Sun Aug 31, 2014, 12:35 PM
MarianJack (10,237 posts)
I am NOT leaving DU, but...
...I am going to have to step back for awhile. I'm not angry with anyone (if I were, than that's why there is an ignore list), I'm not disillusioned (this isn't a perfect community but what is?) and nobody hurt my feelings or offended me. Am I happy with everything that goes on here? No. Am I in a fit of pique? Hell no. Am I taking my cyber ball and going home in a fit? FUCK HELL NO!
Late in June I lost my job and with only my wife's income alone dictates that we have to make some temporary sacrifices, among them being our home internet and Netflix, which are both going to o be temporarily suspended after today. So today, we're enjoying our Netflix raves a d our websites. Fortunately, our town library has internet and I have a good looking job interview this week. Hopefully, this will be VERY temporary. I certainly know that I am not a DU leading member, but I hope that there will be some who will be happy upon my return. In the interim, vote blue, encourage others to do so and if you're up here in Maine, than GO SHENNA BELLOWS, MIKE MICHAUD, CHELLIE PINGREE, EMILY CAIN AND MAINE DEMS!!! That's my 2cents, and quite possibly overpriced at that...yikes! PEACE! ![]() ![]() ![]()
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Author | Time | Post |
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MarianJack | Aug 2014 | OP |
CaliforniaPeggy | Aug 2014 | #1 | |
MarianJack | Aug 2014 | #3 | |
hfojvt | Sep 2014 | #66 | |
Tuesday Afternoon | Aug 2014 | #2 | |
MarianJack | Aug 2014 | #6 | |
Gormy Cuss | Aug 2014 | #4 | |
MarianJack | Aug 2014 | #10 | |
raven mad | Aug 2014 | #47 | |
hunter | Aug 2014 | #5 | |
MarianJack | Aug 2014 | #11 | |
BainsBane | Aug 2014 | #7 | |
MarianJack | Aug 2014 | #12 | |
Tikki | Aug 2014 | #8 | |
MarianJack | Aug 2014 | #13 | |
Squinch | Aug 2014 | #9 | |
democrank | Aug 2014 | #14 | |
MarianJack | Aug 2014 | #16 | |
ChisolmTrailDem | Aug 2014 | #15 | |
MarianJack | Aug 2014 | #17 | |
ChisolmTrailDem | Aug 2014 | #19 | |
daredtowork | Aug 2014 | #18 | |
MarianJack | Aug 2014 | #34 | |
daredtowork | Aug 2014 | #37 | |
Puglover | Aug 2014 | #20 | |
TBF | Aug 2014 | #21 | |
MarianJack | Aug 2014 | #35 | |
greatlaurel | Aug 2014 | #22 | |
murielm99 | Aug 2014 | #23 | |
Veilex | Aug 2014 | #24 | |
sueh | Aug 2014 | #25 | |
emulatorloo | Aug 2014 | #26 | |
Cleita | Aug 2014 | #27 | |
treestar | Aug 2014 | #28 | |
Generic Other | Aug 2014 | #29 | |
merrily | Aug 2014 | #30 | |
TeeYiYi | Aug 2014 | #31 | |
joanbarnes | Aug 2014 | #32 | |
tblue37 | Aug 2014 | #33 | |
marym625 | Aug 2014 | #36 | |
Warpy | Aug 2014 | #38 | |
Major Hogwash | Aug 2014 | #39 | |
FailureToCommunicate | Aug 2014 | #40 | |
Skittles | Aug 2014 | #41 | |
LeftishBrit | Aug 2014 | #42 | |
99Forever | Aug 2014 | #43 | |
cyberswede | Aug 2014 | #44 | |
Doctor_J | Aug 2014 | #45 | |
raven mad | Aug 2014 | #46 | |
Worried senior | Aug 2014 | #48 | |
Jim Lane | Aug 2014 | #49 | |
Rowdyboy | Aug 2014 | #50 | |
Cha | Aug 2014 | #51 | |
sheshe2 | Aug 2014 | #52 | |
AverageJoe90 | Aug 2014 | #53 | |
mackerel | Sep 2014 | #54 | |
MADem | Sep 2014 | #55 | |
NBachers | Sep 2014 | #56 | |
C Moon | Sep 2014 | #57 | |
DFW | Sep 2014 | #58 | |
Violet_Crumble | Sep 2014 | #59 | |
riqster | Sep 2014 | #60 | |
bvf | Sep 2014 | #61 | |
nolabear | Sep 2014 | #62 | |
blm | Sep 2014 | #63 | |
GoneOffShore | Sep 2014 | #64 | |
yardwork | Sep 2014 | #65 | |
shireen | Sep 2014 | #67 |
Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 12:39 PM
CaliforniaPeggy (144,961 posts)
1. Hope you can come back very soon, my dear MarianJack!
I will miss your intelligence and enthusiasm!
