Wed Nov 6, 2019, 12:16 PM
demmiblue (23,473 posts)
T.I. Said He Goes To The Gynecologist With His Daughter Every Year To "Check Her Hymen"The rapper added, "I will say, as of her 18th birthday, her hymen is still intact."
![]() Rapper and actor T.I. said in a podcast interview that aired Tuesday that he goes with his 18-year-old daughter to the gynecologist every year to "check her hymen" and make sure it's "still intact." In an interview with Nazanin Mandi and Nadia Moham on Ladies Like Us, T.I. talked about his parenting style, among other topics. When asked about whether he's had the "sex talk" with his daughters, he pointed to his approach with his eldest daughter, 18-year-old Deyjah Harris, who's in her first year of college. "Not only have we had the conversation. We have yearly trips to the gynecologist to check her hymen," T.I. said. "Yes, I go with her." He then mentioned that after her 16th birthday party, he "put a sticky note on the door: 'Gyno. Tomorrow. 9:30.'" "So we’ll go and sit down and the doctor comes and talk, and the doctor’s maintaining a high level of professionalism," T.I. said. "He’s like, ‘You know, sir, I have to, in order to share information’ — I’m like, 'Deyjah, they want you to sign this so we can share information. Is there anything you would not want me to know? See, Doc? Ain't no problem.'" https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/clarissajanlim/ti-daughter-hymen-check-doctor?bftwnews&utm_term=4ldqpgc#4ldqpgc ![]()
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demmiblue | Nov 6 | OP |
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jberryhill | Nov 6 | #15 | |
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riversedge | Nov 7 | #103 | |
Sanity Claws | Nov 6 | #2 | |
SharonAnn | Nov 6 | #48 | |
Aristus | Nov 6 | #3 | |
demmiblue | Nov 6 | #7 | |
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3catwoman3 | Nov 6 | #72 | |
MustLoveBeagles | Nov 6 | #79 | |
SummerSnow | Nov 7 | #105 | |
lapfog_1 | Nov 6 | #4 | |
demigoddess | Nov 6 | #24 | |
Proud Liberal Dem | Nov 6 | #5 | |
Kali | Nov 6 | #6 | |
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Hekate | Nov 6 | #65 | |
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KG | Nov 6 | #11 | |
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demmiblue | Nov 6 | #13 | |
WePurrsevere | Nov 6 | #60 | |
MissMillie | Nov 6 | #14 | |
SoCalNative | Nov 6 | #18 | |
Hekate | Nov 6 | #66 | |
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phleshdef | Nov 6 | #16 | |
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lettucebe | Nov 6 | #19 | |
Quackers | Nov 6 | #82 | |
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Archae | Nov 6 | #20 | |
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classof56 | Nov 6 | #23 | |
SummerSnow | Nov 7 | #106 | |
demmiblue | Nov 6 | #25 | |
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 12:17 PM
mrs_p (2,405 posts)
1. This is legal? Nt
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Response to mrs_p (Reply #1)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 07:37 PM
waddirum (805 posts)
76. I think it is complete bullshit
No board certified physician would agree to perform such a procedure for the purpose of informing a parent. This may take place in other countries, but not in the U.S.
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Response to waddirum (Reply #76)
Thu Nov 7, 2019, 08:55 AM
riversedge (52,701 posts)
103. wish we knew for sure if Physician is actually invading her needlessly? It
should be reported to an ethics Board for sure!
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 12:17 PM
Sanity Claws (18,250 posts)
2. OMG
No privacy.
I wouldn't be surprised if the daughter runs away at 18 or stops contact with him when she is an adult. |
Response to Sanity Claws (Reply #2)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 02:04 PM
SharonAnn (12,092 posts)
48. He thinks he owns her hymen? OMG!
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 12:19 PM
Aristus (48,288 posts)
3. Asshole doesn't know that the hymen can be disrupted by something as simple
as sitting on a bicycle seat.
Dude needs to leave the 19th Century behind... |
Response to Aristus (Reply #3)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 12:21 PM
demmiblue (23,473 posts)
7. ...
