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I just blocked my own brother on Facebook (Original Post) liberal N proud Nov 2016 OP
That is sad. madaboutharry Nov 2016 #1
Me too... Dorian Gray Nov 2016 #58
Election day can't get here soon enough for MountainMazza Nov 2016 #2
My unsolicieted recommendations, avoid discussing politics with your brother still_one Nov 2016 #3
If only that were possible liberal N proud Nov 2016 #8
I'm so sorry the rhetoric of Cheeto has divided your blood family member kimbutgar Nov 2016 #4
Wife had to block her mom..... Glamrock Nov 2016 #5
Glamrock .... LenaBaby61 Nov 2016 #18
Yep Glamrock Nov 2016 #22
She probably just unfollowed her so she doesn't see what she posts. m-lekktor Nov 2016 #28
Yeah Dorian Gray Nov 2016 #59
Every cloud has a silver lining. obliviously Nov 2016 #31
I never did "Friend" my brother-in-law doctor and do not follow my sister that way it keeps his crap Jim Beard Nov 2016 #6
That just it, I never accept his friend request in the first place liberal N proud Nov 2016 #11
Oh wow! Cha Nov 2016 #44
I don't discuss politics with my older stepbrother The Genealogist Nov 2016 #7
My brother does the sme. Agnosticsherbet Nov 2016 #9
I try to stay away from thes people year round. They just are not the people I want to communicate Jim Beard Nov 2016 #10
it does get old hfojvt Nov 2016 #12
my sister blocked me. She was tired of me always proving her trump shit wrong demtenjeep Nov 2016 #13
So weird! Cha Nov 2016 #45
people on social programs backing Trump mesmerize me! Divine Discontent Nov 2016 #47
Had to hang up on my brother a few days ago world wide wally Nov 2016 #14
I don't do Facebook but this is sad. leftyladyfrommo Nov 2016 #64
I may have been blocked by a nephew... Wounded Bear Nov 2016 #15
I'm close to doing that to an aunt kevinbgoode1 Nov 2016 #16
I have a good friend out in CO Divine Discontent Nov 2016 #48
I I friended my sister months ago ebbie15644 Nov 2016 #17
How I deal with my pro Trump brother; jg10003 Nov 2016 #19
I unfriended my sister in law back in the Bush days. mnhtnbb Nov 2016 #21
ha! glad the majority of the kids disagree with their politics Divine Discontent Nov 2016 #51
I have a sister circling the Trump drainpipe C_U_L8R Nov 2016 #23
Lucky me ... LenaBaby61 Nov 2016 #24
I get out GWC58 Nov 2016 #25
You can remain FB friends and just cilla4progress Nov 2016 #26
Yeah. I filter anyone who posts pro-Drumpf crap. roamer65 Nov 2016 #29
This election is exposing the worst in people Eggy Nov 2016 #27
Good for you... no doubt he deserved it. InAbLuEsTaTe Nov 2016 #30
My brother still invades my feed gwheezie Nov 2016 #32
I get it SDOPINION Nov 2016 #33
welcome to DU! renate Nov 2016 #49
I cleaned house with this election. texanwitch Nov 2016 #34
Ugh, that's too bad. I've only lost "friends" over politics in the past. Buckeye_Democrat Nov 2016 #35
That's sad. romanic Nov 2016 #36
Reading all of these posts makes me know that the other side belongs to a cult. rusty quoin Nov 2016 #37
Yep. I've had Republican co-workers who insisted that the break room TV... Buckeye_Democrat Nov 2016 #39
Ive tried to listen to progressive talk radio for a decade plus. rusty quoin Nov 2016 #41
There's a movie titled "The Brainwashing of My Dad" that... Buckeye_Democrat Nov 2016 #42
I bought it on amazon and waited years for it to come out. rusty quoin Nov 2016 #43
Sad... warrprayer Nov 2016 #38
I've got my account set so I don't see the posts of a few people Lucinda Nov 2016 #40
Did you know that you can post things only visible to certain people? Quantess Nov 2016 #46
Facebook... Mike Nelson Nov 2016 #52
Your first mistake was doing Facebook at all. n/t HenryJ Nov 2016 #53
I know, but once you are down that rabbit hole liberal N proud Nov 2016 #63
I can feel for you- KrazyinKS Nov 2016 #54
And I got blocked by a 'dear friend' babylonsister Nov 2016 #55
Block, as in unfriend? BainsBane Nov 2016 #56
I had unfriendly him long time ago. liberal N proud Nov 2016 #62
Reason No. 5401 why I don't do Twitter or Facebook. . . DinahMoeHum Nov 2016 #57
I use FB Purity as a Chrome extension Zing Zing Zingbah Nov 2016 #60
I've unfollowed some of my husbands family and have hidden a lot of their posts maryellen99 Nov 2016 #61
I am lucky that everybody in my family is a dem. drray23 Nov 2016 #65

Dorian Gray

(13,491 posts)
58. Me too...
Wed Nov 2, 2016, 07:17 AM
Nov 2016

though hopefully it's temporary.

