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BeHereNow

(17,162 posts)
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 07:42 PM Apr 2012

Okay, this is REALLY messed up- refuse to hand over your FB password? You are FIRED!

http://news.yahoo.com/blogs/technology-blog/grade-school-teacher-aide-fired-refusing-hand-over-172305406.html

"Kimberly Hester, a grade school teacher's aide in Michigan, was fired for refusing to hand over her Facebook password to her supervisors. Hester posted a picture of a co-workers' shoes and pants bunched around her ankles on Facebook in April 2011 with the caption, "Thinking of you." She posted the picture in jest, but a parent who's on her Facebook friend list saw the image and reported it to Frank Squires Elementary where Hester was employed, prompting the investigation."

I hope she sues the hell out of that district.

BHN
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Okay, this is REALLY messed up- refuse to hand over your FB password? You are FIRED! (Original Post) BeHereNow Apr 2012 OP
Shadow account. alphafemale Apr 2012 #1
Don't have an account period, MadHound Apr 2012 #4
We can count on you to defend the 1st amendment FreakinDJ Apr 2012 #5
Not sure I get your point, can you make it a bit clearer? n/t MadHound Apr 2012 #7
The school district is intimidating her from practicing her right to free speech FreakinDJ Apr 2012 #13
Would you forfeit your job over this issue? Might be hard to support your family with no job. nt ladjf Apr 2012 #18
The tree of liberty... derby378 Apr 2012 #20
The school system most definitely has no right, legal or otherwise to access ones personal ladjf Apr 2012 #25
If there were more people w the courage of their convictions America would be in far better shape. Doremus Apr 2012 #30
Why not ? I work contract to contract as it is now FreakinDJ Apr 2012 #43
One thing that makes me crazy is how businesses Warpy Apr 2012 #9
That I'm sure is part of the FB 'contract' jp11 Apr 2012 #17
I imagine your position would be the same LanternWaste Apr 2012 #54
Facebook deletes those once they find out about them. Friend used her maiden name instead of Justice wanted Apr 2012 #23
As long as it is not public... YellowRubberDuckie Apr 2012 #2
So true- her private life is just that- PRIVATE. BeHereNow Apr 2012 #10
Hmm... That's an interesting perspective. FBaggins Apr 2012 #14
If the person's face wasn't shown or the identity was not clear, then it's harmless and there's no NoMoreWarNow Apr 2012 #24
I disagree. FBaggins Apr 2012 #26
From what I'm understanding it's no different than someone looking down at the stall space to see Justice wanted Apr 2012 #31
What if the shoes or skirt is easily identifiable? nt Snake Alchemist Apr 2012 #32
IT WAS A PAIR OF PANTS and REALLY can you figure out who the person is just by a pair of pants and Justice wanted Apr 2012 #35
of my coworkers, yes. nt Snake Alchemist Apr 2012 #37
Especially if you so label it. FBaggins Apr 2012 #44
It was given to her by the co-worker, and posted with permission muriel_volestrangler Apr 2012 #47
Good... then at least it isn't illegal. FBaggins Apr 2012 #49
The 'tasteless' part is subjective muriel_volestrangler Apr 2012 #50
Actually, they can. Michigan is an "employment at will" state. WillowTree Apr 2012 #21
I do believe that even in "at will" states, if an employer fires an employee "for cause" and 1monster Apr 2012 #36
There is no free speech issue here. FBaggins Apr 2012 #42
Except her employer is the goverment. Angleae Apr 2012 #46
I only used "free speech" as an example. There are other protected things 1monster Apr 2012 #51
I hope she contacts Facebook cause I think they are looking for a test case like this. n/t teddy51 Apr 2012 #3
Agree! I hope they help her lawyer up ($$$$) BeHereNow Apr 2012 #6
This Is Why....... rsmith6621 Apr 2012 #8
That was my thought. RebelOne Apr 2012 #12
and legally that is true because Facebook hosts the info... slampoet Apr 2012 #40
Ask for their password. Shankapotomus Apr 2012 #11
Fourth Amendment Kencorburn Apr 2012 #15
Is it illegal to take a picture of someone in a bathroom stall and post it? Chemisse Apr 2012 #16
In Michigan, yes. FBaggins Apr 2012 #45
Giving others your FB password is a violation of the TOS agreement Canuckistanian Apr 2012 #19
Solution Aerows Apr 2012 #22
I agree Skittles Apr 2012 #27
Why people would go near that Facebook using their own name is beyond me. nt MADem Apr 2012 #28
I agree. That's why I only post using your name. Orrex Apr 2012 #29
Oooooh! I'll have to return the favor! MADem Apr 2012 #38
I'm wondering how the school considers this different from LiberalFighter Apr 2012 #33
Shh... jmowreader Apr 2012 #34
Number Four is the Law of the Land in Germany, you know. MADem Apr 2012 #39
Not the same muriel_volestrangler Apr 2012 #48
Reason #749 why I don't have a Facebook account (or anything like it). Johnny Rico Apr 2012 #41
Because you might accidentally post an embarrassing picture? randome Apr 2012 #52
No, I simply don't use *any* of the social media. Johnny Rico Apr 2012 #53
 

