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11 Bravo

(23,926 posts)
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 06:22 PM Feb 2013

Aaaah SHIT! I just got my biopsy results. It's melanoma.

About a half an hour ago I got the call from my dermatologist's office. The prognosis isn't too bad, in fact, it's pretty good, and I'll have surgery on Wednesday. Besides, I've already kicked cancer's candy ass once, way back in '97; and I'm ready to do it again.

We caught it early, and it appears to be not overly invasive; but having heard the "C" word once already, I'll admit that hearing it again was a gut punch. After hugging my wife, and telling my sons how much I love them, I may have to be twice as obnoxious for a couple of days, just to convince myself that I'm too fucking tough to be sick. (If so, I apologize in advance.)

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Aaaah SHIT! I just got my biopsy results. It's melanoma. (Original Post) 11 Bravo Feb 2013 OP
{{hugs}} Delphinus Feb 2013 #1
best of luck to you.... mike_c Feb 2013 #2
Sorry to hear you've got the big C, glad to hear the prognosis is good Fumesucker Feb 2013 #3
Love the attitude. apnu Feb 2013 #4
Well we know infantry is badass anyway Kingofalldems Feb 2013 #5
KICK ITS FUCKING ASS, 11 Bravo! NYC_SKP Feb 2013 #6
Ditto on that one! Hulk Feb 2013 #161
Let us know how it goes. Best wishes and good vibes. Solly Mack Feb 2013 #7
Keep up your dukes, 11 Bravo! Octafish Feb 2013 #8
Kick cancer's ass, bro MrScorpio Feb 2013 #9
You've got the correct fighter's attitude! Good luck and best wishes! nt. OldDem2012 Feb 2013 #10
Kick it's ass again sharp_stick Feb 2013 #11
Good luck to you. N/T GreenStormCloud Feb 2013 #12
Kicking so more will see--hope everything goes well and this is behind you soon. nt MADem Feb 2013 #13
The pathology lab will check for indications that it's spread Warpy Feb 2013 #14
Not entirely accurate assessmenton the treatment... Pachamama Feb 2013 #143
Ok, get your fighting gloves on, don the attitude, practice here on DU riderinthestorm Feb 2013 #15
Sorry about that--hopefully they'll hack it out of you for good, and that will be that. TwilightGardener Feb 2013 #16
You can do 11B20... kentuck Feb 2013 #17
Good Attitude, 11 Bravo! Cha Feb 2013 #18
I'll keep you in my thoughts! LeftofObama Feb 2013 #19
Wishing you a quick and complete recovery AndyA Feb 2013 #20
Here's to kicking-ass redux! villager Feb 2013 #21
Stay positive and stress free. ProSense Feb 2013 #22
I second this. This is what my mom's oncologist told us when Mom had breast cancer. pacalo Feb 2013 #113
You sound like a fighter and you seem to have humor. Those are the most important southernyankeebelle Feb 2013 #23
That's the attitude...! 'Sorry you have to go through this, but kick that cancer "Candy Ass" hlthe2b Feb 2013 #24
Sorry to hear that Aerows Feb 2013 #25
Will be thinking of you Wednesday... countryjake Feb 2013 #26
Fight on Brother. Kick it's ass NightWatcher Feb 2013 #27
Kick it down the stairs and never look back, 11Bravo. freshwest Feb 2013 #28
((((Good Vibes to You))))) KoKo Feb 2013 #29
You'll be fine! colorado_ufo Feb 2013 #30
Good luck with the surgery. Mz Pip Feb 2013 #31
Sorry. ZombieHorde Feb 2013 #32
Got a diagnosis 30 years ago...carcanoma insitu...the best diagnosis for cancer you can have.. angstlessk Feb 2013 #33
Keep on kickin' ass! City Lights Feb 2013 #34
Sending lots of good thoughts/energy. TDale313 Feb 2013 #35
Go all out Hoohah on that diagnosis kairos12 Feb 2013 #36
Kick its arse ---> ( ! ) aikoaiko Feb 2013 #37
Hang in there, brother. cliffordu Feb 2013 #38
That cancer's gonna regret ever setting foot in your door. Robb Feb 2013 #39
Good luck for a positive outcome. Frustratedlady Feb 2013 #40
here's to a complete and rapid recovery samsingh Feb 2013 #41
You're gonna kick cancer's ass one more time! Lone_Star_Dem Feb 2013 #42
Now yhou just beat that fugger malaise Feb 2013 #43
