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niyad

(121,081 posts)
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 08:34 AM Apr 2024

Effects from the man who set himself on fire that nobody is talking about:

Yes, the man was clearly not well, and should have had the care and treatment he so desperately needed. But I am wondering how much further the system will fail us. How many of the witnesses to that horrific moment will experIence PTSD? How many will recognize it, and be able to seek help for it? How much more collateral damage will that man's untreated condition cause?

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Effects from the man who set himself on fire that nobody is talking about: (Original Post) niyad Apr 2024 OP
Those are good points, we can't act as if individual violence doesn't affect us as a whole Walleye Apr 2024 #1
Exactly. There are countless observations about how witnessing acts niyad Apr 2024 #4
and how come cops couldnt get over a 4' barricade? mopinko Apr 2024 #2
I wondered about that as well. niyad Apr 2024 #3
What do you mean? They got there with the fire extinguisher in less than 2 minutes. The man was determined to mucifer Apr 2024 #31
oh, ok. i had heard it took a bit. mopinko Apr 2024 #34
well jcgoldie Apr 2024 #36
Not to make light of it but they're NY cops PCIntern Apr 2024 #42
A very good question you ask. Passages Apr 2024 #5
well stated and et tu Apr 2024 #7
Thank you. Passages Apr 2024 #15
thank you for the citation nt et tu Apr 2024 #26
Until enough of us care enough and voters demand it, nothing will change dlk Apr 2024 #6
Not directly to your point, but since the immolation is the thread topic... LAS14 Apr 2024 #8
Kitty Genovese? n/t area51 Apr 2024 #9
Completely not as hyped, that NYC much-known/much-incorrectly incident. Igel Apr 2024 #30
correct Skittles Apr 2024 #33
What was the truth? Just a summary. nt LAS14 Apr 2024 #47
someone was by her side almost immediately after the attack Skittles Apr 2024 #50
Interesting! Thanks. LAS14 Apr 2024 #56
Could we have a one sentence summary of what the truth was? nt LAS14 Apr 2024 #46
Thanks! nt LAS14 Apr 2024 #44
It was Kitty Genovese . . . SarcasticSatyr Apr 2024 #10
Thank you for that most informative link. The man who raped,and murdered niyad Apr 2024 #23
Maybe because his attorney changed his plea to not guilty by reason of insanity MorbidButterflyTat Apr 2024 #28
Thanks! nt LAS14 Apr 2024 #45
As the link will show, Aristus Apr 2024 #12
There were numerous calls during that murder IbogaProject Apr 2024 #19
Interesting note, as we are discussing her murder. Her partner at the niyad Apr 2024 #24
Harlan Ellison was a social justice warrior MorbidButterflyTat Apr 2024 #29
I know. I was a huge HE fan. Aristus Apr 2024 #35
Very cool! MorbidButterflyTat Apr 2024 #38
You have no doubt heard his story about someone who smarted off to him Aristus Apr 2024 #41
Didn't he use an accelerant of some kind? markodochartaigh Apr 2024 #13
Why make these comments if you don't know the details? Random Boomer Apr 2024 #14
So I could give context to my question so the detail could be addressed. nt LAS14 Apr 2024 #48
First responders are trained to act Sympthsical Apr 2024 #21
Nice Points, but Clumsy Cat. DontBelieveEastisEas Apr 2024 #25
It's not being "clumsy", it's mostly being intentional. yagotme Apr 2024 #49
That amount of gasoline Melon Apr 2024 #51
Except that story is false about Kitty obamanut2012 Apr 2024 #53
I was definitely thinking of how people who witnessed this could be affected. electric_blue68 Apr 2024 #11
That was always my issue with Dr. Kevorkian. LisaM Apr 2024 #52
You know, thanks for pointing that out. I never thought of that. shrike3 Apr 2024 #54
I saw his friends and neighbors' reactions... BigmanPigman Apr 2024 #16
We ought to be talking about the substance of his Ponzi Papers as well -- TBF Apr 2024 #17
This message was self-deleted by its author BannonsLiver Apr 2024 #18
lol - well you have to realize not all of us are capitalists TBF Apr 2024 #20
If you have any links that don't violate the TOS of this site RandomNumbers Apr 2024 #22
If you do a search for the Ponzi Papers TBF Apr 2024 #32
Thanks, will do! (nt) RandomNumbers Apr 2024 #40
That's some seriously kooky stuff. Patton French Apr 2024 #43
Probably comments about cops being too fat and out of shape, MorbidButterflyTat Apr 2024 #27
Perhaps this commentary is a little off the point, but B.See Apr 2024 #37
This is the third self-immolation in this country in 6 months Iris Apr 2024 #39
I did not know this. Thanks for bringing it up. shrike3 Apr 2024 #55