MadHound

(34,179 posts)
4. Don't have an account period,
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 07:51 PM
Apr 2012

Facebook is not some benign entity enabling people to mix and mingle on line. It is a ruthless business engaged in making money by selling personal information. Sure, a shadow account will work for now, but in a few years expect an upgrade that will tie you to whatever shadow account you have.

The best way to handle this is to opt out of everything Facebook. If you want to keep in touch with people, email, snail mail, phone are the best bets.

 

FreakinDJ

(17,644 posts)
13. The school district is intimidating her from practicing her right to free speech
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 08:24 PM
Apr 2012

you are simularly advising against her Right to practice Free speech

and I am well aware of what Facebook and countless other corporations do. That is not the point.

derby378

(30,252 posts)
20. The tree of liberty...
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 09:13 PM
Apr 2012

...must be watered from time to time with the blood of patriots and tyrants.

Besides, Facebook specifically prohibits you from divulging your password, right? Just tell you boss he's breaking the law if he demands your password and show him a copy of the Facebook Terms and Conditions. And have an attorney's number on speeddial.

ladjf

(17,320 posts)
25. The school system most definitely has no right, legal or otherwise to access ones personal
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 09:25 PM
Apr 2012

documents. That is not the issue. Yes, one might beat the school in a court of law. But, that's
a protracted and slippery slope for anyone who isn't wealthy.

I will be more specific with my question. If you were the sole bread winner, married with children
and have modest savings, would you put yourself on the unemployed list, placing your family is serious financial jeopardy, just in the brave hopes that you would be successful in beating the system?

If your answer is yes, that is your decision. I would pull for you and your people while you were engaged in the legal battle.

Doremus

(7,261 posts)
30. If there were more people w the courage of their convictions America would be in far better shape.
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 10:02 PM
Apr 2012

The "I got mine so tough noogies to you" attitude that has permeated society (aka I'm the breadwinner with mouths to feed, yadda yadda) will be our undoing.

I, for one, do not question anyone who stands up to power, I just thank dog they do.

Warpy

(111,233 posts)
9. One thing that makes me crazy is how businesses
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 07:58 PM
Apr 2012

have largely tied themselves to FB. If you want information about products or if you want to contact them, you're forced to sign up for that service.

Uh, no thanks. I rejected FB a couple of years ago because I didn't like their Swiss cheese security.

Oh, and giving an employer one's password? That's like allowing a video camera in your bedroom and allowing them to fit you with a wire to tape all your conversations ever day. Some things belong to private lives and social media are one of those things.

And yes, I hope she sues the hell out of them and that this policy is stopped dead in its tracks.

jp11

(2,104 posts)
17. That I'm sure is part of the FB 'contract'
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 09:04 PM
Apr 2012

setup services/deals/etc with FB and only FB or we won't let you gain access to our millions of 'clients' and all the information we collect about them as they hand over detail and detail of their lives, interests, shopping trends, etc.

As someone who has never had a FB account I find more and more things are FB only and companies I had relationships with jumped onto the FB boat sharing my and other customers information with them I'm sure. So while I don't have a FB account FB has some of my information through all their partnership deals and just about anyone else that does things online with any of their partners.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
54. I imagine your position would be the same
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 04:27 PM
Apr 2012

I imagine your position would be the same should your employers ask for your DU login and password, yes?

If nothing else, at least non-DUers could also righteously proclaim, "Don't have an account period..."

Justice wanted

(2,657 posts)
23. Facebook deletes those once they find out about them. Friend used her maiden name instead of
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 09:18 PM
Apr 2012

her married name. Her account was closed when someone posted a picture on their acount with her married name.

YellowRubberDuckie

(19,736 posts)
2. As long as it is not public...
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 07:49 PM
Apr 2012

...and she isn't having inappropriate relationships with her students, they really can't do this. Regardless of if she says where she is employed, she is allowed to have a life outside of school. That is just ridiculous.