So sorry. I've had the scare with my kidney. Had a benign cyst. For those of us who need to keep Lint Head Feb 2013 #44
I'm curious too if he is up to it. Hassin Bin Sober Feb 2013 #118
Yes. A lot of folks could benefit from other people's experience. Lint Head Feb 2013 #127
I spent a lot of time in the sun when I was younger, so I have regular yearly skin checks. 11 Bravo Feb 2013 #137
Thanks Bravo 11. I'm having a check up next week. Lint Head Feb 2013 #142
This must hurt very much; yet, you are bravely looking upwards. juajen Feb 2013 #45
I'll be sending lots of positive thoughts your way. kcass1954 Feb 2013 #46
i'm glad you caught it early. barbtries Feb 2013 #47
Just remember, you have a whole gallery here DinahMoeHum Feb 2013 #48
kick its ugly ass, 11 Bravo!!! noiretextatique Feb 2013 #49
Hoping for the best for you. Peace! kelliekat44 Feb 2013 #50
speedy recovery and lots of hugs cal04 Feb 2013 #51
My brother was diagnosed with melanoma in 2003, at age 55. tblue37 Feb 2013 #52
(( )) blm Feb 2013 #53
Wishing you all the best, 11 Bravo. Granny M Feb 2013 #54
(((GOOD VIBES))) Cali_Democrat Feb 2013 #55
That's a great attitude, 11 Bravo. My sister's gone through Flaxbee Feb 2013 #56
Stage 2 Melanoma Survivor here.....going on 4 years with no recurrence.... Pachamama Feb 2013 #57
The C doesn't have a chance against you. spooky3 Feb 2013 #58
It's ass kicking time again. mac56 Feb 2013 #59
Lots of good thoughts, prayers, big hugs protect our future Feb 2013 #60
Always be positive. greytdemocrat Feb 2013 #61
survival warrprayer Feb 2013 #62
I am sorry to hear that Rosa Luxemburg Feb 2013 #63
My Mrs had a mole removed 30 years ago and the tactless Intern Doc came in and.... yourout Feb 2013 #64
Best Wishes for a speedy and full remission. jerseyjack Feb 2013 #65
Kick Some Ass 11 Bravo !!! WillyT Feb 2013 #66
Damn skippy. You're too tough to let this beat you. Fight on 11 Bravo - we're LoisB Feb 2013 #67
11 Bravo Loki Feb 2013 #68
I'd recommend further, thorough ass-kicking of cancer's candy ass! hatrack Feb 2013 #69
You seem very positive senseandsensibility Feb 2013 #70
Sending healing thoughts and prayers. gademocrat7 Feb 2013 #71
I hear you... WCGreen Feb 2013 #72
Shit. My dad's been through Chemo for that. Gorp Feb 2013 #73
Another 11B kworkman Feb 2013 #74
Wishes to you for a completely successful triumph over C & a long healthy life with your family. nt Bernardo de La Paz Feb 2013 #75
You survived being an 11 Bravo, you'll survive melanoma. Rozlee Feb 2013 #76
I'm so sorry. Will be hoping for the best. Ilsa Feb 2013 #77
One cancer survivor to another sarge43 Feb 2013 #78
I had a .4 removed a year ago, on my ankle. Will you need a skin graft? roseBudd Feb 2013 #79
Vibes dude denbot Feb 2013 #80
I had an in situ melanoma about 10 year ago. Smarmie Doofus Feb 2013 #81
If I wasn't tough as nails, I'd probably be in tears by now. Thanks to all. Now, my wife and I ... 11 Bravo Feb 2013 #82
Oh man, that's a shocker! graywarrior Feb 2013 #83
Best of luck, 11 Bravo! MarianJack Feb 2013 #84
Be well and heal fast! emsimon33 Feb 2013 #85
The best of luck to you. R. Daneel Olivaw Feb 2013 #86
Catching it early is HUGE. Nye Bevan Feb 2013 #87
((())) Arctic Dave Feb 2013 #88
Kick it, Baby. You know you got the goods. nolabear Feb 2013 #89
Thinking positive for you. MotherPetrie Feb 2013 #90
prayers for a speedy recovery sad-cafe Feb 2013 #91
Sending positive vibes your way. Le Taz Hot Feb 2013 #92
You'll kick it's ass again. Unknown Beatle Feb 2013 #93
20 year study shows Cannabinoids are proven to halt aggressive cancers AgingAmerican Feb 2013 #94
Good luck, 11Bravo Blue_In_AK Feb 2013 #95
Even if it HAS spread, all is not lost. There have been some very real improvements kestrel91316 Feb 2013 #96
11 Bravo, you will kick cancer ass again Skittles Feb 2013 #97
Sorry to hear that. stevenleser Feb 2013 #98
Sorry about the melanoma. I know what it's like. no_hypocrisy Feb 2013 #99
