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catbyte

(34,372 posts)
Sun May 12, 2019, 01:12 PM May 2019

Cat Sees Little Boy Having A Meltdown -- And Knows Exactly What To Do

"This cat has changed everything."

BY STEPHEN MESSENGER

Everyone needs someone in their lives who truly understands them — a friend through thick and thin, a partner who'll be there when they're needed most.

Jayden Denton found such a friend in this sweet gray cat named Kitty.



Being a boy with special needs, Jayden is prone to feeling overwhelmed at times, leading him to have occasional sensory meltdowns. It can sometimes make it difficult for Jayden to relate with others.

"My son has sensory processing disorder, and other issues," Tonya Denton, Jayden's mom, told The Dodo. "When he gets overloaded, or doesn't understand, he has outbursts of crying and is inconsolable."

That is, until his family rescued Kitty.



Most of the time, Kitty appears to be very much a typical sort of cat — playful and curious, and no stranger to bouts of rambunctious rebellion. But Jayden's mom soon discovered a whole new side to Kitty.

Turns out, the cat was exactly what Jayden needed when times for him are toughest. Rather than be scared away when Jayden's emotions spike, Kitty is quite the opposite.

"We started seeing Kitty always running over to him during breakdowns," Tonya said. "During his breakdowns, Kitty licks his head until he gets Jayden to calm down. This has been the only way to calm Jayden."

Recently, Jayden's mom caught this incredibly touching behavior on video:

https://www.facebook.com/tonya.denton.96/videos/2150631001639564/?t=82

Jayden's family had tried everything to help put him at ease in moments like those. But nothing ever worked quite like Kitty.

"This cat has changed everything," Tonya said. "To see their bond, as his mother, is not just amazing, but special to see such a crazy cat come to him in his times of need."

It's like it was meant to be.



The cat's presence in Jayden's life isn't only helpful during those most stressful times. Simply having Kitty around seems to help anchor him in a world that might otherwise feel isolating.

"Kitty makes my son happy, and it’s like they understand each other," Tonya said. "It’s just a happy feeling knowing my son has a best friend."

https://www.thedodo.com/close-to-home/cat-comforts-boy-during-sensory-meltdown
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The video really is remarkable.
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Cat Sees Little Boy Having A Meltdown -- And Knows Exactly What To Do (Original Post) catbyte May 2019 OP
That is amazing and wonderful. nocoincidences May 2019 #1
What a beautiful and touching gift! The video brought a tear to my eye. Tanuki May 2019 #2
ditto nt spooky3 May 2019 #11
Great story Gothmog May 2019 #3
Pretty cat. Scarsdale May 2019 #4
Thank you for sharing. theaocp May 2019 #5
Amazing and touching. That made my day. Thanks for posting. dameatball May 2019 #6
Gorgeous, laid back cat. Honeycombe8 May 2019 #7
The family is extremely fortunate to find something that Ilsa May 2019 #8
The cat really loves him to be sleeping right next to his head, instead of by the edge of the bed. TheBlackAdder May 2019 #9
Very touching cp May 2019 #10
Who's cutting onions? GeoWilliam750 May 2019 #12
Great video! Lifelong Protester May 2019 #13
You have made my day!!! onecent May 2019 #14
K & R, N/T Lady Freedom Returns May 2019 #15
Some animals just seem to naturally have the gift of empathy. lark May 2019 #16
Thank you Catbyte, and I can relate to that young man. KY_EnviroGuy May 2019 #17
Animals know...nt 2naSalit May 2019 #18
My friend's cat will comfort her only when she's having a meltdown IronLionZion May 2019 #19
Awww... cats are WUNNNNNNNNderful! calimary May 2019 #20
One of our current cats did exactly that when our dog had freakouts about thunder storms. dixiegrrrrl May 2019 #21
Purrs are designed to heal. The Velveteen Ocelot May 2019 #22
Was just saying to Mr. dixie dixiegrrrrl May 2019 #23

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
4. Pretty cat.
Sun May 12, 2019, 02:09 PM
May 2019

Born therapist. Seems to now exactly when she is needed. Most cats would run once the yelling started, but she feels it is her job to calm the youngster. What a gift she is to this family.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
7. Gorgeous, laid back cat.
Sun May 12, 2019, 03:05 PM
May 2019

Cats can be so calming. So can dogs (depends on the dog). But both make me happy.

