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Bodies of 800 babies, long-dead, found in septic tank at former Irish home for unwed mothers (Original Post) StevieM Jun 2014 OP
History can add 800 more to the long list of those who died at the hands of the Catholic Church. Arugula Latte Jun 2014 #1
I'm horrified JustAnotherGen Jun 2014 #2
Sinead O'Connor was correct PNW_Dem Jun 2014 #65
Yes. Ghost Dog Jun 2014 #127
Judged way too soon. n/t hollysmom Jun 2014 #201
This is horrific... joeybee12 Jun 2014 #3
Frightening how a twisted sense of religion teaches the mind to see these children as less than Jefferson23 Jun 2014 #4
The mothers were seen as less than human too. They were "sinners." And most of them were StevieM Jun 2014 #5
Oh absolutely, that is where it began. Horrific story. The children who were sent to America, was Jefferson23 Jun 2014 #9
I think it varied from family to family StevieM Jun 2014 #121
Criminal, really. No, I have not seen the film and was not aware of the back story..thank you for Jefferson23 Jun 2014 #133
??? whathehell Jun 2014 #160
There is a long history of willful ignorance that has accompanied forced adoptions. StevieM Jun 2014 #176
You forget that many, if not most, in that time, were not "forced", it whathehell Jun 2014 #182
That's the point. Our goal was a 100% relinquishment rate. It was the expected norm. StevieM Jun 2014 #195
Philomena was a real eye opener. I was expecting something lighter but boy, was I wrong! CTyankee Jun 2014 #218
The Church: the original slut shamers RainDog Jun 2014 #6
Religion shames sex Lex Jun 2014 #7
and it ascribes carnality to women. BlancheSplanchnik Jun 2014 #26
My Mom, born during the depression told me hollysmom Jun 2014 #202
My God...that is all so sick. And still common around the world. And many people would love to StevieM Jun 2014 #203
my paternal grandmother died in the 50's. hollysmom Jun 2014 #232
Shouldn't this be in the religious room discussion group? rickford66 Jun 2014 #8
No. This is about the treatment of women and children RainDog Jun 2014 #10
Thank you. theHandpuppet Jun 2014 #32
+1. SammyWinstonJack Jun 2014 #85
Absolutely get the red out Jun 2014 #198
It is intaglio Jun 2014 #12
or not so constructive Go Vols Jun 2014 #219
No, it shouldn't be. Because this is not just about religion or the Catholic Church. StevieM Jun 2014 #13
Yeah, I'd want to hide it too, if I were an apologist. AtheistCrusader Jun 2014 #18
He asked a question..I don't see where he "apologized" for anything, whathehell Jun 2014 #163
He didn't. AtheistCrusader Jun 2014 #168
Then why did you call him an "apologist"? whathehell Jun 2014 #172
apologists don't apologize whatthehey Jun 2014 #180
I get it, bro..Seriously, I'm not that literal minded and in any case, whathehell Jun 2014 #188
So why did you claim he was not being an apologist? whatthehey Jun 2014 #199
I've already explained myself to whathehell Jun 2014 #208
Because it doesn't mean anything about 'apologizing' and has to do with burying threads where they AtheistCrusader Jun 2014 #181
Really?...Since when?..If that's the case, you should have used another word, whathehell Jun 2014 #186
I did. AtheistCrusader Jun 2014 #187
Not to me, bro.. whathehell Jun 2014 #189
"Which was a jab, not an actual accusation. The tactic is deplorable. I know rickford66 is not an AtheistCrusader Jun 2014 #190
Oh, I see whathehell Jun 2014 #194
Not what you thought. rickford66 Jun 2014 #184
No worries. It was an unfair insinuation. AtheistCrusader Jun 2014 #185
No harm done. rickford66 Jun 2014 #191
The Church was only one player in the Baby Scoop Era me b zola Jun 2014 #41
I'd never heard of her before RainDog Jun 2014 #51
You are very welcome me b zola Jun 2014 #57
Oh, she was a real gem. Bessie Bernard too (see my link in the post right below yours) StevieM Jun 2014 #60
Thank you for pointing this out. The values of the Baby Scoop Era were endemic in the StevieM Jun 2014 #55
Never knew this, words just fail. n/t Jefferson23 Jun 2014 #135
Thanks to you and others for this information RainDog Jun 2014 #240
The bible belt has that belt tightly wrapped around the necks of their poor children fasttense Jun 2014 #61
I had no idea. No idea. None. KittyWampus Jun 2014 #63
That's what gets me so angry...most people don't even know (see my post a little above, #60) StevieM Jun 2014 #67
The good news is that some states have unsealed their records. Gormy Cuss Jun 2014 #71
Yes, we ARE making progress! me b zola Jun 2014 #74
But the Church was a big player intaglio Jun 2014 #166
Thank you. whathehell Jun 2014 #169
Why? nt Logical Jun 2014 #90
Why, on Earth? Crunchy Frog Jun 2014 #99
why do you think it should? La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2014 #146
It speaks to society and hypocrisy malaise Jun 2014 #11
Thanks for referance rickyhall Jun 2014 #28
Manley was the best Prime Minister in Jamaican history malaise Jun 2014 #33
I have a cousin who has lived most of her life in Jamaica. mountain grammy Jun 2014 #141
Absolutely. jwirr Jun 2014 #88
Good thing we have religion and the church keeping us all moral... -eom gcomeau Jun 2014 #14
I wonder, fifty years from now if me b zola Jun 2014 #15
good point, and a very sad one. BlancheSplanchnik Jun 2014 #27
Caring enough to listen helps me b zola Jun 2014 #29
hug too BlancheSplanchnik Jun 2014 #42
That's exactly right. These women are nothing but whores to them. StevieM Jun 2014 #192
Awfull......The Church should be tried for crime against humanity. And sequestration. mylye2222 Jun 2014 #16
Would be wonderful to see that happen in a public way. toby jo Jun 2014 #21
I agree. This was genocide against the Irish. anneboleyn Jun 2014 #118
I'd say it should be tried for crimes, plural. Multiple, multiple crimes over centuries. Arugula Latte Jun 2014 #144
Ah, the stench of religious judgement. The bony finger of a Fake Cruel Jesus pointing out 'others'. byronius Jun 2014 #17
gawd, that's just... LittleGirl Jun 2014 #19
That's just it...they weren't human to some. The women were "whores" and the babies were "bastards" StevieM Jun 2014 #24
Canada has a sadly similar case, though not a church organized scheme OnlinePoker Jun 2014 #20
The Baby Scoop Era in Canada was absolutely ruthless StevieM Jun 2014 #22
And the Catholic church is against abortion but not outright mureder of babies once born. Hypocrits. jwirr Jun 2014 #89
That's as silly a LIE as saying that Georgia Tan's murders were a policy of the US govt. whathehell Jun 2014 #171
Says even MORE about how religion treats children defined as "bastards".... Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2014 #23
Remember, God is a loving deity Arugula Latte Jun 2014 #31
The septic tank was their baptism. Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2014 #35
You just perrectly summed up this story. Well done. Demo_Chris Jun 2014 #124
Because the child must be shamed even though the parents are the ones who broke church laws. Gormy Cuss Jun 2014 #73
I guess it goes back to the theory that EVERYONE is damned until they're "saved".... Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2014 #91
"Sins of the Fathers" pink-o Jun 2014 #238
Galway Historian Catherine Corless mackerel Jun 2014 #25
Horrific! Most of those babies weren't stillbirths, either. MineralMan Jun 2014 #30
How are you sure of that? rug Jun 2014 #92
Same way you're sure there's a deity, I guess. MineralMan Jun 2014 #95
Ah, you're hoping. rug Jun 2014 #97
I'm hoping for many things. MineralMan Jun 2014 #98
That's nice, but you need to distinguish your "hope" from actual facts. whathehell Jun 2014 #173
A cluster of 800 stillbirths? What the fuck was in the water? nt msanthrope Jun 2014 #105
And your sure explanation is what? rug Jun 2014 #106
My sure explanation is that the honor killings these children were subjected to by the Bon Secours msanthrope Jun 2014 #107
You are sure that 800 children were killed by nuns? rug Jun 2014 #109
I think that when 25% of the children entrusted to your care die of preventable and treatable msanthrope Jun 2014 #110
You said they were killed. rug Jun 2014 #111
The death records were made public, rug. So we know exactly how these 796 children died. msanthrope Jun 2014 #112
This story broke when Corless announced she had found the death records and could identify them. rug Jun 2014 #114
Why can't it be determined what happened to them by the cause of death listed on the death msanthrope Jun 2014 #131
Most of the bodies don't have death certificates as I read it. rug Jun 2014 #132
You do know that whathehell Jun 2014 #167
Who is claiming there were "800 stillbirths"?..The poster said there were NONE. whathehell Jun 2014 #177
Because it says... PeaceNikki Jun 2014 #134
It doesn't say "most". rug Jun 2014 #136
It doesn't mention ANY as stillbirths. PeaceNikki Jun 2014 #139
Actually, not much at all is known about these bodies. rug Jun 2014 #142
"Rhetoric" does not mean "things rug doesn't want to believe" PeaceNikki Jun 2014 #143
And it doesn't mean "Time to trot out PeaceNikki's talking points." rug Jun 2014 #145
hrm. odd. like what 'talking points'? that doesn't even make sense. PeaceNikki Jun 2014 #148
Yeah, whatever. rug Jun 2014 #151
no shit. PeaceNikki Jun 2014 #153
Do you consider this "rhetoric"? theHandpuppet Jun 2014 #155
No, that is specific to this story. rug Jun 2014 #157
I think me saying, "The church was responsible for horrible atrocities." is what pissed him off PeaceNikki Jun 2014 #161
it mentions NOTHING about stillbirths, so where the fuck are you making that up from? La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2014 #147
Amazing that there are DU church apologists for even this type of horror, isn't it? Arugula Latte Jun 2014 #149
i actually am fine if people say, maybe that number is normal for that time period La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2014 #154
This is "St. rug" defender of the oppressed Catholics. PeaceNikki Jun 2014 #162
LOL and maker-up of info, when current info does not suit existing beliefs. nt La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2014 #164
talking points!! PeaceNikki Jun 2014 #165
I see you still didn't find who brought up still births in the first place. rug Jun 2014 #175
It's good to get facts before running your mouth with your usual religion-baiting. rug Jun 2014 #174
dear st rug, PeaceNikki Jun 2014 #178
As soon as you use the correct name, nik. rug Jun 2014 #179
First of all, don't come flying in accusing me of making things "the fuck" up. rug Jun 2014 #150
i can come off any damn way i please. i dont think i need your permission. nt La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2014 #152
You can come off any danm way you want, no matter how asinine. rug Jun 2014 #156
i can also do it any where i please. you dont run this website, or my words. La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2014 #158
Oh, please. rug Jun 2014 #159
Yes, apparently, severe malnutrition, TB, untreated diseases, horrific skin conditions... anneboleyn Jun 2014 #115
A very sad situation. I find it terribly disturbing. MineralMan Jun 2014 #130
Further proof that religion poisons everything... truebrit71 Jun 2014 #34
More accurately, further proos that humanity poisons everything... LanternWaste Jun 2014 #58
How does this comport with the Church's strict "right to life" stance? frazzled Jun 2014 #36
I am interested to see just how much media coverage this story gets. StevieM Jun 2014 #43
Here's an article from the Irish Times (Dublin) theHandpuppet Jun 2014 #44
Thanks for link- unfortunately no comments. I wanted to read comments from Irish citizens reacting KittyWampus Jun 2014 #64
This grave was first found nearly 40 years ago. rug Jun 2014 #96
Well it appears they never thought they were remains from The Home... Eyerish Jun 2014 #230
That's a little clearer. rug Jun 2014 #231
Only that she is a local Historian from the area... Eyerish Jun 2014 #241
I'm trying to cut through the expected rhetoric around this and learn what happened rug Jun 2014 #242
Underscores how the REALLY important part of the anti-abortion folks is control of women riderinthestorm Jun 2014 #48
It comports very well, because the Catholic Church is interested in souls, not the physical body. msanthrope Jun 2014 #108
It's about control. Organized Christianity has never given two shits about human life, in actual nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #126
Most "organizations", Christian, Non-Christan and Sectarian are about "control" whathehell Jun 2014 #193
Yes, it was hyperbole. But I find the Catholic Church's present-day "respect for life" stance nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #200
Thanks for that.. whathehell Jun 2014 #204
Anti-DP and anti-war is always good. But I find the anti-choice aspect hard to forgive - especially nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #206
My understanding is.. whathehell Jun 2014 #207
I absolutely agree with the last part. The RCC does at least allow greater freedom of thought and/or nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #209
Yes, and they accept Evolution & don't preach that idiotic "Creationism" whathehell Jun 2014 #214
I graduated from the 8th grade in '99, and then high school in '03. Yes, I'm a young 'un. nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #221
Oh, yes you are! whathehell Jun 2014 #225
Progress, on the "micro" level, can so often seem agonizingly slow if not nonexistent. nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #226
Yes, that's true.. whathehell Jun 2014 #234
The "morality contract" the Archdiocese is now making all Catholic school teachers sign. nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #235
What might the "morality contract" require? whathehell Jun 2014 #236
Here: nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #239
Not just Cincinnati anymore, but Columbus and Cleveland. theHandpuppet Jun 2014 #237
I definitely agree with that last part. I was raised an evangelical Lutheran and they're nuts, too. PeaceNikki Jun 2014 #210
Thanks for sharing that, PeaceNikki.. whathehell Jun 2014 #216
lol, yeah. I was raised WELS (Wisconsin Evangelical Lutheran Synod). The craziest. PeaceNikki Jun 2014 #217
OMG..Michelle Bachman..It's good you got out in time! whathehell Jun 2014 #233
no kidding. PeaceNikki Jun 2014 #243
The RCC doesn't give a shit about "life." They care about controlling women. Arugula Latte Jun 2014 #227
The ultimate pro-life solution. JDPriestly Jun 2014 #37
Correct Freddie Jun 2014 #102
Horrible. AllyCat Jun 2014 #38
Now those are some faith based initiatives for you. Hassin Bin Sober Jun 2014 #39
A grim reminder of the criminal insanity of RW Republican religious wackos, like Ted Cruz, Zorra Jun 2014 #40
+1. Cruz in particular, would have no problem with this. Remember that one of his church's beliefs freshwest Jun 2014 #123
A "Handmaid's Tale" scenario could very well become a reality if Cruz managed to get into the WH. Zorra Jun 2014 #212
Definitely. Although I'll be working for any Dem vs. the Cabal. Lotsa socialist ideas here still. freshwest Jun 2014 #220
It won't surprise me if this isn't the only place like that. GoCubsGo Jun 2014 #45
The abuse was ongoing and horrific theHandpuppet Jun 2014 #49
that was pretty Niceguy1 Jun 2014 #93
It was especially bad in the English-speaking world StevieM Jun 2014 #100
even worse Niceguy1 Jun 2014 #104
I will try to learn more about the practices that took place in Latin America. StevieM Jun 2014 #113
This has happened both in Canada and the U.S. polly7 Jun 2014 #117
"...The events that transpired there ... would even make a Nazi war criminal blush..." sybylla Jun 2014 #46
Waterford Whispers News is a Parody Site PaddyIrishman Jun 2014 #138
Poverty and Mother Church were the two reasons my grandmother fled Ireland. Tierra_y_Libertad Jun 2014 #47
My wife was kidnapped as an infant Tribalceltic Jun 2014 #50
Your post brought tears to my eyes. All my love to your family. StevieM Jun 2014 #66
The Catholic Church was complicit in the mental and physical abuse of these children and their death secondwind Jun 2014 #52
800 children in about 40 years sounds about right. dilby Jun 2014 #53
They killed the ones that weren't "marketable" me b zola Jun 2014 #59
You must have read a different article than me or did not read it. dilby Jun 2014 #68
There are plenty of other sources that you should read. Ikonoklast Jun 2014 #82
You have to be fucking kidding me with this post..you playing some kind of game here? Jefferson23 Jun 2014 #137
They created the conditions in those hell holes. Shame on you (eom) StevieM Jun 2014 #62
It in no way sounds "about right" alphafemale Jun 2014 #69
A child starving to death in Ireland under British Rule was not uncommon. dilby Jun 2014 #75
1925 - 1961 Ireland was independent. n/t Benton D Struckcheon Jun 2014 #78
Yeah. The Potato Famine was deliberate genocide. alphafemale Jun 2014 #79
Not under "British Rule," and twentieth century, not nineteenth. No excuse anneboleyn Jun 2014 #129
The recorded deaths occur during a 29 year period. herding cats Jun 2014 #76
Thank you. I hope that will make dilby think again (nt) muriel_volestrangler Jun 2014 #94
This makes me sick. Just appalling. Pro-life, yeah, right. anneboleyn Jun 2014 #116
Bullshit. Shame on you. eom libnnc Jun 2014 #80
That you would even mount some rationale or excuse for this is appalling theHandpuppet Jun 2014 #81
I am speechless, yet not surprised. Ilsa Jun 2014 #54
No Words cantbeserious Jun 2014 #56
Satan's Name Prophet 451 Jun 2014 #70
I'm thinking of some of those mothers now in their seventies or older. alphafemale Jun 2014 #72
We need to open the sealed birth records so that the babies that did survive StevieM Jun 2014 #77
I imagine it would be the rare parent of an adopted adult child... alphafemale Jun 2014 #86
The Baby Scoop Era was a terrible time. It was a "tell the world what happened here" chapter. StevieM Jun 2014 #87
There are no words. n/t Sissyk Jun 2014 #83
Magdalene Laundries - Joni Mitchell frogmarch Jun 2014 #84
This subject is close to her heart~Joni Mitchell lost a child to adoption during the scoop era me b zola Jun 2014 #205
Oh! I didn't know this. frogmarch Jun 2014 #213
Wow...her daughter was an LDA (Late Discovery Adoptee). I can't believe that as late as 1997 StevieM Jun 2014 #222
Did you know that Darryl McDaneils, one of the originators of hip-hop, was a late-discovery adoptee me b zola Jun 2014 #224
I had no idea. Great video! LDA stories always shock the hell out of me. StevieM Jun 2014 #228
He's a terrific progressive! me b zola Jun 2014 #229
Good old religion, ain't it just great! n/t RKP5637 Jun 2014 #101
Another article, this one from NPR theHandpuppet Jun 2014 #103
Whoa abelenkpe Jun 2014 #119
Sadly, many Americans don't realize that the Baby Scoop Era took place, or what it entailed. StevieM Jun 2014 #120
Two more articles theHandpuppet Jun 2014 #122
Horrible. pacalo Jun 2014 #125
"The Bon Secours Health System is the largest private hospital network in Ireland." baldguy Jun 2014 #128
Not even given Christian burials, poor things LiberalEsto Jun 2014 #140
The Church was a huge player in this scandal intaglio Jun 2014 #170
The Satanic Cult of Emperor Constantine strikes again! Dawson Leery Jun 2014 #183
Worse than a puppy mill get the red out Jun 2014 #196
*speechless* myrna minx Jun 2014 #197
My parents came from the Ireland of that era AngryAmish Jun 2014 #211
not just babies, children had to live and die there. Sunlei Jun 2014 #215
Message auto-removed Name removed Jun 2014 #223
 

