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EarlG

(22,564 posts)
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 03:25 PM Oct 8

It's my sad duty to report the passing of DU member nevergiveup

It has been brought to my attention that DU member nevergiveup has unfortunately passed away quite suddenly after a short battle with pancreatic cancer.

nevergiveup joined DU twenty years ago, in 2004, and while he was not the most prolific poster, it was reported to me that he considered DU to be his trusted safe space. I am told that he frequently and widely shared the content that you all bring to the site each day, and that the exposure to all the different stories was a joy to him.

He posted mostly in General Discussion, and his last post was on July 25, when he simply posted "Go Kamala!!!!" -- a sentiment shared by all of us.

My condolences to his family and friends during this difficult time.

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It's my sad duty to report the passing of DU member nevergiveup (Original Post) EarlG Oct 8 OP
Rest in Power 💕 Oneironaut Oct 8 #1
Condolences to his family & friends. Fuck cancer! Nevilledog Oct 8 #2
Be at peace! Tree Lady Oct 8 #3
Sorry to hear this. My condolences to his family. JohnSJ Oct 8 #4
Cross gently, nevergivieup. Dennis Donovan Oct 8 #5
My sincere condolences to his family, loved ones and friends. Quiet Em Oct 8 #6
RIP XanaDUer2 Oct 8 #7
... orange jar Oct 8 #8
My sympathies to his family and friends. brer cat Oct 8 #9
I come to DU for the same reasons I go to family reunions. Solly Mack Oct 8 #10
So sad bdamomma Oct 8 #11
RIP MissB Oct 8 #12
nevergiveup StarryNite Oct 8 #13
Good memories for all that knew him. LiberalFighter Oct 8 #14
My condolences to nevergiveup's family riverbendviewgal Oct 8 #15
Deep condolences. May the ones he left behind find comfort in their memories. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Oct 8 #16
Rest in Peace. onecaliberal Oct 8 #17
I'm so sorry to hear the sad news. Oopsie Daisy Oct 8 #18
Pass gently nevergive up sdfernando Oct 8 #19
. AwakeAtLast Oct 8 #20
I am sorry to hear this. My condolences to his family and friends. May he be welcomed into the light of LoisB Oct 8 #21
I'm glad he found a safe space here. badhair77 Oct 8 #22
This has been a difficult season. Hold your loved ones near, DU. Maru Kitteh Oct 8 #23
nevergiveup Clouds Passing Oct 8 #24
Pancreatic cancer is terrible. Elessar Zappa Oct 8 #25
Condolences to all. Basso8vb Oct 8 #26
"A short battle with pancreatic cancer" bluescribbler Oct 8 #27
We have lost a few this year DFW Oct 8 #28
I am so sorry to hear this. My heartfelt condolences to his family and friends. jrthin Oct 8 #29
RIP FemDemERA Oct 8 #30
Too sad malaise Oct 8 #31
❤️ underpants Oct 8 #32
My deepest sympathies to nevergiveup's family. greatauntoftriplets Oct 8 #33
So sorry to hear claudette Oct 8 #34
Safe passage berniesandersmittens Oct 8 #35
Oh dear! 2naSalit Oct 8 #36
RIP to nevergiveup... Mike Nelson Oct 8 #37
..... Laffy Kat Oct 8 #38
Thank you for letting us know, EarlG. "Send not to know for whom the bell tolls..." TygrBright Oct 8 #39
Rest in Peace, nevergiveup. sheshe2 Oct 8 #40
Condolences to his family. no_hypocrisy Oct 8 #41
I'm sending love out to family and friends. Hope22 Oct 8 #42
Sad news indeed......may he have no pain now and only the best remembrances of DU, family and friends. a kennedy Oct 8 #43
Beloved in our DU community, rest in peace, nevergiveup; comfort for his friends and family who grieve his passing. n/t Backseat Driver Oct 8 #44
Onwards and upwards. byronius Oct 8 #45
Rest in Peace Figarosmom Oct 8 #46
"" AllaN01Bear Oct 8 #47
. irisblue Oct 8 #48
Peace to his family Bettie Oct 8 #49
We will never give up . Permanut Oct 8 #50
Condolences to all Mousetoescamper Oct 8 #51
RiP and we will honor nevergiveup by never giving up. ms liberty Oct 8 #52
RIP obnoxiousdrunk Oct 8 #53
Condolences 70sEraVet Oct 8 #54
Aw, damn. calimary Oct 8 #55
Oh, I'm sorry to hear this sad news. Alliepoo Oct 8 #56
My condolences PCIntern Oct 8 #57
May this poster rest in peace LetMyPeopleVote Oct 8 #58
My sincere sympathy to nevergiveup's family. skylucy Oct 8 #59