PEACE! ![]() |
Response to CaliforniaPeggy (Reply #1)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 12:46 PM
MarianJack (10,237 posts)
3. Thank you, California Peggy.
PEACE!
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Response to MarianJack (Reply #3)
Mon Sep 1, 2014, 12:44 PM
hfojvt (37,573 posts)
66. I would suggest putting it off a few months
Go without netflix and the internet as long as you can, build up a little reserve. My life sorta revolves around the internet and I watch too darned much TV. But I also have a hefty reserve and no spouse to talk with either.
Your local party maybe could use a volunteer, or two. |
Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 12:42 PM
Tuesday Afternoon (56,912 posts)
2. Wishing you all the best and look forward to your quick return
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Response to Tuesday Afternoon (Reply #2)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 12:47 PM
MarianJack (10,237 posts)
6. Thank you!
Hopefully VERY soon!
PEACE! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 12:46 PM
Gormy Cuss (30,884 posts)
4. Good luck in your job search.
I know that you live a small market where job searching is a bit more challenging.
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Response to Gormy Cuss (Reply #4)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 12:52 PM
MarianJack (10,237 posts)
10. Small market and...
...59 years old...Yikes!
We are in the process of getting licensed to be foster parents. When that happens, my wife and I agreed that that would be my full time job. PEACE! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Response to MarianJack (Reply #10)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 07:42 PM
raven mad (4,940 posts)
47. Nothing but admiration for folks who can do what you're going to do.
And you'll do it beautifully!
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Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 12:46 PM
hunter (36,703 posts)
5. If you were my neighbor, I'd share internet.
I think there should be some level of "free" internet everywhere. Maybe not fast enough for netflix, but certainly fast enough for DU and email.
Good luck! |
Response to hunter (Reply #5)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 12:53 PM
MarianJack (10,237 posts)
11. Thank you for the kind thought!
PEACE!
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Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 12:47 PM
BainsBane (52,568 posts)
7. I wish you the best on your interview
Fingers crossed.
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Response to BainsBane (Reply #7)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 12:54 PM
MarianJack (10,237 posts)
12. Thank you!
PEACE!
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Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 12:48 PM
Tikki (14,334 posts)
8. We'll keep the tea pot warm.....
See you all soon, real soon... Tikki |
Response to Tikki (Reply #8)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 12:55 PM
MarianJack (10,237 posts)
13. The tea pot? Yes!
The teabags? Heck no!
Thanks! PEACE! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Response to MarianJack (Original post)
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Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 12:56 PM
democrank (10,505 posts)
14. Hope your interview goes well.
Good luck!
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Response to democrank (Reply #14)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 12:58 PM
MarianJack (10,237 posts)
16. Thank you!
PEACE!
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Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 12:57 PM
ChisolmTrailDem (9,463 posts)
15. Darn =( One of my favorite DUers. I hope you can return soon, MarianJack...
Knock 'em dead at your interview and come back to us when the time is right.
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Response to ChisolmTrailDem (Reply #15)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 12:59 PM
MarianJack (10,237 posts)
17. ASAP!
Thanks!
PEACE! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Response to MarianJack (Reply #17)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 01:03 PM
ChisolmTrailDem (9,463 posts)
19. You're very welcome, MJ. nt
Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 01:02 PM
daredtowork (3,732 posts)
18. In my view the Internet is the basic form of communication now
It's used to find jobs, to network, to find medical information, to find house cleaning information when you don't have money for normal cleaning products(!), to check the news - especially the LOCAL news (it's the first place I check after an earthquake, to make DMV reservations and engage with other bureaucratic functions...the list goes on and on.