joeybee12

(56,177 posts)
3. This is horrific...
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 02:24 PM
Jun 2014

I hope they are now at rest...short, horrible lives...and it didn't need to happen.

Jefferson23

(30,099 posts)
4. Frightening how a twisted sense of religion teaches the mind to see these children as less than
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 02:26 PM
Jun 2014

human. I wonder who were the people that did adopt some of these children, where are they
now?

StevieM

(10,500 posts)
5. The mothers were seen as less than human too. They were "sinners." And most of them were
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 02:30 PM
Jun 2014

heartbroken to lose their children to forced adoptions.

Many of the kids, like the son of Philomena Lee, were sent to America.

Jefferson23

(30,099 posts)
9. Oh absolutely, that is where it began. Horrific story. The children who were sent to America, was
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 02:35 PM
Jun 2014

there any documentation to support or even hints they were place in loving homes?

StevieM

(10,500 posts)
121. I think it varied from family to family
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 10:52 PM
Jun 2014

Some of the adoptive parents were good, others were not so good. But in most cases the mothers never wanted to give up their children. They were essentially prisoners in the Magdalene Laundries and were not given a choice. After their babies were stolen they had to stay there and work off their "debt." Many of the adoptive parents simply chose not to recognize what they didn't want to admit--that their children were coming from moms who didn't want to lose them.

