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he doesn't handle not working very well. Also, my parents lost over half of their retirement investments in the crash, so it's not completely by choice that he works.
Also, like many white Catholic men of his generation, he retains vestiges of the racist culture in which he grew up. He balked at voting for Obama in 2008. He said things about how the races were never intended to mix and some other weird race-related negative things about the candidate. Also, he really wanted Hillary.
But my mom and I called him on that racist crap and worked on him leading up to the election. He is a curmudgeonly, generally difficult man, so it wasn't easy. However, as we suspected he would in the end, he did vote for the black man who would become our president.
He has, over the past 4 years, become an ardent supporter. And, he despises Romney with a vehemence that may, however unlikely, surpass my own.
Yet, he still will not answer back to all the RW emails he gets from the Republicans he and my mom play bridge with. He gets mad when my mom does. He will not tell the Rs who start trashing Obama at the bridge table that he disagrees. He hates it when my mom does. Even though she generally just says, "We all don't agree, so let's not discuss politics here."
So, it is with great surprise and pride that I read these recent posts he made on facebook:
1. I came to FEMA in Sept 2011 to assist in the disasters Tropical Storm Lee and Hurricane Irene. My work is with the municipalities - townships, school districts, waste water treatment plants roads and bridges. Tears came to my eyes when the oath of office -- to defend the constitution etc -- was administered. Helping to restore these entities to pre-disaster or better condition has been a high point in my life's work.
I am very much convinced that this work could never, never be done by anything but a national government entity.
Update -- Yesterday, our FCO in Harrisburg, PA exhorted us to extend the same effort in responding to Sandy. Today too, I was very much heartened to see the Governor of New Jersey praise FEMA and to hear an NY congressperson look directly into a TV camera and say "Thank You FEMA". i am very proud to be able to help!
2. I find it utterly reprehensible that a man who has never held a position in the federal Government would stick his nose in the response to the event, and would do so by using it as a way to pretend that he cares. Care Sir, BY DONATING $30,000,000 of your wealth to the relief effort. send several of the Caddys lying around in your closed mansions. Put people in those homes. Stay out of the way of the Federal Government now and on election day.
3. It is slowly coming to me that anyone who buys Romney's BS can only be doing so out of racial bigotry.
Update: It's kind of late to add this, but I just remembered that my dad is on twitter: http://twitter.com/donhennigan
He doesn't post much, but if you want to encourage him with a follow, maybe he will start. (Please don't be misled by the "wealth management" tweet. As I said, he's still working not just because he likes it. And if Iggy tweets his ageist crap at him, my dad will probably tell him to go f*#k himself.) Here are a few of his old ones:
Chuckling at all R's antics to no avail ..POTUS will still be POTUS in Dec 2012 to 16.
@EricCantor Your tactics are BLACKMAIL. Be a man and address spending/revenue issue separately Don't ruin the [Republic] with mafia tactics.
If the R's have, as they say that they do, a plan to create jobs, they must disclose it to POTUS. Otherwise Criminal & reprehensible
gateley
(62,683 posts)defacto7
(13,485 posts)Welcome to DU.
Here's to your father!
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,974 posts)I'll raise one with you for the old man.
Damn, I must be drunk already-- I can't find the "glasses" clinking smiley. But, cheers, all the same.
Cha
(303,780 posts)Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,974 posts)dawg
(10,706 posts)to learn new tricks.
BeyondGeography
(39,920 posts)Mine sends birther e-mails and pretends to care about Benghazi. Count your blessings. By the tone of your message, I think you already do.
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,974 posts)Parent of the Year award, so, I am ever so grateful that we have this very important thing in common. Otherwise, we may have ended up estranged. But, as my therapist has also convinced me, they did the best they could with what they had, which, as kids themselves, wasn't much.
Of my three sisters, one is a low-info Republican who voted for the shrub because she liked his mother (!!!???!!) The other two are true blue liberals like me. My brother is probably an R, too, but I'm not exactly sure. He sent me a want ad today for "sock puppets" to post in online discussion board, etc. I wrote back, "Romney still looking to buy fake online support?" I didn't hear anything back, so...
BeyondGeography
(39,920 posts)Our Dads are the same age and, by the sounds of it, the same type. If we agreed at all on politics, it would make all the difference in the world, but he's basically the living embodiment of many of the attitudes I just can't bring myself to stomach. The Obama years have pretty much finished us off, and, thankfully, it looks like they will continue, as, less happily, will our mutual disgust.
