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daughter just started kindergarten and now I'm starting to hear some murmurs from MIL and wife about girl scouts-
I got this flyer from her school with some info and one of the "information nights" is a church close by then a a McDonald's and a Starbucks. Not going to let her get indoctrinated into mythology LOL (although MIL would love that)
All she knows as of now is lots of different people believe in lots of different religions. Daddy, can I go to church sometime like "her BFF" does every Sunday. No, maybe down the road as you learn about religion but not now. Shit, was easier a year ago when she used to ask what every building was for. That's a window store, that's a storage unit place, what's that tall building daddy? That's where old people go who are lonely
sarisataka
(18,494 posts)in little boxes of deliciousness goodness
Here is the limit of religious teaching I have seen at my daughter's Girl Scout meetings
On my honor, I will try:
To serve God and my country,
To help people at all times,
And to live by the Girl Scout Law.
sharp_stick
(14,400 posts)my daughter loves it. No indoctrination at all, at least here.
flamin lib
(14,559 posts)They are open and inviting to everyone regardless of or in spite of religion, sexual orientation or anything else I can think of. The organization is dedicated to every girl being independent, strong and accepted.
Plus the GS cookie program is great training for hard work, ingenuity and marketing. Besides they're damn good cookies and have NO calories. That's my story and I'm sticking to it.
snooper2
(30,151 posts)I'm in the DFW area so you know how it can be
d_r
(6,907 posts)and don't go outside enough. So every year my daughter wants to drop out after a few meetings of sitting around talking, but then she wants to go back every fall because we do some fun outdoor thing in the summer and she wants to have a patch for it.
One family dropped out of my troop because they girl scout promise had the words "to serve God and my country" in it. And we were about as secular as you could possibly be. As was my son's boy scout pack. But whatever.
pinboy3niner
(53,339 posts)justhanginon
(3,289 posts)I make sure to send that little gem out to my friends. For some reason, whenever I see that I just bust out laughing. I'm lsughing as I type this.
onehandle
(51,122 posts)This was in a reddish upper-class area of a suburb of Atlanta.
She made sure that these relatively privileged girls learned to be generous with their free time and open to diversity.
Brickbat
(19,339 posts)As with all volunteer organizations, much depends on the people involved.
TexasBushwhacker
(20,144 posts)When we moved to a very Catholic neighborhood when I was 8, we started going to a Unitarian church. You might want to try it.
My memories of Girl Scouts are good.
Tommy_Carcetti
(43,154 posts)They sell quite possibly the most addictive product known to man.
They're pure evil, I tell you!
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)Light years ahead of the reactionary Boy Scouts. And they come bearing Samoas.
stevenleser
(32,886 posts)hifiguy
(33,688 posts)captioned "mmmm. Girl Scout cookies..."
stevenleser
(32,886 posts)I am exactly the caricature you wrote!
DeadLetterOffice
(1,352 posts)cyberswede
(26,117 posts)hifiguy
(33,688 posts)And just where are those homunculi coming from that are eating all those cookies when I am not looking. No way did I eat the whole box in one sitting.
NCjack
(10,279 posts)friendships that still exist. My wife was one of their Den Mothers, and I attended some of the camps as a guardian. This Friday, we will have dinner with our daughters, one of their GS friends, and her daughter. Don't let this opportunity pass by -- you and your wife should participate as well. Did I mention that it is fun and strengthens family bonds?
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)I've been to Eagle ceremonies -- Holy Shit. If you like rightwing religion, jingoism, and flag worship you will like the Boy Scouts. Ugh.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)It must not have taken on him. I managed his bookstore, where he sold the weirdest underground shit imaginable, including porn comics, in addition to sci-fi, comics, and gaming stuff. The Anarchist Cookbook was always a must-stock. Sold dozens of 'em. He was a big shot in the Comic Book Defense Fund - a hard core First Amendment absolutist group. One of his best friends in the industry is Neil Gaiman, who came in to the store regularly for signings. Neil is a perfectly lovely fellow and perhaps the best-read human I have ever met.
David Lynch was an Eagle Scout as well, IIRC.
VERY strange.
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)and I know that individual troops vary widely. The organization as a whole, though, gives me the creeps.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)I was a Cub Scout when I was a wee lad in the mid-1960s and had fun, but not enough to continue with it. The best part was that we could wear our uniforms to school on den-meeting days.
One_Life_To_Give
(6,036 posts)They have known links to such vile groups as Planned Parenthood. For which the American Family Association has instituted a Boycott against their Cookies. (Which arguably are some sort of intoxicating substance intended to separate people from the lord.)
More recently they have demonstrated an inability to tell the difference between little boys and little girls.
They openly treat them as little girls. Surely this is a sign the apocalypse is upon us.
Please take your precious child to a place where they can be brought up properly.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)extra boxes of cookies every year!
brer cat
(24,524 posts)but they are in no way associated with any church. Both my daughter's troop and now my granddaughters' are very inclusive and have no religious indoctrination.
Generic Other
(28,979 posts)Patriotic jingoism galore. And no matter how you slice it, a bit of regimentation. Nonetheless, the organization did promote girl power when few others did back in the day. I recall earning merit badges for teaching myself to do useful things including survival skills, political activism, environmental awareness, creative endeavors. And yes, I once sold more cookies than anyone else in my city. In a uniform. Door-to-door. For no pay whatsoever other than earning our troop a trip to camp. Because that was just the kind of girl I was.
And still am. The "Thin Mints" melted their way into many hearts! LOL.
Ace Rothstein
(3,144 posts)I could eat an entire sleeve of them in minutes.
Fawke Em
(11,366 posts)My daughter is going to a GS informational meeting tonight.
I think her Daddy wants her to go for the cookies, alone.
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)justamama83
(87 posts)I had a huge Brownie troop- then became more involved and added the Daisy troop when my youngest started kindergarten and then finally Juniors. It was a great experience- my kids made a lot of friends- so did I. Yes, there are some that get upset because apparently Planned Parenthood supports them- I have been told that I was a horrible person for being a leader since I was teaching the girls about abortion- I was like umm they are 6 years old I don't think so. There are a lot of troops that meet in churches- that doesn't mean that all the members are going to preach- our troop was held in a church and all were welcome- religion never came into it. Girl Scouts is a wonderful organization- when they are in high school if they complete their Gold Service Project (similar to Eagle Scout) there are all kinds of perks they can receive like scholarships and grants.
Rex
(65,616 posts)__________ and __________________.
beltanefauve
(1,784 posts)I learned a lot about girl power and developed self confidence. I went to Girl Scout camp too, and it was at a lower rate than any other camp around. I still love the outdoors and take my family camping today.
CrispyQ
(36,423 posts)& I have lots of fond memories from my meetings & events with them.
OnionPatch
(6,169 posts)and I was a leader for a very short time. She outgrew it a few years ago. But I think the Girl Scouts are great. The activities we participated in were not religious in the least and were very educational and/or altruistic. There was an occasional meeting in a local church but no "indoctrination" took place. FYI, I'm an agnostic and my daughter, who is 15 now, is a self-proclaimed atheist.
I think it's possible you could run into a troop with adults/leaders who try to push their religion into it but the larger group is secular.