Did you see the movie Philomena? It should be coming out on DVD soon enough. It tells one of these stories.

Jefferson23

(30,099 posts)
133. Criminal, really. No, I have not seen the film and was not aware of the back story..thank you for
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 10:02 AM
Jun 2014

the information. Excellent thread.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
160. ???
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 12:51 PM
Jun 2014

"Many of the adoptive parents simply chose not to recognize what they didn't want to admit--that their children were coming from moms who didn't want to lose them".


How do you know the adoptive parents even KNEW that their children were "coming from

moms who didn't want to lose them"?..Do you know what they were told?

StevieM

(10,500 posts)
176. There is a long history of willful ignorance that has accompanied forced adoptions.
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 01:46 PM
Jun 2014

It was a don't ask, don't tell mindset. The Baby Scoop Era was a brutal time for women who were labeled as whores. In many places, like Ireland, being sent to a maternity home was the norm in these cases. To some extent, that was how it worked here in the U.S. Nobody wanted to acknowledge the pain it could cause to the mother who lost her child. There was this notion that the woman or girl would simply give up her child, move on with her life and forget. In the minds of some parents...her virginity was restored.

And an infertile couple finally got the child they so desperately wanted for so long. That created a lot of incentive to cultivate a system of willful ignorance in which the forced nature of the adoption, and the birth mother's suffering, were not recognized.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
182. You forget that many, if not most, in that time, were not "forced", it
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 01:58 PM
Jun 2014

was simply the custom, often a preferred option.

Yes, of course the Magdalene Laundries were hideous, but the fact is,

anywhere in Western Society you looked, there simply weren't many

"single moms" who kept their babies back then -- It wasn't NEARLY as accepted

as it is now, and, in any case, you simply CANNOT place that kind of "speculative blame"

on the adoptive parents in this case -- You have no idea what they knew.

I was a teenager during the Sixties and knew three girls who got pregnant outside of

marriage -- Only one wanted to keep her baby and did so.


StevieM

(10,500 posts)
195. That's the point. Our goal was a 100% relinquishment rate. It was the expected norm.
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 02:53 PM
Jun 2014

We gave no thought to what it would do to the young mothers. We didn't recognize how it was likely to haunt them for the rest of their lives. We simply chose to believe that most of them would move on and forget--and that's what the women and girls were told would happen, they would forget.

I seriously doubt that only one of those three girls wanted to keep her own child. But maybe only one of them had the strength to stand up to the intense coercion to relinquish. I am sure that the other two think of their lost children often, to this very day. I hope and pray that they are in reunions.

As for the adoptive parents, they chose to ignore the reality of how the system worked. They chose not to see that coerced adoptions were the rule of the day. They chose to believe that the young women would move on and forget. And they chose not to give any thought as to where the babies came from. Their child's past was seen as irrelevant, especially to the child. A baby was seen as "a blank slate."

But you are right....that is the way things were back then. "It was simply the custom." But it was a ruthless custom, and one that was rooted in misogyny.

CTyankee

(63,901 posts)
218. Philomena was a real eye opener. I was expecting something lighter but boy, was I wrong!
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 07:09 PM
Jun 2014

This was a rough story...I wasn't prepared for Philomena's suffering in childbirth where they denied her any painkillers because of her sin, and then taking her baby from her to be adopted by an affluent family while condemning her to her servitude in a laundry...and making her work to restitute the nuns for their "help" while she was poor and pregnant...this wasn't that long ago...

RainDog

(28,784 posts)
6. The Church: the original slut shamers
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 02:31 PM
Jun 2014

Looks like they had the same attitude toward the children of those girls - who may have been raped - or not. No matter. Either way - this is the disgusting legacy of religious hatred toward females.

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
26. and it ascribes carnality to women.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 03:23 PM
Jun 2014

Men get a free pass--they'd be pure and spiritual if it weren't for those damned demon women. Women are dirty, evil, conniving, etc. etc. go read MRA sites for more adjectives.

hollysmom

(5,946 posts)
202. My Mom, born during the depression told me
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 04:24 PM
Jun 2014

that after my sister was born,she was not supposed to leave the house until she went to the church and threw herself on the alter to beg forgiveness for having sex. She was married, she refused to do that, so being married to my father who was excommunicated as a child with his family because his mother would not tithe, when her family was going hungry, well, we were raised pretty much outside the church - catholic, but not Catholic - not attending church.
And yes, my father's mother went into the house after the night she was married, and took the bed sheets and hung them outside to show that my mother was a virgin when she got married.

StevieM

(10,500 posts)
203. My God...that is all so sick. And still common around the world. And many people would love to
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 04:49 PM
Jun 2014

bring those days back, right here in the United States.

I am glad that Holly has a mother who has risen above that kind of primitive thinking.

Is your paternal grandmother still alive? Did she ever evolve beyond those values?

hollysmom

(5,946 posts)
232. my paternal grandmother died in the 50's.
Thu Jun 5, 2014, 12:48 AM
Jun 2014

these are old stories. I am old. I used to sit on the stairs while my mother ironed and listen to her talk about her life. I was 7 and it was like story time, and mom shared her beer with me. Dad would get her a container (carton) of beer - they didn't sell bottles in our town then, it was draft. after dinner always at 5 PM, dad would go out for beers with the guys, my older sister would watch television (yes, we were the first people I knew with Television) and I would listen to Mom's stories.

ETA - and years later after I already was living with a boyfriend, Mom told me she had to cut her self to bleed on that sheet, ha ha ha .

ETA ETA - Holly is my dog, no kids. And I am an Atheist, my sister and brother are agnostics.

RainDog

(28,784 posts)
10. No. This is about the treatment of women and children
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 02:37 PM
Jun 2014

by a religious organization, not a discussion of the religious beliefs of the organization - apart from the slut shaming that is part of those beliefs that resulted in the abuse of girls and, apparently their children.

This is news, not religious discussion.

theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
32. Thank you.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 03:36 PM
Jun 2014

I agree. Especially when that organization is spending millions of dollars right here in this country to lobby against contraception and abortion.

get the red out

(13,461 posts)
198. Absolutely
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 03:06 PM
Jun 2014

This is very political, we need to see the potential future by looking at the past caused by "conservative" policies.

Go Vols

(5,902 posts)
219. or not so constructive
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 07:26 PM
Jun 2014

:/


1. At least we can rest easy that they weren't aborted

Far better that they die after birth than beforehand.


StevieM

(10,500 posts)
13. No, it shouldn't be. Because this is not just about religion or the Catholic Church.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 02:43 PM
Jun 2014

It is about the Baby Scoop Era, and the systematic dehumanization of woman, girls and their children by a cold-blooded society. The Baby Scoop Era did not just take place among Irish Catholics. It took place throughout the English speaking world, where the writings of so-called social workers were widely accepted. These societies--including the United States--believed all children born out of wedlock should be given up for adoption. And they were often willing to go to whatever means necessary to make that happen.

There are still many on the right today who would like to see a return to the Baby Scoop Era, and a 100% relinquishment rate.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
163. He asked a question..I don't see where he "apologized" for anything,
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 12:57 PM
Jun 2014

so maybe you should back off the "rush to judgment".

whatthehey

(3,660 posts)
180. apologists don't apologize
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 01:51 PM
Jun 2014

MW:

apol·o·gist
noun \ə-ˈpä-lə-jist\

: a person who defends or supports something (such as a religion, cause, or organization) that is being criticized or attacked by other people


A typical apologist tactic is to try to minimize or marginalize critical discussion.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
188. I get it, bro..Seriously, I'm not that literal minded and in any case,
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 02:11 PM
Jun 2014

being an "apologist" is a form of apologizing, just in an indirect form.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
208. I've already explained myself to
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 06:16 PM
Jun 2014

Atheist Crusader, so if you want to know, you can check out the post in which I did that.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
181. Because it doesn't mean anything about 'apologizing' and has to do with burying threads where they
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 01:56 PM
Jun 2014

can't really be seen. (Which is the point of Religion/Gungeon, and the banishment of threads to such places. (Creative speculation too))


Which was a jab, not an actual accusation. The tactic is deplorable. I know rickford66 is not an apologist for religion.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
186. Really?...Since when?..If that's the case, you should have used another word,
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 02:08 PM
Jun 2014

"Thread Burier", perhaps. Of course another option might be to

just acknowledge your mistake and move on, don't you think?

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
190. "Which was a jab, not an actual accusation. The tactic is deplorable. I know rickford66 is not an
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 02:17 PM
Jun 2014

apologist for religion."

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
194. Oh, I see
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 02:35 PM
Jun 2014

You begged the term "accusation" and then renounced even the preferred one of "jab"..

Very good.

rickford66

(5,523 posts)
184. Not what you thought.
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 02:05 PM
Jun 2014

I did not want to hide this. I wanted to confront those in the religious group with it. Any time I've posted there, I get criticized. I guess you should only agree with religious people. Their beliefs trump my facts and experiences in and with the Catholic Church and a few other Christian Churches. I was unaware that this thread was in two places.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
185. No worries. It was an unfair insinuation.
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 02:07 PM
Jun 2014

I know you are not an apologist, but I didn't trip to the motive you just cited. (Direct discussion with certain parties.)

I withdraw the criticism.

me b zola

(19,053 posts)
41. The Church was only one player in the Baby Scoop Era
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 03:56 PM
Jun 2014

Here in the states, the "mother of modern adoption", Georgia Tann has plenty of blood on her hands:



Georgia Tann: adoption architect, child advocate, and baby killer

~snip~

Tann and her crew stole newborns from hospitals, kidnapped and abducted children from their homes or on the street, and tricked single and widowed mothers into signing over their parental rights. From the 1920’s into the 1950’s it is impossible to know how many children went through Tann’s Tennessee Children’s Home Society. Many children died as a result of neglect and abuse; in 1945 it is estimated 40-50 children died in less than four months while housed in the illegally operated home. Children were starved, beaten, molested, mentally abused, and received no medical attention. Pedophiles were employed at the home, including Tann. She sold the children without conducting background checks on the adopters. She falsified records and extorted adoptive homes. She used the children as pawns; for example, she adopted out children to politicians, and then threatened to take the child back if the political families did not support legislation in her favor. Children were sold or given away like prizes in Memphis newspapers. “(We have) the merchandise in hand and in stock to deliver to you” a 1944 letter read to a prospective client. “We can never tell when we can fill an order,” another letter explained (source). There seemed to be no limit to what the Tennessee Children’s Home Society could do.

