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Behind the Aegis

(54,745 posts)
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 04:55 PM Jun 2023

15 best LGBTQ movies to watch during Pride Month (and some books)

Pride Month is here, queer and full of cheer for the LGBT community and their allies. When you’re not attending Pride events in your area, you can celebrate by watching movies centering the queer experience.

LGBT representation on screen has grown significantly in the last decade. In 2022, GLAAD reported that one in five major studio releases featured at least one LGBTQ character. Some of the biggest and most acclaimed movies had key queer roles, including Marvel’s Eternals, West Side Story and Best Picture Oscar winner Everything Everywhere All at Once. Still, the industry still has a long way to go before it can truly be considered inclusive.

In the meantime, here are 15 excellent LGBTQ movies to watch during Pride Month, on some of the best streaming services including Max, Hulu, Prime Video and Netflix.

Moonlight (2016)
Portrait of a Lady on Fire (2019)
Paris Is Burning (1991) (seen it. Good documentary)
Brokeback Mountain (2005) (seen it)
Carol (2015)
Fire Island (2022) (seen it. Funny as hell!)
Flee (2021)
Tangerine (2015)
The Handmaiden (2016)
Call Me By Your Name (2017) (seen it)
To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything! Julie Newmar (1995) (seen it)
Blue Is the Warmest Color (2013)
Love, Simon (2018) (seen it)
A Fantastic Woman (2017)
Ammonite (2020)

Descriptions and services where they can be found at the link.

There are some really good foreign films as well.

As for books, here are some I have recently read and recommend:
The Gay Agenda: A Modern Queer History & Handbook
The Book of Pride: LGBTQ Heroes Who Changed the World
The Deviant's War: The Homosexual vs. the United States of America
Queer City: Gay London from the Romans to the Present Day
A Queer History of the United States
An Underground Life: Memoirs of a Gay Jew in Nazi Berlin
The Lavender Scare: The Cold War Persecution of Gays and Lesbians in the Federal Government
Full Service: My Adventures in Hollywood and the Secret Sex Lives of the Stars

Please add your favorite movies or books. Also, while it is a series, "Smiley" out of Spain is really good and sadly, won't get a season two, but it is a great series!

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15 best LGBTQ movies to watch during Pride Month (and some books) (Original Post) Behind the Aegis Jun 2023 OP
Three of mine... wcmagumba Jun 2023 #1
I think Birdcage is one of the best and funniest movies ever made. walkingman Jun 2023 #13
How could I forget the Birdcage! BlackSkimmer Jun 2023 #26
The Well of Loneliness. BlackSkimmer Jun 2023 #2
"Personal Best" Behind the Aegis Jun 2023 #4
Thanks! I refused to google until I thought of it on my own. BlackSkimmer Jun 2023 #7
I was hoping someone would mention it n/t TexasBushwhacker Jun 2023 #36
The Crying Game Mz Pip Jun 2023 #3
Yes, Fantastic. BlackSkimmer Jun 2023 #9
The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert RandySF Jun 2023 #5
"A cock in a frock on a rock!" BlackSkimmer Jun 2023 #8
Quote from another thread when I asked recently... wcmagumba Jun 2023 #11
I have Prime, and I looked some time ago. I'll try again. Thanks! BlackSkimmer Jun 2023 #17
Google says Pluto or Tubi. CrispyQ Jun 2023 #14
Huh, interesting. I don't think the first had Snipes, so maybe I've got that mixed up. BlackSkimmer Jun 2023 #18
You might be thinking of "To Wong Fu..." WinstonSmith4740 Jun 2023 #41
Nope, the quote is from Priscilla, watched it yesterday...nt wcmagumba Jun 2023 #49
Priscilla...also one of my favorites! WinstonSmith4740 Jun 2023 #60
An ally or two JustAnotherGen Jun 2023 #6
The Front Runner, by Patricia Nell Warren. BlackSkimmer Jun 2023 #10
Paris Is Burning FelineOverlord Jun 2023 #12
ALL the Tales of the City books/TV movies n/t CountMyVote4Reality Jun 2023 #15
Omg, the BEST! I LOVED those books. BlackSkimmer Jun 2023 #19
The Celluloid Closet AZSkiffyGeek Jun 2023 #16
Don't forget "Victor, Victoria" Haggis 4 Breakfast Jun 2023 #20
Another one I forgot! BlackSkimmer Jun 2023 #27
Some of my favorites dsc Jun 2023 #21
Fried Green Tomatoes demmiblue Jun 2023 #22
A Single Man starring Colin Firth IcyPeas Jun 2023 #23
Great movie. yardwork Jun 2023 #37
More titles peacefreak2.0 Jun 2023 #24
Animated TV Shows sakabatou Jun 2023 #25
Milk is my all time favorite. Irish_Dem Jun 2023 #28
+1 Meadowoak Jun 2023 #32
Harvey Milk is a true American hero. Irish_Dem Jun 2023 #33
Absolutely! Meadowoak Jun 2023 #35
Yeah liked the story I_UndergroundPanther Jun 2023 #47
Irish_Dem....... Upthevibe Jun 2023 #44
... Irish_Dem Jun 2023 #53
I taught a film class using Israeli and Palestinian films Ghost of Tom Joad Jun 2023 #29
Cloudburst. yardwork Jun 2023 #30
Great post and thread. JudyM Jun 2023 #31
Kicking. BlackSkimmer Jun 2023 #34
My Own Private Idaho, markodochartaigh Jun 2023 #38
Does 'Brokeback Mountain" make the list? sinkingfeeling Jun 2023 #39
sinkingfeeling........ Upthevibe Jun 2023 #45
A favorite of mine. AltairIV Jun 2023 #40
My fav lesbian romantic comedy of all time is free on YouTube! JuJuChen Jun 2023 #42
"Latter Days" is an excellent, gay-themed movie that doesn't get Glorfindel Jun 2023 #43
My additions I_UndergroundPanther Jun 2023 #46
A few more... Safety Dawg Jun 2023 #48
Man in the Orange Shirt (this was a 2 part BBC film shown in the US on PBS) IcyPeas Jun 2023 #50
'Pride' is one of my favorites Withywindle Jun 2023 #51
I was going to mention "Pride." CBHagman Jun 2023 #52
Southern Comfort Easterncedar Jun 2023 #54
I've only seen these two: Paris Is Burning (1991), Brokeback Mountain BlueWaveNeverEnd Jun 2023 #55
My Beautiful Laundrette & Oranges Aren't the Only Fruit are both great. JanMichael Jun 2023 #56
Boys Don't Cry watrwefitinfor Jun 2023 #57
A couple of gems no one's ever heard of... bif Jun 2023 #58
"Pride" is fantastic and heartbreaking! Behind the Aegis Jun 2023 #59
Parting Glances (1986) NameAlreadyTaken Jun 2023 #61
I REALLY wish for books they would include Faggots by Larry Kramer MotorCityBeard Jun 2023 #62
I'm surprised that nobody has mentioned "Tar" with Cate Blanchett FakeNoose Jun 2023 #63
 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
26. How could I forget the Birdcage!
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 06:24 PM
Jun 2023