Walleye

(36,774 posts)
1. Those are good points, we can't act as if individual violence doesn't affect us as a whole
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 08:52 AM
Apr 2024

niyad

(121,081 posts)
4. Exactly. There are countless observations about how witnessing acts
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 09:09 AM
Apr 2024

of kindness affect even the observers in a positive way. I don't see much about the effects of witnessing acts of violence or horror affect bystanders, unless we are talking about war.

mopinko

(72,054 posts)
2. and how come cops couldnt get over a 4' barricade?
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 09:01 AM
Apr 2024

unfit for their jobs? cuz he got over it just fine.

mucifer

(24,949 posts)
31. What do you mean? They got there with the fire extinguisher in less than 2 minutes. The man was determined to
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 04:53 PM
Apr 2024

die a horrific death. The police did a great job I think.

mopinko

(72,054 posts)
34. oh, ok. i had heard it took a bit.
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 07:11 PM
Apr 2024

like 5 min, even tho the place was crawling w cops. glad that wasnt the case.

jcgoldie

(12,046 posts)
36. well
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 09:51 PM
Apr 2024

I mean that dude was gonna kill himself and used enough gas it was likely already fait accompli so I dont blame cops but if you watched the video they did not do much. One came running a couple of minutes in with a fire extinguisher... he put out most of the fire on the guy then turned it on the fire behind him as he was still on fire... then the extinguisher was tapped... the guys legs were still burning... they continued to burn for like 2 minutes as 2 dozen or so cops watched doing nothing... not removing their coats and trying to smother it... nothing... until finally another extinguisher arrived.

PCIntern

(27,086 posts)
42. Not to make light of it but they're NY cops
Sun Apr 21, 2024, 08:07 AM
Apr 2024

“Can you imagine the amount of paperwork to be reimbursed for a new police-issue coat?” I can hear them thinking.

They probably assumed he was a goner anyway. There was no question that he was going to die.

Not making excuses…just saying.

Passages

(1,541 posts)
5. A very good question you ask.
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 09:50 AM
Apr 2024

I won't pretend to know the depth of fallout from such a horrendous event. I will guess what we have seen overall is that many Americans are in poor mental health, especially our young people. I know Biden has put in place some safeguards for people to use for a crisis, yet the problem's vastness is significant. Meaning, that it will take vigilance in all sectors of society. Why this young man with his entire life ahead of him felt not only hopeless but placed importance on how he would end his life terrifies me.


That said, it is our youth who will drive the change we need to succeed as a people. I still have a deep faith in them.

dlk

(12,506 posts)
6. Until enough of us care enough and voters demand it, nothing will change
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 09:51 AM
Apr 2024

Mental illness is still stigmatized and one reason treatment is seriously underfunded. With our for-profit healthcare system, the cuts are merciless with fewer beds in hospitals and fewer treatment options, year after year.