~snip~

In public, Georgia Tann spoke out loudly against child abuse, baby selling, corruption, and advocated child welfare reform. In private she sexually, physically, and mentally abused her charges, some of which were buried in the yard due to neglect.

Tann was never punished for her deeds. Some of the practices she utilized are still part of the adoption process today. Many adults, sold as children, continue to seek out their siblings, family members, and birth parents and reveal horrific memories of abuse. It seems the evil done by Georgia Tann will never be undone.

More @ link
http://www.examiner.com/article/georgia-tann-adoption-architect-child-advocate-and-baby-killer



Georgia Tann is the person responsible for sealing adoption records. Prior to her efforts, newborns were not stripped of their identity if raised by someone other than the biologic parents. The sealing of our own identities has absolutely nothing to do with protecting children or their mothers who relinquished them; it was only a marketing ploy to make her product (other people's babies) more desirable to upper middle class families.

me b zola

(19,053 posts)
57. You are very welcome
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 04:52 PM
Jun 2014

If you are interested, here's one book that chronicles her deeds:

The Baby Thief: The Untold Story of Georgia Tann, the Baby Seller Who Corrupted Adoption

http://www.amazon.com/The-Baby-Thief-Corrupted-Adoption/dp/1402758634

StevieM

(10,500 posts)
60. Oh, she was a real gem. Bessie Bernard too (see my link in the post right below yours)
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 04:56 PM
Jun 2014

Last edited Wed Feb 19, 2020, 04:03 AM - Edit history (1)

It is sad that so many people are unaware of the atrocities this woman committed. And she is, essentially, the mother of our modern system of adoption in the Unites States.

Georgia Tann brokered the adoptions that got Joan Crawford her babies. She also arranged the black market adoption of legendary pro wrestler, Ric Flair.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Georgia_Tann

StevieM

(10,500 posts)
55. Thank you for pointing this out. The values of the Baby Scoop Era were endemic in the
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 04:49 PM
Jun 2014

Last edited Tue Jun 3, 2014, 05:36 PM - Edit history (1)

English-speaking world. From the U.S. to Canada, Ireland to Britain, Australia to New Zealand, we bought into the writings of so-called social workers. People like Leontine Young and Dr. Marion Hilliard had utter contempt for unmarried mothers and they helped to raise up a society that brutalized them "for their own good," and "for the welfare of the child."

The ultimate manifestation of these values were psychopaths like Georgia Tann and Bessie Bernard, who were nothing but kidnappers and murderers. Bessie Bernard, when caught, got a one year sentence, which was to be suspended if she payed her $2500 fine in due time. She eventually returned to her chosen profession and was running a black market adoption ring as late as 1970.

http://birthfamily-search.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/bessie-bernard-miami-fl

But hey...at least Joan Crawford got her kids, rather than having them raised by undeserving whores.

RainDog

(28,784 posts)
240. Thanks to you and others for this information
Thu Jun 5, 2014, 06:04 PM
Jun 2014

I never knew this was happened - and I'm just stunned to know it did.

 

fasttense

(17,301 posts)
61. The bible belt has that belt tightly wrapped around the necks of their poor children
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 04:57 PM
Jun 2014

"Children were sold or given away like prizes in Memphis newspapers. “(We have) the merchandise in hand and in stock to deliver to you” a 1944 letter read to a prospective client. “We can never tell when we can fill an order,” another letter explained (source). There seemed to be no limit to what the Tennessee Children’s Home Society could do."

StevieM

(10,500 posts)
67. That's what gets me so angry...most people don't even know (see my post a little above, #60)
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 05:16 PM
Jun 2014

The woman was ruthless. And her legacy looms large.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
71. The good news is that some states have unsealed their records.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 05:43 PM
Jun 2014

Maine, for one. I know adoptees there who have found their birth families with positive results.

me b zola

(19,053 posts)
74. Yes, we ARE making progress!
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 05:50 PM
Jun 2014

I was born in California, though, and even though I am in reunion with my family, I am still not entitled to my original birth certificate and sealed records.

We have much work still to do.

Crunchy Frog

(26,579 posts)
99. Why, on Earth?
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 08:00 PM
Jun 2014

This is not about theology or beliefs, it's about a recently discovered atrocity that happened in the relatively recent past.

I'm sorry if it bothers you that it was done by an institution run by the Catholic Church.

malaise

(268,913 posts)
11. It speaks to society and hypocrisy
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 02:41 PM
Jun 2014

which is why I will forever love Jamaica's Michael Manley for tearing up the bastard act and removing the word from our vocabulary.

Forty years later we never hear that word - all children are children with the same rights.

mountain grammy

(26,618 posts)
141. I have a cousin who has lived most of her life in Jamaica.
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 10:36 AM
Jun 2014

I visited her a few years ago. We stayed in the Long Bay area (where she currently lives) in a small cottage up the hill overlooking the ocean. Beautiful place, beautiful people. Way too much unemployment, poverty and homophobia (a nod to the missionaries for that.) Like the old Eagle's song says 'you call someplace paradise, kiss it goodbye.'

But Jamaica is still paradise! Stay away from the all inclusive resorts and enjoy the country and the people. Would love to see another Prime Minister like Manley.

me b zola

(19,053 posts)
15. I wonder, fifty years from now if
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 02:58 PM
Jun 2014

the history of the Baby Scoop Era will be forgotten? The survivors seem to be the only ones who know the history now, others seem not too interested in learning about it. Who will tell our stories when we are gone?

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
42. hug too
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 03:59 PM
Jun 2014

I'm sorry you experienced this. Your story and all the stories of real women need to be remembered. There should be a monument, like The Wall, to honor women who survive.... It's why women's rights are so important.....

what's especially sad, to me, is the fact that the women who suffered and still suffer, are ignored. It's a pretty consistent thread in all punitive moral agendas. All they care about is the imaginary "baby", but once it's real, they want nothing to do with it. Septic tank. Make it disappear...

I looked at the article and the comments, and there are several typical clueless Planned Parenthood bashers making dramatic, but false, accusations about murdering "babies" (embryos).

As always, the circumstances that living women suffer do not enter their minds one little microscopic bit. Murder of actual babies and murder of actual women by the representatives of the woman hating deity, who withhold medical care because the "sluts" must be punished....that little piece they forget about.


sorry I ranted! dehumanizing women...that's a rant issue for me.....

StevieM

(10,500 posts)
192. That's exactly right. These women are nothing but whores to them.
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 02:28 PM
Jun 2014

Their suffering isn't just tolerable--it is desirable.

And the mentality of the Baby Scoop Era lives on in many people to this day. There are many who would like to see a return to that era. Crisis pregnancy centers continue to manipulate, exploit and deceive young women. They believe that the women and girls need to be punished for their sins, and the babies are better off being separated from such horrible moms.

 

toby jo

(1,269 posts)
21. Would be wonderful to see that happen in a public way.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 03:08 PM
Jun 2014

The slow downfall of Christianity suggests that a lot of us have tried them in our hearts and they have lost.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
144. I'd say it should be tried for crimes, plural. Multiple, multiple crimes over centuries.
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 11:37 AM
Jun 2014

What a vile, corrupt institution.

byronius

(7,392 posts)
17. Ah, the stench of religious judgement. The bony finger of a Fake Cruel Jesus pointing out 'others'.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 03:03 PM
Jun 2014

Weird how this shit is just accepted. It happens today. Raped girls condemned by bitter authority figures who are often secret rapists.

It's almost like there is no god.

LittleGirl

(8,282 posts)
19. gawd, that's just...
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 03:05 PM
Jun 2014

one of the worst things I've ever read. The inhumanity of it just blows me away. Like a trash pile of bones.

StevieM

(10,500 posts)
24. That's just it...they weren't human to some. The women were "whores" and the babies were "bastards"
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 03:20 PM
Jun 2014

eom

OnlinePoker

(5,719 posts)
20. Canada has a sadly similar case, though not a church organized scheme
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 03:06 PM
Jun 2014

They were called Butter box babies. As the link says:

Hundreds of others were left to die, either because the medical care at the home was lacking, or because the children appeared "unmarketable," according to witnesses.

Infants who were sick, deformed or disabled, or of mixed race were fed molasses and water until they starved to death. A caretaker years later admitted to Canadian journalist Bette Cahill that he was paid to bury the babies in open graves, or in butter boxes from the local LaHave Dairy.


http://www.canadiancrc.com/Butterbox_survivors.aspx

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
89. And the Catholic church is against abortion but not outright mureder of babies once born. Hypocrits.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 07:18 PM
Jun 2014

The attitude in not dead. Listen to some of the political speakers today Santorum and Paul Ryan, etc.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
171. That's as silly a LIE as saying that Georgia Tan's murders were a policy of the US govt.
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 01:38 PM
Jun 2014

Georgia Tan was quite celebrated by notable Americans in her day, but that was

before THEY, let alone the government, knew what she was doing.

At this point, you can't even say the nuns "murdered" these babies let alone

that they did so with the blessings of the institutional church. Please get a grip.

 

Spitfire of ATJ

(32,723 posts)
23. Says even MORE about how religion treats children defined as "bastards"....
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 03:19 PM
Jun 2014

You are supposed to to the ritual thing before you have sex.



Or the resulting kid is to be tossed in a pit.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
31. Remember, God is a loving deity
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 03:33 PM
Jun 2014

unless He thinks you're a miserable piece of disposable trash from a slutty trollop who shouldn't have had a kid out of wedlock even if she was raped.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
73. Because the child must be shamed even though the parents are the ones who broke church laws.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 05:47 PM
Jun 2014

I've never understood that thinking.

 

Spitfire of ATJ

(32,723 posts)
91. I guess it goes back to the theory that EVERYONE is damned until they're "saved"....
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 07:38 PM
Jun 2014

Then you can pick and chose WHO qualifies for salvation.

pink-o

(4,056 posts)
238. "Sins of the Fathers"
Thu Jun 5, 2014, 12:14 PM
Jun 2014

Or, in this case the Mothers. Cuz there are some whack jobs out there who believe women should be shamed due to Eve causing the downfall of humankind. In fact, some even believe birth pains is God's punishment to women for Eve's sins.