T.I. also noted that he's was informed the hymen can be broken in ways other than through sexual penetration. "And so then they come and say, ‘Well, I just want you to know that there are other ways besides sex that the hymen can be broken like bike riding, athletics, horseback riding, and just other forms of athletic physical activity,'" he said. "So I say, ‘Look, Doc, she don’t ride no horses, she don’t ride no bike, she don’t play no sports. Just check the hymen, please, and give me back my results expeditiously.'" |
Response to demmiblue (Reply #7)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 07:21 PM
3catwoman3 (13,334 posts)
72. "My results"?
MY???
I don’t think so, dad. |
Response to demmiblue (Reply #7)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 07:48 PM
MustLoveBeagles (2,447 posts)
79. Mine was broken while horseback riding when I was 10 or 11
I didn't have sex until many years afterward. He'd probably still say I was a ho. Fuck this guy. Seriously.
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Response to demmiblue (Reply #7)
Thu Nov 7, 2019, 09:04 AM
SummerSnow (12,412 posts)
105. Ok, and what if she had sex with her boyfriend , what would he do? Go after the boyfriend ...
and hide her away? This is ridiculous. My question is why would a doctor go along with this and what does her mother say about this?
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 12:20 PM
lapfog_1 (22,404 posts)
4. WTF??? what is this the 13th century?
Response to lapfog_1 (Reply #4)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 12:55 PM
demigoddess (5,032 posts)
24. sure looks like it lately.
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 12:20 PM
Proud Liberal Dem (18,883 posts)
5. Gross
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 12:20 PM
Kali (46,948 posts)
6. fuck him
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 12:21 PM
3catwoman3 (13,334 posts)
8. WTF??!!!
Bordering on abuse, here. Back off, dad.
I would be interested in knowing how many women he's bedded. |
Response to 3catwoman3 (Reply #8)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 07:12 PM
Hekate (57,991 posts)
65. Way over the border on psychological sexual abuse
Response to Hekate (Reply #65)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 07:30 PM
3catwoman3 (13,334 posts)
75. True enough.
Seeing as I have spent a 43 year career having to be diplomatic ALL the time, I am a master of understatement.
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 12:22 PM
smirkymonkey (46,413 posts)
10. Ugh! How creepy!
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 12:22 PM
KG (27,947 posts)
11. sounds like b.s.
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 12:24 PM
lpbk2713 (36,847 posts)
12. Weirdly and obsessively intrusive.
This runs the risk of making his daughter neurotic. |
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 12:27 PM
demmiblue (23,473 posts)
13. Since I evoked Dr. Gunter:
Response to demmiblue (Reply #13)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 03:09 PM
WePurrsevere (22,883 posts)
60. That was very interesting to watch...
I had the basics but learned a bit too.
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 12:30 PM
MissMillie (29,787 posts)
14. If she's 18, she can demand that he not get that information
You know, by the time my son was 13 or 14, I would accompany him to the doctor, sit in w/ the doctor and him for just a few minutes so that I could ask questions, and then I'd leave the room.
I always felt that my son would get much better care from his physician if my son could talk openly w/ him/her. And I trusted the doctor to alert me about problems when necessary. |
Response to MissMillie (Reply #14)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 12:43 PM
SoCalNative (3,320 posts)
18. And then he'd probably say
if you live under my roof and I pay your insurance...
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Response to MissMillie (Reply #14)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 07:14 PM
Hekate (57,991 posts)
66. She's a freshman in college. He can just cut off financial support if she refuses to knuckle under
He sounds like the type.
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Response to Hekate (Reply #66)
Thu Nov 7, 2019, 09:09 AM
redstatebluegirl (7,360 posts)
107. I agree, I had a father who threatened to cut me off every time I did anything he didn' t like.
I ended up putting myself through school after he cut me off for not going to mass. Best decision I ever made.
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 12:39 PM
phleshdef (11,720 posts)
16. Fucking creepy.
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 12:41 PM
Skidmore (36,806 posts)
17. This jerk
has at least three children from "relationships" with women in addition to three children and a stepchild with his wife. This is the guy who doesn't think a woman should become president because women are emotional and may make rash decisions like set off a nuke when not thinking clearly.
