Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

BigmanPigman

(51,567 posts)
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 02:40 AM Mar 2018

Today my 84 year old very Dem dad told me that if he were younger

he would leave the US and move to New Zealand. I told him that I have read several posts on DU recently from people who have kids who are in their 20s and they are planning on leaving the country now due to the situation that our country is in and how it will most likely take 20 years (if ever) to undo what the GOP and the Moron has done to the country. The divisions and wounds may never heal and the country may never have the status that we did. Since Reagun the politics and corruption have made this country not as great as it once was and leaving is a serious option that many are considering and even planning to do now.

60 replies = new reply since forum marked as read
Highlight: NoneDon't highlight anything 5 newestHighlight 5 most recent replies
Today my 84 year old very Dem dad told me that if he were younger (Original Post) BigmanPigman Mar 2018 OP
I looked into it. A HERETIC I AM Mar 2018 #1
Who's "they?" DFW Mar 2018 #16
Otis A HERETIC I AM Mar 2018 #18
You did mention one of the magic pills DFW Mar 2018 #20
I envy you your experiences.... A HERETIC I AM Mar 2018 #21
Looks like the Willamette Valley from Salem south, although we tend to have sheep. Shrike47 Mar 2018 #58
this is totally OT, but oh my gosh thank you so much!!! renate Mar 2018 #60
How about "the powers that be"? whathehell Mar 2018 #27
New Zealand and Australia aren't looking for lots of immigration either DFW Mar 2018 #37
Okay. whathehell Mar 2018 #38
I hear Botswana is DFW Mar 2018 #41
Not Xhosa, no Nonhlanhla Mar 2018 #43
But out in the Kalahari...... DFW Mar 2018 #45
That might be interesting Nonhlanhla Mar 2018 #46
My bad. You're right, of course DFW Mar 2018 #47
You were not far off Nonhlanhla Mar 2018 #48
I haven't seen it. DFW Mar 2018 #50
No thanks -- I'm not interested in leaving, whathehell Mar 2018 #59
no Skittles Mar 2018 #2
this!!!!! we need each other! bluestarone Mar 2018 #44
Bingo, Dolt 45 will not win. sarcasmo Mar 2018 #52
Right now I wouldn't want to leave by myself as I have many friends and PoindexterOglethorpe Mar 2018 #3
A friend of mine emigrated to NZ about 6 years ago and it has been a OnDoutside Mar 2018 #4
Interesting.. Mahalo, for your Ireland Cha Mar 2018 #7
Go raibh maith agat, Cha ! OnDoutside Mar 2018 #13
You're Cha Mar 2018 #14
14 years in school and I only remember the bits beaten into me ! OnDoutside Mar 2018 #23
Oh no! Cha Mar 2018 #42
Its tough to transition as a plumber in New Zealand jberryhill Mar 2018 #51
He turned it upside down ;) OnDoutside Mar 2018 #55
Well, yeah, that too! jberryhill Mar 2018 #56
Actually, he didn't need to, he is a foreman for a company installing new pipes all over Christchurc OnDoutside Mar 2018 #57
Instead of leaving it, we should divide it up into separate or individual smaller democratisphere Mar 2018 #5
Yes - we could call them, "States." colorado_ufo Mar 2018 #12
Some days I suspect the Repugs would prefer that. KY_EnviroGuy Mar 2018 #24
Great post! colorado_ufo Mar 2018 #39
LOL! lunatica Mar 2018 #15
You can run, but you cant hide Poiuyt Mar 2018 #6
"You are fighting the most important fight of all -- you live in the heart of the beast." byronius Mar 2018 #8
... handmade34 Mar 2018 #9
Im 62 and feel the same way kimbutgar Mar 2018 #10
Rebuilding this nation, what an opportunity. nocalflea Mar 2018 #11
Not leaving Cali. No way. I'll go down fighting. nt SunSeeker Mar 2018 #17
I have the best of both worlds, but remain American to my core DFW Mar 2018 #19
+1! eom BlueMTexpat Mar 2018 #22
I'm almost 58 and disabled. I was adopted by Americans but at birth... WePurrsevere Mar 2018 #25
I know it's not the same country, but a friend of mine was born in Germany phylny Mar 2018 #34
That's encouraging! Thank you. nt WePurrsevere Mar 2018 #40
I'm getting old as well, but I choose to stay and fight to restore our representative democracy. infullview Mar 2018 #26
White people fantasies. nt LexVegas Mar 2018 #28
At my age, only one country will take me and safeinOhio Mar 2018 #29
Sorry but these deplorables are not going to chase me from my fucking country. Kirk Lover Mar 2018 #30
Maybe it's because I've lived through many a crisis in this country whathehell Mar 2018 #31
Every four years people say they are leaving. former9thward Mar 2018 #32
Where's the principle in all these cut-and-run fantasies, Hortensis Mar 2018 #33
can you convince him to talk to 80 year old male Trumpkins Fresh_Start Mar 2018 #35
I've looked into it. BBbats Mar 2018 #36
My sis, Bil and nephew (high earning intelligent people) ditched to Australia 12/16 elehhhhna Mar 2018 #49
My daughter has talked about moving overseas. She is currently in college and I have Luciferous Mar 2018 #53
Those who feel that way sure won't be involved in undoing what has occurred, still_one Mar 2018 #54

