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A young woman's heartbreaking Twitter feed. (Original Post) Courtesy Flush Jan 2014 OP
My wife had an MRI today Courtesy Flush Jan 2014 #1
No words. 1monster Jan 2014 #4
... WhiteTara Jan 2014 #5
... Mnemosyne Jan 2014 #6
= Tuesday Afternoon Jan 2014 #13
(((HUG))) Mojorabbit Jan 2014 #14
I have no words. Control-Z Jan 2014 #2
I lost my wife of 21 years in 2008 to breast cancer.. samrock Jan 2014 #3
Lost my son Joshua 20 years ago. Still hurts, but taught me to find as much joy in every day Dustlawyer Jan 2014 #7
I hug you all. There is nothing but each other and love. Nothing. roguevalley Jan 2014 #8
Hmm... Hissyspit Jan 2014 #9
Lost my little sis yesphan Jan 2014 #10
That sucks. blackspade Jan 2014 #11
wow heaven05 Jan 2014 #12
I accept *you* ScootersPixiePie Jan 2014 #15
My dad Generic Other Jan 2014 #16
Perhaps the greatest gift of all, from grandeur to subtle tear, is the impending loss we face... DreamGypsy Jan 2014 #17

Courtesy Flush

(4,558 posts)
1. My wife had an MRI today
Thu Jan 16, 2014, 10:28 PM
Jan 2014

She has brain cancer, and it is now growing again, after being quiet for a year and a half. We got back from the imaging center, and this was the first thing I found on Reddit after getting settled in. I cried like a baby.

samrock

(590 posts)
3. I lost my wife of 21 years in 2008 to breast cancer..
Thu Jan 16, 2014, 10:39 PM
Jan 2014

I have learned all you can do is go thru life and give out as much love as you can.. The more you give the more you get back..

Dustlawyer

(10,495 posts)
7. Lost my son Joshua 20 years ago. Still hurts, but taught me to find as much joy in every day
Thu Jan 16, 2014, 11:59 PM
Jan 2014

that I can. We are not guaranteed tomorrow so make every day count. I have been a different person ever since Josh taught me how to live!

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
12. wow
Fri Jan 17, 2014, 11:42 AM
Jan 2014

life is so unfair for young people like that. I hope she is in a good place and for all you cynics out there, I mean her beautiful soul.

ScootersPixiePie

(20 posts)
15. I accept *you*
Fri Jan 17, 2014, 05:13 PM
Jan 2014

Typing thru tears......wow.
I cannot imagine not speaking to my children - no matter what they have done.

DreamGypsy

(2,252 posts)
17. Perhaps the greatest gift of all, from grandeur to subtle tear, is the impending loss we face...
Sun Jan 19, 2014, 02:00 AM
Jan 2014

...in this fleeting moment here.

A song by Tom Dundee, that goes out to all those here, or anywhere, coping with the lose, or anticipated lose, of a loved one, either through their own expected death, or that of the other -

This Fleeting Moment

If the sun shone all the time and midnight never came
and the clouds all blew away and we never faced the rain
Would we miss the dark, appreciate the dawn
Would we miss the pain, when all the pain was gone

What would we call the sound of the gentle mourning dove
Would we know of joy, without the loss of love

As the flick'ring candle burns does the mystery remain
If the season didn't turn, would the rose still mean the same
Would would be the reason, then, if we never had to cry
for passion to exist, if we never had to die?

So come lay with me, my love, and I will hold you near
And we'll cherish what we have, in this fleeting moment here

Perhaps the greatest gift of all, from grandeur to subtle tear
Is the impending loss we face, in this fleeting moment here

So come lay with me, my love, and I will hold you near
And we'll cherish what we have, in this fleeting moment here


Tom died in 2006 of injuries sustained in a motorcycle accident. Here's a version of the song by James Lee Stanley


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