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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsIt's occurred me to the "real reason" why Republicans are freaking over
Tim Walz & Minnesota's providing free tampons to girls in public schools.
For the same reason my father freaked out about me using tampons 55 years ago: rupturing the hymen.
That's right. Parents more concerned about their daughters losing their virginity to a cotton wad than their hygiene.
And fathers (yes, fathers) could never be certain if their daughters are having sex before marriage or whether they're using tampons.
Girls would prefer tampons if offered that option over bulky pads.
Again, it's about control over girls' and women's bodies down to the minutia.
gay texan
(2,894 posts)Should NEVER get near the husbands property!!!"
You know its coming.....
Chakaconcarne
(2,732 posts)which fits with the fox hysteria.
no_hypocrisy
(49,013 posts)purchasing tampons for a demographic that would have ZERO use for them.
newdayneeded
(2,493 posts)Ms. Toad
(35,581 posts)Many trans men menstruate. A few even get pregnant and give birth.
Zoomie1986
(1,213 posts)In boys' bathrooms because trans people need them, and because sometimes cis gender girls need them when their bathroom is shut down and they must use or share the boys bathroom. Women have also been known to use the boys bathroom if their own is too busy while the boys room is empty.
I had to use the gents a couple of times in college when we were having a costume event on campus, and the bathrooms were all full with women having to struggle in and out of elaborate costumes to do their business, which of course created a back, er, log of women needing to go. I'd get one of my guy pals to stand guard while I took care of my urgent business in the completely empty men's room, no harm, no foul. Having some feminine hygiene gear in there would have been welcome..
a kennedy
(32,228 posts)I HATE THEM ALL. and again so sorry for yelling. I just want this gawd damn nightmare of these MAGAs and their leader TO BE GONE!!!!!
musette_sf
(10,329 posts)I was told that if I used tampons I would ruin myself. When I asked what that meant, I got no answer.
50 Shades Of Blue
(10,897 posts)Even though MN also provides pads, nobody is calling him Maxipad Tim.
Amaryllis
(9,819 posts)no_hypocrisy
(49,013 posts)to preserve and to protect the Godly maidenhead for a girl's inevitable husband.
Ms. Toad
(35,581 posts)no_hypocrisy
(49,013 posts)And he was a doctor . . . .
Ms. Toad
(35,581 posts)Virginity is a social question: has the person in question had sex, or not. Historically, virginity was limited to someone who had not ever had penile/vaginal penetration, but as thoughts on sex change, the specific sex acts that constitute losing one's virginity is more flexible.
And not to beat a dead horse - hymens vary from woman to woman - from none to covering much of the vaginal open (even ignoring genital mutilation). IF a woman naturally has a relatively complete hymen, it can be altered by a lot of things other than sex. And, conversely, even a relatively complete hymen may be elastic that having sex doesn't alter it at all.
no_hypocrisy
(49,013 posts)And definitely not a gynecologist.
And it was 1969.
LizBeth
(10,857 posts)say this too.
central scrutinizer
(12,441 posts)Should be available in all school bathrooms
central scrutinizer
(12,441 posts)Mind your own fucking business.
redstatebluegirl
(12,488 posts)Forbid my mom from buying me tampons.
pansypoo53219
(21,764 posts)Zoomie1986
(1,213 posts)They stick to hairs and skin when the blood dries because you can't go to the bathroom immediately to change it. Like all those times I was sitting there with a pad gluing to my pubic area because I was stuck on a school bus. Unless you could shower immediately, you were then stuck with clots of blood stuck somewhere and scratching you all day.
I hated them, and didn't use them unless I was having super-heavy periods or, later, hemorrhaging from cancer.