Eve playing with the serpent--is there a more Freudian metaphor for awakening female sexuality and how that alone destroyed humanity? No wonder I'm an atheist!

mackerel

(4,412 posts)
25. Galway Historian Catherine Corless
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 03:22 PM
Jun 2014

Is trying to organize formal burials for the babes.

To donate to the memorial for the mothers and babies of The Home, contact Catherine Corless at [email protected].

MineralMan

(146,286 posts)
30. Horrific! Most of those babies weren't stillbirths, either.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 03:32 PM
Jun 2014

I'm sure of that. So...the conclusion is obvious. Way to go, folks!

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
173. That's nice, but you need to distinguish your "hope" from actual facts.
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 01:44 PM
Jun 2014

especially when you clearly don't know the facts.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
107. My sure explanation is that the honor killings these children were subjected to by the Bon Secours
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 08:57 PM
Jun 2014

nuns were long, painful, and disgusting.

The current death records show 796 children aged 1 to 9 died there. 9 is a bit late for a stillbirth, no? They died of illness, neglect, and starvation. A death rate of 25%---near to what the 1600's produced. These children were treated as 'expendable.'

And here is the horror---there's no burial records for these kids. They were shoved in a septic tank. A place where shit is supposed to go.

The local diocese is trying to raise money for a memorial.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
110. I think that when 25% of the children entrusted to your care die of preventable and treatable
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 09:12 PM
Jun 2014

illnesses, starvation, and neglect, and are thrown in a septic tank, rather than buried, I think the people in charge must be responsible.

I think when the local welfare agents describe the children who lived in the home as "emaciated" "fragile" and "pot-bellied" then I think the people in charge must be responsible.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2645870/Mass-grave-contains-bodies-800-babies-site-Irish-home-unmarried-mothers.html

What do you think happened to these children? And who put them in a septic tank?

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
111. You said they were killed.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 09:16 PM
Jun 2014

I don't know what happened to them. Did you know these bodies were found 40 years ago?

The grave was discovered in the 1970s by 12-year-old friends, Barry Sweeney and Francis Hopkins.
 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
112. The death records were made public, rug. So we know exactly how these 796 children died.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 09:18 PM
Jun 2014

Of preventable and treatable diseases, starvation and neglect. At a rate comparable to the 1600s.

What do you think happened, rug?

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
114. This story broke when Corless announced she had found the death records and could identify them.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 09:24 PM
Jun 2014

She's collecting money for this project.

It can't be determined exactly what happened to them without autopsies. That's why I wonder what's been going on there for the last 40 years. But gross neglect, as opposed to starvation, seems likely.

If these were orphans, it sounds like the septic tank was used as a potter's field and there's been a massive coverup.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
131. Why can't it be determined what happened to them by the cause of death listed on the death
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 09:50 AM
Jun 2014

certificates? Sure--that's pretty damning about the caretakers---children dying of preventable and treatable diseases.

Gross neglect as opposed to starvation? What does that even mean?

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
132. Most of the bodies don't have death certificates as I read it.
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 09:57 AM
Jun 2014

In fact, most of them have been unidentified for 40 years.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
167. You do know that
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 01:19 PM
Jun 2014

what is "preventable" now was much less so in the 20's, 30's and 40's, and even

50's don't you?

My grandmother lost 3 children to disease in the 1920's and I can assure you it was

not "preventable", nor due to her being "neglectful".

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
134. Because it says...
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 10:02 AM
Jun 2014

"Inspection reports unearthed from files of the local health board show that the home housed hundreds of children many of whom suffered deformities, malnutrition and neglect. Causes of death included malnutrition, measles, convulsions, tuberculosis, gastroenteritis and pneumonia.

The babies were usually buried in a plain shroud without a coffin ... no memorial was erected to the dead children and the grave was left unmarked. The site is now surrounded by a housing estate."

http://www.npr.org/blogs/thetwo-way/2014/06/03/318545130/in-ireland-a-macabre-discovery-at-old-home-for-unwed-mothers

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
139. It doesn't mention ANY as stillbirths.
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 10:22 AM
Jun 2014

It's a horrific story. The church was responsible for horrible atrocities.

Other church-run homes pretended children were orphans and gave them up for adoption — in exchange for donations — regardless of their mothers' wishes. The 2013 film Philomena was inspired by the true story of such a forced adoption. And, as government reports have detailed, the sexual and physical abuse of children at Irish church-run schools and orphanages ran rampant — and was covered up by the church hierarchy.

Corless, the Irish historian who provided the documents to the Irish newspaper, separately told The Washington Post that the women who wound up at "the Home" in Tuam were ostracized by society and by their families.

"Families would be afraid of neighbors finding out, because to get pregnant out of marriage was the worst thing on Earth," she said. "It was the worst crime a woman could commit, even though a lot of the time it had been because of a rape."

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
143. "Rhetoric" does not mean "things rug doesn't want to believe"
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 10:46 AM
Jun 2014

There are inspection reports. Oh, and the Irish prime minister officially apologized to the women who had been placed in exploitative laundries.

"These women were a diverse group: former prostitutes, unwed mothers, orphans, homeless women, convicts and industrial school transfers put in the care of the Catholic Church.

"Nuns ran the facilities, known as Magdalene Laundries, on a commercial basis, doing laundry for the state, private companies and individuals. But the inmates were never paid for the work, and all profit went to the church."


http://www.npr.org/2013/02/24/172740950/irish-women-emerge-from-shadows-of-national-shame

Women and children were horribly abused. Facts. Not rhetoric.

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
148. hrm. odd. like what 'talking points'? that doesn't even make sense.
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 12:41 PM
Jun 2014

I was quoting 2 articles about investigations.

whatever.

theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
155. Do you consider this "rhetoric"?
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 12:44 PM
Jun 2014

This is the kind of care mothers and babies were receiving at these "mother-and-baby" homes. The abuse wasn't limited to just one home and the horrendous number of infant deaths at Tuam was not an aberration.

http://www.irishexaminer.com/ireland/call-for-mother-and-baby-home-inquiry-270865.html

In his 1989 book To Cure and To Care — Memoirs of a Chief Medical Officer, former Chief Medical Officer at the Department of Health James Deeny spoke of his concerns at the inordinately high child death rates at Bessborough Mother and Baby Home in Cork.

He estimated that 100 out of 180 babies born at the home for unmarried mothers, run by the Sisters of the Sacred Heart, died in one year.

“Dr Deeny was so concerned that he travelled to Cork to visit the home,” said Ms Lohan. “Initially he couldn’t see any reason for the high death rate but then asked one of the nuns if he could look at the babies’ nappies.

“When the nappies were opened, it emerged the babies and toddlers were sitting in putrefying diarrhoea that was being ignored and the nuns wanted it all covered up.”

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
161. I think me saying, "The church was responsible for horrible atrocities." is what pissed him off
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 12:51 PM
Jun 2014

Still not rhetoric.

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
154. i actually am fine if people say, maybe that number is normal for that time period
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 12:44 PM
Jun 2014

or something like that

but to just pull out the idea of stillbirths from thin air, is just nonsensical

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
175. I see you still didn't find who brought up still births in the first place.
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 01:45 PM
Jun 2014

This exchange was so much more productive.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
174. It's good to get facts before running your mouth with your usual religion-baiting.
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 01:44 PM
Jun 2014

You should try it.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
150. First of all, don't come flying in accusing me of making things "the fuck" up.
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 12:43 PM
Jun 2014

Second, stop gnawing on your arm and go back and read the original reply.

Third, don't ever come off that way to me again.

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
158. i can also do it any where i please. you dont run this website, or my words.
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 12:46 PM
Jun 2014

you can continue to 'threaten' me, but besides alerting or ignoring me, your threats mean very very very very very little to me.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
159. Oh, please.
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 12:49 PM
Jun 2014

You came into to the subthread spewing "where the fuck are you making that up from?", your caps omitted, and now you claim you're threatened?

Grow up.

anneboleyn

(5,611 posts)
115. Yes, apparently, severe malnutrition, TB, untreated diseases, horrific skin conditions...
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 09:41 PM
Jun 2014

This horrible story was being discussed on reddit earlier today. This institute was cited for abuse and severe neglect dating back to the 1930s! The bodies (which are NOT all "newborns" or "stillbirths&quot show signs of untreated diseases, severe malnutrition, and so on. Unbelievable -- and anyone (I don't care what the church argues!) still alive associated should be prosecuted for criminal acts.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
58. More accurately, further proos that humanity poisons everything...
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 04:54 PM
Jun 2014

More accurately, further proof that humanity poisons everything (for as we've seen upthread, this is not in fact, predicated only on religion)

frazzled

(18,402 posts)
36. How does this comport with the Church's strict "right to life" stance?
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 03:38 PM
Jun 2014

This is astounding: a Church that has been strictly orthodox in its views regarding contraception and abortion can tolerate the deaths of all these children?

I am truly interested to see what Pope Francis has to say about this, and how it might affect his views on the subject. I am hopeful that there will be some alteration in the Church's positions after this horrendous revelation (I know, it's silly to be hopeful on this score).

Disclosure: I am not Catholic, so I don't have skin in that game; but I am interested.

StevieM

(10,500 posts)
43. I am interested to see just how much media coverage this story gets.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 04:05 PM
Jun 2014

I think that this is a a story that should lead off the nightly news. 800 dead children have just turned up. But I wonder whether it will get the coverage that a healthier society would accord to it.

Maybe it will at least be a big story in Ireland. But it is important to remember that the Baby Scoop Era was not limited to this one country. Forced adoptions and so-called maternity homes were omni-present in the English-speaking world, including and especially right here in the United States.

And there are a lot of people who yearn for those good old days. Crisis Pregnancy Centers continue to terrorize scared young girls, telling them any lie they need to in order to separate them from their children.

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
64. Thanks for link- unfortunately no comments. I wanted to read comments from Irish citizens reacting
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 05:10 PM
Jun 2014

to news.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
96. This grave was first found nearly 40 years ago.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 07:53 PM
Jun 2014

Everything I'm reading now is sourced back to the Mail and then to Corless.

http://www.pressreader.com/search?query=tuam

Cclick on the "Church to meet over memorial for 800 babies at mass grave" article, dated June 2, 2014.)