RIP. bluestarone Oct 8 #60
May his memory be a blessing EllieBC Oct 8 #61
. DinahMoeHum Oct 8 #62
I'm So Sorry for nevergiveup's Passing 🕯️🕊️💙.. Cha Oct 8 #63
Sincere sympathy to all who loved him Danmel Oct 8 #64
My deepest condolences to all who loved and cared for him Stinky The Clown Oct 8 #65
May his memory be a blessing to all who knew him. nt Ilsa Oct 8 #66
My sympathy to his family and friends. Dem2theMax Oct 8 #67
... Aristus Oct 8 #68
My sincere condolences to his loved ones. boston bean Oct 8 #69
Aw gee...RIP Liberal In Texas Oct 8 #70
... and the wheel turns. WheelWalker Oct 8 #71
That is sad news. H2O Man Oct 8 #72
Very sad to hear a fellow DU member has passed. riverbendviewgal Oct 8 #73
TY for letting us know. 😢 n/t OneGrassRoot Oct 8 #74
RIP Johnny Noshoes Oct 8 #75
Damn it! Let's make sure we win this election in November True Dough Oct 8 #76
Condolences orangecrush Oct 8 #77
🪷Condolences to his family and friends Hekate Oct 8 #78
Nevergiveup told us about his diagnosis in June malaise Oct 8 #79
Oh I am so sad to hear this news, we will miss you. FM123 Oct 8 #80
RIP debm55 Oct 8 #81
Cross easy, nevergiveup. We've got this. nolabear Oct 8 #82
Oh no. Such a good soul. mzmolly Oct 8 #83
Fair winds and following seas. A HERETIC I AM Oct 8 #84
RIP snacker Oct 8 #85
Deepest sympathy. sinkingfeeling Oct 8 #86
so sad Kali Oct 8 #87
Hail The Traveler! Deep State Witch Oct 8 #88
... Delphinus Oct 8 #89
Man, this disease is rampant purr-rat beauty Oct 8 #90
Sad news. My deepest condolences to his family. virgdem Oct 8 #91
Deepest sympathies to those who loved him catrose Oct 8 #92
Goodbye, dear one blogslug Oct 8 #93
Thank you for letting us know. RIP friend. nt BootinUp Oct 8 #94
Aww :( Hassin Bin Sober Oct 8 #95
DU'ers were lucky nevergiveup added his voice and thoughts to others here for years. Judi Lynn Oct 8 #96
Safe passage, nevergiveup. MontanaMama Oct 8 #97
Rest in peace FHRRK Oct 8 #98
Please pass on to them our sad mutual loss tavernier Oct 8 #99
I'm sorry nevergiveup. Bluethroughu Oct 8 #100
Thanks for letting us know. MerryBlooms Oct 8 #101
RIP area51 Oct 8 #102
Condolences to family and friend awesomerwb1 Oct 8 #103
... Docreed2003 Oct 8 #104
Sad news. Beacool Oct 8 #105
deepest sympathy to all who loves him orleans Oct 8 #106
20 years of loyalty. joshcryer Oct 8 #107
Condolences to all who knew and loved him. Richard D Oct 8 #108
RIP nevergiveup. Strength to your family & friends. electric_blue68 Oct 8 #109
That is very sad news. pandr32 Oct 8 #110
R.I.P...... Upthevibe Oct 8 #111
RIP murielm99 Oct 9 #112
Rest peacefully, friend. C Moon Oct 9 #113
My condolences to his friends and family. oasis Oct 9 #114
Rest in peace, nevergiveup. You will be missed. sueh Oct 9 #115
K&R for nevergiveup! Tarheel_Dem Oct 9 #116
Condolences to nevergiveup's family and friends Mr. Jinx Oct 9 #117
Rest well, nevergiveup UpInArms Oct 9 #118
RIP Nevergiveup. There are many, many of us here Greybnk48 Oct 9 #119
RIP nevergiveup. Emile Oct 9 #120
Sincere Condolences gademocrat7 Oct 9 #121
Rest in Peace nevergiveup. I'm so happy that DU was a safe space for you! ratchiweenie Oct 9 #122
my sympathies to his family and friends dawn5651 Oct 9 #123
Condolences to family and friends Chautauquas Oct 9 #124
My condolences to nevergiveup's friends and family Laurelin Oct 9 #125
Sorry to hear this MustLoveBeagles Oct 9 #126
My sympathy to the family and friends. Rest in livetohike Oct 9 #127
Peace and condolences to his loved ones. Dulcinea Oct 9 #128
RIP nevergiveup, Kamala will win! Shellback Squid Oct 9 #129
Nicely said. A piece of us dies, and a piece of him lives on with us. Not giving up - ever. Festivito Oct 9 #130
RIP... CaptainTruth Oct 9 #131
I'm saddened but I appreciate that you were able to tell us and that DU had meant so much to him. hlthe2b Oct 9 #132
Wishing peace to him and to his family. My lovelight his path. mahina Oct 9 #133

Quiet Em

(1,020 posts)
6. My sincere condolences to his family, loved ones and friends.
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 03:31 PM
Oct 8

My the memories bring you strength in your time of sorrow.