Once this election is over, families can go back to publicly barely tolerating each other.

liberal N proud

(60,334 posts)
8. If only that were possible
Tue Nov 1, 2016, 10:57 PM
Nov 2016

He is former military intelligence and has been full of hate for anyone not white and male.

It is he who pollutes the conversion and turns everything political.

kimbutgar

(21,130 posts)
4. I'm so sorry the rhetoric of Cheeto has divided your blood family member
Tue Nov 1, 2016, 10:54 PM
Nov 2016

This is such a shitty election in so many ways!

Glamrock

(11,795 posts)
22. Yep
Tue Nov 1, 2016, 11:16 PM
Nov 2016

Although, I'm a hermit. I don't Facebook so I may be speaking incorrectly. She didn't, like, unfriend her or whatever. Maybe blocked her feed? But yeah, her mom's always been a bit nuts.

m-lekktor

(3,675 posts)
28. She probably just unfollowed her so she doesn't see what she posts.
Tue Nov 1, 2016, 11:44 PM
Nov 2016

When you block you automatically unfriend. They have no idea when you unfollow them unless you tell them.

 

Jim Beard

(2,535 posts)
6. I never did "Friend" my brother-in-law doctor and do not follow my sister that way it keeps his crap
Tue Nov 1, 2016, 10:56 PM
Nov 2016

off my page. Plus I can tell you about how they got most of their income and it wasn't from working.

liberal N proud

(60,334 posts)
11. That just it, I never accept his friend request in the first place
Tue Nov 1, 2016, 10:59 PM
Nov 2016

I knew it would not be good, but he was trolling anything I posted.

I hardly talk to him for these reasons.

The Genealogist

(4,723 posts)
7. I don't discuss politics with my older stepbrother
Tue Nov 1, 2016, 10:56 PM
Nov 2016

We've known each other since before I started Kindergarten, and we were best buds before my dad married his mom.

Right now, with political tensions high, we'd probably end up killing each other if we got into a political discussion. I am an avowed liberal progressive, he is an avowed conservative libertarian.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
12. it does get old
Tue Nov 1, 2016, 11:00 PM
Nov 2016

I get hit with probably 7 to 10 anti-Hillary posts per day from various 'friends'.

They do hate Hillary and are not that fond of Hillary supporters either.

 

demtenjeep

(31,997 posts)
13. my sister blocked me. She was tired of me always proving her trump shit wrong
Tue Nov 1, 2016, 11:00 PM
Nov 2016

she told me she was tired of me acting like I was always right.


I told her it wasn't me, it was facts

boom, she blocked me

funny thing-she depends on social programs that trump would cut

Divine Discontent

(21,056 posts)
47. people on social programs backing Trump mesmerize me!
Wed Nov 2, 2016, 04:21 AM
Nov 2016

My friend has a bunch of friends on social programs, and so many of them are right wing that it'd be laughable if it wasn't sad.

His neighborhood is 90% lock her up/Trump signs, and the few Clinton signs. Most are poor there, or working check to check 'poor', and it is infuriating.

Let's hope we win, and keep them funded and Congress raises taxes on the million & billionaires to help give them a raise...

leftyladyfrommo

(18,868 posts)
64. I don't do Facebook but this is sad.
Wed Nov 2, 2016, 07:50 AM
Nov 2016

I can't remember a time when our country was so devidence.

Fortunately my only family member is really anti Trump.

Wounded Bear

(58,645 posts)
15. I may have been blocked by a nephew...
Tue Nov 1, 2016, 11:06 PM
Nov 2016

he's been posting some Trump stuff. I pointed out that Trump was an asshole and that I would never vote for him.

Have seen much else lately.

kevinbgoode1

(153 posts)
16. I'm close to doing that to an aunt
Tue Nov 1, 2016, 11:07 PM
Nov 2016

I swear she "shares" just about every wingnut "news" site possible and the breathlessly joins the manufactured, fabricated drama.

So far I'm just blocking the posts. . .

Divine Discontent

(21,056 posts)
48. I have a good friend out in CO
Wed Nov 2, 2016, 04:23 AM
Nov 2016

and I don't talk to her but one time during elections, right around the spring, then it's radio silence until after, because she's hardcore GOP, and this year would have been awful trying to talk to her as we used to do in person when I lived near, because I often would correct her "email forward" lies of the GOP candidate, but Trump is a whole other level of monstrosity!!!

jg10003

(976 posts)
19. How I deal with my pro Trump brother;
Tue Nov 1, 2016, 11:13 PM
Nov 2016

1) I avoid any discussion of politics.
2) I remind myself that he is basically a good person who is always there when his family needs him.
3) I remember that he had some bad experiences with LSD in the 1970's and since then hasn't been quite right in the head.

mnhtnbb

(31,382 posts)
21. I unfriended my sister in law back in the Bush days.
Tue Nov 1, 2016, 11:14 PM
Nov 2016

My brother would probably be in the same state if he were on fb, but he's not.

