Our President's Emotional Bait and Switch - By Andrew Sullivan
March 3, 2017
8:48 a.m.
After the terror, the smile. It suddenly beams, and the voice calms. You feel the warmth again and are momentarily overcome with gratitude and relief. Suddenly, all the mans malice and rage and narcissism disappear and the world turns suddenly normal. And you thrill to that normality. Its what youve craved for so long, and been denied for so long. You forgive. You hope. You wonder if all the fear and dread you felt only a few moments ago were just in your imagination.
Any victim of an abusive spouse knows this dynamic. And now America is getting used to it. The Donald Trump who put on his grown-up voice last Tuesday night, and fit into a reassuringly familiar ritual of civic democracy, was the very same Donald Trump who had spent much of his first month in office in a series of unprecedented dyspeptic fits against the media, NATO allies, illegal aliens, Meryl Streep
well, you know the list by now. For the first time in public, he spoke in his indoor voice. He occasionally smiled, even as he cant quite rid himself of the Mussolini back-step whenever he earns his craved applause. He used a teleprompter. And of course the media swooned. Who wouldnt at this point? Its somewhat unfair to lambaste them for their instant acknowledgment of the speechs success. It was a success an emotional blast of pseudo-normality for a serial abuser of liberal democratic norms.
It was an irresistible moment when the foreboding and fear suddenly became sunlit uplands in a near parody of political happy talk: Dying industries will come roaring back to life. Heroic veterans will get the care they so desperately need.
Crumbling infrastructure will be replaced with new roads, bridges, airports, and railways gleaming across our beautiful land.
Beautiful. He loves that word. You always know when Trump is putting on the charm because he randomly attaches it to anything. And its all a complete fantasy, of course a campaign speech without the snarl or chants, a rapture with absolutely no explanation of how this new beautiful world will be paid for, or legislated. But it works because its such a dramatic switch, and for a moment, even Jake Tappers amygdala seemed flooded with relief.
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dalton99a
(81,443 posts)"I'll stop beating you for a while"
COLGATE4
(14,732 posts)I'll stop letting you make me beat you for a while".
Amaryllis
(9,524 posts)Skittles
(153,142 posts)the man is a FUCKING MORON
PsychoBabble
(837 posts)idiot.
No, I really mean that.
I posted previously about this exact same abuser pattern:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10028729675
TNLib
(1,819 posts)The Press, CNN in particular is like an abused wife.
wcast
(595 posts)What is he talking about? Democrats have an obsession! I'm glad Sulivan is rich enough to afford a townhouse in DC, spend summers in Cape Cod, and go back to England to visit regularly. I'm sure it blunts much of the pain he might otherwise feel if he didn't mingle with elites and not have to hobnob with ordinary citizens. It goes to show that conservatives, no matter the gender, race, or sexual orientation, really do not feel the pain of the majority who are just trying to survive.
Paladin
(28,252 posts)Sullivan's a jerk. Always has been, always will be.