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Atticus

(15,124 posts)
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 10:57 AM Dec 2021

I was sorta counting my blessings this morning---I have food, clothing and a warm dry place to sleep

---and thinking of those not similarly situated. Something my mother used to say as she struggled to make ends meet came to mind: "The Lord must love poor people---he made so many of us!"

When I count my blessings, she is at the top of the list.

May we all begin to heal in 2022.

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I was sorta counting my blessings this morning---I have food, clothing and a warm dry place to sleep (Original Post) Atticus Dec 2021 OP
👍👍 Demovictory9 Dec 2021 #1
Your mother and mine appear to have thought alike. ananda Dec 2021 #2
Mine, too. highplainsdem Dec 2021 #6
And mine. Jilly_in_VA Dec 2021 #17
Thank you, a perfect post for this day of this year. Raven Dec 2021 #3
Healing is not possible yet... kpete Dec 2021 #4
Thanks, Atticus! Best wishes for 2022 to you, too! And it's always good highplainsdem Dec 2021 #5
Thankful ... and wishing everyone a happier new year sarchasm Dec 2021 #7
and for the time being, a democracy housecat Dec 2021 #8
Amen, Atticus, amen. zeusdogmom Dec 2021 #9
Thank you for that reminder allegorical oracle Dec 2021 #10
Welcome to DU! KS Toronado Dec 2021 #11
Thanks! Have been on two previous allegorical oracle Dec 2021 #12
Me too KS Toronado Dec 2021 #23
Thanks for the reminder. hay rick Dec 2021 #13
God bless your mother. And... somaticexperiencing Dec 2021 #14
Your last paragraph brought to mind a couple more of Mom's "sayings": Atticus Dec 2021 #16
Mine had a few too Jilly_in_VA Dec 2021 #18
My mom, who lived through the deaths of 6 siblings from yellow fever, didn't have Nay Dec 2021 #26
My kids will probably remember Jilly_in_VA Dec 2021 #31
love it. fantastic. Happy New Year! somaticexperiencing Jan 2022 #36
Amen Joinfortmill Dec 2021 #15
Yes I feel so fortunate samplegirl Dec 2021 #19
May we all indeed begin to heal in 2022. dchill Dec 2021 #20
A healing new year to us all. mwmisses4289 Dec 2021 #21
Awwwwww, thanks, Atticus! calimary Dec 2021 #22
nice song from an old movie SouthernDem4ever Dec 2021 #24
Several years ago homegirl Dec 2021 #25
Me too, yesterday. tavernier Dec 2021 #27
Kind words mean a lot. Thank you. live love laugh Dec 2021 #28
Perfect. Thank you. LoisB Dec 2021 #29
Thank You for posting...K and R.. Stuart G Dec 2021 #30
I immediately thought of the song, "Grateful," by Amanda McBroom majdrfrtim Dec 2021 #32
Agreed. Great sentiment Atticus. Happy New Year Evolve Dammit Dec 2021 #33
yeah, the last 2 yrs kicked my butt pretty good, but mopinko Dec 2021 #34
This topic of Blessings was a topic during the holiday party RicROC Jan 2022 #35

ananda

(28,856 posts)
2. Your mother and mine appear to have thought alike.
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 11:18 AM
Dec 2021

My mother was a great liberal democrat who always
thought that morals should never be legislated, and
that government should help the poor.

highplainsdem

(48,966 posts)
5. Thanks, Atticus! Best wishes for 2022 to you, too! And it's always good
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 11:23 AM
Dec 2021

to count your blessings, especially at the start of the day. One of the best things you can do for yourself.

zeusdogmom

(990 posts)
9. Amen, Atticus, amen.
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 11:53 AM
Dec 2021

A thankful heart makes life easier even if the world situation makes it seem impossible.

allegorical oracle

(2,357 posts)
10. Thank you for that reminder
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 11:55 AM
Dec 2021

because the Colorado fire video footage this a.m. brought tears to my eyes. These tragedies occur every day, but they seem so much sadder when they occur during the holidays.

hay rick

(7,604 posts)
13. Thanks for the reminder.
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 12:31 PM
Dec 2021

As a society, we have too much resentment and wanting more and too little gratitude for what we have.

Happy holidays!