Solly Mack

(93,009 posts)
10. I come to DU for the same reasons I go to family reunions.
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 03:33 PM
Oct 8

I love my family even if I don't always like them. (Yes, I'm aware I'm not easy to like)

Losing a DU member is like losing a family member because DU is a family - and it is a family because there are all kinds of families and people can choose to be family. They don't have to be related. They share other bonds besides blood and marriage.

My sincere and heartfelt sorrow for the loss of nevergiveup.

riverbendviewgal

(4,322 posts)
15. My condolences to nevergiveup's family
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 03:40 PM
Oct 8

So sad he lost his battle with cancer. He will be missed on DU. He was one of us.

sdfernando

(5,394 posts)
19. Pass gently nevergive up
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 03:45 PM
Oct 8

A friend of mine (very good voice) started learning/singing this song. The composer said was inspired by his mother's passing.

Drops of Jupiter (by Train)

Now that she's back in the atmosphere
With drops of Jupiter in her hair

She acts like summer and walks like rain
Reminds me that there's a time to change, hey
Since the return of her stay on the moon
She listens like spring and she talks like June, hey
Hey, hey, yeah

But tell me, did you sail across the sun?
Did you make it to the Milky Way to see the lights all faded
And that Heaven is overrated?
And tell me, did you fall for a shooting star?
One without a permanent scar, and did you miss me
While you were looking for yourself out there?

Now that she's back from that soul vacation
Tracing her way through the constellation, hey, mmm

She checks out Mozart while she does Tae-Bo
Reminds me that there's a room to grow, hey, yeah

Now that she's back in the atmosphere
I'm afraid that she might think of me as
Plain ol' Jane told a story about a man
Who was too afraid to fly, so he never did land

But tell me, did the wind sweep you off your feet?
Did you finally get the chance to dance along the light of day
And head back to the Milky Way?
And tell me, did Venus blow your mind?
Was it everything you wanted to find, and did you miss me
While you were looking for yourself out there?

Can you imagine no love, pride, deep-fried chicken
Your best friend always sticking up for you
Even when I know you're wrong?
Can you imagine no first dance, freeze-dried romance
Five hour phone conversation
The best soy latte that you ever had, and me?

But tell me, did the wind sweep you off your feet?
Did you finally get the chance to dance along the light of day
And head back toward the Milky Way?
And tell me, did you sail across the sun?
Did you make it to the Milky Way to see the lights all faded
And that Heaven is overrated?
And tell me, did you fall for a shooting star?
One without a permanent scar, and then you miss me
While you were looking for yourself?

LoisB

(8,852 posts)
21. I am sorry to hear this. My condolences to his family and friends. May he be welcomed into the light of
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 03:47 PM
Oct 8

The Universe.

Maru Kitteh

(29,183 posts)
23. This has been a difficult season. Hold your loved ones near, DU.
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 03:50 PM
Oct 8

May his loved ones and friends be comforted by the memories they hold.

Elessar Zappa

(16,025 posts)
25. Pancreatic cancer is terrible.
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 03:54 PM
Oct 8

One of the few cancers that hasn’t had any real advances in treatment in the past twenty years. May nevergiveup rest in peace.

bluescribbler

(2,264 posts)
27. "A short battle with pancreatic cancer"
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 03:56 PM
Oct 8

Battles with pancreatic cancer tend to be short, because by the time it is diagnosed, it is too far advanced to offer much hope.

RIP nevergiveup.

DFW

(56,726 posts)
28. We have lost a few this year
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 03:57 PM
Oct 8

I'm sorry to hear about the loss of one with such a monicker. My dad died of pancreatic cancer, although his battle took 11 months.

I hope our ranks thin no further!

I can believe that he never DID give up. There are some battles where one just doesn't return victorious. It doesn't mean you didn't fight the good fight.

TygrBright

(20,987 posts)
39. Thank you for letting us know, EarlG. "Send not to know for whom the bell tolls..."
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 04:06 PM
Oct 8

This is a community. Every member's death diminishes me, for I am involved in this community.

Nevergiveup encouraged me more than once with replies to some of my maunderings. May memories of his love and care provide consolation and blessings to all who knew him.

respectfully,
Bright

a kennedy

(32,229 posts)
43. Sad news indeed......may he have no pain now and only the best remembrances of DU, family and friends.
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 04:09 PM
Oct 8

He is in a better place.