Just in case you need it (don't think you will) SmileyRose Feb 2013 #100
i wish you good luck and frequent checkups ellenfl Feb 2013 #101
Good thoughts! MannyGoldstein Feb 2013 #102
Best wishes to You! Stay out of the sun & take good care of Yourself!! hue Feb 2013 #103
Good luck! Daemonaquila Feb 2013 #104
You kicked it's ass once Canuckistanian Feb 2013 #105
Wishing you every success and joy your heart can hold. You can beat this. We're with you. ancianita Feb 2013 #106
Well, that totally sucks. Lefta Dissenter Feb 2013 #107
c has a good ass whippin' ahead..... spanone Feb 2013 #108
Keep us posted, and know that you are in my thoughts. nt msanthrope Feb 2013 #109
a friend of mine beat stage four. go and be well. i send you all my love roguevalley Feb 2013 #110
I'm sorry to hear this, 11 Bravo. Sissyk Feb 2013 #111
my best cancer beating vibes are now on the way Bozita Feb 2013 #112
I like your attitude, 11 Bravo! pacalo Feb 2013 #114
sounds like you will beat it JI7 Feb 2013 #115
For you, my friend: Stinky The Clown Feb 2013 #116
So very sorry Bravo. mzmolly Feb 2013 #117
Best wishes with the surgery. ManiacJoe Feb 2013 #119
You WILL beat this, says this woman who is NEVER wrong. Marie Marie Feb 2013 #120
I hope it isn't too much of a bummer for you. Get well quickly alfredo Feb 2013 #121
You'll have a bigger gouge than you think but hey, you probably lost more in the war. tavalon Feb 2013 #122
Kick its ass. Warren DeMontague Feb 2013 #123
I had a melanoma cut out of me three years ago Blecht Feb 2013 #124
Melanoma Not a Fan Feb 2013 #125
Best Wishes, 11 Bravo. Stay strong. RedCappedBandit Feb 2013 #126
I know I'm new here but... Jasana Feb 2013 #128
I don't have any wisdom to impart. Just I wish you well. dballance Feb 2013 #129
Glad to hear you caught it early. eridani Feb 2013 #130
Wow. mgardener Feb 2013 #131
Melanoma sucks. cate94 Feb 2013 #132
Kick its ass, 11 Bravo! Chorophyll Feb 2013 #133
They call it the beast of cancer.... a kennedy Feb 2013 #134
Really sad to hear 11-B Hubert Flottz Feb 2013 #135
Hang in there. We're pulling for you! myrna minx Feb 2013 #136
Sending healing light and love, my friend. SalmonChantedEvening Feb 2013 #138
Well, that sucks. malthaussen Feb 2013 #139
Good luck with your treatment! sinkingfeeling Feb 2013 #140
You show that melanoma who's boss, soldier! Recursion Feb 2013 #141
So sorry to hear that...here's good vibes coming your way joeybee12 Feb 2013 #144
Fight on, Bravo, Fight on! rusty fender Feb 2013 #145
Sending Positive Energy Thoughts your way. Liberalynn Feb 2013 #146
You will be fine! tblue Feb 2013 #147
Hang in there soldier. Rex Feb 2013 #148
((((11 Bravo)))) geardaddy Feb 2013 #149
((((HUGS)))) Prayers sent your way, and I agree, you LiberalLoner Feb 2013 #150
Bummer!!! Beacool Feb 2013 #151
Be whatever scares cancer's cowardly ass. Orsino Feb 2013 #152
We already have one immortal dude here -- murielm99 Feb 2013 #153
Best wishes for round two, keep up the attitude! Moostache Feb 2013 #154
Yeah - just get it early! Glad you did. calimary Feb 2013 #155
Wishing you the best, with that attitude, cancer better watch the @$@# out! usregimechange Feb 2013 #156
This 91 foxtrot says kick it's ass bottomofthehill Feb 2013 #157
Stretch those ass-kickin' muscles, 11B... and ask for any help or support you need. TygrBright Feb 2013 #158
(((hugs))) Kadie Feb 2013 #159
Dude. Ikonoklast Feb 2013 #160
From what I understand, if you catch it early (and sounds like you did), closeupready Feb 2013 #162
Mop the floor with that miserable melanoma Blue Owl Feb 2013 #163
Been down that road, my dearest Bravo PlanetBev Feb 2013 #164
Bro.... Aviation Pro Feb 2013 #165
Fuck cancer. WilliamPitt Feb 2013 #166
My uncle and aunt have had multiple rounds of melanoma removal whistler162 Feb 2013 #167
MF'N melanoma We have both beat it once. Wish you didn't have a rematch. IADEMO2004 Feb 2013 #168
Fight on, my friend, we need you. Ken Burch Feb 2013 #169