What gives?

Eyerish

(1,495 posts)
230. Well it appears they never thought they were remains from The Home...
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 09:07 PM
Jun 2014
http://news.msn.com/world/800-babies-buried-in-septic-tank-at-irish-home-for-unmarried-mothers

Death records suggest 796 children, from newborns to eight-year-olds, were deposited in a grave near a Catholic-run home for unmarried mothers during the 35 years it operated from 1925 to 1961.

Historian Catherine Corless, who made the discovery, says her study of death records for the St Mary's home in Tuam in County Galway suggests that a former septic tank near the home was a mass grave.

The septic tank, full to the brim with bones, was discovered in 1975 by locals when concrete slabs covering the tank broke up.

Until now, locals believed the bones mainly stemmed from the Great Irish famine of the 1840s when hundreds of thousands perished.


I also found a facebook page that appears to belongs to her which lists some of her research.

https://www.facebook.com/pages/MotherBaby-Home-Research/1381096678815670?ref=stream&fref=nf

From a press release,

"You may be aware that there was an old orphanage called St. Mary's, (known locally as the 'Home')
on the Dublin road, where now stands the Dublin Road housing estate.

It was run by the Bon Secours Sisters from 1925 to the summer of 1961. Locally there is some knowledge
that there is a graveyard at the site of the Home but it is often presumed that it is a burial ground for famine
victims.

However, new research undertaken by a Brownsgrove woman, Catherine Corless, has uncovered that it is
in fact the grounds where 788 children, from newborns to eight year olds, were buried during the
lifetime of the home."

So yeah, the grave was discovered 40 years ago but her recent research is what uncovered the truth about what really happened. That and the fact they want to create a memorial is what seems to be making this recent news.








 

rug

(82,333 posts)
231. That's a little clearer.
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 10:05 PM
Jun 2014

I still find it odd that after a mass grave was found, no one, archaeologist or otherwise, investigated for forty years.

Do you know anything about Corless? All news reports lead back to her.

Eyerish

(1,495 posts)
241. Only that she is a local Historian from the area...
Thu Jun 5, 2014, 07:02 PM
Jun 2014

and she was working with a local committee researching the plot

http://www.tuamherald.ie/news/roundup/articles/2014/06/04/4030669-committee-and-sisters-meet-over-unmarked-mass-grave/

Are you thinking there might be an issue with Ms. Corless's discovery?

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
242. I'm trying to cut through the expected rhetoric around this and learn what happened
Thu Jun 5, 2014, 07:03 PM
Jun 2014

in the intervening 40 years.

 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
48. Underscores how the REALLY important part of the anti-abortion folks is control of women
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 04:28 PM
Jun 2014

NOT a concern for the children...

They disguise their thirst for control of women as "caring" about the fetus and "right to life".

But that concern completely disappears once the child is born.

Our current anti-abortion culture has deep roots.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
108. It comports very well, because the Catholic Church is interested in souls, not the physical body.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 09:05 PM
Jun 2014

Thus children can be starved, beaten, and molested, but because the CC focuses on the redemption of the soul, as opposed to salvation of the bleeding bodies in front of them, all is well.

What matters the body, when the soul is eternal.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
126. It's about control. Organized Christianity has never given two shits about human life, in actual
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 05:50 AM
Jun 2014

fact. Hell, they've spent the last 2000 years slaughtering people, what do you expect?

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
193. Most "organizations", Christian, Non-Christan and Sectarian are about "control"
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 02:30 PM
Jun 2014

or are you proposing that every, or even NEARLY everu slaughter "in the last 2,000 years"

been perpetrated by Christians? Do you realize how absurd you sound, or are

you simply competing for Most Outlandish Overstatement on the thread?

If so, I'd call your chances of winning good.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
200. Yes, it was hyperbole. But I find the Catholic Church's present-day "respect for life" stance
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 04:14 PM
Jun 2014

laughably disingenuous and hypocritical, considering their history. Maybe I could've made the point with a bit less exaggeration, though.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
204. Thanks for that..
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 05:56 PM
Jun 2014

A nice, civil reply on DU can be exceedingly rare and is much appreciated.


Like most organizations over the centuries, religious and secular, the Church has changed.

I don't think they're likely to change their position on abortion, but it might interest

you to know that they do show some consistency in being anti-death penalty as well.



nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
206. Anti-DP and anti-war is always good. But I find the anti-choice aspect hard to forgive - especially
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 06:00 PM
Jun 2014

thinking of the women I care about - because restricting access to abortion (and contraception) is ultimately lethal in many cases.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
207. My understanding is..
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 06:15 PM
Jun 2014

that abortion is allowed if birth would kill the mother -- It didn't used to be, but I believe

it is now. As for contraception, very few catholics, at least in the US, abide by that.

In the end, even the Church admits that one must make decisions based on your own

personal conscience.

I'm not a practicing catholic, I just think that, on balance, they're no worse (and in some

cases better) than the Fundamentalist Protestants.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
209. I absolutely agree with the last part. The RCC does at least allow greater freedom of thought and/or
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 06:18 PM
Jun 2014

conscience than many of the other more "traditionalist" Christian sects. And I can say, as a former Catholic-school kid, that my own politics and worldview have certainly been shaped by the more progressive, social-justice-oriented wing of the Church.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
214. Yes, and they accept Evolution & don't preach that idiotic "Creationism"
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 06:39 PM
Jun 2014

When did you attend Catholic School?...My niece went in the Seventies

and she tells me it was much better than when I went which was

in the freaking FIFTIES and early Sixties...We were boomers, so,

apart from the conservatism, we were severely overcrowded, like averaging

about 65 kids a class.

P.S. Did you ever see the mid=1980s movie "Heaven Help Us"? -- It featured
David Southerland and one of the brat pack kids, whose name I now forget.

It depicted Catholic School in the Sixties, and, I recommend it -- Funny as hell, and
so realistic, it HAD to have been written by a another Catholic School kid!

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
221. I graduated from the 8th grade in '99, and then high school in '03. Yes, I'm a young 'un.
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 07:29 PM
Jun 2014

U.C. Santa Cruz (graduated '07 as a literature/creative writing major) was the first public school I ever attended.

Granted, the schools I went to were relatively liberal as Catholic institutions go - this was in the El Cerrito/Richmond (CA) area - and "indoctrination" aside we were encouraged to think for ourselves at least to some extent. Yes, they did give us a good dose of Church teaching on various subjects (e.g. sexual "morality&quot but they had no problem with, for instance, students participating in the Day of Silence for LGBT rights, which I did 3 years in a row as a high school student.

I'll look that movie up. Thanks for the rec.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
225. Oh, yes you are!
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 08:24 PM
Jun 2014

Jeebus, they allowed you to participate in a "Day of Silence" for LGBT Rights?

Gays weren't even MENTIONED in my day..In fact, the word "gay"

as a term meaning homosexual had yet to be coined!

That is SO much more liberal than my school days, that

I'm tempted to paraphrase a Reform Judaism joke and

ask if the nuns were Catholic

You're certainly welcome for the rec...Send me a pm after you've seen it

and let me know what you thought.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
226. Progress, on the "micro" level, can so often seem agonizingly slow if not nonexistent.
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 08:28 PM
Jun 2014

But when you look at things over the longer term, the difference is quite striking. The shenanigans in Cincinnati right now have been excoriated as a ridiculous throwback - whereas decades ago, even within my lifetime, this would've been considered business as usual.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
235. The "morality contract" the Archdiocese is now making all Catholic school teachers sign.
Thu Jun 5, 2014, 11:54 AM
Jun 2014

Even Catholic priests have been quoted on record calling it excessive.

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
210. I definitely agree with that last part. I was raised an evangelical Lutheran and they're nuts, too.
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 06:25 PM
Jun 2014

They just don't get as much attention because there are many small sects that vary greatly in their belief systems and don't have a unified mouthpiece like the pope. They get attention on an individual basis like that crazy Kevin Swanson who believes BCP turns a woman's 'womb into a graveyard full of hundreds of tiny dead babies'.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
216. Thanks for sharing that, PeaceNikki..
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 07:00 PM
Jun 2014

My husband was raised as a "standard" Lutheran in Michigan (I believe they are

now called "The American Lutheran Church&quot He said there were three "mainstream"

Lutheran synods and he belonged to the most progressive of the three. He mentioned

the Evangelical Lutheran Church as being the LEAST progressive, and he called the Wisconsin

Synod flat out nuts.

I like your insight about the RC Church...It is easier to avoid attention when one

has no big unified mouthpiece, yes. It may be the reason I never heard of Kevin Swanson.

Is he an Evangelical?...What is "BCP" ?

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
217. lol, yeah. I was raised WELS (Wisconsin Evangelical Lutheran Synod). The craziest.
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 07:06 PM
Jun 2014

So was Michelle Bachmann. I got out just when entering high school thankfully.

Swanson is a radio host. I am not sure what specific denomination. Check him out: http://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Kevin_Swanson . He's a real piece of work.

BCP = birth control pills. Here's the story:

"Swanson: I’m beginning to get some evidence from certain doctors and certain scientists that have done research on women’s wombs after they’ve gone through the surgery, and they’ve compared the wombs of women who were on the birth control pill to those who were not on the birth control pill. And they have found that with women who are on the birth control pill, there are these little tiny fetuses, these little babies, that are embedded into the womb. They’re just like dead babies. They’re on the inside of the womb. And these wombs of women who have been on the birth control pill effectively have become graveyards for lots and lots of little babies."

http://www.rightwingwatch.org/content/swanson-wombs-women-birth-control-embedded-dead-babies#sthash.Xcg191QU.dpuf

I first heard of this on Dan Savage's podcast.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
233. OMG..Michelle Bachman..It's good you got out in time!
Thu Jun 5, 2014, 11:34 AM
Jun 2014

In all seriousness, though, the odds are you would not have wound up like her

in any case. Some people, it seems, are "pre-disposed" to being super-religious.

Certain kids, like me, took it all quite seriously and were scared shitless

of going to Hell. Others, like my mom, were observant, but matter of fact

and not at all fearful

Were your parents upset when you left WELS?..These things can cause rifts

in families..My parents didn't much care that I left the Church, but I know

it can be a bit deal in some families/religions.

