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This message was self-deleted by its author (Soph0571) on Mon Oct 5, 2020, 09:38 AM. When the original post in a discussion thread is self-deleted, the entire discussion thread is automatically locked so new replies cannot be posted.

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brush Sep 18 #1
Soph0571 Sep 18 #5
Lars39 Sep 18 #2
GemDigger Sep 18 #3
Soph0571 Sep 18 #4
GemDigger Sep 18 #7
NoRoadUntravelled Sep 18 #6
Karadeniz Sep 18 #8
abqtommy Sep 18 #9
smirkymonkey Sep 18 #10
abqtommy Sep 19 #11
Lady Freedom Returns Sep 19 #12
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Response to Soph0571 (Original post)

Fri Sep 18, 2020, 07:10 PM

1. Sorry, I'm confused. Did you meet the person from the site you were well suited for...

before the car crash? Or you didn't meet him because of the crash and found yourself suited to his cousin?

And are you now grieving the cousin?

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Response to brush (Reply #1)

Fri Sep 18, 2020, 07:19 PM

5. I am grieving my SO who died on Monday

That is all.

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Response to Soph0571 (Original post)

Fri Sep 18, 2020, 07:14 PM

2. I got thru some bad times by looking through old photos

and listening to music. I hope it gets easier for you, Soph.

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Response to Soph0571 (Original post)

Fri Sep 18, 2020, 07:14 PM

3. For the Laird!

My last one for himself

For you Soph

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Response to GemDigger (Reply #3)

Fri Sep 18, 2020, 07:17 PM

4. Huzzah to the laird

My heart

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Response to Soph0571 (Reply #4)

Fri Sep 18, 2020, 07:40 PM

7. You were his gift Soph, take that with you in the days ahead. I never understood why he chose

those words but now that I know how you met him, it makes perfect sense.





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Response to Soph0571 (Original post)

Fri Sep 18, 2020, 07:21 PM

6. I'm so very sorry for your loss.

This sounds like a wonderful relationship with beautiful memories the two of you made together. As time passes, those memories will surface like bubbles in fine champagne and you will know he is at peace.

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Response to Soph0571 (Original post)

Fri Sep 18, 2020, 07:44 PM

8. It's just going to take time...nothing to be done for it. Try to not be alone...and vent however

Much you want!!!❤. I know this is going to look like I'm minimizing your pain, but do you have a pet to look after, walk...I find pets so comforting and helpful.

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Response to Soph0571 (Original post)

Fri Sep 18, 2020, 08:09 PM

9. Don't let this be the last time you "talk about this". You may need to talk more and that's o.k.

You're surrounded by people who have suffered loss and we understand...

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Response to Soph0571 (Original post)

Fri Sep 18, 2020, 09:00 PM

10. I'm so sorry for your loss, Soph.

Feel free to talk about it as much as you like. Grieving is a long process and you may need to come here to get things off your chest every now and then. It has been said that pain shared is halved. Please don't feel like you are burdening us with your feelings.

Sending healing thoughts and love your way.

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Response to Soph0571 (Original post)

Sat Sep 19, 2020, 06:46 AM

11. kick

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Response to Soph0571 (Original post)

Sat Sep 19, 2020, 07:47 AM

12. No words....

🕊️

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Response to Soph0571 (Original post)

Sat Sep 19, 2020, 09:42 AM

13. Thank you

Well, could you tell us at least what he looked like? Did he have a nice laugh? If this post is "the last of it," maybe you could edit it if you are willing to tell us more about him.

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