I feel sorry for his daughters. How long does he plan on being this controlling. |
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 12:43 PM
lettucebe (201 posts)
19. Only way to check an intact hymen would be to break it
This is the dumbest thing I've ever seen, heard, or read. Simply sickening as well is the implication that he somehow is "present" for these exams? I have no words
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Response to lettucebe (Reply #19)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 07:50 PM
Quackers (1,974 posts)
82. Umm no. That's not true.
Other than that, I agree with your post.
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Response to lettucebe (Reply #19)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 08:06 PM
Blue_true (18,749 posts)
86. From what I understand, it breaks fairly easily.
If she sat spread legged on his shoulders as a little girl, or she did splits in gym class or some other physical activity, if she did leaps like track athletes do, if she played basketball or soccer, ect. It may be intact near the wall of her vagina, that part may survive until she has sex or something gets stuck up inside her (like if she masturbates or allow a person to stick something other than s penis inside her).
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Response to lettucebe (Reply #19)
Thu Nov 7, 2019, 08:56 AM
riversedge (52,701 posts)
104. That was my first thought. A tampon would do it also.
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 12:43 PM
Archae (41,132 posts)
20. A guy this obsessed...
Any bets as to how many bastard kids *HE* sired?
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Response to awesomerwb1 (Reply #21)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:20 PM
leftieNanner (3,541 posts)
31. LOL
Perfect question!!
And I had the same one. ![]() |
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 12:47 PM
Locrian (3,821 posts)
22. how considerate of him....
I guess the chastity belts were a bit too much for him...
![]() what a disgusting, creepy way to be a dad. |
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 12:52 PM
classof56 (5,345 posts)
23. Perhaps he could have her wear a chastity belt,
and he could be the keeper of the key.
Lord, what a total idiot. ![]() |
Response to classof56 (Reply #23)
Thu Nov 7, 2019, 09:04 AM
SummerSnow (12,412 posts)
106. He might do that. Scary thought.
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:05 PM
demmiblue (23,473 posts)
25. His comments regarding Sec. Clinton:
In October 2015, T.I. received backlash when he was speaking on 2016 presidential candidate Hillary Clinton: "Not to be sexist but, I can’t vote for the leader of the free world to be a woman. Just because, every other position that exists, I think a woman could do well. But the president? It’s kinda like, I just know that women make rash decisions emotionally – they make very permanent, cemented decisions – and then later, it’s kind of like it didn’t happen, or they didn’t mean for it to happen. And I sure would hate to just set off a nuke. [Other leaders] will not be able to negotiate the right kinds of foreign policy; the world ain’t ready yet. I think you might be able to [get] the Loch Ness Monster elected before you could [get a woman]."[212][213] Following the reaction from social media, T.I. publicly apologized on Twitter.[214][215]
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Response to demmiblue (Reply #25)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:36 PM
Wednesdays (11,348 posts)
38. Yes, the entire history of war
proves that men never get emotional.
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Response to demmiblue (Reply #25)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:51 PM
get the red out (13,239 posts)
44. Angela Merkel
has basically been the "leader of the free world" since the US abdicated it's position upon the election of Trump. I don't think this jerk thinks things through.
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Response to demmiblue (Reply #25)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 02:17 PM
IcyPeas (7,748 posts)
52. this guy has had a variety of arrests
1994–2006: Drugs, weapons and assault
2007–2009: Weapons conviction 2010: 11 month sentence 2018: Public disorder arrest (from the linked wikipedia page above) |
Response to IcyPeas (Reply #52)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 05:46 PM
elias7 (2,259 posts)
62. Do you mean pubic disorder arrest?
And what does he do if her hymen is not intact?
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Response to elias7 (Reply #62)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 07:17 PM
Hekate (57,991 posts)
68. Beat the crap out of her would be my guess
Response to IcyPeas (Reply #52)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 08:11 PM
Blue_true (18,749 posts)
87. Having a rap sheet is reguired for a rapper, except some female ones like Izy Azelia, who came
from a middleclass Australian family, and a few other female rappers. The dude from Canada that is a rabid Raptors fan may not have a rap sheet among male rappers, there are maybe a few more that don't, but most do.
