Adoptees are told to be grateful they weren't aborted. They're protesting Roe's overturn.
Activist Annie Wu, a Chinese adoptee, said shes repeatedly heard the question, What if you were aborted? Its an all-too-common hypothetical that anti-abortion proponents have lobbed at adoptees who publicly defend reproductive rights, particularly amid the recent fall of Roe v. Wade.
If my birth mother aborted me, that would be FINE with me. I would not exist so I would not care or be impacted, Wu, a digital organizer with nonprofit PA Stands Up, wrote in an Instagram post.
Many adoptee activists who support abortion rights say they are uniquely positioned in the crosshairs of the debate: Their very existences are often manipulated to advance anti-abortion views with adoption framed as the moral alternative to abortion. They find themselves vulnerable to harassment, their experiences questioned or made light of, and their agency too often removed in the fight, they say.
Wu, who said shes received support from many in the adoptee community, said she has been accused of supporting murder and been asked hypothetical questions about if someone was to walk up and kill you right now.
https://www.yahoo.com/news/adoptees-publicly-support-roe-targeted-110751848.html
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(13,255 posts)Scrivener7
(50,920 posts)MOMFUDSKI
(5,447 posts)barbaric. It hurts the mother terribly, hurts the adopted child, and even the adoptive parent when that child wants to try to find their real parents. Formed this from speaking with many in those positions throughout my life. Just my opinion and we all know opinions are neither right nor wrong - they just are.
shrike3
(3,490 posts)So, what is left? Foster care?
wnylib
(21,346 posts)But, if they give birth and are unfit, the child can and should be taken away. After that, most family courts give the mother a chance to demonstrate improvement in her ability to care for the child. If she fails, her parental rights can be terminated. But, before adoption is allowed, the father has to consent to it.
I have heard and seen too many bad foster care settings to recommend it for children.
shrike3
(3,490 posts)The poster to whom I responded called adoption "Barbaric." Suggesting foster care instead was a sarcastic answer.
wnylib
(21,346 posts)But I do not see it as an alternative to abortion for women who want to - or need to - terminate their pregnancies.