Delphinus

(11,830 posts)
1. {{hugs}}
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 06:24 PM
Feb 2013

May you find all you need to recover from this bout too. You're here with friends, just remember that.

 

Hulk

(6,699 posts)
161. Ditto on that one!
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 04:11 PM
Feb 2013

Wish you the very best. You have the right attitude, and you'll take care of business.

Octafish

(55,745 posts)
8. Keep up your dukes, 11 Bravo!
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 06:27 PM
Feb 2013
Max Ring speaks of Beethoven's visit to Grätz castle...

The old castellan, was firmly convinced that Beethoven was not quite right in his mind; he would often run, bareheaded, without a hat, around in the great park of the castle hours on end, even if it were raining with lightning and thunder. On other occasions, he would sit for whole days shut up in his room without seeing anybody and not speaking a word. But the most insane behaviour occurred when the French occupied Grätz after the battle of Austerlitz (1806). The prince had aroused the hopes of the French general of meeting the celebrated composer and to hear him play on the piano-forte. To this end, a great musical soiree was arranged at the castle and the composer was to play his latest compositions. Beethoven, however, refused although the Prince repeatedly and earnestly requested him to do so. Nevertheless, the Prince sill hoped to persuade the obstinate musician, and invited the French general and other distinguished guests. On the appointed evening Beethoven was nowhere to be seen. Finally the news came that the artist had secretly left the castle and fled on foot to the town of Grätz in the cold winter night - only a letter to the Prince had been found in his room. In it he explained that he could not play to enemies of his country and added "Prince! what you are,you are by circumstance and by birth. What I am, I am through myself. Of Princes there have been and will be thousands. Of Beethovens there is only one.."

http://www.lvbeethoven.co.uk/page10.html

Warpy

(111,222 posts)
14. The pathology lab will check for indications that it's spread
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 06:29 PM
Feb 2013

and if it has, it's chemo time. However, it's still one of the more curable ones if it's caught early.

In the meantime, don't trouble trouble until trouble troubles you. You have no reason to believe it spread. You have been on top of this stuff because you've already had a scare.

It still sucks and you get to complain about it, though.

Pachamama

(16,886 posts)
143. Not entirely accurate assessmenton the treatment...
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 11:15 AM
Feb 2013

If the indications are that it has spread to the lymphnodes (depending on the margins excised) they may do a sentinel lymph node biopsy. As you get into the more advanced stages of Melanoma (i'm a Stage 2 survivor) then depending on their concern that it may have spread into lymph nodes they remove all lymph nodes near the melanoma are of origin and then begin immunotherapy with the use of interferon and possibly radiation. Later more advanced stages (4 & 5) will use actual chemotherapy combined with immunotherapy (called Biochemotherapy).

I know you meant well Warpy, but I think its important to give accurate information. Chemotherapy is not used until the very advanced stages and Melanoma is different from other cancers in that its response is to immunotherapy, thus its primary use. I had Stage 2, treated by some of top doctors at UCSF's Melanoma clinic. There was surgical removal of the melanoma with wide margins, sentinel lymph node biopsy (avoided lymph node dissection - full removal) and then had adjuvant therapy (immunotherapy) with interferon.

I asked Bravo in an earlier reply where its located....that is important....in my case it was on my lower leg....far from lymphnodes. 75% of all Melanoma occurs on womens limbs, particularly lower legs below knee. Men tend to have it on their head and torso. Its interestingly where the sexes are not equal....thus a stage 1 on the torso can actually be worse than stage 3 on lower leg.

The good news is that the care and treatment and developments regarding melanoma have become very advanced and the survivalbility better than ever. I have a friend who has mucousal melanoma in his nasal passage....49 yrs old....he's just completed radiation and immunotherapy and he's doing well all things considered...but mucousal is the melanoma of melanomas....and usually not caught till very advanced...

 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
15. Ok, get your fighting gloves on, don the attitude, practice here on DU
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 06:30 PM
Feb 2013

and good luck on Wednesday. I am really sorry about the diagnosis and will be thinking of you in the days ahead...



kentuck

(111,069 posts)
17. You can do 11B20...
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 06:32 PM
Feb 2013

My Brother was diagnosed with a melanoma about 10 years ago and it was fairly deep as melanomas go. He has been lucky in that it has not returned.

Hang in there.

pacalo

(24,721 posts)
113. I second this. This is what my mom's oncologist told us when Mom had breast cancer.
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 12:10 AM
Feb 2013

She was cancer-free for 10 years following her mastectomy. At 81 yrs. old, she passed away in November of something totally unrelated.

