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The Straight Story

(48,121 posts)
Thu May 26, 2016, 01:05 AM May 2016

"My time as a fake boyfriend to China's 'leftover women'"



As Chinese women face stigma for remaining unmarried past their late 20s, the boyfriends for rent business is booming.

Celia is in her late 20s, has a career and is unmarried. That sounds completely normal, doesn't it?

But many Chinese do not see it that way. In their eyes, women should be wed by their late 20s.

Those who aren't, like Celia, are branded "sheng nu" or "leftover women".

And it isn't only the older generation that thinks that way.



http://www.aljazeera.com/indepth/features/2016/05/time-fake-boyfriend-china-leftover-women-160519121232031.html
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"My time as a fake boyfriend to China's 'leftover women'" (Original Post) The Straight Story May 2016 OP
I thought there was a shortage of marriageable women in China, due to No Vested Interest May 2016 #1
There is an imbalance: The Straight Story May 2016 #2
In Japan - Christmas cake girl Jesus Malverde May 2016 #3
Yeah, 20 years ago, Jesus. That's pretty outdated. nt Bonobo May 2016 #7
Maybe an old concept but one that's not gone away. Jesus Malverde May 2016 #8
They would say I'm an "Ossan" who is living in another world. Bonobo May 2016 #9
And sad as it is, you are an ojisan Jesus Malverde May 2016 #10
Max age limit! OMG, that is mean! Bonobo May 2016 #11
Ugh. Liberal_in_LA May 2016 #4
US - Spinsters & Old Maids!! KT2000 May 2016 #5
In Canada, Chicken Lady Monk06 May 2016 #6

No Vested Interest

(5,164 posts)
1. I thought there was a shortage of marriageable women in China, due to
Thu May 26, 2016, 01:14 AM
May 2016

the one-child policy in effect for so many years and only recently loosened.
During that time, parents preferred a male child, so girls were frequently aborted or abandoned when born.

The Straight Story

(48,121 posts)
2. There is an imbalance:
Thu May 26, 2016, 01:19 AM
May 2016

696,340,752 men
644,994,400 women

and in the US:
153,139,563 men
157,244,385 women

http://www.geohive.com/earth/pop_gender.aspx

But then there is age distribution and locations.

Jesus Malverde

(10,274 posts)
3. In Japan - Christmas cake girl
Thu May 26, 2016, 01:41 AM
May 2016
Japan, a women over the age of 25 are often seen as used goods by Japanese men (Much like Christmas cake is "no good" after the 25th of December).


http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=christmas%20cake%20girl

Jesus Malverde

(10,274 posts)
8. Maybe an old concept but one that's not gone away.
Thu May 26, 2016, 03:07 AM
May 2016

I trust if you say to a friend hey look at that desperate Christmas cake girl, your Japanese friends won't ask you what you mean by that.

Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
9. They would say I'm an "Ossan" who is living in another world.
Thu May 26, 2016, 03:22 AM
May 2016

People in Japan don't get married until their 30 for the most part now.



And the numbers have risen since this which only shows up until 2004!

Jesus Malverde

(10,274 posts)
10. And sad as it is, you are an ojisan
Thu May 26, 2016, 03:37 AM
May 2016

Or on the cusp 😜

Disappointed reading the clubs in Korea have a max age limit of 35.

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