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Response to demmiblue (Reply #25)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 07:54 PM
MustLoveBeagles (2,447 posts)
84. Stupid sexist asshole.
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:08 PM
EveHammond13 (2,436 posts)
26. once she is 18 the doctor cannot legally disclose her health info, no matter the family relationship
Response to EveHammond13 (Reply #26)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 07:18 PM
Hekate (57,991 posts)
69. He says he makes her sign a release
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:09 PM
Wounded Bear (31,954 posts)
27. Well that pegs the creep-o-meter...
I took my daughter to a gynecologist, too, because I believe in good health care and preventive medicine.
I don't recall asking about that, though. ![]() |
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:13 PM
I_UndergroundPanther (347 posts)
28. Controlling men in general
Need serious ass kickings and verbal evisceration,and total loss of narcissitic supply forever.
I hate controlling abusive men. Like Nazis punch them. |
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:16 PM
Ohiogal (11,842 posts)
29. I can't even form words to respond to this.
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:17 PM
SWBTATTReg (8,430 posts)
30. Sounds like some serious trust issues here between the two of them. Wouldn't blame the ...
daughter one bit if she finally told her dad to bug off.
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Response to SWBTATTReg (Reply #30)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 07:22 PM
Hekate (57,991 posts)
73. By his own words, these are control-freak issues on his part
Not trust issues between them
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Response to SWBTATTReg (Reply #30)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 07:44 PM
3catwoman3 (13,334 posts)
77. Or bugger off, which would...
...be quite appropriate.
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:21 PM
treestar (75,020 posts)
32. So truly disgusting
there are no words. And what if it is broken? Just how does he plan to react?
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Response to treestar (Reply #32)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 07:20 PM
Hekate (57,991 posts)
70. Someone posted his rap sheet. Violently, would be my guess.
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:24 PM
MineralMan (125,689 posts)
33. I can't even...WTAF?
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:28 PM
WhiskeyGrinder (6,731 posts)
34. This is abuse, "virginity" is not a medical status and the gyno should tell him FOH.
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:31 PM
lunatica (45,180 posts)
35. What a piece of shit
What will he do if she has sex? What a fucking stupid asshole. Meantime he is doing his best to jack up the creepy ick factor in her psyche.
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:33 PM
durablend (4,321 posts)
36. Has he ever been seen at Trump rallies?
Sounds like he'd be right at home as Trump's "other black friend"
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:36 PM
Neema (841 posts)
37. Was he a virgin past the age of 18? Something tells me he was not. Sexist and GROSS.
Ugh. Poor girl is going to have some issues.
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Response to Neema (Reply #37)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 08:14 PM
Blue_true (18,749 posts)
88. He may have been. I was a virgin until I was 19 and I was popular with girls that I met in school.
Some guys and females simply don't get around to sex, for whatever reason.
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Response to Blue_true (Reply #88)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 11:05 PM
Neema (841 posts)
97. He started rapping at a very young age and he wasn't rapping about saving himself
until marriage. Unless it was all a front, it's pretty doubtful.
Regardless, he does not have the right to violate his daughter's body that way. It's disgusting. |
Response to Neema (Reply #97)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 11:13 PM
Blue_true (18,749 posts)
98. Your last point is on target.
I don't know whether he has a son. If he does have a son, is he pressing his son to remain a virgin? I doubt it.
Teen sex can be problematic, if I had kids, I would advise daughters and sons the same way. My advice would be to wait until they are older to start pairing off, the world is full of people, the chance is very high that they will meet a person later on who is far more impressive for them - that is why I would advise patience. But I believe that a daughter using birth control is not an issue, neither is a son using a condom. |
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:39 PM
GoCubsGo (22,662 posts)
39. I'm calling "bullshit" here.
This asshole talks a good game, but I have my doubts any of it is true, other than reminding his daughter that she has her annual check-up. I think he's probably full of shit. It all sounds too much like Trump's B.S. puffery. His "check the her hymen" shit sounds like embellishment of what's likely just a normal doctor's appointment.
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Response to GoCubsGo (Reply #39)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 02:31 PM
ecstatic (25,893 posts)
56. Good point. I can't imagine a licensed physician going along
with this.