They're both Republicans, but 4 out of their 5 kids are Dems.

C_U_L8R

(44,998 posts)
23. I have a sister circling the Trump drainpipe
Tue Nov 1, 2016, 11:17 PM
Nov 2016

Biting my lip - it's hard to witness.
Not a lot you can do to fight the delusion.

LenaBaby61

(6,974 posts)
24. Lucky me ...
Tue Nov 1, 2016, 11:20 PM
Nov 2016

Last edited Wed Nov 2, 2016, 01:49 AM - Edit history (2)

I don't know anyone whose voting tRump. I have friends whose relatives are voting for tRump, but personally NO ONE I know is voting for tRump.

I admit that I'm no world traveler, however I know a fair amount of people and NONE of them are supporting that orange, lying, misogynistic, racist POS tRump. I know people who aren't voting in this upcoming election, and people writing in alternative names for POTUS living in Deep blue states. But NO ONE voting for tRump (But then again, I live in the suburbs of Los Angeles County

GWC58

(2,678 posts)
25. I get out
Tue Nov 1, 2016, 11:34 PM
Nov 2016

taking my son to school, then pick him up. I haven't been on FB in almost five years. I can count the friends I have on one hand, after subtracting four fingers and a thumb.🤕 I am a homebody.

roamer65

(36,745 posts)
29. Yeah. I filter anyone who posts pro-Drumpf crap.
Tue Nov 1, 2016, 11:49 PM
Nov 2016

Last edited Wed Nov 2, 2016, 12:46 AM - Edit history (1)

It's kinder than unfriending and I don't have see their spew.

I've done it to family members, no remorse at all.

Eggy

(6 posts)
27. This election is exposing the worst in people
Tue Nov 1, 2016, 11:40 PM
Nov 2016

I was shocked to hear from a friend that he votes and donates to trump, and he has always been passionate about public service. I once thought he was a compassionate person, but as it turns out his compassion is only reserved for people who look like him.

gwheezie

(3,580 posts)
32. My brother still invades my feed
Wed Nov 2, 2016, 12:34 AM
Nov 2016

He supports trump. He has always been odd but I love him. Whenever he posts about how devious cunning & murderous Hillary is I tell him trump is a wimpy baby & we need just the kind of strong leader who can murder dozens of enemies & get foreign enemies to give her money & never face financial ruin while doing it in heels.

SDOPINION

(11 posts)
33. I get it
Wed Nov 2, 2016, 12:34 AM
Nov 2016

I unfollowed my brother-in-law. ...replied once to one of his posts and after that just unfollowed him. I have had difficulty listening to Trump supporters...to me Trump just represents hate and hypocrisy.

texanwitch

(18,705 posts)
34. I cleaned house with this election.
Wed Nov 2, 2016, 12:35 AM
Nov 2016

I really do not want to be around any Republican type.

I did make a few new friends.

I don't miss the old ones.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
35. Ugh, that's too bad. I've only lost "friends" over politics in the past.
Wed Nov 2, 2016, 12:38 AM
Nov 2016

One "friend" kept e-mailing me very nasty anti-Kerry messages in 2004, multiple times a day, despite me asking him to stop it. I blocked his e-mail and haven't talked to him ever since.

 

rusty quoin

(6,133 posts)
37. Reading all of these posts makes me know that the other side belongs to a cult.
Wed Nov 2, 2016, 12:44 AM
Nov 2016

Friends and relatives who were normal in the past, have given up logic. They are true believers.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
39. Yep. I've had Republican co-workers who insisted that the break room TV...
Wed Nov 2, 2016, 12:52 AM
Nov 2016

... be turned to FOX News during lunch breaks. Most people just let them get their way, but sometimes early arrivals wouldn't budge. The rule of thumb seemed to be that the remote control was first come, first served.

It's not like they were forced to watch MSNBC or something. The non-budgers were usually watching a comedy or something.

Regardless, those Republicans acted like drug addicts who needed a "fix," and they would often eat lunch in their cars so they could listen to conservative talk radio instead!

 

rusty quoin

(6,133 posts)
41. Ive tried to listen to progressive talk radio for a decade plus.
Wed Nov 2, 2016, 01:18 AM
Nov 2016

It is nothing like listening to Rush. He is everywhere and progressive talk has been impossible to get on terrestrial radio.

Rush and people like him have brainwashed a generation and more.

