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Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin

(107,765 posts)
Sun Jul 10, 2022, 09:07 PM Jul 2022

Adoptees are told to be grateful they weren't aborted. They're protesting Roe's overturn.

Activist Annie Wu, a Chinese adoptee, said she’s repeatedly heard the question, “What if you were aborted?” It’s an all-too-common hypothetical that anti-abortion proponents have lobbed at adoptees who publicly defend reproductive rights, particularly amid the recent fall of Roe v. Wade.

​​”If my birth mother aborted me, that would be FINE with me. I would not exist so I would not care or be impacted,” Wu, a digital organizer with nonprofit PA Stands Up, wrote in an Instagram post.

Many adoptee activists who support abortion rights say they are uniquely positioned in the crosshairs of the debate: Their very existences are often “manipulated” to advance anti-abortion views — with adoption framed as the moral alternative to abortion. They find themselves vulnerable to harassment, their experiences questioned or made light of, and their agency too often removed in the fight, they say.

Wu, who said she’s received support from many in the adoptee community, said she has been accused of supporting “murder” and been asked hypothetical questions about if “someone was to walk up and kill you right now.”

https://www.yahoo.com/news/adoptees-publicly-support-roe-targeted-110751848.html

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Adoptees are told to be grateful they weren't aborted. They're protesting Roe's overturn. (Original Post) Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Jul 2022 OP
Annie Wu speaks a truth impossible for them to comprehend or even think about. enough Jul 2022 #1
My adopted loved ones are among the strongest pro-choice proponents I know. Scrivener7 Jul 2022 #2
I think adoption is MOMFUDSKI Jul 2022 #3
Growing up with an unfit or even dangerous birth parent is barbaric, too. shrike3 Jul 2022 #4
Abortion is an option for women who don't want their child. wnylib Jul 2022 #6
I am fine with adoption. shrike3 Jul 2022 #7
I am fine with adoption, too. wnylib Jul 2022 #8
Of course, it's not. Women should have the choice. shrike3 Jul 2022 #9
"I think adoption is barbaric." Thats crazy talk. Jack-o-Lantern Jul 2022 #5

MOMFUDSKI

(5,447 posts)
3. I think adoption is
Sun Jul 10, 2022, 10:50 PM
Jul 2022

barbaric. It hurts the mother terribly, hurts the adopted child, and even the adoptive parent when that child wants to try to find their real parents. Formed this from speaking with many in those positions throughout my life. Just my opinion and we all know opinions are neither right nor wrong - they just are.

shrike3

(3,490 posts)
4. Growing up with an unfit or even dangerous birth parent is barbaric, too.
Sun Jul 10, 2022, 11:10 PM
Jul 2022

So, what is left? Foster care?

wnylib

(21,346 posts)
6. Abortion is an option for women who don't want their child.
Mon Jul 11, 2022, 02:33 AM
Jul 2022

But, if they give birth and are unfit, the child can and should be taken away. After that, most family courts give the mother a chance to demonstrate improvement in her ability to care for the child. If she fails, her parental rights can be terminated. But, before adoption is allowed, the father has to consent to it.

I have heard and seen too many bad foster care settings to recommend it for children.

shrike3

(3,490 posts)
7. I am fine with adoption.
Mon Jul 11, 2022, 10:10 AM
Jul 2022

The poster to whom I responded called adoption "Barbaric." Suggesting foster care instead was a sarcastic answer.

wnylib

(21,346 posts)
8. I am fine with adoption, too.
Mon Jul 11, 2022, 10:28 AM
Jul 2022

But I do not see it as an alternative to abortion for women who want to - or need to - terminate their pregnancies.

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