14. God bless your mother. And...
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 12:41 PM
Dec 2021

I believe, as maybe you do, that it's best to literally "count" them. Not in a casual way, but in a take them out and feel them kind of way. That way, they really do count. That way they really do have a tendency to multiply.

As you say, may your blessings and indeed blessings for all the world multiply in 2022.

And the best thing we can do is what you did. Count our own and then pass the practice on and share it with others.

God bless.

And I guess I'll dare to say it - not a "Christian" God, but just God. Because one is one, and let's not fuss over what name to call it but just appreciate the universe that gave us this life to play in.

Atticus

(15,124 posts)
16. Your last paragraph brought to mind a couple more of Mom's "sayings":
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 12:48 PM
Dec 2021

"There are many roads to (my home town) and there are many paths to God by whatever name", and---my favorite---"God didn't make any junk!"

Back atcha with the blessing.

Jilly_in_VA

(9,964 posts)
18. Mine had a few too
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 01:01 PM
Dec 2021

One that used to drive me nuts when I was a kid but makes sense now, "God's time is not our time." (Usually said when I wanted something to happen right now.)

Nay

(12,051 posts)
26. My mom, who lived through the deaths of 6 siblings from yellow fever, didn't have
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 02:51 PM
Dec 2021

a whole lot of sympathy when my brother or I complained about something 'terrible' like not getting a certain toy, or having a bad cold, etc. She said:

"You'll live!!!"

Jilly_in_VA

(9,964 posts)
31. My kids will probably remember
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 04:26 PM
Dec 2021

"If I hear that, I better see blood!" I con't remember who I borrowed that from. Erma Bombeck, maybe?

homegirl

(1,428 posts)
25. Several years ago
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 01:59 PM
Dec 2021

I gave up on the classic New Years resolutions and resolved to do my best to do a good deed every day. Most are simle- letting a driver into the line of traffic, distracting a lively child to give Mom a break, remembering to give to those with so much less, in my case to have some cash ready for the needy person with a sign, especially as I am leaving the supermarket lot with $100. in groceries in my car.

Sometimes it is just an understanding smile.

Yesterday with a few like minded customers as we organized the Dungeness Crab Line at local market. So nice- everyone was happy, even the market staff.

Very simple but so nice that everyone was cooperative and happy.

Happy New Year!

majdrfrtim

(317 posts)
32. I immediately thought of the song, "Grateful," by Amanda McBroom
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 06:36 PM
Dec 2021

I'm not sure if I can link to a YouTube version:

][link:https://video.search.yahoo.com/search/video?fr=mcafee&ei=UTF-8&p=grateful+amanda+mcbroom&type=E211US0G0#id=1&vid=34c3aad1b7df4778b27adbbbe6658f75&action=click|

Here's the first verse:

"I‘ve got a roof over my head;
I’ve got a warm place to sleep.
Some nights I lie awake counting gifts,
Instead of counting sheep.
I’ve got a heart that can hold love;
I’ve got a mind that can think.
There may be times when I lose the light,
And let my spirits sink.
But I can’t stay depressed,
When I remember how I’m blessed!
Grateful, grateful, truly grateful I am.
Grateful, grateful, truly blessed and duly grateful."


As an alcoholic looking forward to my 43rd sober NYE in a row, thanks for reminding me of this song, Atticus!

(I believe the song is definitely worth listening to in its entirety.)

mopinko

(70,076 posts)
34. yeah, the last 2 yrs kicked my butt pretty good, but
Fri Dec 31, 2021, 10:23 PM
Dec 2021

i've got my home, my dogs, chickens and parrots.
plenty to eat. good beer. weed.
my children all live, even tho several of them are assholes.
i've got less money than i did when all this started, but i'm still a long way from broke.

i do wish i didnt know how many of the people in my life are actually abject assholes, but hey, always good to know the truth.

RicROC

(1,204 posts)
35. This topic of Blessings was a topic during the holiday party
Sat Jan 1, 2022, 10:43 AM
Jan 2022

1) if we're a bit chilly, we are able to walk a couple steps to reset the thermostat.

2) When we move, we have so much stuff to get rid of, we realize how much we're blessed.

3) We have the slightest hunger pangs and we can't decide what to eat in the fridge.

4) It's raining out but so far, no roof leaks- not even a consideration until I post this.

5) Internet is working so I connect with family and friends in an instant.

Simple pleasures of life which we take for granted.

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