BeHereNow

(17,162 posts)
10. So true- her private life is just that- PRIVATE.
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 07:58 PM
Apr 2012

The parent who brought her personal life to the attention
of the district violated her trust and privacy and is an ASSHOLE-
I hope FB kicks the parent off of their site.

BHN

FBaggins

(26,727 posts)
14. Hmm... That's an interesting perspective.
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 08:56 PM
Apr 2012

I infer from the story that she took a photo of another woman in a restroom stall and posted it in public.

I'm not sure that she's safe from civil/criminal prosecution... But I am sure that she doesn't have a hypocritical leg to stand on whining about her private life.

 

NoMoreWarNow

(1,259 posts)
24. If the person's face wasn't shown or the identity was not clear, then it's harmless and there's no
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 09:24 PM
Apr 2012

reason for the school to ask for her info. It's insane.

FBaggins

(26,727 posts)
26. I disagree.
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 09:32 PM
Apr 2012

You can't take a photo of a person in the restroom and call it "harmless".

Now... the employer's "right" to investigate is questionable (though if it's the school restroom that too might be different)... but I certainly wouldn't want her teaching my kids. That level of poor judgement usually isnt isolated to a single incident.

A teen taking photos over the tops of bathroom stalls and posting them online would be suspended... wouldnt they?

Justice wanted

(2,657 posts)
31. From what I'm understanding it's no different than someone looking down at the stall space to see
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 10:51 PM
Apr 2012

that the stall is occupied.

FBaggins

(26,727 posts)
44. Especially if you so label it.
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 05:37 AM
Apr 2012

If you post it to the target of the photo, people don't have to guess very hard.

If the photo that has been released is accurate, the shoes most certainly are identifiable. And from the reporting you can see that they know who the target is.

If the photo was taken without permission, this could very well be a felony.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,295 posts)
47. It was given to her by the co-worker, and posted with permission
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 06:26 AM
Apr 2012
Hester, 27, was a full-time peer professional, or teacher's aide, at Frank Squires Elementary in Cassapolis, Mich. for about two years. A year ago, in April 2011, a coworker texted a photo showing herself with her pants around her ankles, with the message "thinking of you" as a joke.

"She's actually quite funny. It was spur of the moment," adding that there was nothing pornographic about the picture, which only showed the pants, part of her legs, and the tips of her shoes.

"I couldn't stop laughing so I asked for her permission to post it (on Facebook)," she said. The coworker agreed. Hester said all this took place on their own time, not at or during work.

Hester said a parent (not of one of her students) showed the photo to the superintendent, calling it unprofessional and offensive. Hester said the photo could only be viewed by her Facebook friends. The parent happened to be a family friend.

http://abcnews.go.com/Business/michigan-teacher-disciplined-providing-access-facebook-page/story?id=16056231#.T3rPbKjaKSo


So this is nothing to do with privacy. It's about whether a family 'friend' (some friend, I'd say, if they complain to the school about this) has the right to demand school action about what a private group sees from a school employee, and whether the school has the right to regulate out-of-school behaviour of that type.

FBaggins

(26,727 posts)
49. Good... then at least it isn't illegal.
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 06:36 AM
Apr 2012

Tasteless... but not illegal.

Your link also fleshes out the story some. She wasn't fired (though the friend who did take the photo resigned). Nor was she asked for her password, she was asked to show them her facebook page. Less intrusive, though still questionable.

The refusal to allow union representation at the meeting and her later treatment seem more offensive to me than asking to see a facebook account.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,295 posts)
50. The 'tasteless' part is subjective
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 08:23 AM
Apr 2012

Her later treatment would probably be called 'constructive dismissal' in the UK - bullying and unreasonable behaviour to coerce the person into quitting. And what they did to the co-worker in the photo also sounds like constructive dismissal (who, of course, couldn't grant access to the private group anyway).

WillowTree

(5,325 posts)
21. Actually, they can. Michigan is an "employment at will" state.
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 09:14 PM
Apr 2012

They can fire her for any non-discriminatory reason.

1monster

(11,012 posts)
36. I do believe that even in "at will" states, if an employer fires an employee "for cause" and
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 11:17 PM
Apr 2012

that cause is protected, for example, free speech or labor rights issues, the employee can legally sue the pants off the employer... and can win.

FBaggins

(26,727 posts)
42. There is no free speech issue here.
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 05:28 AM
Apr 2012

And you most certainly can fire someone for things that we would consider free speech. The first amendment keeps the government to silencing you... It doesn't require your employer to continue your employment.

