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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsIt's my sad duty to report the passing of DU member nevergiveup
It has been brought to my attention that DU member nevergiveup has unfortunately passed away quite suddenly after a short battle with pancreatic cancer.
nevergiveup joined DU twenty years ago, in 2004, and while he was not the most prolific poster, it was reported to me that he considered DU to be his trusted safe space. I am told that he frequently and widely shared the content that you all bring to the site each day, and that the exposure to all the different stories was a joy to him.
He posted mostly in General Discussion, and his last post was on July 25, when he simply posted "Go Kamala!!!!" -- a sentiment shared by all of us.
My condolences to his family and friends during this difficult time.
Oneironaut
(5,789 posts)Nevilledog
(53,298 posts)Tree Lady
(12,205 posts)JohnSJ
(96,718 posts)Dennis Donovan
(26,655 posts)Quiet Em
(1,020 posts)My the memories bring you strength in your time of sorrow.
brer cat
(26,386 posts)Solly Mack
(93,009 posts)I love my family even if I don't always like them. (Yes, I'm aware I'm not easy to like)
Losing a DU member is like losing a family member because DU is a family - and it is a family because there are all kinds of families and people can choose to be family. They don't have to be related. They share other bonds besides blood and marriage.
My sincere and heartfelt sorrow for the loss of nevergiveup.
to nevergiveup family, my deepest sympathy.
Cross gently, fellow DUer.
StarryNite
(10,870 posts)LiberalFighter
(53,498 posts)riverbendviewgal
(4,322 posts)So sad he lost his battle with cancer. He will be missed on DU. He was one of us.
littlemissmartypants
(25,696 posts)onecaliberal
(36,167 posts)Oopsie Daisy
(4,528 posts)I extend my condolences to his family and all who knew and loved him.
sdfernando
(5,394 posts)A friend of mine (very good voice) started learning/singing this song. The composer said was inspired by his mother's passing.
Drops of Jupiter (by Train)
Now that she's back in the atmosphere
With drops of Jupiter in her hair
She acts like summer and walks like rain
Reminds me that there's a time to change, hey
Since the return of her stay on the moon
She listens like spring and she talks like June, hey
Hey, hey, yeah
But tell me, did you sail across the sun?
Did you make it to the Milky Way to see the lights all faded
And that Heaven is overrated?
And tell me, did you fall for a shooting star?
One without a permanent scar, and did you miss me
While you were looking for yourself out there?
Now that she's back from that soul vacation
Tracing her way through the constellation, hey, mmm
She checks out Mozart while she does Tae-Bo
Reminds me that there's a room to grow, hey, yeah
Now that she's back in the atmosphere
I'm afraid that she might think of me as
Plain ol' Jane told a story about a man
Who was too afraid to fly, so he never did land
But tell me, did the wind sweep you off your feet?
Did you finally get the chance to dance along the light of day
And head back to the Milky Way?
And tell me, did Venus blow your mind?
Was it everything you wanted to find, and did you miss me
While you were looking for yourself out there?
Can you imagine no love, pride, deep-fried chicken
Your best friend always sticking up for you
Even when I know you're wrong?
Can you imagine no first dance, freeze-dried romance
Five hour phone conversation
The best soy latte that you ever had, and me?
But tell me, did the wind sweep you off your feet?
Did you finally get the chance to dance along the light of day
And head back toward the Milky Way?
And tell me, did you sail across the sun?
Did you make it to the Milky Way to see the lights all faded
And that Heaven is overrated?
And tell me, did you fall for a shooting star?
One without a permanent scar, and then you miss me
While you were looking for yourself?
LoisB
(8,852 posts)The Universe.
badhair77
(4,640 posts)Condolences to his family and friends.
Maru Kitteh
(29,183 posts)May his loved ones and friends be comforted by the memories they hold.
Clouds Passing
(2,467 posts)Elessar Zappa
(16,025 posts)One of the few cancers that hasnt had any real advances in treatment in the past twenty years. May nevergiveup rest in peace.
Basso8vb
(391 posts)bluescribbler
(2,264 posts)Battles with pancreatic cancer tend to be short, because by the time it is diagnosed, it is too far advanced to offer much hope.
RIP nevergiveup.
DFW
(56,726 posts)I'm sorry to hear about the loss of one with such a monicker. My dad died of pancreatic cancer, although his battle took 11 months.
I hope our ranks thin no further!
I can believe that he never DID give up. There are some battles where one just doesn't return victorious. It doesn't mean you didn't fight the good fight.
jrthin
(4,965 posts)Pancreatic cancer is horrific
Deepest sympathy to his. Family and friends
greatauntoftriplets
(176,934 posts)claudette
(4,609 posts)RIP. 🙏
berniesandersmittens
(11,688 posts)Mike Nelson
(10,328 posts)... and we won't.
TygrBright
(20,987 posts)This is a community. Every member's death diminishes me, for I am involved in this community.
Nevergiveup encouraged me more than once with replies to some of my maunderings. May memories of his love and care provide consolation and blessings to all who knew him.
respectfully,
Bright
sheshe2
(87,830 posts)💙
no_hypocrisy
(49,015 posts)And we, our DU family, close ranks again.
Hope22
(3,005 posts)💗💗💗🙏🏼💐💗💗
a kennedy
(32,229 posts)He is in a better place.
Backseat Driver
(4,636 posts)byronius
(7,627 posts)Figarosmom
(3,021 posts)And peace of mind to the family
Rest in peace
Bettie
(17,230 posts)sorry for his passing.
Permanut
(6,698 posts)and in November we will hoist a to nevergiveup for 20 years of working to make this happen.