On a lighter note, I went to your links to check out Mr. Swanson -- Oh Yeah,

Certifiable -- Another Wingnut who doesn't get basic biology.."Wombs that are

little graveyard of babies" Please tell me his following is small.

You know, apart from Dave and his obvious insanity, I had no idea that

protestants or any protestant sect was against Birth Control...I thought this

was strictly an RC thing...Are the WELS against birth control?



PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
243. no kidding.
Thu Jun 5, 2014, 07:16 PM
Jun 2014

My whole family defected together at that time. There were several incidents that lead up to it, and a life full of exclusion and misogyny. But the straw that broke the camel's back was this: My 2 siblings and I attended a tiny WELS school for K-8. The same school my mom attended. We were pretty involved in the church and school. Near the end of that, it had been discovered that there was a significant amount of asbestos in the gym. My mother lead a charge to insist it be removed. The church, despite having the money, was balking at the enormous cost. My mother was very passionate about it. In a meeting with the board, she was literally told to sit down and shut up and let the men make the decisions. She knew at that moment she couldn't raise 2 daughters and a son in that environment.

I am not sure where they stand these days on BC in general. I left when I was *just* too young to even discuss such matters. They definitely have enormously strong opinions on the role of women. It's also a very incestuous sect. It's small and the pastor/teacher's kids get treated like kings.

Oh, also, after we left and moved onto the public HS, my best friend from grade school went on to the Lutheran HS. Sophomore year she got pregnant. She was quickly expelled.

Yeah, glad I am gone. My parents have since become and raised 3 kids to become extremely liberal, bleeding heart, successful, politically active agnostic leaning atheists. We were all confirmed in the church and got out. Yeah, I have grown to resent organized religion immensely. But it's not for lack of knowledge, it's a result of life experience.

Anyway... that's my story and I am stickin' to it.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
227. The RCC doesn't give a shit about "life." They care about controlling women.
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 08:31 PM
Jun 2014

That is their true agenda.

Fuck them.

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
37. The ultimate pro-life solution.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 03:39 PM
Jun 2014

This is why we abortions are legal. This is why we do not condemn unmarried mothers. This is why we need birth control. This is why we need mandatory paid maternity leave, food stamps and food banks.

The human drive to reproduce is strong and out of balance with the ability of our society to nourish and foster children.

The Catholic Church is responsible for many deaths of innocent children.

Birth control is necessary at a time when we are able to prolong life and prevent deaths of children that were at one time just a part of life.

Read history and you will learn that the deaths of children were commonplace.

Gustav Mahler wrote music in memory of his dead children. The Kindertotenlieder.


When your mommy
steps in through the door
and I turn my head
to see at her,
falling on her face
my gaze does not first fall,
but at the place
nearer the doorstep,
there, where your
dear little face would be,
when you with bright joy
step inside,
as you used to, my little daughter.

When your mommy
steps in through the door
with the glowing candle,
it seems to me, always
you came in too,
hurrying behind her,
as you used to come into the room.
Oh you, of a father's cell,
ah, too soon
extinguished light!

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kindertotenlieder

We have come so far. The terrible pain of losing a child is less common now. But the Catholic Church and fundamentalists who oppose birth control have never changed their beliefs to accommodate the new reality.

We must do far more to protect the health and lives of the children who are born, and that means birth control.

Freddie

(9,259 posts)
102. Correct
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 08:16 PM
Jun 2014

Back in the day Farmer Joe needed lots of kids to plow the fields. Since half of all babies born then did not live to see their 5th birthday, a steady replacement supply was needed. Odds are that Mrs. Farmer Joe would die in childbirth along the way (check your family history); he'd just get another wife and carry on.
Today, thank God, babies and wives don't die as often, and huge families are a liability unless your name in Duggar. Religions opposed to contraception haven't quite grasped the new reality of the past 80 years or so.

AllyCat

(16,177 posts)
38. Horrible.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 03:40 PM
Jun 2014

More of what will come back if we keep people from access to safe and legal birth control and therapeutic abortion.

Zorra

(27,670 posts)
40. A grim reminder of the criminal insanity of RW Republican religious wackos, like Ted Cruz,
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 03:46 PM
Jun 2014

who are relentlessly trying to assume power over our government, and control every aspect of our lives and liberty according to their delusions, right at this moment.



freshwest

(53,661 posts)
123. +1. Cruz in particular, would have no problem with this. Remember that one of his church's beliefs
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 03:08 AM
Jun 2014
is that all wealth should be taken from the sinners and given to the 'righteous.' Yes, they know full well that will kill millions they call sinners.

Zorra

(27,670 posts)
212. A "Handmaid's Tale" scenario could very well become a reality if Cruz managed to get into the WH.
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 06:33 PM
Jun 2014

If he is nominated, it will be the only thing I need to campaign 24/7 for the Democratic candidate, whoever she is.

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
220. Definitely. Although I'll be working for any Dem vs. the Cabal. Lotsa socialist ideas here still.
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 07:28 PM
Jun 2014

Dems are secularists. That's why they want us dead. I'm seeing the Cruz types flourish on media, way too much. It's a matter of survival to me and the people I care about.

GoCubsGo

(32,079 posts)
45. It won't surprise me if this isn't the only place like that.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 04:18 PM
Jun 2014

Not just in Ireland, either. Can't say the behavior of the nuns toward the "Home Children" surprises me, either. How the hell women like that were allowed to be anywhere near children is beyond me.

StevieM

(10,500 posts)
100. It was especially bad in the English-speaking world
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 08:02 PM
Jun 2014

The writings of so-called "social workers," like Leontine Young and Dr. Marion Hilliard convinced people that the best thing for the child was to take it from the mother, by whatever means necessary.

Niceguy1

(2,467 posts)
104. even worse
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 08:42 PM
Jun 2014

In latin America. ..... things sucked globally, not just where english was spoken.

We aee fortunate to live in a better world.

StevieM

(10,500 posts)
113. I will try to learn more about the practices that took place in Latin America.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 09:24 PM
Jun 2014

I just know that the Anglo countries were pretty bad.

I don't believe these practices ever took root in places like Germany and France. I do know that South Korea was a nightmare for unwed mothers. Obviously, the Warsaw Pact countries had a load of human rights problems, but I don't think that forced adoptions took place there to the same extent.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
117. This has happened both in Canada and the U.S.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 09:51 PM
Jun 2014

I'll try to remember the posts on them to bring over. I imagine it's happened in many, many countries.

sybylla

(8,507 posts)
46. "...The events that transpired there ... would even make a Nazi war criminal blush..."
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 04:23 PM
Jun 2014
http://waterfordwhispersnews.com/2014/06/03/bodies-of-800-children-were-just-resting-in-mass-grave-claims-catholic-church/

There just aren't words to describe sick fuckers like these.

Local Catholic tool claims the children were just resting there, that the church hadn't abandoned them.

PaddyIrishman

(110 posts)
138. Waterford Whispers News is a Parody Site
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 10:13 AM
Jun 2014

It's a local version of the Onion.

The reference to "just resting" is a reference to Father Ted which was a Channel 4 Comedy Series "That money was just resting in my account".


[link:http://www.fathertedquotes.co.uk/|

 

Tierra_y_Libertad

(50,414 posts)
47. Poverty and Mother Church were the two reasons my grandmother fled Ireland.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 04:27 PM
Jun 2014

She used to get pissed at the old movies that showed the kindly priests and dewy eyed nuns. I don't remember her language but I'm sure it wasn't "Christian" when she saw the likes of Bing Crosby and Pat O'Brien smiling lovingly.

Tribalceltic

(1,000 posts)
50. My wife was kidnapped as an infant
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 04:32 PM
Jun 2014

There are no words to explain the horror. her 95 year old adoptive "father" is a pillar of the local church. On the day he dies I will be forwarding a file containing all of the knowledge we have of the transaction along with names,dates and places that may help others. I cannot do this before he dies because of the pain it would cause my wife.
All churches that participate in closed adoptions should have all of their worldly goods confiscated and any persons involved should be imprisoned for the length of any child whose lives they have affected.

Candles for all adopted children especially those have been adversely affected.

StevieM

(10,500 posts)
66. Your post brought tears to my eyes. All my love to your family.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 05:12 PM
Jun 2014

The people who did these things were not stereotypical "lowlifes." They were doctors, lawyers and Hollywood celebrities. It is disgusting how our society has turned children into commodities.

I have a certain amount of sympathy for people who struggle with infertility...but there are limits. Nobody owes another person a baby.

After her a-dad passes I hope your wife can find her biological family.

dilby

(2,273 posts)
53. 800 children in about 40 years sounds about right.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 04:42 PM
Jun 2014

It's not like they were killing the kids off, they were dying of natural causes.

dilby

(2,273 posts)
68. You must have read a different article than me or did not read it.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 05:27 PM
Jun 2014

Seems the major complaint was how the bodies were disposed of, the woman was upset they did not have child coffins not that they were dead.

Ikonoklast

(23,973 posts)
82. There are plenty of other sources that you should read.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 06:47 PM
Jun 2014

Children dying from abuse, starvation, neglect...and murder.

In Ireland, at the hands of the RCC.


https://www.google.com/webhp?tab=ww&ei=_0OOU7DrNZPSsATjlYHYCg&ved=0CBcQ1S4#newwindow=1&q=irish+orphans+abused+murdered


I only found 39,900,000 articles on the subject.

Jefferson23

(30,099 posts)
137. You have to be fucking kidding me with this post..you playing some kind of game here?
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 10:12 AM
Jun 2014

What exactly do you not understand about the OP?

 

alphafemale

(18,497 posts)
69. It in no way sounds "about right"
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 05:37 PM
Jun 2014

They were stuffing the bodies in the septic tank because the number of tiny graves appearing would have maybe been the one thing that would have caused the people in town to take a closer look.

Sounds "about right."

And a child starving to death is not a natural cause, by the way.

dilby

(2,273 posts)
75. A child starving to death in Ireland under British Rule was not uncommon.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 05:52 PM
Jun 2014

The whole country was in turmoil and infant mortality rate was higher than most of Europe.

 

alphafemale

(18,497 posts)
79. Yeah. The Potato Famine was deliberate genocide.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 06:29 PM
Jun 2014

While this was merely mass murder.

So, no big thing.