The library reservation time doesn't cut it - especially when you incorporate time required to write tailored job application letters. Everyone in the "system" always says they want you to "tailor" everything - well perhaps they should prove it by making that feasible! I'm extremely lucky in that I have a housemate, and I paid the Internet bills for the last decade, so I never lost access to that vital form of communication. Ironically I did lose access to all but basic phone communications. California's discount phone program made me choose between a land line and a cellphone. I chose the land line with local calls only, and now I don't know with the fact all HR recruiters assume I can just return their cellphone-based toll numbers at the drop of a pin. The assumption is everyone has a cellphone. Only a really poor person wouldn't. But if I were paying for it, and I had to choose, I'd still choose Internet access over the cellphone. By the way, if your hometown has employment support programs, that should enable you a little more Internet access - for job-hunting, if not for DU! |
Response to daredtowork (Reply #18)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 02:57 PM
MarianJack (10,237 posts)
34. Thanks.
I CAN bring my laptop to the library and be on the web for as long as they're open.
PEACE! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Response to MarianJack (Reply #34)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 03:07 PM
daredtowork (3,732 posts)
37. Oooh - great plan! nt
Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 01:04 PM
Puglover (16,380 posts)
20. Good Luck with the interview!
Hope you can return soon!
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Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 01:05 PM
TBF (31,869 posts)
21. Good luck with the interview -
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Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 01:11 PM
greatlaurel (2,004 posts)
22. Good luck with your job interview!
A close relative of mine just got a master's degree and is job hunting. It is really hard to find anything. Right now it looks like it will be 2-3 part time jobs. It is so difficult now that the corporate schmucks have gotten the unemployment rate so high that they can force people into desperation to force down wages and benefits to nothing.
Hope you get the job. The foster parent idea is a really creative longer term solution. Hope that works out well, too. |
Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 01:25 PM
murielm99 (29,630 posts)
23. You say you are not a DU leading
member. Yet your name is one I recognize and look for. I enjoy your posts.
I will miss you. Best of luck. Keep us updated, and come back soon! |
Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 01:29 PM
Veilex (1,555 posts)
24. Hurry back!!!
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Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 01:41 PM
sueh (1,717 posts)
25. Good luck on your job interview! I hope you can come back soon, MarianJack.
I enjoy your posts.
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Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 01:41 PM
emulatorloo (41,170 posts)
26. Good luck with everything!
You are gonna make a huge comeback.
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Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 01:42 PM
Cleita (75,480 posts)
27. Sorry about your temporary change of fortunes.
Here's hoping your circumstances change ASAP and you are clicking away at your computer again. In the meantime if you really need an internet fix, there is the public library. Most have computers you can use for "research".
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Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 01:43 PM
treestar (81,146 posts)
28. Best of luck!
Hope you are back full time soon!
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Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 01:46 PM
Generic Other (28,972 posts)
29. Check in at the library sometimes
while filling out job apps. And good luck. I am sure you will bounce back in no time!
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Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 01:50 PM
merrily (45,251 posts)
30. Very best wishes in your job hunt and everything else.
You will be missed and people will be glad when you return. Of that, I have no doubt.
And thanks for letting us know. I know some people don't like good bye (or goodbye for now) threads. However I am the worrying kind, so I don't like it when people just disappear. I worry they are very ill or something like that. So this is comforting, in that way. |
Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 01:53 PM
TeeYiYi (8,028 posts)
31. Lots of places offer free wireless now...
Maybe you could find a local coffee shop where you could stay connected for the price of a cup. I'm not sure, but I think libraries might have free wireless too. Check around...
Thanks for the update and good luck with your job search. ![]() TYY |
Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 02:03 PM
joanbarnes (1,694 posts)
32. Best of luck to you, MarianJack. Same things going on here too.
Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 02:36 PM
tblue37 (58,151 posts)
33. Good luck with the job interview, MJ. If you can get to the library
to let us know how it goes, please do. We will be thinking of you and hoping for the best.
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Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 03:02 PM
marym625 (17,997 posts)
36. :-(
That really sucks. Sorry you're going through this
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Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 03:12 PM
Warpy (106,444 posts)
38. A break will leave you refreshed, especially if it's involuntary
I took several during the 00s while I was bouncing between NM and FL taking care of parents.
Best of luck landing that job and come back soon! |
Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 03:13 PM
Major Hogwash (17,656 posts)
39. I thought you were a DU leading member!
Look out for the edge of the cliff!!!!!!
Bwa-haha!!!! ![]() |
Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 03:33 PM
FailureToCommunicate (13,363 posts)
40. Good luck on the job interview! Look forward to having you back soon.
Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 05:29 PM
Skittles (148,552 posts)
41. rooting for you MarianJack
I really wish you could find a way to keep home internet - to me that is no longer a luxury
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Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 05:31 PM
LeftishBrit (40,038 posts)
42. Best wishes for the job interview!!!
And come back as soon as you can!