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,974 posts)but she still wants to be part of my life, so, I do the least I can to meet that need. I find it very hard to be close to someone with attitudes that disgust and/or enrage me.
Make your friends your family.
BeyondGeography
(39,920 posts)They live in Florida, so their votes really matter, too. It kind of happened when I wasn't looking, but I'm sure my father's wingnuttery had something to do with it.
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,974 posts)base, but I'm beginning to lose hope as more and more seem to be sucked into the vortex. I posted this vid another found on DU, http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1017&pid=72451, and said, "Who would want to be on the same team as this mindless Fox Noise parrot?" She deleted it.
I'm glad to hear your mom and sister are still living in the land of reason.
peace13
(11,076 posts)Hats off to Dad!
OneGrassRoot
(23,363 posts)Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,974 posts)where it came from or is there other text you'd like me to pass along to him?
OneGrassRoot
(23,363 posts)My impression is that most Reservists are hesitant to speak out in public at all -- it seems to be a much more political agency with fear of blow-back than other agencies. I am putting out feelers in several places to see if any family members or current Reservists are willing to chime in.
The change.org people want to help promote the petition but feel either current or former employees, and/or their family members being involved with the petition in some way (writing comments?), would help the process of promotion. The successful petition regarding federal firefighters getting healthcare coverage was created by a firefighter: http://www.change.org/firefighters
Personally, I think we simply need to be their advocates and speak on their behalf, especially since this is obviously a busy time for the agency, but also the time to bring attention to this issue.
Thanks.
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,974 posts)too excited after reading my dad's posts. Should have been out the door 15 minutes ago.
I'll email him tomorrow.
Historic NY
(37,747 posts)volunteers that get on the ground around the country projecting this countries resources to where and when they are needed. There are many out there like your dad and thousand more retired professionals from all walks of life giving back to those in time of need.
People helping people a concept Mitt just doesn't get.
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,974 posts)job (most likely through age discrimination, but did not have the gumption or resources to fight that) a few years ago.
He, was fortunate to find work with FEMA. Like many of those he works with, he's hired on a continuing temporary basis, I guess you could say. They never seem to know exactly how long an assignment will be or when the next will come along, but he's had plenty of work with them, so it's worked out pretty well for him.
abelenkpe
(9,933 posts)Great Dad!
llmart
(16,232 posts)Sometimes it has to become personal for some people to "get it". I sort of don't get that since it's a pretty selfish way to live your life, but I'd rather someone finally get it than to go through life never really trying to see the truth in something.
There are plenty of people out there who spew the b.s. about not taking handouts from the government, but when they need it, they somehow rationalize that.
ProudProgressiveNow
(6,165 posts)That has a great story.
heaven05
(18,124 posts)Bashir and mitttflop just issued a statement, he will as POTUS make sure FEMA has all the funding it needs.
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,974 posts)deceit! I understand that the Catholic church still does them. Maybe they could do it in absentia, kind of like the Mormons do those posthumous baptisms.
BlueNoteSpecial
(141 posts)...and an example of what We The People is all about. The hands that build, support, maintain, and rescue America. I salute you, Sir.
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,974 posts)him through the eyes of others.
aquart
(69,014 posts)Save that FB post. There are generations unborn who will swell with pride to read it.
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,974 posts)BeliQueen
(504 posts)Tell your father--thank you for all he is doing to help people during the times that they feel most desperate and powerless and for recognizing the racial bias in this election year.
He is an inspiration.
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,974 posts)BlueToTheBone
(3,747 posts)all sentient beings everywhere.
GoneOffShore
(17,557 posts)Yours and your Dad's.
Tell him thank you for the work he does for FEMA and for his FB post. He needs that support.
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,974 posts)thank you, and I thank you.
(Dad's a big George m Cohan fan. )
FailureToCommunicate
(14,276 posts)Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,974 posts)sdfernando
(5,297 posts)How great does it feel to be so proud of a parent!
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,974 posts)nolabear
(42,855 posts)kath
(10,565 posts)Too bad he didn't have better investment advice - for a 70(or so)-year-old to have their retirement savings in risky investments like stocks is not smart at all... eek!
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,974 posts)were invested in stock, but a lot must have been, because they lost so much. He always believed that the market will go up and it will go down, but long term you do OK. My mom wanted him to cash out some when things were looking bad, but he didn't want to be part of the problem, or something like that. Maybe it was the money in the bank she wanted out, when she feared the banks were going to fail. I don't know...