Nothing to see here.

anneboleyn

(5,611 posts)
129. Not under "British Rule," and twentieth century, not nineteenth. No excuse
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 08:24 AM
Jun 2014

for the deliberate starvation and mistreatment of these children -- it is not the same as "infant mortality" when babies and very young children are being starved and denied available medical care until they die of treatable conditions. Their bodies were then callously DUMPED IN A SEPTIC TANK by a church that constantly proclaims its supposed concern for the welfare of babies, its pro-life views, its condemnation of contraception -- not to mention the church's traditional views on burying the dead in a respectful manner, not dumping the bodies as sewage.

The Irish government paid these homes a stipend per child, which just adds to the disgusting abuses committed by this baby mill. They were taking the money from the government, then selling adoptable children to wealthy Americans and other foreign families, and neglecting other, less marketable children until they died. It is that simple, and criminal prosecution is appropriate, although most of the perpetrators are likely dead.

herding cats

(19,559 posts)
76. The recorded deaths occur during a 29 year period.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 06:09 PM
Jun 2014

From 1932 when it was mandated by law deaths be recorded, until the home was closed in 1961.


“Eventually I had the idea to contact the registry office in Galway. I remembered a law was enacted in 1932 to register every death in the country. My contact said give me a few weeks and I’ll let you know.”

“A week later she got back to me and said do you really want all of these deaths? I said I do. She told me I would be charged for each record. Then she asked me did I realize the enormity of the numbers of deaths there?”

The registrar came back with a list of 796 children. “I could not believe it. I was dumbfounded and deeply upset,” says Corless. “There and then I said this isn’t right. There’s nothing on the ground there to mark the grave, there’s nothing to say it’s a massive children’s graveyard. It’s laid abandoned like that since it was closed in 1961.”
http://www.irishcentral.com/opinion/cahirodoherty/Galway-historian-reveals-truth-behind-800-orphans-in-mass-grave.html


From the same article:

A local health board inspection report from April 1944 recorded 271 children and 61 single mothers in residence, a total of 333 in a building that had a capacity for 243.

The report described the children as “emaciated,” “pot-bellied,” “fragile” with “flesh hanging loosely on limbs.” The report noted that 31 children in the “sun room and balcony” were “poor, emaciated and not thriving.” The effects of long term neglect and malnutrition were observed repeatedly.

Children died at The Home at the rate of one a fortnight for almost 40 years, one report claims. Another appears to claim that 300 children died between 1943 and 1946, which wold mean two deaths a week in the isolated institution.


This is an exceptional death rate of infants and small children, even for that era. Death by malnutrition and neglect is considered a crime and not natural causes by any means.

What took place there was an atrocity, at best. The saddest part is it was common practice at the time.

The staggering mortality rate of “The Home” was apparently replicated elsewhere in Ireland.

The Sean Ross Mother and Baby Home, portrayed in the award winning film “Philomena” this year, opened in Roscrea, County Tipperary in 1930. In its first year of operation 60 babies died out of a total of 120, a fifty percent infant mortality rate, more than four times higher than in the general population at the time.

Statistics show a quarter of all babies born outside marriage in the 1930’s in Ireland died before their first birthdays. As observers have remarked elsewhere, these were infant death rates from the 17th century.

In one year alone in the mid 1940’s in the Bessborough Mother and Baby Home in County Cork, out of the 180 babies born 100 died.

Given the shockingly high mortality rates, it is hard not to conclude that the destabilizing threat these children represented to Irish society and its conservative religious ethos may have contributed to their untimely demise.
http://www.irishcentral.com/opinion/cahirodoherty/Mass-grave-of-up-to-800-dead-babies-exposed-in-County-Galway-.html


It's contended by adoption rights advocates in Ireland the babies with disabilities or other health issues in these homes were not cared for properly and allowed to die. The reason being they were not adoptable overseas where their core market was, and were of no use to these institutions.

Make no mistake, these deaths, and how these bodies were disposed of, is a horrific example of systemic abuse which was once ignored by society as too dirty a secret to face.

theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
81. That you would even mount some rationale or excuse for this is appalling
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 06:42 PM
Jun 2014

And here I initially thought you simply forgot to add the sarcasm tag to your post.

 

alphafemale

(18,497 posts)
72. I'm thinking of some of those mothers now in their seventies or older.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 05:43 PM
Jun 2014
How many of them are still alive who managed to go on with their lives.

And they hungered for a child never held, but were told they were adopted and dared believe that maybe they had a good life somewhere.

How could you not imagine the worst and have your heart shattered again?

StevieM

(10,500 posts)
77. We need to open the sealed birth records so that the babies that did survive
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 06:13 PM
Jun 2014

can reunite with their mothers before they die.

Of course, in places like Ireland, many of those records were deliberately destroyed in "accidents." But here in the United States there is no reason why we cannot give adoptees access to their original birth certificates.

The excuse, of course, is that we are protecting the privacy that was supposedly promised to birth mothers. But if you talk to these women you very rarely hear a story about being promised privacy. They were bullied. They were threatened. In many cases they were drugged. But they never asked for, nor were promised, privacy.

 

alphafemale

(18,497 posts)
86. I imagine it would be the rare parent of an adopted adult child...
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 06:52 PM
Jun 2014

...who would feel threatened by a search for a birth mother at this point. The youngest of these children would be in their fifties. Which would put the parents, well to be blunt. Very likely most of the adoptive parents are probably dead. Or in their nineties. (with the estimate that most adoptive couples were likely 35 or older.)

I can't imagine having a child stolen against your will like that. I CAN imagine searching the face of every child who would be the age of yours. I can imagine counting every birthday.

Knowing what would have been their first day of school. Their graduation. And always wondering.

Perhaps not even knowing if your child was a boy or a girl.





StevieM

(10,500 posts)
87. The Baby Scoop Era was a terrible time. It was a "tell the world what happened here" chapter.
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 07:03 PM
Jun 2014

But it is not fully recognized as such. Very few people want to be told what happened. The treatment of birth mothers in our society is horrendous.

There are so many women who would love to see their children again before they die. It makes me sick to my stomach to think that we are actively denying them that right. Where is the virtue in that?

And yes, many first mothers have been known to say that the time around their child's birthday is particularly hard on them. In most cases, they are thinking of that child, and little else, on that day.

me b zola

(19,053 posts)
205. This subject is close to her heart~Joni Mitchell lost a child to adoption during the scoop era
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 05:59 PM
Jun 2014
Adopted Girl Finds Mom, Joni Mitchell



TORONTO — "It was very comfortable, very natural," said Kilauren Gibb, after a reunion with her birth mother, singer Joni Mitchell, in Los Angeles. Mitchell, who placed Kilauren up for adoption 32 years ago, also met her grandson, Gibb's son, Marlin, 3. Gibb was 27 when she learned she'd been adopted. A child welfare agency told her that her birth mother was a "successful Canadian folk singer." She became convinced Mitchell was her mother after noting similarities while checking out the singer's website.


http://articles.chicagotribune.com/1997-04-09/news/9704090099_1_child-welfare-agency-joni-mitchell-adopted

StevieM

(10,500 posts)
222. Wow...her daughter was an LDA (Late Discovery Adoptee). I can't believe that as late as 1997
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 07:46 PM
Jun 2014

there are still people who keep it hidden for so long.

Actually....yes I can. I've heard these kinds of stories before. How can anyone even try to claim that it is about the welfare of the child?

me b zola

(19,053 posts)
224. Did you know that Darryl McDaneils, one of the originators of hip-hop, was a late-discovery adoptee
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 08:10 PM
Jun 2014

~also a Baby Scoop Era adoptee

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Darryl_McDaniels

I love this song that he and Sara McLachlan, also a Baby Scoop Era adoptee, collaborated on.



StevieM

(10,500 posts)
228. I had no idea. Great video! LDA stories always shock the hell out of me.
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 08:35 PM
Jun 2014

I try to understand the mindset that leads to them....and I guess in a way I do.

I have never personally met a LDA.

James Lane, the 2013 Green Party candidate for NYC Public Advocate was a LDA.

abelenkpe

(9,933 posts)
119. Whoa
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 10:29 PM
Jun 2014

I had never heard of the baby scoop era. This entire thread is really disturbing and sad. Those poor children and mothers.

intaglio

(8,170 posts)
170. The Church was a huge player in this scandal
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 01:24 PM
Jun 2014

In Spain
From about 1937 for 40 to 50 years an estimated 300,000 - that is correct three hundred thousand - children were stolen from their mothers
Source BBC Spain's stolen babies and the families who lived a lie

In Chile a similar history seems to have unfolded with children being stolen for some 30 years at least
Source The Guardian Chile: Catholic priests investigated over stolen babies

Various Christian groups were also very much to the fore in the "Home Children" shipped overseas from the UK, and in the abduction of aboriginal children in Australia.

Dawson Leery

(19,348 posts)
183. The Satanic Cult of Emperor Constantine strikes again!
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 01:59 PM
Jun 2014

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Listening to Roma Downey speak of the wonders of this horrific crime syndicate is vomit inducing.




Perhaps there was something to historic anti-Catholic sentiment. The church was nothing more than a crime syndicate wrapped inside the name of Jesus.

get the red out

(13,461 posts)
196. Worse than a puppy mill
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 02:55 PM
Jun 2014

What about that "right to life" bullshit they spew? They starved these kids then threw their bodies into a hole to rot. There are your fucking demons; angry, pinched faced, buzzards walking around in habits, torturing for God.

 

AngryAmish

(25,704 posts)
211. My parents came from the Ireland of that era
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 06:30 PM
Jun 2014

Not Limerick but nearby. There was grinding poverty in that era. My mother's side had a farm so was close to the 1% of Ireland but with 9 kids 7 had to emigrate. We used to send old clothes back to cousins in the 1970s. My grandparents on my father's side got plumbing in their house in 1975...and they were well off comparatively.

Infanticide was practiced. As it does in every poor culture. Huge families were the norm.

Judge not lest ye ...

Sunlei

(22,651 posts)
215. not just babies, children had to live and die there.
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 06:57 PM
Jun 2014
Once, in 1995, Corless said in the phone interview, several boys had stumbled across the mass grave, which lay beneath a cracked piece of concrete: “The boys told me it had been filled to the brim with human skulls and bones. They said even to this day they still have nightmares of finding the bodies.”

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