TI might mean well, but he's sending the wrong message to his daughter--that a man has a right to inspect and control her vagina. Not cool. She'll probably have intimacy issues as well as a result of the Taliban-esque atmosphere her dad has created. |
Response to ecstatic (Reply #56)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 02:44 PM
GoCubsGo (22,662 posts)
58. I'm not convinced that he talks to his daughter like this.
Or, that this atmosphere actually exists within his home. It strikes me as bullshitting his audience in some weird attempt to prove some macho, controlling image to them. It just strikes me as shit-stirring. He very well may be a control-freak asshole, who would love to be able to control his daughters like that. I just have my doubts that he's actually doing what he says he is doing.
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Response to GoCubsGo (Reply #39)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 07:49 PM
MustLoveBeagles (2,447 posts)
80. I sincerely hope so for his daughter's sake
He's still a dirtbag though.
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Response to GoCubsGo (Reply #39)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 08:17 PM
Blue_true (18,749 posts)
89. I tend to agree.
He likely talked to his daughter about the hazards of teen sex and she took his advice seriously. But he has to do the macho rapper thing and brag.
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Response to GoCubsGo (Reply #39)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 09:35 PM
TwilightZone (13,646 posts)
96. He's publicly humiliating his daughter.
If he's just exaggerating it for attention, that makes it worse.
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:40 PM
PCIntern (18,291 posts)
40. Fuck these assholes...creepy shitheads
Otherwise speechless
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:41 PM
sarisataka (10,130 posts)
41. Um, eww...
No, just no
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:44 PM
IADEMO2004 (3,727 posts)
42. Has she ran away from home yet?
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:47 PM
JDC (5,089 posts)
43. Maybe he should get her a chastity belt.
He can wear the key around his neck.
Creep |
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:52 PM
Vinca (43,488 posts)
45. That's seriously creepy.
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 01:55 PM
Iggo (41,861 posts)
46. Don't kid yourself. He's talking about ownership.
Response to Iggo (Reply #46)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 02:03 PM
I_UndergroundPanther (347 posts)
47. That is the problem
Entitled abusive nacissists always want to own people because they want control,but have no self control.
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 02:09 PM
irisblue (19,389 posts)
49. At DrJenGunter and the twitter thread
Thread Reader App (@threadreaderapp) Tweeted:
@SilkOne Hello, you can read it here: Thread by @DrJenGunter: "This is horrible on so many levels. Let me educate you all about the hymen 1/12 The hymen is a left over collection of c […]" https://t.co/Z9A89Qr4lW Enjoy ![]() Link to tweet |
Response to irisblue (Reply #49)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 02:19 PM
demmiblue (23,473 posts)
53. Dr. Gunter is awesome!
I linked to the video she tweeted about somewhere above.
Go Dr. G! ![]() |
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 02:11 PM
Initech (78,111 posts)
50. Ewwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!! Ew. Ew. Ew. Ew. Ew. Ew. Wait a minute. Ew.
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 02:13 PM
demmiblue (23,473 posts)
51. NARAL's response:
This is SO incredibly disturbing. T.I. apparently goes to the OB/GYN with his 18-year old daughter to “check her hymen.” 🤢
“Virginity” is NOT a medical status—and this is coercive. Link to tweet |
Response to underpants (Reply #54)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 08:01 PM
doc03 (22,663 posts)
85. That was my thought who the f-- is T.I. and why should
I give a damn what he does.
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 02:26 PM
Demovictory9 (9,285 posts)
55. disgusting
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 02:33 PM
MoonRiver (32,810 posts)
57. Poor girl
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 03:04 PM
The Genealogist (3,488 posts)
59. I guess this happens until she is handed over to her new owner upon marriage
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 03:16 PM
bluestarone (7,266 posts)
61. He's abusing her!
Even mentioning this is so fucking sick! He's the type of asshole, that when his closet is opened, lots of dirty shit will be discovered!
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 05:50 PM
Blue_Tires (54,671 posts)
63. 1. Isn't that you know, illegal?
2. Why would anyone be proud to admit to the world that they sexually repressed their daughter until the day she legally became a woman??
3. Are we even going to mention the brazen hypocrisy? I read in some other story that dude's (older) sons were openly sexually active in their teen years. |
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 07:10 PM
Hekate (57,991 posts)
64. Sexual abuse. Obsessively intrusive. Creepy. Stomach-turning. Unbelievable control-freak.
I hope she has no sisters, and I hope she finds the wherewithal to escape her *hole father's control soon and make a life for herself far away.
