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Thirty-seven years ago, April 12, 1977 to be exact, a blind date arranged by a mutual friend, brought David and I together. Today, after travelling through life's peaks, valleys, a national controversy, and the adoption of a sibling group of four boys, we're ready for the next step. Tomorrow, at 11 a.m., Dave and I will be legally married in a private ceremony at which three of our four sons will be present. The fourth won't be able to attend solely because he just started a new job at a community college in AZ two weeks ago. Drove himself from our home in Massachusetts to AZ, and he's settling in there. He graduated from the University of Mass last May (with a degree in Political Science, no less)
This one's for David, my legal husband as of manana but the love of my life all these many years:
pinboy3niner
(53,339 posts)Mnemosyne
(21,363 posts)greatauntoftriplets
(175,729 posts)Have a wonderful day and many more years of happiness together.
ChisolmTrailDem
(9,463 posts)MerryBlooms
(11,757 posts)bluesbassman
(19,361 posts)And it's not done yet! Congratulations!
Shrike47
(6,913 posts)Kber
(5,043 posts)malthaussen
(17,175 posts)I thought you two would never tie the knot.
-- Mal
azurnoir
(45,850 posts)N_E_1 for Tennis
(9,664 posts)most awesome (thing) feeling in the world.
Met mine when I was sixteen, still together.
Here's the math. I'm 63.
Skidmore
(37,364 posts)Best wishes to you both.
packman
(16,296 posts)Well, welcome to the ranks of blissful marriage. Happy times, trying times, peaceful times, and many, many joyful times ahead.
babylonsister
(171,035 posts)You're all really lucky you found each other!
Congratulations!
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)mcar
(42,278 posts)To you, David and your family. Hope its a wonderful celebration!
msanthrope
(37,549 posts)Sissyk
(12,665 posts)This is absolutely awe inspiring to me. A long lasting loving relationship and final able to tie the knot.
Here's to many more for you both.
To Don and David!
yallerdawg
(16,104 posts)Thank you for sharing, and congratulations!
panader0
(25,816 posts)DonViejo
(60,536 posts)one I posted a couple years ago. Now they're both my faves. If you look for the recording on YouTube you'll find recordings of Barbara Lewis performing on cruise ships just a few years ago
Tikki
(14,549 posts)Tikki
lapislzi
(5,762 posts)Wishing you joy as you continue on your journey.
deurbano
(2,894 posts)You were true pioneers! I am so happy you were able to go on to adopt. Did Ben Haith or any of the others ever apologize?
Response to deurbano (Reply #23)
DonViejo This message was self-deleted by its author.
shraby
(21,946 posts)BrotherIvan
(9,126 posts)Your story is amazing and I wish you all the best. How wonderful to see their dads finally get married!
DonViejo
(60,536 posts)this is one of his that he wrote last year:
I had a modern family before modern family
Let me tell you a story
I was so young my life filled with worry
Parent ain't home got left at the crib
Me and my brothers we were just kids
Still trying to figure out how did this happen
Talking to god questions i'm asking
Like why did this happen to us
Why couldnt my parents put down that stuff
But you know what they say blessings decide
August 94 changed the rest of our lives
Thats the day my dads adopted
All of a sudden i ain't feel forgotten
They took us in treated us right
Gave us everything they had but they didn't even have rights
I owe everything all to my dads
For the type of upbringing i had
They taught me what's wrong taught me what's right
Taught me to have goals and never lose sight
Taught me alot.
lessons i've learned
Like trust ain't just given its something you earn
Thats something i'll take with me forever
They said do your best but you can always do better
BrotherIvan
(9,126 posts)WOW. What proud parents you must be. You're all so lucky to have found each other. I read the article about your court case, and couldn't imagine how emotionally stressful it was. You definitely earned your happiness the hard way and thank you for sharing it!
handmade34
(22,756 posts)and give your rapper son a big hug
livetohike
(22,123 posts)years of happiness .
valerief
(53,235 posts)DesertDiamond
(1,616 posts)Ilsa
(61,690 posts)I'm glad 3/4 of your boys will be there with you.
DonViejo
(60,536 posts)started a new job at a community college in AZ two weeks ago. Drove himself from our home in Massachusetts to AZ, and he's settling in there. He graduated from the University of Mass last May (with a degree in Political Science, no less)
KT2000
(20,568 posts)for a fun day! Of all the peaks and valleys - this is definitely a peak!
LiberalAndProud
(12,799 posts)Enthusiast
(50,983 posts)Way to go, DonViejo! I hope you and David are very very happy forever and ever. Congratulations!
raven mad
(4,940 posts)redwitch
(14,941 posts)What an incredible story you share with David and your children, I am in awe ( and tears )! Have a very happy wedding day Don!
Triana
(22,666 posts)joshcryer
(62,266 posts)You're a gem.
AverageJoe90
(10,745 posts)etherealtruth
(22,165 posts)Quayblue
(1,045 posts)malaise
(268,702 posts)KittyWampus
(55,894 posts)Cha
(296,848 posts)I'm so happy for you!
What a rich rewarding life leading up into Tomorrow.. you must be so excited, Don!
Cha
(296,848 posts)Raffi Ella
(4,465 posts)sheshe2
(83,654 posts)Congratulations to you both and your family~
Louisiana1976
(3,962 posts)WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)GP6971
(31,110 posts)MineralMan
(146,255 posts)littlemissmartypants
(22,588 posts)All the best to you both on yours.
Love, Peace and the Righteous Fight!
~ littlemissmartypants
shenmue
(38,506 posts)LloydS of New London
(355 posts)unapatriciated
(5,390 posts)Hubby made this vid for our first anniversary, hope you enjoy it.
irisblue
(32,929 posts)May you have many more happy years.
davidpdx
(22,000 posts)Is there anyway that someone with a camera phone that has Skype can connect with your son in AZ? Just an idea.
DonViejo
(60,536 posts)Thanks for the idea though! Much appreciated!
davidpdx
(22,000 posts)Glad to hear it! Good luck with the ceremony.
A Little Weird
(1,754 posts)passiveporcupine
(8,175 posts)Congrat's to you both. Now you will have wedding anniversaries to look forward to as well! May the rest of your life together be blessed.
We need a toast smiley with champagne glasses.
Barack_America
(28,876 posts)Best wishes and joy to your lovely family.
Barack_America
(28,876 posts)So that was a pretty awesome day for me too!
tblue37
(65,227 posts)Prophet 451
(9,796 posts)May you and he have a long and happy life together. Blessings be upon you and your family.
unionthug777
(740 posts)live long and prosper.
Doctor_J
(36,392 posts)Congratulations
Gothmog
(144,923 posts)Lugnut
(9,791 posts)That's great! We want pictures!
OKNancy
(41,832 posts)All the best my friend.
ctsnowman
(1,903 posts)ReRe
(10,597 posts)It's about time, DonViejo! Congratulations to you both, Don and David.
NikolaC
(1,276 posts)Congrats!
Loki
(3,825 posts)You two were meant to be