 

southernyankeebelle

(11,304 posts)
23. You sound like a fighter and you seem to have humor. Those are the most important
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 06:39 PM
Feb 2013

qualities a person should have when getting bad news. My father-in-law was that way. Always playing jokes on us and sending us off to do his chores like buying cloths and bringing them home only to hear him get mad because we got something he didn't like. While we are gone he would get one of his fishing rubber little pets and tie a string around it and when we would get back and start opening the screen door he pulls on the string and the little pet starts to move and we start screaming and jumping. He loved it and we were relieved it was fake. My mother kept him going for a very long long time. God rest his soul. He died of old age.

hlthe2b

(102,192 posts)
24. That's the attitude...! 'Sorry you have to go through this, but kick that cancer "Candy Ass"
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 06:39 PM
Feb 2013

(as you say)....

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
27. Fight on Brother. Kick it's ass
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 06:40 PM
Feb 2013

And take care of yourself. Families make it worth fighting even if you get tired.

KoKo

(84,711 posts)
29. ((((Good Vibes to You)))))
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 06:44 PM
Feb 2013
to your optimistic fighting spirit! But...yeah...it's still that underneath nagging that creeps in. Been there and know...

angstlessk

(11,862 posts)
33. Got a diagnosis 30 years ago...carcanoma insitu...the best diagnosis for cancer you can have..
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 06:54 PM
Feb 2013

Cancer but it has not spread...and can be cut out completely..and NO other treatment is necessary .. that is good news!

cliffordu

(30,994 posts)
38. Hang in there, brother.
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 06:59 PM
Feb 2013

You've been through worse and we both know it.

You can be as obnoxious as you need.

Let your freak flag fly.

c

Robb

(39,665 posts)
39. That cancer's gonna regret ever setting foot in your door.
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 07:00 PM
Feb 2013

Boot to it's ass, man. Pulling for you.

Frustratedlady

(16,254 posts)
40. Good luck for a positive outcome.
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 07:00 PM
Feb 2013

I know of several people who have had the surgery for melanoma and are doing just fine. The same is going to happen for you, as well. Keep the UP attitude and know that DUrs have got your back.

Lone_Star_Dem

(28,158 posts)
42. You're gonna kick cancer's ass one more time!
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 07:04 PM
Feb 2013

Give it a punch or two for me while you're at it. It and I still have a score to settle.

I'll be thinking of you and looking forward to your full recovery.

Lint Head

(15,064 posts)
44. So sorry. I've had the scare with my kidney. Had a benign cyst. For those of us who need to keep
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 07:12 PM
Feb 2013

our guard, what did you notice that gave you the indication it needed to be looked at? Or, was it a routine exam and the doctor found something? I have some skin issues and constantly look out for unusual spots etc. The web is full of photos but one wonders how accurate the web is sometimes. I could have some mole on me right now that I'm ignoring. It's good when you can hear from someone first hand.

I'm pulling for you. It took my mother.

Hassin Bin Sober

(26,318 posts)
118. I'm curious too if he is up to it.
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 01:03 AM
Feb 2013

Every little bit of info helps.

A former co-worker had a friend who had melanoma. Her friend described it as sort of "dirt smudge". A couple years later my co-worker friend noticed a "dirt smudge" on her leg. She probably would have blown it off if not for the description her friend gave.

11 Bravo

(23,926 posts)
137. I spent a lot of time in the sun when I was younger, so I have regular yearly skin checks.
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 09:44 AM
Feb 2013

I had no idea anything was going on, and the lesion was in the middle of my back ... in other words, I never would have seen it. The dermatologist said she wanted to biopsy it just to be safe. I'm glad she did.
Sorry I can't provide more substantive help, but it was just a routine check-up. I would advise regular skin checks, because the doc will be able to spot things you can't see (like a mole right in the middle of your back)!

juajen

(8,515 posts)
45. This must hurt very much; yet, you are bravely looking upwards.
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 07:16 PM
Feb 2013

I will pray to every God I know and do not know that you will be fine. Frankly, I believe you already are.

noiretextatique

(27,275 posts)
49. kick its ugly ass, 11 Bravo!!!
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 07:31 PM
Feb 2013

as another member of the club no one wants to join, my heart goes out to you. as does my strength and support

tblue37

(65,269 posts)
52. My brother was diagnosed with melanoma in 2003, at age 55.
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 07:41 PM
Feb 2013

He had three lesions removed from his face, and he gets checkups to make sure he is still cancer free, but it has never come back.

I hope your outcome is equally good.

Granny M

(1,395 posts)
54. Wishing you all the best, 11 Bravo.
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 07:56 PM
Feb 2013

Glad the prognosis is looking good. Sounds like you're a strong and stubborn fighter, so here's to kicking cancer's candy ass again. Please let us know how you are getting on, as soon as you're up to it.