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 07:15 PM
milestogo (6,754 posts)
67. I worked with a guy who thought he had a right to his daughter's business.
She was an 18 year old college freshman, and she was covered by her father's health insurance. His ex-wife took the daughter to a gyno before she went off to college.
Dad thought he had the right to know if his daughter was taking birth control pills since he was paying for it. Creeped me out. |
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 07:20 PM
NCLefty (2,926 posts)
71. Under His eye.
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 07:47 PM
LakeArenal (8,395 posts)
78. What happens if the result is a "disturbed hymen"
She’s stoned? Shunned? Beaten? Just what?
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Response to LakeArenal (Reply #78)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 07:51 PM
MustLoveBeagles (2,447 posts)
83. I really hope he's lying about this
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 07:50 PM
PupCamo (223 posts)
81. that's not creepy as fuck
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 08:19 PM
Runningdawg (2,550 posts)
90. For all of you calling BS
My mother did this starting with my 13th BD. Every year. The Dr allowed it because he was part of the same religious cult. HIS story may be BS but I can guarantee you it's happening. And worse. Right now. In America.
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 08:26 PM
sdfernando (2,702 posts)
91. I am sure that he is planning
On getting top dollar for her when he sells her into marriage.
Fucking nurse creep! |
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 08:29 PM
catbyte (15,798 posts)
92. Oh, yuck.
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 08:29 PM
Ferrets are Cool (5,958 posts)
93. This is such fucking bullshit. Makes me want to puke. nt
FUCK YOU ASSHOLE. And you just made it worse by making it PUBLIC. You are fucking deplorable. GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 08:58 PM
Jake Stern (2,649 posts)
94. Can some DU medical professionals weigh in?
Even if she did sign a release it was clearly under duress. How can accepting it ever be considered ethical?
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Response to Jake Stern (Reply #94)
Thu Nov 7, 2019, 03:08 AM
Withywindle (8,535 posts)
99. Not a medical professional but I've known some abuse counselors
What I have heard is that sometimes in situations like this, doctors will play along and tell the abusive controlling person (parent, spouse, partner) what they want to hear, and check in with the victim and try to get them help as much as possible in private. The reasoning is that if there is an open confrontation or a refusal, the abuser will likely take it out on the victim in a worse way later.
No way to know if that's what's going on here. It is just one possible explanation for the doctor's behavior. |
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Wed Nov 6, 2019, 09:31 PM
Blue Owl (18,560 posts)
95. Dude needs a swift kick in the purity balls
n/t
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Thu Nov 7, 2019, 08:50 AM
DFW (35,336 posts)
100. Never heard of the guy
And now I am in no hurry.
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Thu Nov 7, 2019, 08:53 AM
empedocles (5,995 posts)
101. Power corrupts
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Thu Nov 7, 2019, 08:54 AM
samnsara (9,518 posts)
102. the gyno at 16?????? this guys sick..................
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Thu Nov 7, 2019, 09:15 AM
demmiblue (23,473 posts)
108. "That means that little thing you got, that little sex box you got is half mine,"
His possessiveness over the sexual activity of the women in his life does, however, extend to his wife Tiny, 44.
According to MadameNoir, in a recent episode of T.I.'s ExpediTIously podcast, he told Tiny that he was owed sex in their marriage contract. 'What’s yours is mine and what’s mine is yours. That means that little thing you got, that little sex box you got is half mine,' he said. 'So you pick which side you want, and that’s yours. The rest of it is mine. We can split it right down the middle of the… What do they call it? The, the, the, is it the, "Uvula"?' He seems to have been referring to the vulva. 'What I’m saying is, it’s half mine. And my half is on the inside.' https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-7656539/Rapper-T-doctor-check-daughters-hymen-year-ensure-shes-virgin.html ![]() |
Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Thu Nov 7, 2019, 09:42 AM
MuseRider (29,315 posts)
109. Why didn't he just skip all the worry
and put a lock and key on it?
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Response to demmiblue (Original post)
Thu Nov 7, 2019, 11:19 AM
Bayard (6,330 posts)
111. Surprised he doesn't try to get into the exam room
Sounds like he is projecting his past onto her--do as I say, not as I've done.
Wonder if she does any dating at all? |