LAS14

(14,860 posts)
8. Not directly to your point, but since the immolation is the thread topic...
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 10:10 AM
Apr 2024

... Why didn't any bystanders through coats over him? Why did it require a police officer to show up on the scene after he'd been burning close to a minute? And then have to wait for more police and a fire extinguisher. Where were the bystanders?

These facts may be wrong. I only heard one report about this.

Reminds me of that story from the 50's or 60's about the woman murdered on a Manhattan street. It sort of marked the beginning of the loss of community. Does anyone remember her name?

Igel

(36,365 posts)
30. Completely not as hyped, that NYC much-known/much-incorrectly incident.
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 04:15 PM
Apr 2024

The falsehood spread in popular media sources many decades ago, the truth was exhumed perhaps a decade back, and the results of the investigation were published in a specialty journal and widely ignored by those who knew the truth ahead of time.

Skittles

(160,721 posts)
33. correct
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 06:32 PM
Apr 2024

it is astounding the way they used that woman's death to push a narrative that simply was not true

Skittles

(160,721 posts)
50. someone was by her side almost immediately after the attack
Mon Apr 22, 2024, 12:38 AM
Apr 2024

and the supposed 38 people who were aware of an attack in progress and did nothing? I think it was ultimately determined it was two people who heard the screams but "didn't want to get involved" - the cops WERE called, and most people in the building did not hear Ms. Genovese

LAS14

(14,860 posts)
56. Interesting! Thanks.
Mon Apr 22, 2024, 09:52 AM
Apr 2024

I'll look up thread again, but can you tell me who investigated and reported on this history?

niyad

(121,081 posts)
23. Thank you for that most informative link. The man who raped,and murdered
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 01:27 PM
Apr 2024

her, was a monster hiding in plain sight. He confessed, yet the jury took SEVEN HOURS to reach a verdict??? Sickening.

MorbidButterflyTat

(2,660 posts)
28. Maybe because his attorney changed his plea to not guilty by reason of insanity
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 03:01 PM
Apr 2024

or, maybe because the jury were considering the death penalty. (Overturned on appeal)

JFC, this guy "participated in the Attica Prison riot," after previously escaping from prison and holding a couple hostage. BUT he was able to earn a degree while in prison.

Aristus

(68,780 posts)
12. As the link will show,
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 10:34 AM
Apr 2024

the news story of people ignoring the pleas of the dying Kitty Genovese because they “didn’t want to get involved” was exaggerated so greatly that it was essentially a work of fiction.

Even such clear-eyes social commentators as Harlan Ellison and MAD Magazine fell for it, and referred to it time and time again for decades.

IbogaProject

(3,904 posts)
19. There were numerous calls during that murder
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 11:47 AM
Apr 2024

It was basically a manipulated story.

In this case, the guy climbed into an empty cordoned off space.

niyad

(121,081 posts)
24. Interesting note, as we are discussing her murder. Her partner at the
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 01:47 PM
Apr 2024

time, Mary Ann Zielonko , just died the first part of this month. Given the times, I wonder how badly the police might have bungled the investigation, given that she was a lesbian. They certainly went after her partner, even though stabbing is generally seen as a male crime.

The "good grey lady" (new york times) has a lot to answer for with their national enquirer level "reporting" (actually just "making stuff up &quot that has had so many profound repercussions down the years. Did the rot start then, or was it merely a very clear indicator?

MorbidButterflyTat

(2,660 posts)
29. Harlan Ellison was a social justice warrior
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 03:01 PM
Apr 2024

The Times reported what the cops told them at the time.

The number of witnesses, or exaggerated reports, does not change the FACT that Kitty was attacked, left for dead, then was attacked AGAIN when her murderer returned to finish her off. Those facts are horrific enough.

Aristus

(68,780 posts)
35. I know. I was a huge HE fan.
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 09:42 PM
Apr 2024

He once autographed all of my copies of his books, and I got to have dinner with him.

MorbidButterflyTat

(2,660 posts)
38. Very cool!
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 11:42 PM
Apr 2024

I'm still a fan.