I've tried to understand finance and investing, etc., but I am very bad at math and have never had enough money to do any serious savings of any sort, so, we're basically screwed when the time comes that my husband and I can no longer earn. Especially if R&R get in and set the trajectory for the next 20-30 years.
Duval
(4,280 posts)I almost got tears in my eyes reading this. OK, I did. Must show this to my husband when he returns. We are also retirees and we're going to "poll watch" on election day (NC). Although we get low on energy, at times, it hasn't taken much to get us fired up again for Obama and the Democrats. A warm hug for your Dad.
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,974 posts)administration of the oath! (I didn't even realize that FEMA workers had to swear one.)
As I said, he has always been pretty cantankerous fellow, but he's also very bright and has a pretty darn good sense of humor, and, as we see occasionally, deep down he's quite the softie.
I think it's fantastic that you're helping out at a polling place. The family that poll-watches together...
oldbanjo
(690 posts)a few weeks ago, it makes no sense that Romney can lie and get Votes, the only answer is these people that will Vote for him must be racist.
Patiod
(11,816 posts)He was an 84-yo Hillary supporter, not sure about the black guy. I think in his heart he wasn't sure a black guy could handle the job. But he voted for him and crossed his fingers.
At 88, he was an STRONG Obama supporter, saying that Ryan "made him afraid for this country" because he wanted to dismantle the social safety net. He said he slept better knowing someone as smart and competent as Obama was in charge, and was looking forward to voting Obama by absentee, but didn't quite make it to the election this year. We lost him on Labor Day.
A lot of people write off "old racists" but I'm proud of your dad and my dad for growing and changing and jettisoning everything they had ever been told, even that late in life.
Stellar
(5,644 posts)That's what we need to know at this point. A poster at huffpo wrote this about Sen Robert Byrd before he expired....
I am a middle aged African American Muslim male. As a child I experienced the Watts Riots, the chaos after the assassination of MLK. I remember experiencing racisim for the first time as a child born in the west and transplanted to New Orleans during the erosion of overt segregation in the south. I also remember of all people, George Wallace ,apologizing for his racist past. I remember that Chief Justice Brennan, also a former Klan member , was responsible for some of the most far reaching opinions in favor of social justice and civil rights. For all what we imagine separates whites and blacks in this country in particular, there are ties and bonds unseen that keep us together.Senator Robert Byrd has seen it all in his 90 years. As my grandma used to say.." What he has forgotten you could make a whole other world with". The capacity for someone raised in the times and environment he was is truly remarkable and testament to his great character and courage. I have ENORMOUS respect for the senior senator from West Virginia . May God bless him and give him long life as well as give him peace here and hereafter.
Patiod
(11,816 posts)As if no one is ever allowed to come to their senses, or change.
Because in their world, no one ever can - everything is fixed.
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,974 posts)casting another vote for the man who gained his support and earned his respect against the odds.
People, myself included, often forget that it's not easy to cast off attitudes ingrained in one at an early age. Those who manage to do so really do deserve our respect.
Patiod
(11,816 posts)He was never anti-Obama, just not sure.
But he was a 100% believer at the end, and said he felt safer with someone as level-headed as our President in charge.
ProfessionalLeftist
(4,982 posts)And that's not easy at his age. He deserves a lot of credit for that!
Iggy
(1,418 posts)with all due respect... does he think he's still going to be driving a car when he's 85??
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,974 posts)Iggy
(1,418 posts)the guy is 75 and still working.. why is he not retired?
I can understand working until you're 70 due to being in denial... but 75?
so my point is, when is this guy going to face reality? How many more times do we need to
read the Headline: "Confused elderly man drives car into gas station/liquor store, kills three" ??
Dark n Stormy Knight
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about whose mental acuity and other abilities you know nothing deserve no higher nor further consideration.
Fearless
(18,448 posts)OneGrassRoot
(23,363 posts)Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,974 posts)exposed rather than hidden.
Juror #1 voted to HIDE IT and said: Broad brush claims about individuals solely because of their age is by definition stereotypical and ageist. Additionally, the poster should know that teens are in far more car accidents, per capita, then 70-75 year olds. Does this mean that they should no longer be allowed to work either? And at what age would it then be acceptable to allow people to drive? 20? 25? Isn't one car-related death too many?