Ilsa

(61,694 posts)
8. The family is extremely fortunate to find something that
Sun May 12, 2019, 03:10 PM
May 2019

Calms their SN child. Most haven't been this fortunate. They just have to ride it out, making sure the child doesn't hurt himself, others, or property.

lark

(23,091 posts)
16. Some animals just seem to naturally have the gift of empathy.
Mon May 13, 2019, 08:31 AM
May 2019

This cat is certainly one of them. What an awesome girl!

I've had 2 animals in my life who had this gift, one a cat who has it for really sick animals and I had a dog who took care of me when I was single and got sick. Love/loved them both so much.

KY_EnviroGuy

(14,489 posts)
17. Thank you Catbyte, and I can relate to that young man.
Mon May 13, 2019, 08:32 AM
May 2019

I also have high sensory processing sensitivity but never knew it or that it is a known normal genetic variation until way up into my 60s. Others call it Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), and to some degree is probably more common that red hair.

It's good that Jayden and his family is aware of this condition at his young age which can make living in this modern era tough at times. Although we don't know much about Jayden, I hate to see them use the term "disorder" unless his condition is extreme. Even when we're ignorant of it, we simply go through life training ourselves to deal with it and to appear to not be odd.

I'm also glad he has a great companion to help him make it through the rough days!.........

IronLionZion

(45,427 posts)
19. My friend's cat will comfort her only when she's having a meltdown
Mon May 13, 2019, 11:04 AM
May 2019

otherwise he's a rebellious teenage cat who doesn't listen to his mom.

calimary

(81,211 posts)
20. Awww... cats are WUNNNNNNNNderful!
Mon May 13, 2019, 01:04 PM
May 2019

I highly recommend adopting litter mates if possible. Best. Idea. EVER. As far as animal- related issues, anyway. We adopted brother and sister who were cuddled up together in a pen with about a dozen kittens all wandering around, sniffing the scents and exploring the area. The attendant picked one of them up to hand to us to look at. At that moment the thought occurred to me - awwwwwww I feel bad about separating them! Suddenly the one we didn’t pick up looked so lost and alone on the floor of the pen. We had been wanting one new kitty. But we didn’t have the heart to separate these two forever.

So we took them both. NEVER regretted it! BEST thing EVER, pet-wise. We’ve had dogs and lots of cats. But we never tried two at a time til then. It’s been the gift that keeps on giving for - what - eleven years by now? They still cuddle together, play together, sleep together, argue with each other, groom each other, and keep each other company. The settling-in period was almost nonexistent. They adapted quickly and very smoothly. It’s really been way nderful!

And we’re totally sold! It’ll be the “Noah’s Arc” thing from here on. Whenever it comes time to get a new kitty, we’ll take two!

HIGHLY recommended!

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
21. One of our current cats did exactly that when our dog had freakouts about thunder storms.
Mon May 13, 2019, 09:37 PM
May 2019

The cat would go up to the dogs head, cuddle over it and around it, purring loudly the whole time, till the dog was ready to come out of his hiding behavior.


I later read that cats purr at a healing frequency, and now I have the proof of that.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,673 posts)
22. Purrs are designed to heal.
Mon May 13, 2019, 10:53 PM
May 2019

A few years ago I injured my knee, and for a couple of weeks afterward one of my cats would lie by my knee at night and purr and purr. When the knee healed up he went back to his usual place next to me to sleep, next to my side.

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