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I understand why they want a closed casket. If I were in Mrs. Johnson's shoes, I'm not sure what I would do. That having been said, she has expressed that she wants to see her husband's body, or at least his hand, something of him. They are refusing her.
How can this be? He is her husband and it's none of their fucking business for her to do whatever will give her some peace. I think she understands that it might be horrific, but it is her decision to make. Or I guess it isn't. How can they get away with this?
malaise
(268,887 posts)someone close to him would be verifying that it's him before that funeral.
Excellent question.
Irish_Dem
(46,888 posts)happened to him. And the government seems to want to keep it all secret.
Also if civilians start seeing the reality of casualties it might decrease recruitment rates.
anneboleyn
(5,611 posts)should be permitted to view his body even if it is in pieces (the mortician views it anyway so I'm not sure why people seem to think that nobody will see this man's body except for military). I am quite sure she's aware of that possibility, and the military traditionally tells a family whether or not they recommend the remains for viewing purposes. Even if they say "not recommended," the family and well as any morticians that handle the body are not legally prohibited from seeing the body.
I am VERY tired of the gov lying in this case. It stinks to high heaven.
Irish_Dem
(46,888 posts)so she can make an informed decision. And we the taxpayers have a right to know what is going on.
Aristus
(66,310 posts)But rights and privileges (such as burial in Arlington) persist, obviously.
imanamerican63
(13,771 posts)ie: there only pieces and a full body. Not totally sure, but this was how bodies where Trump'sbrought home in other cases.Trump's
anneboleyn
(5,611 posts)to see it (as a mortician would of course) then she should be permitted to see it. All of the talk of what sort of shape the body is in is irrelevant.
panader0
(25,816 posts)I understand his body may be mutilated or even decapitated, but is
his body really in the casket? I would want to make sure.
I still think it should be her decision as to whether or not to view his body.
Baconator
(1,459 posts)I suspect the body was in poor shape (possibly very poor) and it was strongly encouraged that she does not view it in the military facilities or at Dover etc...
The services are done by a private funeral home and there aren't armed guards standing by to make sure no one sees.
anneboleyn
(5,611 posts)should be allowed to see it (and of course a mortician can arrange things so that she can see part of his body or touch his hand, etc.
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Ilsa
(61,692 posts)Baconator
(1,459 posts)ehrnst
(32,640 posts)Baconator
(1,459 posts)I have no idea if my swap from basic training is in a freezer somewhere or if it's all digital. I suspect both.
ehrnst
(32,640 posts)Baconator
(1,459 posts)There's the whole 4th amendment thing...
Though there's probably more of the general population in a database than the average citizen is aware of.
ehrnst
(32,640 posts)Baconator
(1,459 posts)Also the DNA from your deadbeat brother or cousin could be used to identify you...
http://lmgtfy.com/?q=american+dna+database+police
SCantiGOP
(13,868 posts)anything in your house such as a toothbrush, hairbrush, cup, etc. I think even the residue left behind from your normal body oils in a fingerprint can yield DNA if the test is sophisticated enough.
Baconator
(1,459 posts)My point, six posts back, is that there is no chance that this is not who they claim it to be.
Identified by the ODA, Command team, plus DNA and photos...
anneboleyn
(5,611 posts)that it might be very difficult as he was very severely wounded (I believe it was an ied). For some reason I see people here and elsewhere focusing on the (to me very misguided and irrelevant) idea that she needs to be protected from her own wishes to see her husband. If she is legally entitled to do so then something is up with this, and it deserves to be brought to light.
The republicans are doing their very best to make Hillary and her fucking emails a story again but something is very wrong with this incident. Aside from what is happening to this poor woman, we the people deserve to know wtf our troops were doing there and what happened.
As far as the treatment of deceased marines and soldiers are concerned, Taking Chance is a very well-done and respectful film starring Kevin Bacon as the marine who accompanies the remains of his fellow marine to the young man's hometown and attends the funeral (he doesn't have to but he does anyway). The fact is absolutely fact based and makes the story as true to life as possible. It is marvelous.
TheDebbieDee
(11,119 posts)Property. The government OWNS u and you have no rights or privileges that the military can't take away from u...
But I very much understand that Mrs Johnson wants to see him to get some type of emotional closure or even to be sure that there IS a body in the coffin...
This must be an excruciating time for everyone who ever knew this young man...
Baconator
(1,459 posts)TheDebbieDee
(11,119 posts)You don't agree that the military, thru its Commanders, can and does deny rights and privileges to soldiers as Commanders see fit?