I lived in South Florida when that came out, and it was so true to life.

And still is, no doubt.

Fantastic movie!

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
2. The Well of Loneliness.
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 05:04 PM
Jun 2023

Very old, but an interesting read.

Making Love was a movie with Harry Hamlin back in the day. Not the best, but huge for us at the time.

There was one about gay women, and I've forgotten the name. It had Mariel Hemingway in it, as a track star, if memory serves.

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
7. Thanks! I refused to google until I thought of it on my own.
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 05:26 PM
Jun 2023

But I was coming up empty.

I remember that movie well.

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
8. "A cock in a frock on a rock!"
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 05:27 PM
Jun 2023

The best movie, and I tried to find it recently and couldn't on any of the usual outlets.

Wasn't Swayze in that? Maybe I dreamed that lol.

I would LOVE to see that movie again.

wcmagumba

(3,062 posts)
11. Quote from another thread when I asked recently...
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 05:35 PM
Jun 2023

"it's currently available for free on Tubi, PlutoTV, and Amazon Prime Video if you have a paid subscription. You can rent it, starting at $3.99 on Vudu, Apple TV, iTunes, Google Play, and YouTube."

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
17. I have Prime, and I looked some time ago. I'll try again. Thanks!
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 05:42 PM
Jun 2023

At the time it told me it wasn't available, but that may have been as long ago as the pandemic and I forgot about it.

Going to check it out. I remember even where I was when I saw that movie, the city, the theater...I loved it.

CrispyQ

(37,850 posts)
14. Google says Pluto or Tubi.
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 05:38 PM
Jun 2023

Google also says the original movie was released in 94 & there was an American re-make starring Swayze & Wesley Snipes. Don't know if was released under the same title.

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
18. Huh, interesting. I don't think the first had Snipes, so maybe I've got that mixed up.
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 05:43 PM
Jun 2023

The original was Australian I think. Thanks,,starting to remember a bunch now!

Off to google...

WinstonSmith4740

(3,147 posts)
41. You might be thinking of "To Wong Fu..."
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 07:51 PM
Jun 2023

Patrick Swayze was in that. I'm aging myself here, but grew up on "Some Like it Hot."

WinstonSmith4740

(3,147 posts)
60. Priscilla...also one of my favorites!
Mon Jun 5, 2023, 06:19 PM
Jun 2023

But I was referring to the question about Patrick Swayze...he was in "To Wong Fu..."

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
10. The Front Runner, by Patricia Nell Warren.
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 05:31 PM
Jun 2023

I read that when I was very young.

Rubyfruit Jungle by Rita Mae Brown, and ohmygosh she's got many others. The one about Martina Navratilova...lol!

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
19. Omg, the BEST! I LOVED those books.
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 05:45 PM
Jun 2023

Armstead Maupin, I think? Absolute gold.

Wow, this thread is bringing back some memories.

