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global1

(25,225 posts)
Tue Jul 27, 2021, 07:20 PM Jul 2021

Almost Had A Run-In With A Karen Today - But Kept My Cool And Didn't Engage....

Just finished an exam at my Dr's Office. Office rules are that everyone is required to wear a mask. I was at the front desk paying my bill when this lady about 45 - 55 y/o came in to the front desk - without a mask - and said she was there for her appointment with the Dr.

The receptionist told the lady that she needed to wear a mask and the lady replied "I don't need to. I had Covid and I have the antibodies."

Now if I was the receptionist I would have said - sorry lady - these are the office rules - you come back when you have a mask on.

Instead - she said - well we don't have a mask we can give you - and she proceeded to call on of the other office people - to escort this lady to a Guest Waiting Room.

When I heard this lady say she had Covid and has the antibodies and didn't need a mask - I made it very visible that I was upset and I deliberately move back about three more feet between us. I made sure that she saw that I did that. Now I was about 8-9 feet away from her.

Now I could have engaged her and got into it with her - and I probably should have - but in this last 18 months I've completely lost patience with and just don't trust anyone anymore. I'm becoming a old man curmudgeon.

I couldn't wait to get out of that office and back in my car.

This lady wore the fact that she had Covid and didn't need to wear a mask - like a badge of honor. She acted very proud that she was able to say that to the receptionist.

I'm sorry - if it were my business - I would have kicked this woman out.

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Almost Had A Run-In With A Karen Today - But Kept My Cool And Didn't Engage.... (Original Post) global1 Jul 2021 OP
When I hear some Republican ass say that they have had covid I ask them DURHAM D Jul 2021 #1
she'll probably be dead in a cpl months Beachnutt Jul 2021 #2
I'd like to share my personal coping mechanism and that is when I'm in this situation I abqtommy Jul 2021 #3
I'd tell her getting the illness is just like getting the vaccine Shermann Jul 2021 #4
Case Western research Bear Creek Jul 2021 #11
What jumped out at me in this story Mr.Bill Jul 2021 #5
I Thought The Same And I Just Wanted To Get Out Of The Place....nt global1 Jul 2021 #6
You were right not to confront her. Mr.Bill Jul 2021 #7
Agree! Catherine Vincent Jul 2021 #8
I do not confront people like this, TNNurse Jul 2021 #9
I have a Drs appointment tomorrow jmbar2 Jul 2021 #10

DURHAM D

(32,606 posts)
1. When I hear some Republican ass say that they have had covid I ask them
Tue Jul 27, 2021, 07:23 PM
Jul 2021

"When did you have the anti-bodies test? How much did it cost? "

abqtommy

(14,118 posts)
3. I'd like to share my personal coping mechanism and that is when I'm in this situation I
Tue Jul 27, 2021, 07:32 PM
Jul 2021

imagine that I flip them the bird or spit in their face. Then I take the thought for the deed and go
merrily on my way.

Shermann

(7,399 posts)
4. I'd tell her getting the illness is just like getting the vaccine
Tue Jul 27, 2021, 08:02 PM
Jul 2021

...you need two doses to get the full protective effect.

Bear Creek

(883 posts)
11. Case Western research
Tue Jul 27, 2021, 10:23 PM
Jul 2021
https://www.news-medical.net/news/20210608/No-point-vaccinating-those-whoe28099ve-had-COVID-19-Findings-of-Cleveland-Clinic-study.aspx

Just for information.

The mask should have been worn if the office required them. The hospital in the area and associated doctors offices where I am at will not let anybody enter without them.

Mr.Bill

(24,250 posts)
5. What jumped out at me in this story
Tue Jul 27, 2021, 09:24 PM
Jul 2021

is the Doctor's office didn't have a mask to give her? Really?

The fucking pizza parlor where I live has masks to give out.

Mr.Bill

(24,250 posts)
7. You were right not to confront her.
Tue Jul 27, 2021, 09:39 PM
Jul 2021

It's their office and it's their job to enforce mask rules, not yours as a patient. I would send a letter to the doctor and inform him/her of what happened and how you didn't think it was handled properly and it made you uncomfortable.

jmbar2

(4,865 posts)
10. I have a Drs appointment tomorrow
Tue Jul 27, 2021, 10:07 PM
Jul 2021

They called me today to screen for any symptoms or exposures to Covid. Then they asked if I had ANY PROBLEM wearing a mask for the ENTIRE TIME I am in the building.

No ma'am, I have NO problem with it. Thanks for keeping us safe.

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