Baconator
(1,459 posts)I have rights and responsibilities that no commander can take from me.
I live with certain restrictions, that I agreed to, but to think that "The government OWNS u and you have no rights or privileges that the military can't take away from u..." is ridiculous.
Using that logic my last commander could have stabbed me in the throat as an aid for medical training and faced no repercussions.
There are legal, ethical and moral boundaries that no one can touch.
lillypaddle
(9,580 posts)Orrex
(63,199 posts)Oh, to live in the magical world in which that's true!
Baconator
(1,459 posts)TheDebbieDee
(11,119 posts)Last edited Mon Oct 23, 2017, 03:14 PM - Edit history (1)
U to move into the barracks or surrender ur USAEUR driver's license thereby taking away your privilege to drive that u as a member of the military aren't obligated to obey or else get chaptered or court martialed, etc?
BTW, this is NOT using the same logic as ur Commander stabbing u in the throat...
Baconator
(1,459 posts)You didn't say "Servicemembers have some self-imposed restrictions that come with their obligations in the Armed forces and at times they may have to follow orders that they find inconvenient but are in no way illegal, immoral or unethical"
You wrote with no qualification whatsoever "The government OWNS u and you have no rights or privileges that the military can't take away from u... "
That means anything with no restriction and no consequences for the one doing the taking.
If you meant that people in the military can't do/say everything that a civilian can then that's what you should have written.
Also... duh...
TheDebbieDee
(11,119 posts)Freedom of speech, right to bear arms, etc., etc and all the other inalienable rights. All your blather abt illegal, immoral, unethical is just that - poetic BLATHER that you have invented!
I'm done with this topic - you have a nice day!
Baconator
(1,459 posts)It's not a blank cheque with no limitation... Which is what you said...
Also, it's not poetic blather. It's basic legal terminology from the Law of Armed Conflict and UCMJ.
TomSlick
(11,096 posts)I got to this to late to chime in. After 27 years as an Army Judge Advocate, I can attest to the accuracy of your position.
Service members have some lesser rights than civilians, e.g. free speech is more limited (it wouldn't do to call the commander and idiot) and you can't just quit. However, service members are not chattel - they have rights which are protected by US law including Article 138, UCMJ.
Baconator
(1,459 posts)... because they knew enough to talk about USAEUR driver's licenses but not enough to know that Soldiers and all service members are not chattel.
A little knowledge is a dangerous thing...
TomSlick
(11,096 posts)Thanks for standing up for sanity.
Not Ruth
(3,613 posts)defacto7
(13,485 posts)in the casket? Has there been private ID of the remains? The possibilities are endless without confirmation outside of government control. I can imagine a lot of things considering the present powers that be.
Baconator
(1,459 posts)Bradical79
(4,490 posts)Dead and recovered and in the casket, dead and not recovered, captured, or on the run/hiding.
defacto7
(13,485 posts)There are quite a few possibilities. You stated the obvious ones.
LeftInTX
(25,224 posts)Does the military fund funeral expenses for those KIA?
I know burial at VA cemetery is free.
However, is there at least partial funding for procedures such as body prep and caskets?
Baconator
(1,459 posts)Africa is different than many of our bigger AOs though. I can't remember if we had any specifically in Niamey.
At the very least he passed through Germany where most of that was taken care of.
Also, every service member has mandatory life insurance. Usually at least 400 K with an immediate payout amount within 24 hours to help deal with costs.
LeftInTX
(25,224 posts)I did a bit of Google. I followed the trail of a soldier killed a few years ago. As you stated he was prepared by mortuary affairs. He was dressed in his uniform etc. He was transferred to a private funeral home which provided an option for viewing. The mother didn't want to look, but the father did. Also the article stated that every effort is made to make the body viewable.
So, it would be up to funeral home...
I have no idea if there would be a viewing option provided by the military if the family decided to forego the services of a private funeral home.
magicarpet
(14,144 posts)..... laid to rest.
Something stinks about this Niger situation and an in-depth investigation will be required to sort the reality of what happened, especially with this prevaricating liar and his minions in the White (Power) House. Digging through layers upon layers of lies will be required to find the truth of what actually happened.
Rather than having to exhume the body down the road and opening fresh wounds for this poor family. A true and accurate forensic record/document should be made of the body. So once he is put to rest he can be left alone and finally rest in peace.
