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ansible

(1,718 posts)
Mon May 14, 2018, 05:06 PM May 2018

Parents go to court to evict 30 year old son

Camillus, NY -- Two Camillus parents are going to state Supreme Court to force their 30-year-old son out of the family residence.

"After a discussion with your Mother, we have decided that you must leave this house immediately," father Mark Rotondo wrote his son, in a letter filed with the court.

But son Michael isn't going anywhere without a fight.

The parents' lawyer, Anthony Adorante, said today that the couple is having trouble with their son and didn't know any other way to get him out. The couple declined comment for this story.

Michael has, so far, ignored their demand to leave, according to the court complaint.

https://www.syracuse.com/expo/erry-2018/05/ec96feccdd8142/camillus_parents_go_to_ny_supr.html#incart_m-rpt-1

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Parents go to court to evict 30 year old son (Original Post) ansible May 2018 OP
they are giving him $1100 and advice on how to live Demovictory9 May 2018 #1
OMG, sitting around with no future and a bunch of weapons.... bettyellen May 2018 #5
And his other valuable besides weapons to sell includes a lunasun May 2018 #8
Why am I thinking this might not have a very happy ending? smirkymonkey May 2018 #10
Parents must be terrified that he will use the weapons malaise May 2018 #15
cut off his access to the incel reddit maxsolomon May 2018 #2
This is a ringing endorsement for not having children. BannonsLiver May 2018 #3
Occupy RandiFan1290 May 2018 #4
Sell your weapons! Louis1895 May 2018 #6
Maybe they should move in the middle of the night rurallib May 2018 #7
And abandon the house they own? former9thward May 2018 #11
Well, exactly. LisaL May 2018 #12
Sell it, don't tell the kid until the moving van pulls up rurallib May 2018 #13
That would have been viable before it hit the courts. joshcryer May 2018 #16
This is sad. WhiskeyGrinder May 2018 #9
Agreed, the dude has been fighting in the courts since September. joshcryer May 2018 #14
I saw this movie dflprincess May 2018 #17
In my matriarchal family grandmas and great grandmas dealt with shit like that. hunter May 2018 #18
 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
10. Why am I thinking this might not have a very happy ending?
Mon May 14, 2018, 06:55 PM
May 2018

I fear for his parents. I really hope he leaves without incident.

former9thward

(31,961 posts)
11. And abandon the house they own?
Mon May 14, 2018, 07:00 PM
May 2018

It may be the biggest asset they have. Why should they be on the street?

rurallib

(62,401 posts)
13. Sell it, don't tell the kid until the moving van pulls up
Mon May 14, 2018, 08:30 PM
May 2018

take it easy folks, it was supposed to be a humorous comment.

joshcryer

(62,269 posts)
16. That would have been viable before it hit the courts.
Mon May 14, 2018, 08:58 PM
May 2018

But as soon as any court documents went out and he claims to be an occupant of the house, it changes matters significantly.

I suspect the family didn't expect him to fight or or be able to fight it so they just evicted him. Once that happened the guy had a lot of options and has kept it tied up in the courts since.

joshcryer

(62,269 posts)
14. Agreed, the dude has been fighting in the courts since September.
Mon May 14, 2018, 08:50 PM
May 2018

Obviously an intelligent person who probably lacks social skills and has anxiety for living / working in the real world. The family has been trying to get rid of him but I suspect he's fighting it because he doesn't know what else to do. Here's hoping he doesn't snap.

hunter

(38,309 posts)
18. In my matriarchal family grandmas and great grandmas dealt with shit like that.
Mon May 14, 2018, 10:48 PM
May 2018
One way or another, you won't be here in the morning, and don't forget the sheriff-CORONER is a friend of mine.

Not a good thing.

As a kid I used to watch fascinated as my great grandmas cut up fish, birds, and small mammals for dinner faster than I could follow their hands. No way in hell I'd ever cross them.

In my Star Trek utopia any adult children gone horribly wrong get public housing and mandatory counseling that's much preferable to any alternative.

I put my own parents through hell, quitting high school with occasional bouts of homelessness and other horrors I mostly shielded them from, but I was so damned affable and very white that most of the time even the graveyard shift cops found me a pleasant diversion from their usual sordid 2 o'clock in the morning duties.

Once upon a time a kind policeman was taking me home instead of the more reasonable jail or hospital ER. I don't recall the hour, but it was late and when we got to the studio apartment I shared with another guy we heard some very loud sex. The cop pounded on the door anyways and when my roomy's disheveled girlfriend answered the door he shoved me forward and asked her if I lived there. I was afraid she'd say NO!, but she hesitated and said yeah, and the cop left me there. My roomy and his girlfriend were not happy to see me. It's possible I hadn't been around for a week or two, since I had a habit of living in the computer lab and sleeping wherever. Officially I was living out of a university P.O. box.



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