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xchrom

(108,903 posts)
Sat Jan 7, 2012, 09:44 AM Jan 2012

Why Abstinence-Only Sex Ed Makes Kids Into Bullies

http://www.alternet.org/sex/153683/why_abstinence-only_sex_ed_makes_kids_into_bullies/

Abstinence-only education creates a petri dish for bullying in schools. There is always a lot of back and forth about the efficacy of these programs, and I fall on the side that they demonstrably fail to reduce teen pregnancy, the rate of incidence of teen sex, or the transmission of sexutally transmitted infections (STIs) (all you have to do is look at Texas). In addition, however, I believe that the heyday of our federal investment in abstinence-only programs had a terrible collateral effect -- namely, kids who were "educated" in this way were more likely to bully and harass because they learned, in ways integral to abstinence provisions, outdated "traditional" ideas about gender and sexuality. Even kids whose parents talked to them at home, about contraception or healthy sex, were taught gendered rules and more and more of them appear to have enforced those rules to great harm.

To be clear, I am not saying teaching abstinence is the problem. But, teaching abstinence in the context of fully comprehensive, age-appropriate sex ed is qualitatively different from teaching abstinence-only. This is the problem. I am saying that there is something inherently harmful about cultures that insist on abstinence-only teaching.
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Why Abstinence-Only Sex Ed Makes Kids Into Bullies (Original Post) xchrom Jan 2012 OP
And our taxes pay for this shit... DURHAM D Jan 2012 #1
It seems to me that any concerns that rational people xchrom Jan 2012 #2

xchrom

(108,903 posts)
2. It seems to me that any concerns that rational people
Sat Jan 7, 2012, 10:16 AM
Jan 2012

Have about how tax money is spent has been thoroughly dismissed.

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