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Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 05:34 PM
99Forever (14,524 posts)
43. May your interview lead to a good job and a quick return for you.
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Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 05:35 PM
cyberswede (26,117 posts)
44. Good luck, Jack!
Come back soon.
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Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 07:40 PM
Doctor_J (36,392 posts)
45. Best of luck
to you and your wife and the ME Dems
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Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 07:41 PM
raven mad (4,940 posts)
46. If I had more than 2 cents, I'd sure send it to you!
You'll be missed while away for what I hope is just a bit. We're pretty much in the same situation; probably lose the 'net next week (unless I can convince them to let us hang in there).
My addiction to DU will suffer greatly! (Long time lurker, here, only recently posting.) ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 07:45 PM
Worried senior (1,328 posts)
48. Good luck
hope things work out for you quickly.
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Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 08:11 PM
Jim Lane (11,175 posts)
49. I'm also elderly (by employers' standards) and haven't a job in several years.
Quite a few of us are finding that we can't live the lives of steady employment that we grew up expecting. We over-the-hill types keep trying with the job interviews, of course, and sometimes they work (and I wish you well). The main thing that strikes me about your post, though, is that you're not putting all your eggs in that basket.
These days, people just need to have a Plan B (and if possible a Plan C). I've been freelancing, with less income but more free time (and more anxiety) than when I was a wage slave. You've taken the initiative to enter the foster care field. Way to go! It's also possible that having another option will make you less desperate at the interview and therefore better able to show them your abilities. It almost makes me feel sorry for the poor slobs who have to compete with you for the job. |
Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 08:30 PM
Rowdyboy (22,057 posts)
50. Hope to be able to welcome you back very soon....
You will be missed
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Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 10:06 PM
Cha (283,886 posts)
51. Bottom Line.. Good Luck on your job interview, Jack! And, Good Luck Maine!
Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 10:18 PM
sheshe2 (78,163 posts)
52. Good vibes for the interview!
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Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 10:40 PM
AverageJoe90 (10,745 posts)
53. I'll be seeing you around, M.J.
I'd like to wish you the best of luck.....
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Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Mon Sep 1, 2014, 12:14 AM
mackerel (4,412 posts)
54. Good luck with your interview!
Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Mon Sep 1, 2014, 12:23 AM
MADem (135,425 posts)
55. If you have a neighbor nearby with internet, you should ask them
if they'd mind if you borrowed a bit of bandwidth from them. Maybe they'd give you their access code...?
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Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Mon Sep 1, 2014, 01:41 AM
NBachers (15,732 posts)
56. Yeah, but I know you're gonna be voting, and that's the big priority. So far, it's free to vote.
Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Mon Sep 1, 2014, 02:58 AM
C Moon (11,374 posts)
57. I'm semi-new here, and I've been taken aback by some of the posts.
I have to keep reminding myself that not everyone here is of my mindset.
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Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Mon Sep 1, 2014, 04:14 AM
DFW (50,525 posts)
58. It must be devastating to lose a needed job. Wish you luck for the next one!
As someone who has worked for (in essence) the same outfit for the last 39 years, I can't imagine what it would mean to suddenly be without the job. I don't know how long you were at the one you just lost.
I don't know Maine very well, but was up there last April for the first time in decades (Bath/Freeport area). It did not seem like a bustling hub of prosperity, and after meeting your oaf of a governor, can well imagine why. As a Texan, we know what it means to have an ignorant oaf as governor. Don't hesitate to share any good news if you have some! |
Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Mon Sep 1, 2014, 05:07 AM
Violet_Crumble (35,851 posts)
59. Good luck with yr job interview and I hope you can check into DU every now and again...
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Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Mon Sep 1, 2014, 08:40 AM
riqster (13,986 posts)
60. Good luck with the job hunt!
Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Mon Sep 1, 2014, 08:44 AM
bvf (6,604 posts)
61. Good luck on the interview! n/t
Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Mon Sep 1, 2014, 11:08 AM
nolabear (40,921 posts)
62. We'll keep a light on. Good luck with the job search!
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Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Mon Sep 1, 2014, 12:18 PM
GoneOffShore (16,871 posts)
64. Good luck with the job interview!
Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Mon Sep 1, 2014, 12:31 PM
yardwork (55,957 posts)
65. Good luck! Hope you find a great job soon.
Response to MarianJack (Original post)
Mon Sep 1, 2014, 04:42 PM
shireen (8,333 posts)
67. Good luck
I really hope you get a job you like soon, and return to a normal life. Take care.
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