Mousetoescamper
(5,340 posts)ms liberty
(9,857 posts)70sEraVet
(4,188 posts)calimary
(84,491 posts)Sorry to hear that hes gone. THANK YOU, nevergiveup, especially for your screen name. Every time you posted, you reminded us to keep the faith.
Fly high, friend.
And thanks, EarlG, for letting us know.
Alliepoo
(2,490 posts)I always liked his DU name, nevergiveup. My condolences to his family and friends. Wishing them peace and comfort.
PCIntern
(26,938 posts)May his memory always be for a blessing.
LetMyPeopleVote
(155,013 posts)skylucy
(3,865 posts)EllieBC
(3,381 posts)and may his family and friends find strength and comfort in each other during this time.
Cha
(305,657 posts)We Wont! Mahalo 🕯️🕊️
Heartfelt Sympathies to their family and loved ones.
Danmel
(5,246 posts)Stinky The Clown
(68,469 posts)Ilsa
(62,261 posts)Dem2theMax
(10,355 posts)That DU is considered a trusted safe space is a wonderful testament to every poster here. May nevergiveup rest in power.
To a fellow member of the Class of 2004
boston bean
(36,511 posts)Rest in peace nevergiveup. We wont!
Liberal In Texas
(14,561 posts)Pancreatic cancer is deadly. It took my younger brother a few years ago.
WheelWalker
(9,202 posts)H2O Man
(75,665 posts)Recommended.
riverbendviewgal
(4,322 posts)Cancer is so awful. Sending prayers.
OneGrassRoot
(23,429 posts)True Dough
(20,578 posts)in memory of Never Give Up and The Magistrate and all of the other wonderful DUers we've lost over the years (not to mention preserving democracy).
orangecrush
(22,015 posts)Hekate
(94,994 posts)Thanks Earl for passing this along.
malaise
(278,401 posts)Last Monday I had a regular chest x-ray
Reply to niyad (Original post)
Mon Jun 3, 2024, 02:12 AM
and they found a large mass on my pancreas. I am having a specific pancreas scan this Tuesday probably followed by a biopsy. My doctor was not very encouraging. I am still a little in shock. No one in my immediate family on either side has died from cancer other than my dad's older brother who died at the age of 97 from esophagus cancer. He did not smoke but was a welder all his life going back to WW 2 when he worked on Army tanks way before they had good welding masks.
FM123
(10,129 posts)nolabear
(43,274 posts)mzmolly
(51,687 posts)We joined DU about the same time, and while Nevergiveup did not post often, he made an impression.
Condolences to his family.
A HERETIC I AM
(24,599 posts)R.I.P. old hand.
sinkingfeeling
(53,115 posts)he talks about it in this thread - https://www.democraticunderground.com/100219004234
Deep State Witch
(11,305 posts)May he go forth shining!
purr-rat beauty
(600 posts)just diagnosed stage 3 squamous cell carcinoma pharyngeal
my wife
my friend Tracey - dead
My friend Mike - dead
discovery of another friend stage 4
a friend of a friend
my heart goes out to nevergiveup and everyone else living with this to survival or until the end
virgdem
(2,208 posts)RIP nevergiveup.💔
catrose
(5,240 posts)blogslug
(38,667 posts)❤️❤️❤️
BootinUp
(49,169 posts)Hassin Bin Sober
(26,741 posts)Judi Lynn
(162,487 posts)He will surely be missed.
Thank you.
MontanaMama
(24,066 posts)Thank you for being a valued member of this community. My condolences to your loved ones.
Never give up, indeed.
tavernier
(13,268 posts)Of our friend and brother in heart and mind.
💙💙💙
Bluethroughu
(5,825 posts)MerryBlooms
(11,902 posts)Into the night, we all pass.
No fear.
Pain resolved.
Into the night, we all pass.
Rest In Peace, nevergivup. 🥰🫡
awesomerwb1
(4,583 posts)Rest in peace nevergiveup.
Beacool
(30,329 posts)Last year I lost a dear friend to pancreatic cancer. He had no symptoms (as per his wife with 50 years of experience as a nurse). He died five weeks after being diagnosed. I'm sorry that nevergiveup lost his battle. My condolences to his family and friends. May he rest in peace.
orleans
(35,110 posts)nevergiveup will be missed
joshcryer
(62,498 posts)They will be missed.
Richard D
(9,395 posts)electric_blue68
(18,383 posts)That disease is one of the worst!
Lost 2 people to it.
pandr32
(12,228 posts)Upthevibe
(9,199 posts)nevergiveup....
C Moon
(12,593 posts)oasis
(51,732 posts)sueh
(1,872 posts)Tarheel_Dem
(31,443 posts)Mr. Jinx
(1,370 posts)Rest well.
UpInArms
(51,841 posts)Greybnk48
(10,408 posts)who come for the camaraderie and to listen to those who are more tuned in than some of the rest of us. We don't participate in posting very often. But we share this info elsewhere and it's important!
You will be missed Nevergiveup!
Emile
(30,286 posts)gademocrat7
(11,191 posts)to his loved ones. R.I.P. nevergiveup.
ratchiweenie
(7,935 posts)dawn5651
(657 posts)Chautauquas
(4,472 posts)Laurelin
(646 posts)I will do my best to live up to his name.
MustLoveBeagles
(12,674 posts)Condolences to his family and friends.
livetohike
(23,015 posts)peace nevergiveup .
Dulcinea
(7,545 posts)Godspeed.
Shellback Squid
(9,106 posts)Festivito
(13,555 posts)CaptainTruth
(7,259 posts)hlthe2b
(106,558 posts)May his wish for Kamala to prevail come to pass. I will be thinking of him these next weeks and hope that his family can be at peace as well. RIP, nevergiveup
mahina
(18,977 posts)Thank you, EarlG
aloha everyone.