Juror #2 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: No explanation given
Juror #3 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: No explanation given
Juror #4 voted to HIDE IT and said: No explanation given
Juror #5 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: No explanation given
Juror #6 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: It may be ignorant, but it's not hide worthy. The reply calling the poster an idiot is, though.
So, apparently calling a bigot an idiot is worse than relegating an entire age group to forced retirement and accusations of menacing senility.
pintobean
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56. You're an idiot. Sorry, such moronic generalizations applied to a person about whose mental accuity
and other abilities you know nothing deserve no higher nor further consideration.
Thu Nov 1, 2012, 06:49 AM - Edited to add: This is outright bigotry. It's called ageism. (Hide)
Edited to add: This is outright bigotry. It's called ageism.
56. You're an idiot. Sorry, such moronic generalizations applied to a person about whose mental accuity
and other abilities you know nothing deserve no higher nor further consideration.
This is outright bigotry. It's called ageism.
Thu Nov 1, 2012, 07:17 AM - Removed the part where I called that moron an idiot. (Hide)
Removed the part where I called that moron an idiot.
56. This is outright bigotry. It's called ageism. Such moronic generalizations applied to a person
about whose mental acuity and other abilities you know nothing deserve no higher nor further consideration.
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,974 posts)lindysalsagal
(22,128 posts)ago I came home and saw a magnet on the fridge: "There's a village in texas looking for it's idiot." They both tore up their GOP membership cards and mailed them back.
I don't know if he voted for Obama.But I think this time he will. He liked John McCain, but he didnt' vote for Dubya the second time.
Truly patriotic men, who aren't hell bent on hatred know they cannot vote for rMoney.
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,974 posts)lindysalsagal
(22,128 posts)bother him about politics. At first, he was all, "Here's your God Bless America" sticker. When I refused it he was hurt because he's an air force veteran. But after I told him I'm not proud of my country right now, I think it got him looking into some stuff. I explained how the entire Iraq invasion was a lie, and now he doesn't automatically believe them.
Really, that's all I ask for: Don't repeat the talking points to me, or sell your soul.
Curmudgeoness
(18,219 posts)Your dad is incredible for getting past a lifetime of bigotry, and I salute him for it. He worked on his issues, and he can now see that the racial bigotry is the primary reason for some people to vote for Romney.
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,974 posts)open about his feelings unless it's anger or frustration. I do know he despises right wingers, supports Obama, loves opera and bridge, and is a devout Catholic. Oh, and now I know he loves helping restore communities though his FEMA work.
Curmudgeoness
(18,219 posts)And older. My dad was born 101 years ago. I never knew what he felt, but like you, occasionally there was a glimpse that surprised me.
Care Acutely
(1,370 posts)This, is why we must never write off anyone as a lost cause. This, is why we must never give up.
THANK YOU!
sally5050
(151 posts)i am particularly impressed by your dad's words. I love this line "Helping to restore these entities to pre-disaster or better condition has been a high point in my life's work. "
if that's all any government aspires to.. without politics we are all better off for the compassionate souls like your father who express such sentiments.. give him extra hugs tonite.. he is a very special man! ; 0
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,974 posts)rwsanders
(2,696 posts)resources to do what needs to be done.
The details are rather boring, but since I have some contingency planning experience, we need a stronger better organized FEMA to handle an event like the next Katrina.
Haven't been able to follow the details of this one, but glad it appears to be going well.
OneGrassRoot
(23,363 posts)The agency has been a political football, loathed by Republicans since its inception.
With natural disasters growing in scope, it's apparent to any rational person that we need the large-scale, federal assistance such as FEMA can provide (if funded properly and set up efficiently), not Romney-esque canned good drives and being dependent upon charity and private business.
We need to re-evaluate our priorities as individuals, as communities and as a nation!
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,974 posts)Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,974 posts)barons. Except, of course, for the sacred "defense" cow.
vaberella
(24,634 posts)tilsammans
(2,549 posts)Give your dad a huge thank you for his service and for his ability to see the big picture and state it so eloquently.
We will always have hope as long as we have people like him.
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,974 posts)griping about how incredulous I am at the near 50/50 right/left split among the citizens of our country. I know there are many reasons, but I'm stubborn. I still cannot process it.
OldDem2012
(3,526 posts)Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,974 posts)malaise
(276,510 posts)Rec