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DonViejo

(60,536 posts)
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 12:00 PM Aug 2014

Baby, I'm Yours...

Thirty-seven years ago, April 12, 1977 to be exact, a blind date arranged by a mutual friend, brought David and I together. Today, after travelling through life's peaks, valleys, a national controversy, and the adoption of a sibling group of four boys, we're ready for the next step. Tomorrow, at 11 a.m., Dave and I will be legally married in a private ceremony at which three of our four sons will be present. The fourth won't be able to attend solely because he just started a new job at a community college in AZ two weeks ago. Drove himself from our home in Massachusetts to AZ, and he's settling in there. He graduated from the University of Mass last May (with a degree in Political Science, no less)

This one's for David, my legal husband as of manana but the love of my life all these many years:



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Baby, I'm Yours... (Original Post) DonViejo Aug 2014 OP
Congratulations to you and David! pinboy3niner Aug 2014 #1
Best wishes for you, and your imminent husband, David. Very cool. Mnemosyne Aug 2014 #2
Congratulations to you and David! greatauntoftriplets Aug 2014 #3
Congratulations to you and David, and my best wishes for a wonderful rest of your lives together! nt ChisolmTrailDem Aug 2014 #4
Beautiful, congratulations! MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #5
That is a wonderful story! bluesbassman Aug 2014 #6
Warmest congratulations! Your love has stood the test of time. Shrike47 Aug 2014 #7
Mazel Tov! Kber Aug 2014 #8
Well, it's about time. malthaussen Aug 2014 #9
Congratulations and you and Dave have many many more happy years azurnoir Aug 2014 #10
True love is the ..... N_E_1 for Tennis Aug 2014 #11
Congratulations and many more happy years together. Skidmore Aug 2014 #12
You couldn't leave well enough alone could you? packman Aug 2014 #13
Awww, I wish you both so much happiness! babylonsister Aug 2014 #14
Congratulations to you and David !! Tuesday Afternoon Aug 2014 #15
Congratulations mcar Aug 2014 #16
Congratulations! nt msanthrope Aug 2014 #17
Big K&R, DonViejo and David!! Sissyk Aug 2014 #18
What a fantastic story! yallerdawg Aug 2014 #19
Congrats--here's the original version.... panader0 Aug 2014 #20
That was my favorite for years and years and years until I came across the DonViejo Aug 2014 #25
YAY...congratulations... Tikki Aug 2014 #21
{{{{{Don Viejo and David}}}}} lapislzi Aug 2014 #22
Congratulations! Very inspiring love story! deurbano Aug 2014 #23
This message was self-deleted by its author DonViejo Aug 2014 #26
May you have many happy years. shraby Aug 2014 #24
Wow, that's wonderful BrotherIvan Aug 2014 #27
Our third oldest son likes to write rap/hip hop songs... DonViejo Aug 2014 #30
Ok, that got me teary BrotherIvan Aug 2014 #32
Congratulations!! handmade34 Aug 2014 #34
Congratulations! Wishing you and David many, many livetohike Aug 2014 #28
Congrats! valerief Aug 2014 #29
Okay, I am TOTALLY crying!! Congratulations on your amazing fortune to be with your soulmate! DesertDiamond Aug 2014 #31
Many hugs & Congratulations! Ilsa Aug 2014 #33
The fourth won't be able to attend solely because he just DonViejo Aug 2014 #35
Best Wishes KT2000 Aug 2014 #36
Congratulations! Thanks for sharing your joyful news. LiberalAndProud Aug 2014 #37
Kicked and recommended! Enthusiast Aug 2014 #38
I am literally crying! What wonders this world holds! raven mad Aug 2014 #39
Blessings on you and yours today, tomorrow and always. redwitch Aug 2014 #40
WOW! Congrats to you and David! Triana Aug 2014 #41
This is so great Don. joshcryer Aug 2014 #42
Congrats, DonViejo! I sincerely wish you guys the best of luck. =) AverageJoe90 Aug 2014 #43
Congratulations! etherealtruth Aug 2014 #44
Congratulations! Quayblue Aug 2014 #45
Congrats malaise Aug 2014 #46
Congratulations! Here's a toast to you both and another 37 wonderful years together. KittyWampus Aug 2014 #47
Congratulation, David and Don! Cha Aug 2014 #48
Ah Yes.. we need a toast, Don! Cha Aug 2014 #49
AW! I am so happy for you ~ Raffi Ella Aug 2014 #50
Don and David! sheshe2 Aug 2014 #51
Congrats to you and David Louisiana1976 Aug 2014 #52
Bless you both. WinkyDink Aug 2014 #53
Congratulations !!!! n/t GP6971 Aug 2014 #54
Congrats and best wishes! MineralMan Aug 2014 #55
Thanks for making my day! littlemissmartypants Aug 2014 #56
Mazel tov! shenmue Aug 2014 #57
Congrats! LloydS of New London Aug 2014 #58
congratulation unapatriciated Aug 2014 #59
Congradulations irisblue Aug 2014 #60
Congrats davidpdx Aug 2014 #61
Yes! In fact, we just finished making the plans to do just that!... DonViejo Aug 2014 #62
Great! davidpdx Aug 2014 #63
Congratulations! A Little Weird Aug 2014 #64
that's fantastic! passiveporcupine Aug 2014 #65
Officially my favorite thread rec ever. Barack_America Aug 2014 #66
PS, my best friend of 30 years was also born on 4/12/77. Barack_America Aug 2014 #73
Congratulations! nt tblue37 Aug 2014 #67
Congratulations! Prophet 451 Aug 2014 #68
congrats !! unionthug777 Aug 2014 #69
wow. great news. Doctor_J Aug 2014 #70
Mazel tov Gothmog Aug 2014 #71
Congrats! Lugnut Aug 2014 #72
Oh my gosh... such great news. OKNancy Aug 2014 #74
Congrats! ctsnowman Aug 2014 #75
37 years? ReRe Aug 2014 #76
All the best to you both NikolaC Aug 2014 #77
It's wonderful, it's marvelous Loki Aug 2014 #78

