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DonViejo

(60,536 posts)
Fri Mar 3, 2017, 04:22 PM Mar 2017

Our President's Emotional Bait and Switch - By Andrew Sullivan

March 3, 2017
8:48 a.m.

After the terror, the smile. It suddenly beams, and the voice calms. You feel the warmth again and are momentarily overcome with gratitude and relief. Suddenly, all the man’s malice and rage and narcissism disappear and the world turns suddenly normal. And you thrill to that normality. It’s what you’ve craved for so long, and been denied for so long. You forgive. You hope. You wonder if all the fear and dread you felt only a few moments ago were just in your imagination.

Any victim of an abusive spouse knows this dynamic. And now America is getting used to it. The Donald Trump who put on his grown-up voice last Tuesday night, and fit into a reassuringly familiar ritual of civic democracy, was the very same Donald Trump who had spent much of his first month in office in a series of unprecedented dyspeptic fits against the media, NATO allies, illegal aliens, Meryl Streep … well, you know the list by now. For the first time in public, he spoke in his “indoor voice.” He occasionally smiled, even as he can’t quite rid himself of the Mussolini back-step whenever he earns his craved applause. He used a teleprompter. And of course the media swooned. Who wouldn’t at this point? It’s somewhat unfair to lambaste them for their instant acknowledgment of the speech’s success. It was a success — an emotional blast of pseudo-normality for a serial abuser of liberal democratic norms.

It was an irresistible moment when the foreboding and fear suddenly became sunlit uplands in a near parody of political happy talk: “Dying industries will come roaring back to life. Heroic veterans will get the care they so desperately need. … Crumbling infrastructure will be replaced with new roads, bridges, airports, and railways gleaming across our beautiful land.”

“Beautiful.” He loves that word. You always know when Trump is putting on the charm — because he randomly attaches it to anything. And it’s all a complete fantasy, of course — a campaign speech without the snarl or chants, a rapture with absolutely no explanation of how this new beautiful world will be paid for, or legislated. But it works because it’s such a dramatic switch, and for a moment, even Jake Tapper’s amygdala seemed flooded with relief.

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Our President's Emotional Bait and Switch - By Andrew Sullivan (Original Post) DonViejo Mar 2017 OP
"See, I'm really a nice guy" dalton99a Mar 2017 #1
No, it's: "See,I'm really a nice guy COLGATE4 Mar 2017 #5
Classic abusive behavior. Amaryllis Mar 2017 #9
shame on the people who fall for such an obvious narcissist tactic Skittles Mar 2017 #2
Dear Donald - I want a pony ... PsychoBabble Mar 2017 #3
This is what I've been saying TNLib Mar 2017 #4
Later on in the piece, Sullivan writes this. wcast Mar 2017 #6
Once a snotty right-winger, ALWAYS a snotty right-winger. Paladin Mar 2017 #7
Fuck that shit I wasn't "baited" by anything... Blue_Tires Mar 2017 #8

wcast

(595 posts)
6. Later on in the piece, Sullivan writes this.
Fri Mar 3, 2017, 05:20 PM
Mar 2017
Nationalism is one response. The answer to it is not globalism, which is as cold as it is remote, but patriotism, that love of country that does not require the loathing of other places or the scapegoating of minorities or a phobia of change, that confident identity that doesn’t seek to run away from the wider world but to engage it, while somehow staying recognizable across the generations. If the Democrats hope to come back, that patriotism is going to have to define them once again. But can they get past their racial and sexual and gender obsessions and reach for it? *Emphasis is mine*

What is he talking about? Democrats have an obsession! I'm glad Sulivan is rich enough to afford a townhouse in DC, spend summers in Cape Cod, and go back to England to visit regularly. I'm sure it blunts much of the pain he might otherwise feel if he didn't mingle with elites and not have to hobnob with ordinary citizens. It goes to show that conservatives, no matter the gender, race, or sexual orientation, really do not feel the pain of the majority who are just trying to survive.

Paladin

(28,252 posts)
7. Once a snotty right-winger, ALWAYS a snotty right-winger.
Fri Mar 3, 2017, 06:56 PM
Mar 2017

Sullivan's a jerk. Always has been, always will be.

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