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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsPaula Broadwell 'filled with guilt and shame' for affair with ex-CIA chief Petraeus [bro confirmed]
...Paula Broadwell wishes she had never made the leap from biographer to bedfellow.
David Petraeuss ex-mistress is devastated and racked by guilt over the scandalous love affair that toppled the retired four-star general from his perch at the CIA, according to her brother, Stephen Kranz.
Shes been devastated by this, Kranz told People magazine. She is filled with guilt and shame for what shes done and shes incredibly sorry for the pain shes caused her husband, her family, Petraeuss family.
She accepts responsibility for her actions and knows she made a mistake, Kranz said....
Read more: http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/broadwell-smacks-photog-car-door-article-1.1204627
anobserver2
(836 posts)I realize I may be the last one to know, but when her brother says it, and she just stayed with him for a week,
then, I believe it.
But, I am really shocked. I think her next career move should be as an actress.
riderinthestorm
(23,272 posts)is weird.
aletier_v
(1,773 posts)Because someone else wants to feel good.
Life is short
And real chemistry is rare.
I was lucky
I had a poly girlfriend for several years
It was great. She had other people during the week
While I was out of state mon to fri.
carolbrenner
(18 posts)She is an unprincipled homewrecking sociopath.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)PoliticalBiker
(328 posts)If she had a history like Ms. Kelley, I might believe it.
This is of course, the only thing we've heard of her so far, but if it is, she was probably just seduced by the power she was suddenly palling around with. If there is more about sordid affairs come out (that are verifiable) then I would say you are right.
Until then....
GermanSmoker
(91 posts)It takes two to Tango. Because of that i never understood the term "homewrecking". It's mostly the woman who is the considered "The Guilty One" in the public eye and that is unjust.
mercuryblues
(14,530 posts)was also involved in the affair. He apparently was also more than willing to throw his marriage vows out the window. along with his career. Ten years from now he won't be know as an admired (by some) four star General he will be known for sleeping around and cheating on his wife.
GeorgeGist
(25,319 posts)madaboutharry
(40,209 posts)Humiliation is different from shame.
If she felt so much shame, she wouldn't have behaved the way she did during her interview with Jon Stewart.
liberalmuse
(18,672 posts)That's pretty much the moral I take away from this story. No slut shaming here. I mean shit, he was a General. I feel bad for his wife, but it's not like she didn't know the General was getting some on the side during his long tours abroad. I think the worst part of this is that you and I even know about this.
RobertEarl
(13,685 posts)It is the generals fault for seducing this young woman. He should have known better. He is the one who could not control himself.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)considering his position of power over her. However, she's guilty too.
RobertEarl
(13,685 posts)Had the foresight to see that trouble loomed were I to say yes. And I'm not a publicly paid leader, much less a general.
Dave is the one to blame. This woman was seduced by his power and position and he used her for his own foolish pleasure. Now he pays. I hope she can get over this and rise high as a proud woman.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)No woman she might socialize with will ever trust her around their husbands.
notadmblnd
(23,720 posts)up one of the scandal sheets, I don't even know which one it was Enquirer, Globe or another, but the headline said that she was plotting murder. I asked my sister who she was supposed to be killing.. neither of us opened it up to read it, so it remains a mystery to me.
librechik
(30,674 posts)That's the scandal I'M upset about. I guess if you want to get into publishing the best way is to know somebody famous and wiggle your ass. Don't worry about the work of being a writer.
I'd like to feel sorry for her, but I just feel she's getting a little bit of what she deserves for cheating and being a giant social climbing phony. With all her education and skills, she could have done some good in the world. Instead she wants the jet flights and the posh military parties. And not to work for them. Just to flirt for them.
Damn.
cthulu2016
(10,960 posts)librechik
(30,674 posts)I heard the main function of Paula was that she could get in to see Petraeus due to her military background. And she took notes in between the you know.
Impressive!
Fumesucker
(45,851 posts)The whole town's shaking from the bottom to the top
Everybody wants to do the horizontal bop
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)cthulu2016
(10,960 posts)Sorry... I had to say it
bigtree
(85,989 posts)all part of the cheating game.
. . . guilt and cramping in confined spaces.
catbyte
(34,374 posts)Not only will they have to deal with inevitable tension at home, but they'll probably get all sorts of shit from classmates. Good going, Ms. Broadwell. I hope it was worth it. I have no respect for people who ignore their vows and cheat--especially when they have kids. That was the one deal breaker for me and I told my husband that before we got married. I am a live and let live type except for this. If you want to fool around, be a decent person and divorce.
riderinthestorm
(23,272 posts)Kaleva
(36,294 posts)Agree 100% with everything you said.
johnq45
(33 posts)Quit painting Broadwell as a victim here. Its her fault this became public. This married woman is the psycho who wrote the jealous teenage threats to a woman who she thought was getting her claws into her man! When I heard the story I wondered if Paula had her diaper on for the long drive to kidnap and kill the other woman!
snagglepuss
(12,704 posts)CTyankee
(63,903 posts)book offers, I am sure! The movie rights will surely come later.
If you don't think she is cleaning up over this affair, then I have that bridge Al Sharpton talks about to sell you...
Lint Head
(15,064 posts)She would walk away with the money from the book and stay on the inside connected to the right wing.
PufPuf23
(8,767 posts)I'm reading reading the trial portion of Ann Rule's "Never Let Her Go", the Tom Capano case, about where the appointment secretary for the Democratic Governor of Delaware ends up in an ice chest in the Atlantic.
A secret affair with a powerful man that places low value on the lives of other's can be very dangerous.
Regardless, IMO Petraeus is involved with much deeper corruption than adultry. The adultry scandal and resignation may well be a cover.
Plus if I were Broadwell's husband, I would likely have filed for divorce and custody of the kids by now. The nature of her affair makes a stain on the marriage that is going to go away ever.
vaberella
(24,634 posts)This is a full on affair...with emails included. This is a mess and she definitely should be devastated --- much as he should be. I don't understand people ruining their families for one night of illicit sex. Pathetic.
underpants
(182,778 posts)YES!!!
Sekhmets Daughter
(7,515 posts)Ruby the Liberal
(26,219 posts)This is breaking her heart, no doubt.
DavidDvorkin
(19,473 posts)"Oh, golly. I mistook that for my husband's penis. My mistake."
Nevernose
(13,081 posts)"It was an accident!"
"It just sort of happened!"
"I didn't mean to have an affair!"
... and the always-popular "It's your fault I cheated, because our relationship is on the rocks."
I think the last one is my favorite. It's sort of a whitewashed way of saying, "You're imperfect, so I fellated someone else, and now I'm blaming my extramarital fellatio on you."
(The subject in the OP is Paula Broadwell, which is why I'm not going into men's ridiculous excuses, such as "But she as born a decade after you!"
DavidDvorkin
(19,473 posts)Anything other than, "I'm a piece of shit."