I once rode in an elevator with him, in Denver at a writers' convention. All I knew of him at the time was his curmudgeonly reputation, and I was totally intimidated and didn't say a word.

Aristus

(68,780 posts)
41. You have no doubt heard his story about someone who smarted off to him
Sun Apr 21, 2024, 08:06 AM
Apr 2024

in an elevator. It lead to the urban legend that he had thrown someone down an elevator shaft.

The truth is, to his fans, he was kind and warm, and a spellbinding conversationalist. And he was utterly charming with our server at dinner.

He just didn’t suffer fools gladly. Which is just a polite way of saying he didn’t suffer fools at all.

markodochartaigh

(2,221 posts)
13. Didn't he use an accelerant of some kind?
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 11:03 AM
Apr 2024

I haven't actually watched the video, except of the reporters reactions. But it doesn't seem to be like someone whose apron caught on fire at a barbecue. If he went up in flames that quickly it seems that no one could have helped him at all without endangering themselves, until the fire extinguisher arrived. Also, like saving a drowning person, a panicked person on fire is likely to fight against their rescuer. Probably few people over 30 would be strong enough to provide effective aid, certainly not before they caught on fire themselves.

Random Boomer

(4,271 posts)
14. Why make these comments if you don't know the details?
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 11:04 AM
Apr 2024

Bystanders DID try to put out the fire with their coats.

Sympthsical

(10,411 posts)
21. First responders are trained to act
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 12:15 PM
Apr 2024

And sometimes there's quite a bit of training required to get a human to act against their self-preservation instincts. Look at the two reactions of the CNN reporters. You had Laura Coates going into full journalist on the scene, and the guy next to her was just staring slack-jawed.

It's important to keep in mind, that most people had no idea what they were looking at. A guy set himself on fire. Is there a gun? A bomb? A knife? What's happening there? And that isn't usually a circumstance that lends itself to snap decision making.

First responders, on the other hand, are trained for that snap decision making. They're significantly less inclined to fall into the human penchant for staring at slow motion disaster.

And we see this in other situations. Look at the school shootings in Uvalde and Memphis. In Uvalde, the lack of training became quickly evident. In Memphis, they drilled for that sort of thing. They were in there downing the gunman in moments.

We all like to think, "Yes. I would be the hero. I would leap in immediately." Which is a nice thought, but we'd never know until the situation arrived. Hell, I see my cat on the counter, know he's about to knock a glass of water to the floor, and sometimes I still just kind of watch it happen. However, if I'd had a few sessions of Asshole Cat Prevention Training, I'd probably be better about it.

yagotme

(4,010 posts)
49. It's not being "clumsy", it's mostly being intentional.
Sun Apr 21, 2024, 12:18 PM
Apr 2024

Have seen a cat walk along a shelf, not knocking anything off, you yell "Get down", and all hell breaks loose. Know the cat gif, "F-that"? That's a cat. To a T.

Melon

(179 posts)
51. That amount of gasoline
Mon Apr 22, 2024, 12:55 AM
Apr 2024

Burning wouldn’t have been smothered with a jacket or 5. It likely would have caught the jacket on fire and definitely burned whomever tried to help. .

obamanut2012

(27,961 posts)
53. Except that story is false about Kitty
Mon Apr 22, 2024, 05:53 AM
Apr 2024

Many people called police, and one of her neighbor's risked her life to try and help Kitty. Kitty actually died in her arms.

electric_blue68

(19,168 posts)
11. I was definitely thinking of how people who witnessed this could be affected.
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 10:34 AM
Apr 2024

It's also horrible he couldn't get enough help in time to have prevented him from such a destructive action.

LisaM

(28,826 posts)
52. That was always my issue with Dr. Kevorkian.
Mon Apr 22, 2024, 05:35 AM
Apr 2024

Leaving all those bodies to be discovered by hotel maids, like their jobs aren't hard enough to begin with. That always bothered me.