N_E_1 for Tennis

(9,664 posts)
11. True love is the .....
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 12:50 PM
Aug 2014

most awesome (thing) feeling in the world.
Met mine when I was sixteen, still together.


Here's the math. I'm 63.

 

packman

(16,296 posts)
13. You couldn't leave well enough alone could you?
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 12:53 PM
Aug 2014

Well, welcome to the ranks of blissful marriage. Happy times, trying times, peaceful times, and many, many joyful times ahead.

babylonsister

(171,035 posts)
14. Awww, I wish you both so much happiness!
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 12:54 PM
Aug 2014

You're all really lucky you found each other!

Congratulations!

Sissyk

(12,665 posts)
18. Big K&R, DonViejo and David!!
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 01:07 PM
Aug 2014

This is absolutely awe inspiring to me. A long lasting loving relationship and final able to tie the knot.

Here's to many more for you both.

To Don and David!

DonViejo

(60,536 posts)
25. That was my favorite for years and years and years until I came across the
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 01:36 PM
Aug 2014

one I posted a couple years ago. Now they're both my faves. If you look for the recording on YouTube you'll find recordings of Barbara Lewis performing on cruise ships just a few years ago

deurbano

(2,894 posts)
23. Congratulations! Very inspiring love story!
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 01:25 PM
Aug 2014

You were true pioneers! I am so happy you were able to go on to adopt. Did Ben Haith or any of the others ever apologize?

Response to deurbano (Reply #23)

BrotherIvan

(9,126 posts)
27. Wow, that's wonderful
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 01:41 PM
Aug 2014

Your story is amazing and I wish you all the best. How wonderful to see their dads finally get married!

DonViejo

(60,536 posts)
30. Our third oldest son likes to write rap/hip hop songs...
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 02:01 PM
Aug 2014

this is one of his that he wrote last year:

I had a modern family before modern family

Let me tell you a story
I was so young my life filled with worry
Parent ain't home got left at the crib
Me and my brothers we were just kids
Still trying to figure out how did this happen
Talking to god questions i'm asking
Like why did this happen to us
Why couldnt my parents put down that stuff
But you know what they say blessings decide
August 94 changed the rest of our lives
Thats the day my dads adopted
All of a sudden i ain't feel forgotten
They took us in treated us right
Gave us everything they had but they didn't even have rights


I owe everything all to my dads
For the type of upbringing i had
They taught me what's wrong taught me what's right
Taught me to have goals and never lose sight
Taught me alot.
lessons i've learned
Like trust ain't just given its something you earn
Thats something i'll take with me forever
They said do your best but you can always do better

BrotherIvan

(9,126 posts)
32. Ok, that got me teary
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 02:08 PM
Aug 2014

WOW. What proud parents you must be. You're all so lucky to have found each other. I read the article about your court case, and couldn't imagine how emotionally stressful it was. You definitely earned your happiness the hard way and thank you for sharing it!

DonViejo

(60,536 posts)
35. The fourth won't be able to attend solely because he just
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 02:33 PM
Aug 2014

started a new job at a community college in AZ two weeks ago. Drove himself from our home in Massachusetts to AZ, and he's settling in there. He graduated from the University of Mass last May (with a degree in Political Science, no less)

Enthusiast

(50,983 posts)
38. Kicked and recommended!
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 06:17 PM
Aug 2014

Way to go, DonViejo! I hope you and David are very very happy forever and ever. Congratulations!

redwitch

(14,941 posts)
40. Blessings on you and yours today, tomorrow and always.
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 06:33 PM
Aug 2014

What an incredible story you share with David and your children, I am in awe ( and tears )! Have a very happy wedding day Don!

Cha

(296,848 posts)
48. Congratulation, David and Don!
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 08:12 PM
Aug 2014

I'm so happy for you!



What a rich rewarding life leading up into Tomorrow.. you must be so excited, Don!

littlemissmartypants

(22,588 posts)
56. Thanks for making my day!
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 08:54 PM
Aug 2014

All the best to you both on yours.

Love, Peace and the Righteous Fight!
~ littlemissmartypants

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
61. Congrats
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 10:31 PM
Aug 2014

Is there anyway that someone with a camera phone that has Skype can connect with your son in AZ? Just an idea.

DonViejo

(60,536 posts)
62. Yes! In fact, we just finished making the plans to do just that!...
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 10:35 PM
Aug 2014

Thanks for the idea though! Much appreciated!

passiveporcupine

(8,175 posts)
65. that's fantastic!
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 11:48 PM
Aug 2014

Congrat's to you both. Now you will have wedding anniversaries to look forward to as well! May the rest of your life together be blessed.

We need a toast smiley with champagne glasses.

Prophet 451

(9,796 posts)
68. Congratulations!
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 07:03 AM
Aug 2014

May you and he have a long and happy life together. Blessings be upon you and your family.

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