1monster

(11,012 posts)
51. I only used "free speech" as an example. There are other protected things
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 04:08 PM
Apr 2012

for which employers are prohibited from firing employees; things that may be revealed on facebook, even...

BeHereNow

(17,162 posts)
6. Agree! I hope they help her lawyer up ($$$$)
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 07:56 PM
Apr 2012

I also hope the parent who "alerted" on her is identified.
What a jerk.

BHN

rsmith6621

(6,942 posts)
8. This Is Why.......
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 07:58 PM
Apr 2012


The name on my Facebook page is spelled phonetically and my city is the nearest metro city I live next to. Also I keep my images to a minimum.

Heaven forbid they find it I speak strong political opinion...so if they were to ASK I just say no I don't have a Facebook account, next question..

RebelOne

(30,947 posts)
12. That was my thought.
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 08:12 PM
Apr 2012

If asked, I would say I did not have a Facebook account. I don't have anything to worry about now as I am not working any longer. But that would be my response if I was asked for my password.

slampoet

(5,032 posts)
40. and legally that is true because Facebook hosts the info...
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 11:58 PM
Apr 2012

so how can you HAVE something that isn't on your computer?

Shankapotomus

(4,840 posts)
11. Ask for their password.
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 08:03 PM
Apr 2012

If they ask for your password just say "sure" but tell them you are also particular about who you work for and will be needing the passwords to the facebook accounts of the president and chief officers of the company as well as the interviewer's. If they don't comply ask them what are they hiding?

Chemisse

(30,807 posts)
16. Is it illegal to take a picture of someone in a bathroom stall and post it?
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 09:03 PM
Apr 2012

Probably not, if the person was not photographed in the nude, but it certainly could be considered workplace harassment. I think this is worthy of investigation, but asking for her Facebook password was probably not the best way to approach it.

FBaggins

(26,727 posts)
45. In Michigan, yes.
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 05:43 AM
Apr 2012

I think that people are getting caught up in the Facebook side of the story... And ignoring what led up to it.

If you read a story about someone taking photos of people in the bathroom and sticking them up on the breakroom wall... You probably would have a different reaction than what we've seen so far.

Canuckistanian

(42,290 posts)
19. Giving others your FB password is a violation of the TOS agreement
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 09:12 PM
Apr 2012

And FB has made it clear that it disapproves, up to the point of legal action. Not because of the member that gave the password, but for the friends of that member.

If FB loses privacy confidence, it could mean the loss of MILLIONS of dollars of potential personal data.

And we can't have that, can we?

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
22. Solution
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 09:15 PM
Apr 2012

Don't use Facebook. I wouldn't if my life depended upon it, and it looks more obviously every day that it does.

Skittles

(153,138 posts)
27. I agree
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 09:51 PM
Apr 2012

and I gotta tell you, seeing a LIKE US ON FACEBOOK! sign in a restaurant toilet stall wall made me SO happy with my decision to have NOTHING TO DO with that piece of SHIT site

Orrex

(63,195 posts)
29. I agree. That's why I only post using your name.
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 09:59 PM
Apr 2012

And some of the stuff that you've post is waaaaay over the top.

LiberalFighter

(50,847 posts)
33. I'm wondering how the school considers this different from
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 11:02 PM
Apr 2012

1) handing over the keys to the teacher's home or car?
2) allowing access to their bank or credit cards?
3) who they vote for in the general election?
4) providing church attendance records and tithing amounts?
5) requiring a daily log on the tv shows watched?
6) providing if they are using birth control?

MADem

(135,425 posts)
39. Number Four is the Law of the Land in Germany, you know.
Mon Apr 2, 2012, 11:47 PM
Apr 2012

If you are a member of a church, you put it on your tax form and the state takes out the money from your income and gives it to the church. They do it in other countries, too.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Church_tax

muriel_volestrangler

(101,295 posts)
48. Not the same
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 06:34 AM
Apr 2012

The person can say 'no church', and that's the end of the matter. You only give the name of the church you attend if you want to give money to it.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
52. Because you might accidentally post an embarrassing picture?
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 04:13 PM
Apr 2012

Seriously, why are people so holier-than-thou about Facebook? Don't use it if you don't want to but why disparage people who do?

It's the younger generation's means of communication. And many other people's. They don't need our approval.

 

Johnny Rico

(1,438 posts)
53. No, I simply don't use *any* of the social media.
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 04:24 PM
Apr 2012
Don't use it if you don't want to but why disparage people who do?

How does expressing my dislike of Facebook disparage anyone?
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