BigmanPigman

(52,466 posts)
16. I saw his friends and neighbors' reactions...
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 11:27 AM
Apr 2024

They knew his political views so they were surprised but also not surprised. He waited until his probation was over until he killed himself.

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TBF

(34,848 posts)
17. We ought to be talking about the substance of his Ponzi Papers as well --
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 11:32 AM
Apr 2024

the poor guy had obvious mental health issues and I agree that the ptsd is an issue too. I read in the NYTimes that he seemed to go more off the rails after his mother died a couple of years ago. And we should not stop talking about mental health (and how Reagan started the big defunding when he was president - this lies squarely with the right wing).

But there is another thing about Mr. Azzarello that we should examine and that is the substance of his obsession. Maybe at some point I'll do an OP on it. Yes, he had gotten way off track, but his actual work is not as far-fetched as some would have you think. Most will unfortunately focus on his last very sad act but bury the work he was trying so hard to bring attention to.

Response to TBF (Reply #17)

TBF

(34,848 posts)
20. lol - well you have to realize not all of us are capitalists
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 12:00 PM
Apr 2024

I've always viewed capitalism as a Ponzi scheme. And I know this is a democratic party website so I'm not surprised that there would be a good number of folks here who would view that as "nutty" - after all democrats are part of the establishment even if they are on the whole more empathetic than the other major party. But, yes, I think there is some value in his work. I can hold those thoughts until after the election.

RandomNumbers

(18,289 posts)
22. If you have any links that don't violate the TOS of this site
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 12:54 PM
Apr 2024

I would be open to at least skimming them.

I enjoy reading about ideas that either haven't occurred to me, or even I have thought about but think I disagree with - if those ideas are presented at least somewhat coherently.

I haven't had time to search out anything about the papers that guy dropped, or any more details about him - I see the event itself as a terrible tragedy but one that is best not sensationalized or having much more attention brought to it. (Mainly because of all the other struggling people out there who might think of copycat acts.)

So if you have links that pass TOS, please consider posting in a reply. (I promise I will read but not attempt to discuss here, at least until after the election.)

TBF

(34,848 posts)
32. If you do a search for the Ponzi Papers
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 05:00 PM
Apr 2024

they will come up on Substack under the pseudonym he used & you can see what he was going on about.

I used to post more on here in the socialist forum, but I don't know if that is even active anymore. I was on here more before 2016 - I was very active when Obama was running. Like Biden he was also not particularly progressive, but I knew he could win. I can see what we have in this country, but I'm also pragmatic (and I suppose not much of a revolutionary when push comes to shove). Especially the Trump years and the very distinct ways he hurt women encourage me to remember this is a long game.

MorbidButterflyTat

(2,660 posts)
27. Probably comments about cops being too fat and out of shape,
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 02:38 PM
Apr 2024

and why didn't bystanders help quicker, will add unnecessary guilt to the inevitable PTSD. SMH.

B.See

(4,025 posts)
37. Perhaps this commentary is a little off the point, but
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 10:04 PM
Apr 2024

I'd much rather contemplate the effects that a litany of mean-spirited, divisive, hate filled and bigoted demagoguery, batshit crazy conspiracy theories, and other associated venom, dispensed on a daily basis, 24/7 to an entire populace,

have even upon people in (relatively) full control of their faculties - much less upon our youth, and especially those living with mental illnesses.

I believe those entrusted with positions of leadership in our society have a duty to model, for the rest of us, a certain level of dignity, honour, poise, empathy, and ethical responsibility of the highest order. Instead of being vermin and scalawags of the worst.

Currently, there's way too much of the latter, for my druthers.

Iris

(16,196 posts)
39. This is the third self-immolation in this country in 6 months
Sun Apr 21, 2024, 01:25 AM
Apr 2024

There was one in Nov/Dec and another in Atlanta sometime this year

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