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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsA just decision for Jason Earl Dean
http://www.washingtonpost.com/national/ga-man-who-handcuffed-himself-to-female-co-worker-to-get-a-date-gets-4-years-in-prison/2013/01/10/f2616bd2-5b1f-11e2-b8b2-0d18a64c8dfa_singlePage.html?tid=obnetworkBy Associated Press, Published: January 10
RINGGOLD, Ga. A north Georgia man who handcuffed himself to a female Taco Bell co-worker has been sentenced to serve four years in prison.
The Rome News-Tribune (http://bit.ly/U76lpZ ) reports that 25-year-old Jason Earl Dean of Dalton handcuffed himself to the 18-year-old woman in August 2011 in an attempt to convince her to go on a date with him.
Lookout Mountain Assistant District Attorney Alan Norton says a Catoosa County Superior Court judge sentenced Dean to four years in prison followed by six years on probation. Dean had been charged with false imprisonment.
Norton says Dean is also not allowed to have any contact with the victim or her family.
dhol82
(9,352 posts)if this was just a harmless prank it's one thing. if the guy is a nut job then it's another. need more information.
four years hard time plus 6 more of probation just seems really excessive for the incident. wonder if he had an attorney who was provided by the state?
pipoman
(16,038 posts)http://www.timesfreepress.com/news/2013/jan/10/handcuffer-gets-four-years-in-prison/
Recursion
(56,582 posts)and sexual harrassment, and I'm sick of people laughing at stuff like this.
+1
TwilightGardener
(46,416 posts)silverweb
(16,402 posts)[font color="navy" face="Verdana"]He greatly regretted it. No police required, though I wouldn't have minded having him arrested.
Such a thing is assault, pure and simple.
pipoman
(16,038 posts)[font color="navy" face="Verdana"]I never was really clear on the difference.
pipoman
(16,038 posts)silverweb
(16,402 posts)[font color="navy" face="Verdana"]Maybe by keeping "verbal assault" as the memory hook. Thanks again.
jeff47
(26,549 posts)Assault is taking a swing at someone. Battery is when your swing hits.
Recursion
(56,582 posts)The use of restraints can bring kidnapping charges in some places.
backwoodsbob
(6,001 posts)glad you were able to handle it but you still should have called the policed.
This kind of shit must be given a giant go to jail,do not pass go reaction
silverweb
(16,402 posts)[font color="navy" face="Verdana"]I told the people with me that I could handle the situation, so they watched "on standby" while I verbally beat him up him for his bad behavior.
He finally produced the key and opened the handcuff, and left with his tail between his legs. Then the bouncer, who saw what happened, wouldn't let him back in.
We were all young and I almost felt sorry for the sauced-up idiot, but I'll bet he never tried that "cute" trick again.
This sort of goes without saying, no? I mean it doesn't seem logistically possible under the circumstances..
"Norton says Dean is also not allowed to have any contact with the victim or her family."
Butterbean
(1,014 posts)I don't know if 4 years in prison is appropriate, but this sure as shit wasn't an "innocent prank." If that had been me, I would have been terrified.
librabear
(85 posts)Recursion
(56,582 posts)And actually in some states just clapping the handcuffs on is kidnapping.
kestrel91316
(51,666 posts)Though if he had done it to me, there wouldn't have been enough left of him to fuss about a trial with.
Butterbean
(1,014 posts)but never thought anything of it. A few in particular hit on me all the time, every shift, the whole shift, even after I was engaged and had a big ol' diamond on my finger. I just sort of laughed it off, it never really skeeved me out. However, if one of them had handcuffed me to a car, I would have freaked the eff out, and my parents would have had a cow (rightfully so). That's just psychotic.
I guess looking back now that what happened to me was technically sexual harassment, but you know, when you're 16-21, you just don't think that way (at least I didn't).
bettyellen
(47,209 posts)sad it has to get that bad before anything was done about this situation.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)He may be a stalker. People are killed by their stalkers sometimes.
I was stalked when I was in college and believe me it's terrifying and when I told people about it they thought it was just so romantic. They actually thought I was mean to reject him.
That was years before stalking became a crime. His own big brother once told me he was scared of him and that I should drop him. Of course when I did that's when he started stalking me. Fortunately he backed off when some male friends confronted him and told him to leave me alone.