A HERETIC I AM

(24,362 posts)
1. I looked into it.
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 02:46 AM
Mar 2018

And though I have a skill (truck driver with car hauler experience) that is occasionally in high demand, I am too old. If I was a doctor or any of the other skills in high demand, it wouldn't matter as much, but since I am what I am, they wouldn't allow me to immigrate because of my age.

DFW

(54,302 posts)
16. Who's "they?"
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 04:44 AM
Mar 2018

("Smith, Wesson, and him" is not an acceptable answer, by the way.)

At age 59½ I applied for permanent residence in Germany, and was approved within 2 months. Unfortunately, that also brought an increase of my taxes up to 50% and zero benefits (no health insurance and no pension), but I knew that going in. I just got tired of the eternal commute, and my wife's life and friends are here in Germany, not the USA. Plus, my German is better than her English.

Getting all the paperwork together before applying, being married to a German citizen, having a job at the same (American, by the way) outfit for 35 years and being fluent in German obviously speeded the process along for me. Don't even THINK about moving to a place where you don't speak the language.

But it CAN be done, if you really want it. Just make sure you know ALL the pluses and minuses before you do.

A HERETIC I AM

(24,362 posts)
18. Otis
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 04:55 AM
Mar 2018

....


OK...not Otis, but the New Zealand Immigration website. You have to be younger than 55. I'll be 59 in May

https://www.immigration.govt.nz/new-zealand-visas/apply-for-a-visa/criteria/long-term-skill-shortage-list-work-visa?nationality=nationality-USA&country=residence-USA&applying=no

That is the "Long Term Skill Shortage" criteria which is what I would concern myself with, as after looking through the various options, it seemed as if it best suited me.

But alas, I would probably be disqualified for my health anyway, as I have COPD.

If I win the Powerball this week, none of that will matter, as is the case with most Western Democracies (from what I understand, anyway), if you don't have a skill that is in high demand, but can show you won't be a burden on their social programs, ie: have the money to pay your own way, there isn't much stopping you from buying property and moving anywhere.

DFW

(54,302 posts)
20. You did mention one of the magic pills
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 05:05 AM
Mar 2018

No country, including the USA, wants people to move there just to become a welfare refugee. My wife used to go into a rage, not her nature at all, when she had charges (she is a social worker) who showed up from Poland or Russia, speaking barely any German at all, claiming to be long lost ethnic Germans, demanding the maximum in welfare benefits, and finding every pretext in the book (and some not in the book) for not working. Show them the money (or a steady job in America you can continue to do in your new country, like I did), and they get very accommodating, very quickly.

If you don't win the Powerball (I'm guessing that's some kind of lottery, right?) this week, do they hold it again next week?

A HERETIC I AM

(24,362 posts)
21. I envy you your experiences....
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 05:23 AM
Mar 2018

My dad was CIA and I lived in Athens in the mid 60's and Australia in the 70's.

On our return to the US from Greece, we traveled by ferry from Athens to Italy, then up through central Europe, but I have never been to Spain, Portugal, France, Belgium or The Netherlands. I suppose we hit both Austria and Switzerland, and drove all the way through Germany to Bremerhaven where we boarded the SS United States for the return to New York.

Yes, the Powerball is a lottery played in 21 states, Washington DC, Puerto Rico and the US Virgin Islands, drawn twice a week (Wednesdays and Saturdays) and has grown to a fairly large jackpot for Saturday of $455 million.

So...yeah..if I could hit that (Chances of being eaten by a shark while being struck by lightning are better!) I'll keep a permanent address in Florida for tax purposes, but a property on the South Island of NZ sounds lovely.

And FWIW, Google Street view is very cool. Here's a shot from a road near the southern tip of the South Island, the kind of countryside I could easily fall in love with;

https://goo.gl/maps/1N3i3xTWud72

(If you haven't used it before, just use your mouse to rotate the shot and move up and down the road. Scroll way out and the satellite shot of the region will appear.)



renate

(13,776 posts)
60. this is totally OT, but oh my gosh thank you so much!!!
Sat Mar 17, 2018, 07:06 PM
Mar 2018

I adore Google Street View (and MapCrunch!!!), and I never knew about the scrolling out to get the satellite view.