Flaxbee

(13,661 posts)
56. That's a great attitude, 11 Bravo. My sister's gone through
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 07:57 PM
Feb 2013

cancer a few times -- of course she'd rather have not, but oddly enough, she said the second time around wasn't so scary.

to you and your family.

You'll kick butt once again.

Pachamama

(16,886 posts)
57. Stage 2 Melanoma Survivor here.....going on 4 years with no recurrence....
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 07:58 PM
Feb 2013

Mine was located on my lower leg....went through immniotherapy which uses interferon to help the immune system battle the cancer in the lymphatic system.

Where is yours 11 Bravo? Have they told you what stage? Sounds like from your optimism and catching early that its In Situ....

You will know more after Wednesdays surgery....dont be surprised at how much gets dug out - they have to make sure there are clear and wide margins.....

protect our future

(1,156 posts)
60. Lots of good thoughts, prayers, big hugs
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 08:00 PM
Feb 2013

and anything else I can think of that can help get you well--all coming your way from me.

Rosa Luxemburg

(28,627 posts)
63. I am sorry to hear that
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 08:04 PM
Feb 2013

my husband is a 10 year survivor! Medical techniques are much better these days so you should be OK!

yourout

(7,526 posts)
64. My Mrs had a mole removed 30 years ago and the tactless Intern Doc came in and....
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 08:06 PM
Feb 2013

said. "It's Cancer". Not "abnormal cells", Not "melanoma"........just "It's Cancer".
After picking her up off the floor I should have replaced her with him.

The story ends well though as after having an unpleasant excision she has been cancer free for 30+ years.

hatrack

(59,583 posts)
69. I'd recommend further, thorough ass-kicking of cancer's candy ass!
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 08:16 PM
Feb 2013

Here's hoping that all goes well, and we'll be thinking of you!

 

Gorp

(716 posts)
73. Shit. My dad's been through Chemo for that.
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 08:22 PM
Feb 2013

He took the pop-up button from a ButterBall chicken to one session and when he came out of the tube he told the attendants that he must be done. He's got a sick sense of humor.

I'm glad they caught it early. I used to get sun poisoning several times a summer as a kid. I didn't even know what "sun screen" was at the time. Every mole or weird spot on my skin makes me worry but so far my GP has said nothing warrants a biopsy. I know it's just a matter of time.

I wish you the best of luck and apparently I'm not the only one on DU to do that. Try to keep your "kick ass" attitude in place. Sometimes that's the most powerful force you can have in place.

Keep us posted.

kworkman

(19 posts)
74. Another 11B
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 08:29 PM
Feb 2013

Hell Dude, once you've had the 11B everything else don't mean nuttin'. You're in my thoughts.

Rozlee

(2,529 posts)
76. You survived being an 11 Bravo, you'll survive melanoma.
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 08:29 PM
Feb 2013

11B's are as tough as diamonds and infinitely more valuable.


From a 66 Hotel.

sarge43

(28,941 posts)
78. One cancer survivor to another
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 08:35 PM
Feb 2013

We're still here; we're still kicking ass

Holding you in the light. Keep us posted.

roseBudd

(8,718 posts)
79. I had a .4 removed a year ago, on my ankle. Will you need a skin graft?
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 08:38 PM
Feb 2013

I lost 50% of my graft, it sloughed off, and had to heal by secondary intention.

Will you be getting Moh's?

Also cut out any aspirin, ibuprofen ASAP. I had hematoma, they cut me the same day the biopsy came back and I had taken ibuprofen the night before.

 

Smarmie Doofus

(14,498 posts)
81. I had an in situ melanoma about 10 year ago.
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 08:55 PM
Feb 2013

So I appreciate the seriousness. Early, of course, is good.

After you kick ass again keep up those three/four times a year mole checks ( Seems like a rip-off; he always biopsies things that turn out to be nothing, but wtf am I gonna do?)

Vibes.

11 Bravo

(23,926 posts)
82. If I wasn't tough as nails, I'd probably be in tears by now. Thanks to all. Now, my wife and I ...
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 09:00 PM
Feb 2013

have this thing that we do. We made the deal 15 years ago, on the evening that I was diagnosed for the first time, and we called it "FUCK CANCER"! So ... while this probably falls under the heading of TMI, I'm going to step away from the computer now. (And since I'm an old fart, I will almost certainly fall fast asleep soon after.) I'll be back tomorrow, but again I have to thank my second family ... DU.
Good night all.

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
92. Sending positive vibes your way.
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 09:32 PM
Feb 2013

So great that you caught it early. Please keep us updated.

Peace,
LTH

 

AgingAmerican

(12,958 posts)
94. 20 year study shows Cannabinoids are proven to halt aggressive cancers
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 09:33 PM
Feb 2013

Marijuana And Cancer: Scientists Find Cannabis Compound Stops Metastasis In Aggressive Cancers

A pair of scientists at California Pacific Medical Center in San Francisco has found that a compound derived from marijuana could stop metastasis in many kinds of aggressive cancer, potentially altering the fatality of the disease forever.