The guy used to jump out at me from the bushes as I went to my classes. He would date people who knew me and give them the sob story about how much he needed me and love me and they would come and berate me for being so mean. It was pure hell. You feel alone and very vulnerable.
Pale Blue Dot
(16,831 posts)what he did to that woman.
I'm glad he got 4 years.
freshwest
(53,661 posts)niyad
(113,086 posts)to the point that management was changing her shifts so that she could avoid him. harsh, my ***!! he was a stalker, and that was assault and battery. this entitled little creep needs to be out of circulation for a long, long, time.
you might want to look at a couple of threads on DU recently about the mentality of this person:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10022171920
Ken Burch
(50,254 posts)Last edited Sun Jan 13, 2013, 03:41 AM - Edit history (1)
and tell him they'd call the cops if he ever set foot in the place again?
niyad
(113,086 posts)AAO
(3,300 posts)Since more info has come out, I think he deserves everything he gets.
niyad
(113,086 posts)to her car because she had refused to go out with him -that behaviour is dangerous and unbalanced, it isn't some kind of prank.
AAO
(3,300 posts)cthulu2016
(10,960 posts)Hekate
(90,565 posts)I hope the long arm of the Law keeps a close eye on him the rest of his life. He sounds like he could be more dangerous eventually.
AAO
(3,300 posts)Now that we have much more information, I think the guy should rot in jail.
Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)Ken Burch
(50,254 posts)There was no excuse for the company to continue to employ this guy long after they KNEW he was an obsessive stalker. Nobody is THAT good at making the world's worst tacos.
Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)to change the *victim's* shifts, that was just horrible.
niyad
(113,086 posts)Orrex
(63,172 posts)Intended for emphasis, presumably, and to express quite reasonable disgust that the victim's shift was changed to separate her from her assailant, rather than firing or otherwise removing him.
niyad
(113,086 posts)the asterisks I understand completely.
Orrex
(63,172 posts)niyad
(113,086 posts)sibelian
(7,804 posts)I'd say it was quite lenient.
Recursion
(56,582 posts)Last edited Mon Jan 14, 2013, 12:56 PM - Edit history (1)
Chorophyll
(5,179 posts)HARSH? Would you like someone to handcuff themselves to you if you wouldn't go out with them? This isn't a joke. It's harassment, stalking, assault. What if that girl were your daughter?
madokie
(51,076 posts)get'm while the gett'n is good is what I say
give him a pass on this and watch out, he'll make this look like child's play. IMO
Orrex
(63,172 posts)I mean, she was only handcuffed to him for a few minutes, but he has to live with his creepy, f'ed up self 24/7.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)he proved to be, the fear of cuffed to him without any ability to prevent what a sick fuck had in mind to do to her.
and you feel sorry for him?
imagine a man stalking and not taking no. not knowing what he is capable of. cuffin you and not able to walk or run or put space in between.
and you feel sorry for him?
Orrex
(63,172 posts)seabeyond
(110,159 posts)Orrex
(63,172 posts)WhoIsNumberNone
(7,875 posts)Glassunion
(10,201 posts)If I did this to my wife, I would have no eyes and my testicles would have been rearranged and relocated somewhere up behind my ears. I would have been begging the police to cut me loose.
niyad
(113,086 posts)this 18 year-old woman was probably scared out of her wits, and you seem to be implying that she should have done something?? I hope that is not the case.
Glassunion
(10,201 posts)In neither the OP nor the linked story was there a mention of stalking.
The way the OP was presented and the story written it does not mention that the victim was scared, it does not mention that the perp had a history, it does not mention that the victim was stalked. Hence my comment that there "is definately more to the story".
I am not emplying that she should have done anything. I'm stating what my wife would have done to me if I was dumb enough to attempt the same.
niyad
(113,086 posts)Last edited Mon Jan 14, 2013, 05:46 PM - Edit history (1)
gave all the information you pointed out was missing from the OP.
Glassunion
(10,201 posts)then comment on the information, or the lack thereof contained in the post.
Must have missed that part in the "DU Unform Rules and Code of Conduct".
niyad
(113,086 posts)not bothered to read. nice try.
Ikonoklast
(23,973 posts)She put the last guy that stalked and then touched her without her consent in a hospital emergency room...and he got off lucky, at that.