Something stinks to high heaven about this Niger military mission, why there was no back up security/reconnaissance to protect these men, how/why the locator beacon on Sargent Johnson's person did not aid in his immediate rescue/safe removal, how/why Sargent Johnson was left behind for 48hrs before his body was recovered, military outside contractors being assigned recovery of American soldier's bodies in the field of battle - does respect and dignity take a back seat to the motives of higher profit as appears done in this case ? These issues cry out to be studied, reviewed, and investigated by independent military oversight committees and un-tainted by CYA motivations, intentions, or agendas.
Mrs. Johnson, her immediate family, and friends should not be made to suffer the process of exhuming this soldier and war hero once he is laid to rest.
The inappropriate decisions of this Commander in Chief and his inappropriate behavior during this failed military adventure and his treatment of the war heroes and their families cries out for a thorough review so these disgusting episodes are not repeated ever again.
A book or two should be written for Trump and his minions to read - this is NOT how we behave, react, or respond.
In America we honor our war heroes and their families - we do not intentionally drag them through the mud and/or tarnish their patriotism to our country.
Mr. Donald Trump Sr. and (Former General) Mr. John Kelly are totally devoid of decorum, dignity, and respect - shame on them and their despicable actions pertaining to this matter of the death of this hero Sargent La David Terrance Johnson.
lillypaddle
(9,580 posts)with your post. In every way.
Corgigal
(9,291 posts)She can do it now, poor thing. I don't know what she could do. It's such a basic thing, to want to know what happened to him. It's the first question why?
I'm not sure I would be brave enough, I'm not sure he would want me to know but as my husbands spouse I might want to because I may want to relay the facts to tie kids one day. Then tell them, to never serve.
Pachamama
(16,886 posts)I completely agree
cwydro
(51,308 posts)I hate to think what she might see, but it is her right.
NightWatcher
(39,343 posts)That being said, if there is anything identifiable about the body, a friend or responsible party with ties to the family could ID and confirm it for the family.
I'm all for letting her see his hand, but we have no idea how bad he was treated or what parts were retrieved from the field.
I'm not a chauvinist pig, but I've had to ID a body for a close family. It's haunting and maybe she'd be ok if his doctor ID'd him and could let her rest.
yallerdawg
(16,104 posts)I don't think Mrs. Johnson will ever have closure now.
They should have done the right thing.
VaBchTgerLily
(231 posts)Gov't refusing her does not sound right-seems like a cover up
Mediumsizedhand
(531 posts)I can easily find someone in my life that could look at the body and get back to me.
lillypaddle
(9,580 posts)Is having a press conference. Just caught part of what he said regarding Mrs. Johnson wanting to see the body. He indicated that they will do all they can to comply with her wishes. We'll see.
alarimer
(16,245 posts)It may be utterly unrecognizable, so for her to see it may be too traumatizing. Or maybe there isn't much left.
lillypaddle
(9,580 posts)She is a grown woman with children. I'm sure she knows how horrific this might be. But, as with many other things in life, it should be her choice to make.
Historic NY
(37,449 posts)About 6,700 American service members have died in the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan, and almost every one of their remains have come through the Dover Port Mortuary. Yet only since 2009 have journalists been allowed to photograph coffins returning from the war zones, the most solemn of rites at this air base. The intimate details of the process have been kept from public view.
But recently the Air Force, which oversees the mortuary, allowed a reporter and a photographer to observe the assembling of dress uniforms for those who have died. A small slice of the process, to be sure, but enough to appreciate the careful ritual that attends the war dead of the United States military.
For each of the war dead, the journey through Dover begins with the arrival of a cargo jet that is met by military officials and, usually, family members. A team of service members wearing white gloves carries the coffins, covered with flags, to a white van that takes them to the Armed Forces Medical Examiner. Once an autopsy is completed, the work of the mortuary staff begins.
Remains are first embalmed and then washed. Hands are scrubbed clean, hair is shampooed. Where appropriate, bones are wired together and damaged tissue is reconstructed with flesh-toned wax. Using photographs, or just intuition, the embalmers try to recreate the wrinkles in faces, the lines around mouths, the corners and lids of eyes.
It has to look normal, like someone who is sleeping, said Petty Officer First Class Jennifer Howell, a Navy liaison at the mortuary who has a morticians license.
Once the body is ready, the mortuary staff prepares dress uniforms for each, even if the coffin is closed at the funeral with the uniform laid on top of the remains, and even if the body is to be cremated.
http://www.nytimes.com/2013/05/26/us/intricate-rituals-for-fallen-americans-troops.html?pagewanted=all
A relation worked there, he retired before the big Iraq push after 25 yrs.