Backseat Driver

(4,636 posts)
44. Beloved in our DU community, rest in peace, nevergiveup; comfort for his friends and family who grieve his passing. n/t
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 04:14 PM
Oct 8

Permanut

(6,698 posts)
50. We will never give up .
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 04:32 PM
Oct 8

and in November we will hoist a to nevergiveup for 20 years of working to make this happen.

calimary

(84,491 posts)
55. Aw, damn.
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 04:41 PM
Oct 8

Sorry to hear that he’s gone. THANK YOU, nevergiveup, especially for your screen name. Every time you posted, you reminded us to keep the faith.

Fly high, friend.

And thanks, EarlG, for letting us know.

Alliepoo

(2,490 posts)
56. Oh, I'm sorry to hear this sad news.
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 04:42 PM
Oct 8

I always liked his DU name, nevergiveup. My condolences to his family and friends. Wishing them peace and comfort.

EllieBC

(3,381 posts)
61. May his memory be a blessing
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 04:55 PM
Oct 8

and may his family and friends find strength and comfort in each other during this time.

Cha

(305,657 posts)
63. I'm So Sorry for nevergiveup's Passing 🕯️🕊️💙..
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 05:08 PM
Oct 8

We Won’t! Mahalo 🕯️🕊️

Heartfelt Sympathies to their family and loved ones.

Dem2theMax

(10,355 posts)
67. My sympathy to his family and friends.
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 05:25 PM
Oct 8

That DU is considered a trusted safe space is a wonderful testament to every poster here. May nevergiveup rest in power.

To a fellow member of the Class of 2004

True Dough

(20,578 posts)
76. Damn it! Let's make sure we win this election in November
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 06:14 PM
Oct 8

in memory of Never Give Up and The Magistrate and all of the other wonderful DUers we've lost over the years (not to mention preserving democracy).

malaise

(278,401 posts)
79. Nevergiveup told us about his diagnosis in June
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 06:51 PM
Oct 8
https://upload.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=19004461

Last Monday I had a regular chest x-ray
Reply to niyad (Original post)
Mon Jun 3, 2024, 02:12 AM
and they found a large mass on my pancreas. I am having a specific pancreas scan this Tuesday probably followed by a biopsy. My doctor was not very encouraging. I am still a little in shock. No one in my immediate family on either side has died from cancer other than my dad's older brother who died at the age of 97 from esophagus cancer. He did not smoke but was a welder all his life going back to WW 2 when he worked on Army tanks way before they had good welding masks.

mzmolly

(51,687 posts)
83. Oh no. Such a good soul.
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 07:05 PM
Oct 8
RIP

We joined DU about the same time, and while Nevergiveup did not post often, he made an impression.

Condolences to his family.

purr-rat beauty

(600 posts)
90. Man, this disease is rampant
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 07:53 PM
Oct 8

just diagnosed stage 3 squamous cell carcinoma pharyngeal

my wife
my friend Tracey - dead
My friend Mike - dead
discovery of another friend stage 4
a friend of a friend

my heart goes out to nevergiveup and everyone else living with this to survival or until the end

Judi Lynn

(162,487 posts)
96. DU'ers were lucky nevergiveup added his voice and thoughts to others here for years.
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 08:32 PM
Oct 8

He will surely be missed.



Thank you.

MontanaMama

(24,066 posts)
97. Safe passage, nevergiveup.
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 08:41 PM
Oct 8

Thank you for being a valued member of this community. My condolences to your loved ones.

Never give up, indeed.

MerryBlooms

(11,902 posts)
101. Thanks for letting us know.
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 09:23 PM
Oct 8

Into the night, we all pass.
No fear.
Pain resolved.
Into the night, we all pass.
Rest In Peace, nevergivup. 🥰🫡

Beacool

(30,329 posts)
105. Sad news.
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 10:01 PM
Oct 8

Last year I lost a dear friend to pancreatic cancer. He had no symptoms (as per his wife with 50 years of experience as a nurse). He died five weeks after being diagnosed. I'm sorry that nevergiveup lost his battle. My condolences to his family and friends. May he rest in peace.


electric_blue68

(18,383 posts)
109. RIP nevergiveup. Strength to your family & friends.
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 11:12 PM
Oct 8

That disease is one of the worst!
Lost 2 people to it.

Greybnk48

(10,408 posts)
119. RIP Nevergiveup. There are many, many of us here
Wed Oct 9, 2024, 03:57 AM
Oct 9

who come for the camaraderie and to listen to those who are more tuned in than some of the rest of us. We don't participate in posting very often. But we share this info elsewhere and it's important!
You will be missed Nevergiveup!

hlthe2b

(106,558 posts)
132. I'm saddened but I appreciate that you were able to tell us and that DU had meant so much to him.
Wed Oct 9, 2024, 01:32 PM
Oct 9

May his wish for Kamala to prevail come to pass. I will be thinking of him these next weeks and hope that his family can be at peace as well. RIP, nevergiveup

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