"It took us about 20 years of research to figure this out, but we are very excited," said Pierre Desprez, one of the scientists behind the discovery, to The Huffington Post. "We want to get started with trials as soon as possible."

Link and Video here...

 

kestrel91316

(51,666 posts)
96. Even if it HAS spread, all is not lost. There have been some very real improvements
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 09:49 PM
Feb 2013

in management of melanoma - I think there is a therapeutic vaccine that is a revolutionary breakthrough.

The only reason I know anything about this is because I am one of those weird people with multiple halo nevi and I read decades ago about how people with them have circulating antibodies to melanoma. I just KNEW that would someday play out into a vaccine-based therapy for melanoma, and it did. I've often mused about how we weirdos maybe helped to save lives by providing a crucial clue.

So - they'll probably get it all with surgery - and on the off chance they don't, it's no longer guaranteed to kill.

no_hypocrisy

(46,061 posts)
99. Sorry about the melanoma. I know what it's like.
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 10:03 PM
Feb 2013

My dermatologist caught a Stage I melanoma about 6 years ago. I had a surgeon remove the surrounding tissue and it was clean. I hope that you're as fortunate.

I know visit my dermatologist 2-3 times a year for global examinations. When my doctor hovers over a spot and says, "That really should come out . . . . ", I practically shout "What are you waiting for?????"


If you get regular check ups, there's a good chance if any new cancer is found, it be very early and treatable.

Good luck to you!

ellenfl

(8,660 posts)
101. i wish you good luck and frequent checkups
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 10:23 PM
Feb 2013

i've had basal and squamous cell. you'll be fine. constant vigilance is the watchword, but you know that. i'll send good vibes your way on wednesday. i'm in south florida. which direction should i send them?

Lefta Dissenter

(6,622 posts)
107. Well, that totally sucks.
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 10:45 PM
Feb 2013

I'm sorry you're going through this. It must be scary as shit.

But hey, with your strength and with all of DU standing behind you, you're going to kick this thing from here to Timbuktu.

Sissyk

(12,665 posts)
111. I'm sorry to hear this, 11 Bravo.
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 11:08 PM
Feb 2013

You are in my thoughts. I'm sure you will get through it just fine. Keep your friends and family close as a positive support system.

pacalo

(24,721 posts)
114. I like your attitude, 11 Bravo!
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 12:13 AM
Feb 2013

Glad you caught it early. *phew*

As Pro Sense commented above, stay positive & stress-free. Attitude is everything, doctors say.

alfredo

(60,071 posts)
121. I hope it isn't too much of a bummer for you. Get well quickly
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 02:04 AM
Feb 2013

I'm watching some places on my skin, and have been for a few years.

tavalon

(27,985 posts)
122. You'll have a bigger gouge than you think but hey, you probably lost more in the war.
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 02:12 AM
Feb 2013

Never, ever, go out into the sun again without protection although this is one of those fun things you most likely set up in Vietnam, most of us set up Melanoma when we are teenagers to young adults but don't get bit until much later.

I'm sure there are a few more tests to be done but let them cut it all off with big margins. What matters is not how you look but how you breath as in continuing to .

I'm with you. Good thoughts your way.

Blecht

(3,803 posts)
124. I had a melanoma cut out of me three years ago
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 03:40 AM
Feb 2013

They're good at this sort of thing these days. Good luck to you.

Not a Fan

(98 posts)
125. Melanoma
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 04:03 AM
Feb 2013

I'm so sorry - that's terrible news. I hope you have an easy time of it and are able to put this all behind you soon.

Medical studies show that cancer patients with higher blood serum levels of Vitamin D3 consistently have better outcomes. This includes melanoma patients. In fact it's known that melanoma patients probably have high enough levels and will do well.

Vitamin D3 and Cancer:
http://www.vitamindcouncil.org/health-conditions/cancer/

Vitamin D and cancer: a review of molecular mechanisms.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22168439

Blinded by the Light
http://graemethomasonline.com/blinded-by-the-light/

 

dballance

(5,756 posts)
129. I don't have any wisdom to impart. Just I wish you well.
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 05:25 AM
Feb 2013

I wish you well as do so many of your family and friends do. Rely upon them and accept help when you need it. Don't be ashamed to need help and ask for it. That whole idea that we should just "suck it up and deal with it" meme is so wrong.

Show your vulnerable side to the people who care for you and want to help you make it through this difficult time. Once you do then you will have the strength and courage to help others. Help the other people who don't wish to be seen as humanly defective or weak, and, therefore vulnerable. Help them get beyond that narcissism and help them get to the point where they can work on saving themselves and others.

