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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsThis is a somewhat trivial observation, so if that bothers you, don't read more.
I saw a good photo of Matt Gaetz and noticed some things that caused me to blow up the photo and closely examine his hair. I believe that Gaetz is significantly bald and that his pompadour is a hairpiece.
If you blow up a picture that clearly shows his hair, you should see a couple of things. First, you should see two very distinct hair textures the side hair and the pompadour. I am considerably older than him and have pretty much all of my hair. If you look at my hair, the texture is the same all over my head (I can feel the texture all over my head). Second, if you look at the hair on the side of his head, which typically is the last hair to start balding, you should notice that his side hair has clear flecks of grey and his temple hair on both sides is close to all grey. The pompadour doesnt have a single grey hair, that I could discern in a good closeup photo of his head.
Why does this matters to me? I have always viewed people that try to hide an unimportant natural blemish with suspicion - I have been the type that believes that we should work with what nature gives us. Serious balding is natural for most men, there are some exceptions. All of us lose hair as we get older and that hair doesnt come back, the lifelong hair loss starts as soon as we have gotten a full head of baby hair.
On the large scale, Gaetz hiding balding is secondary to what he is, a total asshole. But him apparently (to me, at least) making a clownish effort to hide his baldness, I believe, is a visible indicator of the type of mindset that causes him to be a total asshole.
USALiberal
(10,877 posts)Blue_true
(31,261 posts)Croney
(4,931 posts)It's foolish to think we can, or should, be someone we are not.
He's just a worthless jackass though.
Blue_true
(31,261 posts)It is just his image was just so over the top, even clownish.
multigraincracker
(34,548 posts)His hair length changes a lot. I like the old mug shot.
3Hotdogs
(13,713 posts)Not everyone can afford a good tooop.
Blue_true
(31,261 posts)and my skin is also still youthful. Maybe that has produced a type of arrogance where I dont fully understand people that have to deal with issues that I havent. But Gaetz is just such a totally unrecoverable prick (second only to Trump), so he makes an inviting target.
rsdsharp
(10,364 posts)Thats where the station trades advertising for something of value other than cash. It might be food and drink, a station car, office supplies, or virtually anything else. Its supposed to benefit the station as a whole.
I knew an owner who traded out his toupee. I asked him once if I could use it on Tuesdays and Fridays. He wasnt amused.
jmbar2
(6,281 posts)A lot of real women would be turned off by someone with such complicated hair. It would certainly redefine, "bed hair". Easier for the rich to buy someone who would pretend not to notice, won't expect you to stay the night, or spend much time together.
I'm not sure how hairpieces work in the dating world, but they would seem to make it harder to relate on a deeply honest level.
Blue_true
(31,261 posts)It is about honesty. I would want a woman to see the person, physically and otherwise, that she will see in intimate settings, otherwise the whole effort of pursuing her is pointless.
It's like the Emperor's new clothes.
niyad
(121,127 posts)that I could look that closely at that disgusting perv. Thank you for the confirmation that that ridiculous thing on his head is a toupee. Which makes me wonder about other "enhancements".
And no, I have not yet started on the sacramental wine.
Blue_true
(31,261 posts)But in the good, best and very best cases, those people try to buy stuff that match their real hair, Gaetz either didnt bother to try, or was a cludge at it.
Treefrog
(4,170 posts)niyad
(121,127 posts)very serious identity issues after his wife left him for a woman. It took time, but I finally persuaded him to ditch the cheap rug. Had to do the same years later with the guy who owned the Houston Oilers (???) when I was there. Only in his case, it was bare chest, gold chains, and polyester leisure suits.@
left-of-center2012
(34,195 posts)He was an accountant, a friend of a friend. Guess you'd call him an 'acquaintance'.
Anyway, he thought his clients would trust him more if he weren't balding.
So he wore a toupee, but you could always see a thin line of skin where it didn't quite reach his real hairline.
Maybe he was too cheap (frugal ?) to buy a good one.
I saw him a few times when he wasn't wearing it and thought he looked fine, even better.
Blue_true
(31,261 posts)I would have been concerned about, given that he is an accounted. Honestly, I believe that I would have serious doubts about a guy that didnt take the effort to match the hairpiece to his hair, I would much rather deal with a balding person, or much, much, much further down the line, a trained monkey.
jmbar2
(6,281 posts)It was too narrow for the top of his head, so it sort of looked like roadkill. Plus the color - brown - didn't match the sides. Whenever I looked at him, my eyes were totally on the hairpiece. He was married, so I guess some women do adapt to it. It would bother me a lot.
Carlitos Brigante
(26,752 posts)little packets of blow and X.
Blue_true
(31,261 posts)I havent seen anything like that pompadour since looking at Rhett Butler photos.
Arazi
(7,181 posts)I wonder if he's got a serious habit along with the recreational use we now know about
Blue_true
(31,261 posts)alcohol and illegal drug problem. Of course, those cowards would never say that with a news crew doing video and sound.
IcyPeas
(22,943 posts)Blue_true
(31,261 posts)stopdiggin
(13,130 posts)I think any sort of 'aid' or enhancement is perfectly all right. Some of it is definitely not for me. Some of it is distinctly off-putting to my tastes. Is there a psychological component in almost all of it? Sure -- but the same can be said for a snazzy pair of shoes, or a new 'do' with highlights. (or a tattoo saying Mom, or Trixie) Somebody else is trying to live in that skin and inhabit that character. Let them work it out as they see fit.
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Blue_true
(31,261 posts)really bad hairpieces or had the cornrow hair implants. They just came off as looking silly for doing that instead of simply shaving and polishing their heads like the Rock and other people like Bezos do.
IcyPeas
(22,943 posts)Blue_true
(31,261 posts)He doesnt have the grey temple hair in it. Also notice how far forward the hair at the front of his head is combed out over his hairline.
LAS14
(14,861 posts)...coming out of his forhead. You can do that in the movies with a cap that looks like your skin coming down over your forehead, but not in regular life.
Cha
(306,196 posts)Gaetz until this underage girls' scandal broke out.. and when I did look at his pic on DU I noticed what a big crop of hair he has.
Not thinking about it being a toupee, of course.
Blue_true
(31,261 posts)If you want to look at an example of either good hair or a very good hairpiece, look at republican Senator Roy Blunts hair, everything matches.
Cha
(306,196 posts)he'd have the money to do better.. but I guess the way is perverted life is unraveling.. doing better is not not what he does.. ever.
Wounded Bear
(60,988 posts)of all stripes. Any more, it's just part of the noise. Although, when it gets really blatant, like the former guy did, it gets pretty clownish and laughable.
Cha
(306,196 posts)in 2008.. scroll down to the bottom of the Message..
https://www.democraticunderground.com/100215294138
Course anything can happen in 12 years.