AZSkiffyGeek

(12,437 posts)
16. The Celluloid Closet
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 05:42 PM
Jun 2023

Mid 90s doc about the history of gay cinema, or more accurately gay subtext in ostensibly straight cinema.

dsc

(52,532 posts)
21. Some of my favorites
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 05:53 PM
Jun 2023

But I'm a Cheerleader

My Beautiful Launderette

Maurice

Ladder Days

Mysterious Skin

My Own Private Idaho

An Early Frost

sakabatou

(42,826 posts)
25. Animated TV Shows
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 06:14 PM
Jun 2023

Legend of Korra
Steven Universe
Adventure Time
She-Ra: Princesses of Power
OK K.O.
The Loud House
Kipo and the Age of Wonderbeasts
The Owl House

Ghost of Tom Joad

(1,402 posts)
29. I taught a film class using Israeli and Palestinian films
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 06:52 PM
Jun 2023

and found Out In the Dark. So it's not only a gay love story but also about an Arab and an Israeli falling in love.

JudyM

(29,491 posts)
31. Great post and thread.
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 07:05 PM
Jun 2023

Last edited Sun Jun 4, 2023, 07:54 PM - Edit history (1)

Bookmarking.

A few adds:

Bound
Tipping the Velvet
Trembling Before G-d

Upthevibe

(8,934 posts)
45. sinkingfeeling........
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 08:59 PM
Jun 2023

Absolutely, Brokeback Mountain was on the original post. Another one of my very favorites....

AltairIV

(620 posts)
40. A favorite of mine.
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 07:45 PM
Jun 2023

There have been some excellent films mentioned on here already but I would like to add Saving Face (2002) directed by Alice Wu.

JuJuChen

(2,253 posts)
42. My fav lesbian romantic comedy of all time is free on YouTube!
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 08:44 PM
Jun 2023

"Yes or No" is a wonderful film that will make you laugh and cry

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Glorfindel

(9,891 posts)
43. "Latter Days" is an excellent, gay-themed movie that doesn't get
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 08:54 PM
Jun 2023

as much recognition as it deserves, IMHO. "Another Country" and "Maurice" are two very good British gay-themed movies, but for a true mind-blowing flat-out masterpiece, get hold of "Angels in America" on DVD. i think it's an HBO adaptation of Kushner's great play with some of the best acting I have ever seen. Al Pacino as Roy Cohn, Meryl Streep in several roles, also Emma Thompson and too many others to mention (except for Mary Louise Parker, who MUST be mentioned). Seriously, if you haven't seen it, you owe it to yourself to watch it. In a class by itself.

I_UndergroundPanther

(12,853 posts)
46. My additions
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 09:03 PM
Jun 2023

Trans America is good

Priscilla queen of the desert.

Recently watched a short series on tubi I think it was on tubi ,if not freevee. Called Trans Parent. Do a search for it.
About coming out trans as an older person who has a family.

Safety Dawg

(216 posts)
48. A few more...
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 09:23 PM
Jun 2023

Movies:
But I’m a Cheerleader
Imagine Me and You

Books:
Hi Honey, I’m Homo!
By Matt Baum

And the Band Played On
By Randy Shilts

IcyPeas

(22,439 posts)
50. Man in the Orange Shirt (this was a 2 part BBC film shown in the US on PBS)
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 09:46 PM
Jun 2023

I don't know if you were only looking for movies specifically though... but this was pretty powerful.

Withywindle

(9,988 posts)
51. 'Pride' is one of my favorites
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 09:50 PM
Jun 2023

It's about the alliance of an gay/lesbian activist group from London with Welsh coal miners on strike in the Thatcher era. Based on a true story:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pride_(2014_film)

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt3169706/



CBHagman

(17,114 posts)
52. I was going to mention "Pride."
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 09:54 PM
Jun 2023

What a great cast, and I defy anyone to get through that movie without shedding a tear or two for the best of reasons.

Easterncedar

(3,112 posts)
54. Southern Comfort
Sun Jun 4, 2023, 10:51 PM
Jun 2023

From 2001, a really meaningful and moving story about the life and death of a trans man in the south.

watrwefitinfor

(1,403 posts)
57. Boys Don't Cry
Mon Jun 5, 2023, 10:56 AM
Jun 2023

Amazing, moving, disturbing movie.
Has it been mentioned yet?

Great list here. Includes some I never heard of but intend to find now.

Wat

bif

(23,702 posts)
58. A couple of gems no one's ever heard of...
Mon Jun 5, 2023, 11:39 AM
Jun 2023

The British movie "Pride" and "Supernova" starring Colin Firth and Stanley Tucci.

MotorCityBeard

(202 posts)
62. I REALLY wish for books they would include Faggots by Larry Kramer
Mon Jun 5, 2023, 06:52 PM
Jun 2023

The book was absolutely eye opening to me in 1981 when I read it. I still think it is a really good book that I've reread several times. A great picture of pre-AIDS gay life.

FakeNoose

(35,124 posts)
63. I'm surprised that nobody has mentioned "Tar" with Cate Blanchett
Tue Jun 6, 2023, 09:59 PM
Jun 2023

It was up for several Oscars this year.



Now that I think about it, Ms. Blanchett has made several movies with the gay/lesbian theme over the years.

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