Saving yourself will include times of being very selfish. That's okay. Don't chide or berate yourself for that.

I wish you well.

mgardener

(1,814 posts)
131. Wow.
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 07:05 AM
Feb 2013

I am so sorry you have to go through this.
Please let us know how you are doing.
We will be thinking of you.
I have had 9 basal cell skin cancers and I know at some point, I will be getting the same call.

Hubert Flottz

(37,726 posts)
135. Really sad to hear 11-B
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 09:20 AM
Feb 2013

Wishing you the best of luck with your recovery. You've got to keep on truckin and go on and lash out, if it makes you feel better. If it takes obnoxious let 'er rip, just get well with all alacrity.

With our friend 11 Bravo around,
DU's news has a much better sound,
So get well purdy quick,
It's no fun being sick,
May your good health in future abound.

tblue

(16,350 posts)
147. You will be fine!
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 12:36 PM
Feb 2013

You caught it early! The silver lining is you will live and love a little more profoundly. I had a C scare recently too. It's made me see my life and family and even myself differently. to you, sweetheart. This is just a blip. Life goes on, only better.

LiberalLoner

(9,761 posts)
150. ((((HUGS)))) Prayers sent your way, and I agree, you
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 01:40 PM
Feb 2013

are way too tough to be sick! You rock, 11 Bang-Bang! And you are going to get this surgery over with and keep on rockin'!

Beacool

(30,247 posts)
151. Bummer!!!
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 02:06 PM
Feb 2013

It must be very tough to hear the "C" word again, but like you said, it's not overly invasive and you're tough. I'm sure that you will lick it once again.

I wish you the best of luck and I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

murielm99

(30,724 posts)
153. We already have one immortal dude here --
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 02:21 PM
Feb 2013

MFM. Now we have two.

You are too tough to be sick. Fer sure.

Moostache

(9,895 posts)
154. Best wishes for round two, keep up the attitude!
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 02:34 PM
Feb 2013

As a fellow one-time survivor, I know that the diagnosis is a serious gut punch. I am hoping to never hear it again in my lifetime, so I feel for you to have to go heads up with the disease again. Good luck and my thoughts are with you for your fight!

TygrBright

(20,755 posts)
158. Stretch those ass-kickin' muscles, 11B... and ask for any help or support you need.
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 03:26 PM
Feb 2013

We gotcher back.

determinedly,
Bright

Ikonoklast

(23,973 posts)
160. Dude.
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 03:56 PM
Feb 2013

A bottle of bourbon, a belt sander, and you'll be good to go.

Melanoma picked on the wrong guy to fuck with.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
162. From what I understand, if you catch it early (and sounds like you did),
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 04:15 PM
Feb 2013

the prognosis is really very good. It's when it goes on and on, unchecked, that you have to be concerned.

PlanetBev

(4,104 posts)
164. Been down that road, my dearest Bravo
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 05:26 PM
Feb 2013

You're going to be just fine. You sound much stronger than I did. Just the word Melanoma sent me in to a tailspin of non-stop terror. In December of 2005, I was diagnosed with what they nick-named "left-sided Melanoma". The sun beats in the driver's side of the car through the window and 37 years of driving in Los Angeles, I got nailed.

Went through two surgeries, one in the dermatologists office (insurance company assholes trying to save money) and then six weeks later in the hospital by a surgeon. They found cells too close to the margins after the first procedure, so they had to do it again. The onocolgy surgeon was pissed off because they didn't send me to him first. End up costing the insurance company much more $$ because they tried to take the easy way out. Serves 'em right.

Well, that was 7 years ago, and I'm doing great. Got me a nasy scar, but who cares? They caught it early and that's all that matters.

Sending you a big

Planetbev

Aviation Pro

(12,140 posts)
165. Bro....
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 06:02 PM
Feb 2013

...I caught mine in 2006 and was staged at 3, fortunately, my derma doc got me to the best surgeon in Volusia county and he excised it and a couple of sentinel lymph nodes in time. I was days away from it invading me, but the team kick that motherfucker of a disease to the curb and I've remained C-free since then.

Fuck cancer and everything about it.

 

whistler162

(11,155 posts)
167. My uncle and aunt have had multiple rounds of melanoma removal
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 06:07 PM
Feb 2013

over the decades. Both teachers and both spent summers out doors at summer camp. Both are still going, fairly strong, at 83.

IADEMO2004

(5,554 posts)
168. MF'N melanoma We have both beat it once. Wish you didn't have a rematch.
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 06:16 PM
Feb 2013

Mine was on my thigh 6 years ago. Best wishes.

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