Aug 2012

Those MRSA infections are truly horrifying. Peace, to you as well and good news to ease your mind.

frogmarch

(12,153 posts)
11. Thank you, yellerpup. Until this
Wed Aug 15, 2012, 07:04 PM
Aug 2012

happened, I'd heard only a little about MRSA. My grand-niece has already had a lot of tough breaks in her young life, and now this. I hope we soon hear some good news, such as an assurance that everything's going to be okay.

yellerpup

(12,253 posts)
17. Don't give up hope.
Wed Aug 15, 2012, 07:25 PM
Aug 2012

These infections can be overwhelming for any family. I'll send you vibes for extra strength with hopes for the speedy reply full of good news and assurance. Remember to breathe.

frogmarch

(12,153 posts)
19. I'll try to, yellerpup. Thank you so much
Wed Aug 15, 2012, 08:09 PM
Aug 2012

for the kind words of hope. And the hug. They're much needed right now.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,588 posts)
8. How horrifying, my dear frogmarch...
Wed Aug 15, 2012, 06:03 PM
Aug 2012

And now one of the little girls has it too. I am sick to hear this awful news.

Major, major vibes flowing out to all of you, for as long as you need them!

frogmarch

(12,153 posts)
12. Peggy, thank you. It's
Wed Aug 15, 2012, 07:09 PM
Aug 2012

heart-breaking. My grand-niece had been told by her doctors that her daughters wouldn't get the infection unless they had open cuts on their bodies at a time when their mother's sores were seeping. Wrong. I'd been worried all along, because that never did sound right to me.

Response to CaliforniaPeggy (Reply #8)

handmade34

(22,756 posts)
15. my daughter
Wed Aug 15, 2012, 07:19 PM
Aug 2012

was exposed awhile back (as a fingerprint technician) and it was scary for awhile... I know

frogmarch

(12,153 posts)
16. I'm glad she didn't get it! Yes,
Wed Aug 15, 2012, 07:24 PM
Aug 2012

it must have been unnerving while you waited to find out. It's nothing to scoff at, that's for sure.

frogmarch

(12,153 posts)
21. Thanks so much, GoCubsGo. This is
Wed Aug 15, 2012, 08:21 PM
Aug 2012

something I wouldn't wish on anyone. I am an optimist by nature, but being one is very hard right now. Still, I have to cling to the hope that it'll be okay.

frogmarch

(12,153 posts)
26. Yes, it is a very scary time. Thank you
Wed Aug 15, 2012, 09:24 PM
Aug 2012

for your well wishes, HeiressofBickworth. I'm making myself believe everything will turn out okay.

turtlerescue1

(1,013 posts)
30. Prayers and hugs and more prayers and more hugs.
Wed Aug 15, 2012, 10:54 PM
Aug 2012

Anyone who ever worked in health care knows this never should have happened, its a mean thing. Known too many caregivers, took a long nerve-racking time with frazzled nerves to beat it.

frogmarch

(12,153 posts)
32. Thanks, turtlerescue. There is a good chance she can
Wed Aug 15, 2012, 11:37 PM
Aug 2012

beat it, we think, but it's going to take time. The baby is on antibiotics now, and we hope she doesn't become as ill as her mom is. We also hope her sister doesn't get it, or their grandmother (my niece) who's caring for the girls now.

What astonishes me is that after her first surgery to remove the initial lesions, almost as soon as she was home from the hospital her doctor signed a release for her to return to work, assuring her and everyone else that she wasn't contagious. How many people did she infect then? I think the doctor should lose his medical license.

turtlerescue1

(1,013 posts)
38. Yep, that's the part I'm referring to frogmarch.
Thu Aug 16, 2012, 09:38 AM
Aug 2012

Its not just ONE medical doctor my friend, repeatedly the same steps are taken. Likely its the infection's ability to be unseen/undetectable, but it is the reason for fear. MRSA scares me more than West Nile! BECAUSE its got a history of being "cured" when its not. Puts way too many at risk. Its nationwide, small towns in California, big hospitals in Minneapolis, and here in the Ozarks too. The friend in Mpls was in a cancer treatment ward when she got it.
The ones in California and here in Arkansas were caregivers. It ain't a choosey entity.

Prayers and Hugs because this isn't a short term battle.

What role does our Immune systems play in overcoming this?
I wonder because I've an auto immune thing that flares every few years. Its been treated with Steroids, most popular, but once with the drug given to those exposed to high radiation, which worked just as quickly and as well as the steroids. So much we still don't know.


frogmarch

(12,153 posts)
41. Thanks for your
Thu Aug 16, 2012, 03:59 PM
Aug 2012

reply, turtlerescue. I've been trying to find as much information as I can about MRSA, as have other family members. Until my grand-niece was infected, I hadn't even heard of MRSA. Now I learn that it's not all that uncommon, and that it's everywhere and that the number of infected people is growing.

I would think that having a healthy immune system would be a definite plus in dealing with MRSA, but even people with strong immune systems have to be extremely careful. Chlorine bleach is what is most often recommended for killing the bacteria on fabrics and hard surfaces, but of course, people can't drink the stuff. I hope that there is soon a real cure for this and other potentially deadly diseases.

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