In the late 80s, rush was known as as a joke entertainer. In the 90s he changed a generation of white guys from kind of normal to crazy. I wasn't paying much attention since I had young kids.

But I now know the damage he has done.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
42. There's a movie titled "The Brainwashing of My Dad" that...
Wed Nov 2, 2016, 01:32 AM
Nov 2016

... delves into the Limbaugh effect on some people.

I've seen it with my own eyes over the years. I worked for a temp service in the 80's at a factory that was full of people making minimum wage. It was HARD work for low pay. One guy started playing Limbaugh on his portable radio at lunch (the first time that I ever heard him), and it wasn't long thereafter that I heard many of them blaming their low wages on the company's "high taxes" supposedly used to support "lazy people on welfare."

I think there was a behavioral scientist interviewed in that movie who explained how it was strangely addictive for some people too. The movie director's father had been affected more deeply than politically, but emotionally as well.

SPOILER: It had a "happy ending." Once he was finally "cut off" from the conservative propaganda by his wife (the director's mother), the man's entire demeanor changed -- he was happier and less hateful.

 

rusty quoin

(6,133 posts)
43. I bought it on amazon and waited years for it to come out.
Wed Nov 2, 2016, 01:49 AM
Nov 2016

I know what happened, but i still cannot believe it happened. I had a problem thinking most people thought like me.

I know better now, and know most white people, like me, do not think like me.

It is bad.

Lucinda

(31,170 posts)
40. I've got my account set so I don't see the posts of a few people
Wed Nov 2, 2016, 12:58 AM
Nov 2016

or I would have unfriended/blocked one or two myself.
Sorry it happened to you...

Quantess

(27,630 posts)
46. Did you know that you can post things only visible to certain people?
Wed Nov 2, 2016, 04:13 AM
Nov 2016

There a few different ways to do this. Blocking someone sounds so extreme and unnecessary.

Mike Nelson

(9,951 posts)
52. Facebook...
Wed Nov 2, 2016, 05:20 AM
Nov 2016

...is full of disgusting posts. There are various reasons why some of my friends and a couple relatives like Trump and/or dislike Hillary. Some are against politics and some are doing well financially and "want to keep" their money (the co-called fiscal conservatives). A few friends fall into the bigot category. I can't tolerate them... they are the "deplorable" and "irredeemables" Hillary was talking about... I'm not sure they will change. Still, if someone is a brother, you have a shared childhood and there may be some hope.

I think, after the election, the hate will get worse, not better. Republicans main objective was to make sure Obama failed. Their new goal will be to make sure Hillary fails.

liberal N proud

(60,334 posts)
63. I know, but once you are down that rabbit hole
Wed Nov 2, 2016, 07:46 AM
Nov 2016

I have used for legitimate purpose as well as the mindless crap.

KrazyinKS

(291 posts)
54. I can feel for you-
Wed Nov 2, 2016, 06:39 AM
Nov 2016

I have not blocked m sister and childhood friend yet, I just block posts from certain websites. That has been a daily thing. There I was looking at a video of my grandson posted from my daughter and right below it is some right wing thing from my sister. I let it ruin my whole day. I no longer will do that. No news until after the election.

babylonsister

(171,056 posts)
55. And I got blocked by a 'dear friend'
Wed Nov 2, 2016, 06:41 AM
Nov 2016

for posting too much anti-trump info. I guess the truth really does hurt, though this hurt me.

I thought we were friends...

BainsBane

(53,031 posts)
56. Block, as in unfriend?
Wed Nov 2, 2016, 06:45 AM
Nov 2016

You can unfollow someone but still remain FB friends with them. That way you don't see what they post.

liberal N proud

(60,334 posts)
62. I had unfriendly him long time ago.
Wed Nov 2, 2016, 07:42 AM
Nov 2016

He didn't stop posting on anything I commented on with his political hate.

Zing Zing Zingbah

(6,496 posts)
60. I use FB Purity as a Chrome extension
Wed Nov 2, 2016, 07:28 AM
Nov 2016

I have Trump as one of the words that I filter from my friends feed. I like it because I can still see the civil things my friends post and I don't have to see their dark side.

maryellen99

(3,788 posts)
61. I've unfollowed some of my husbands family and have hidden a lot of their posts
Wed Nov 2, 2016, 07:40 AM
Nov 2016

They haven't come out and said they are voting for Trump but a lot of their posts have been pro cop,anti BLM,anti Kaepernick,Pro Life,and now one has posted something pro DAPL. I think if they knew I was liberal and voting for HRC they would hate me.

drray23

(7,627 posts)
65. I am lucky that everybody in my family is a dem.
Wed Nov 2, 2016, 07:58 AM
Nov 2016

We are latte drinking, prius driving, tree hugging democrats. As far as my friends, i do not associate with right wingers so thats easy as well.

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