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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsA polite reminder about those 90 yr old geezers
Someone 90 yrs old was born in 1930. They grew up in the hard times of the depression.
They might have served near the end of WW2 but probably did serve during Korea.
They helped build the strongest economy after the war.
Now the vast majority of these folks are in assisted living or nursing care with limited access to family and friends because of Corona. The mental and physical decline of lack of socialization is hard enough to most of us... can you imagine for them.
Please think about contacting your local care home and find out what your family can do to help.
Cards and letters - everyone loves to get mail.
Care packages. Nice smelling soaps, lotion, treats .. ask the facility what works for them.
Donate games books and magazines. Puzzles. Books on tape. Old CDs or Cassette tapes. DVDs etc.
craft supplies - yarn - the coloring books made for teens and adults that come with markers or colored pencils. (add the foam grips)
Even younger people in care facilities are struggling. Please don't forget them.
kimbutgar
(21,103 posts)When Im working I am always coming in contact with other residents. Since I now have to wear a mask I cant give them a bid smile but I see their loneliness. I am glad I was able to keep my Mother in her home until she passed with excellent live in home caregivers. Those same woman take care of my older sister now because I would have had to put her in assisted living otherwise.
shanti
(21,675 posts)great caregiver for Mom now, but she's going into the military next month, so it's back to the beginning. Finding a good, reliable caregiver is a difficult thing. We've been through several and my mother isn't even bedbound. Admittedly, Mom lives in a rural area, so the choices are limited.
KentuckyWoman
(6,679 posts)My best to you.
Raine
(30,540 posts)question everything
(47,460 posts)jmbar2
(4,868 posts)When my dad was in a nursing home, I used to make tapes of his favorite songs from the prime of his life. I knew what he liked from his record collection. Even when he was afflicted with dementia, he could still respond to Louis Armstrong and Ella Fitzgerald - one of his favorite albums.
Also, you can make "memory books", with copies of photos of their life showing the entire family, wedding pics etc. Not a huge family album, but a short version to remind them of their departed relatives, good times, vacation pics, pets, special occasions. It also helps the caregivers know who these people were in their prime and helps them have conversations by looking at the pics and asking questions.
One bit of caution on the scented stuff. In some places, it's no longer welcome. Some folks have real problems with perfumes.
PoindexterOglethorpe
(25,839 posts)I'll need to contact some of the local places and see if they are accepting such donations right now.