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HockeyMom

(14,337 posts)
Thu Mar 1, 2012, 07:46 PM Mar 2012

What religion SHOULD be about

Back in the early 90s, my husband's IT job was offshored. It was over a year and we had gone through all our savings. We were one unemployment check away from being thrown out in the street. Our two children were very young. I had already put them on state childhood health benefits, and had gone to Planned Parenthood to get my BC Pills. The last thing we wanted, or needed, was MORE mouths to feed. Hear that, Catholic Church?

A local Food Pantry, Non-Catholic, advertised that they would give food to the poor, no questions, no preaching. I went to them. They were very true to their word. They did not ask me what my religion was, or try to convert, or preach to me. All they wanted to know was were we unemployed? Did we have young children who needed to be fed? They gave us a basket full of food, including at the time, a complete Thanksgiving Dinner. I cannot tell you how grateful I was that we would be able to have a turkey dinner that year for my children.

When my husband did get another job, the first thing we did with his first paycheck was to donate to that Food Pantry. I gave to them for as long as I lived in that town. They helped me in my time of need, no questions asked, so I wanted to give back to THEM when I could afford it. I did not care WHAT their religious belliefts were. They certainly didn't ask me to comform to their religious beliefs. If I could help then, and others, then I WANTED to do so. You treat others how you want to be treated yourself.

This is how religious organization SHOULD BE. Forget the contraception and gay marriage objections. You LOSE your credibility with those issues. Adminster to the poor, the sick, and the elderly, and maybe more people will be willing to give back to YOU.

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HopeHoops

(47,675 posts)
1. It's simple. Help others when you can and accept help when you need it.
Thu Mar 1, 2012, 08:06 PM
Mar 2012

All the other crap is bullshit.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
2. You mean to just do the right thing because its the right thing to do?
Thu Mar 1, 2012, 08:14 PM
Mar 2012

But that would mean religion would be pointless delusion.


I'm listening, please continue...

 

HockeyMom

(14,337 posts)
3. Religion is pointless delusion
Thu Mar 1, 2012, 08:36 PM
Mar 2012

In my lifetime I have been fortunate to have known, even as child, athiests who were more "chirstian" than many chirstians. Golden Rule. Do unto others as you would be treated. You don't need more "religion" than that.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
4. I think you are right, but most would twist into a pretzel trying to rationalize their disagreement
Thu Mar 1, 2012, 08:45 PM
Mar 2012

with that assertion.

 

Kurmudgeon

(1,751 posts)
7. Then try not to paint those who believe differently than you as having a "delusion".
Thu Mar 1, 2012, 10:34 PM
Mar 2012

Also, Catholicism is not the entirety of religion.
Did you poll everyone at that food pantry in your first post?
Then how can you even guess as to who they were and why they were there?

JNathanK

(185 posts)
5. I wouldn't say its pointless.
Thu Mar 1, 2012, 08:47 PM
Mar 2012

Religious and ideological beliefs are like an operating system. Some are really buggy and function at a low processing speed, and some aren't.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
6. If doing the right thing for the sake of doing the right thing is not a virture of religion...
Thu Mar 1, 2012, 08:50 PM
Mar 2012

then what else does religion have to offer that can stand up to the scrutiny of reason? If an idea, or belief, cannot stand up to reason and rational thought, then it is pointless delusion.

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