I always wondered how people could play that MapCrunch game where they try to find the nearest airport in the fewest steps by just crawling along the streets a click (a few meters) at a time. Now I know!! Woo hoo!!!!

whathehell

(29,034 posts)
27. How about "the powers that be"?
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 08:06 AM
Mar 2018

or "the immigration authorities"?

I won't encourage the poster to give up easily, but Germany isn't New Zealand and his situation does look a bit different than yours.

DFW

(54,302 posts)
37. New Zealand and Australia aren't looking for lots of immigration either
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 10:50 AM
Mar 2018

They pay as much attention to financial prowess and job qualifications as Germany does. Only the weather and the language situation are different.

That said, his situation is indeed different. But NOBODY should look into emigration as a casual undertaking, no matter where they think they are headed.

Nonhlanhla

(2,074 posts)
43. Not Xhosa, no
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 10:47 PM
Mar 2018

The dominant language in Botswana is Tswana, which is quite different from the Nguni languages like Xhosa or Zulu. Although English is fine in Botswana.

DFW

(54,302 posts)
45. But out in the Kalahari......
Sat Mar 17, 2018, 04:37 AM
Mar 2018

After all, if you want to get away from it all, you might as well get out to the Kalahari and hang with the Bushmen instead of staying in town, right?

Nonhlanhla

(2,074 posts)
46. That might be interesting
Sat Mar 17, 2018, 06:01 AM
Mar 2018

There are very few real Bushmen left, though! Their original language is Khoisan, which is difficult to learn because of the clicking sounds. Khoisan in fact influenced the Xhosa language (which was, incidentally, the language of Nelson Mandela, and which is mostly spoken in the Eastern Cape and Western Cape regions of South Africa).

DFW

(54,302 posts)
47. My bad. You're right, of course
Sat Mar 17, 2018, 10:15 AM
Mar 2018

I meant Khosian, not Xhosa. It has been a long time since I last watched "The Gods Must Be Crazy."

Nonhlanhla

(2,074 posts)
48. You were not far off
Sat Mar 17, 2018, 10:26 AM
Mar 2018

Both Khoisan and Xhosa have those clicking sounds! Did you know that they used Xhosa in the Black Panther? Cool!

DFW

(54,302 posts)
50. I haven't seen it.
Sat Mar 17, 2018, 10:35 AM
Mar 2018

Don't forget, I live in Germany. Things don't always get here at the same time.

bluestarone

(16,867 posts)
44. this!!!!! we need each other!
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 11:19 PM
Mar 2018

The time will come that it's REALLY REALLY REALLY FUCKED UP!!!! FIGHT OR DIE TIME!!!!!!!!!!

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,816 posts)
3. Right now I wouldn't want to leave by myself as I have many friends and
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 02:58 AM
Mar 2018

relatives.

When my son finishes PhD school I am hoping he gets a job in another country where I can also go live.

I won't fault anyone for leaving, and if I were a lot younger I might do so, but at this point in my life I'm not willing to give up my connections.

OnDoutside

(19,948 posts)
4. A friend of mine emigrated to NZ about 6 years ago and it has been a
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 03:03 AM
Mar 2018

fantastic experience for himself and his family. He left when the Irish economy was in the toilet, following his brother who had his own plumbing company but decided to move anyway. Overall it's been an amazing time. He is a plumber as well but has been continuously employed in the reconstruction of Christchurch.

The healthcare is excellent, he has had a back problem in the last couple of months and there was no messing around, within a few days he saw a consultant and had an operation a couple of days later. The one odd thing is dental....it's expensive because it's a closed shop so a lot of NZ people get their dental care elsewhere. Outside of that, they are always outdoors, and their daughter has had a quality of life that she wouldn't have had here. She goes pony riding, skiing and other sports.

Once his back problem is sorted, they'll be heading back to Ireland as our economy is back flying again, and to get their daughter into the Irish education system, which is better than in NZ. His brother came back about 2 years ago, restarted his plumbing company and is doing really well.

Cha

(296,859 posts)
14. You're
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 04:15 AM
Mar 2018


And, mahalo for the Gaelic! I love it.. it's so different!

I just heard it on youtube.. Bite size Irish Gaelic
 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
51. Its tough to transition as a plumber in New Zealand
Sat Mar 17, 2018, 10:41 AM
Mar 2018

How did he learn to make the water in the toilet spin the other way when it’s flushed?
 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
56. Well, yeah, that too!
Sat Mar 17, 2018, 11:45 AM
Mar 2018

I can't imagine how hard it must be to work as a plumber in a place where water goes completely the other direction entirely.

OnDoutside

(19,948 posts)
57. Actually, he didn't need to, he is a foreman for a company installing new pipes all over Christchurc
Sat Mar 17, 2018, 11:52 AM
Mar 2018

which was devastated by the earthquake.

democratisphere

(17,235 posts)
5. Instead of leaving it, we should divide it up into separate or individual smaller
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 03:21 AM
Mar 2018

countries. America is so totally divided it will never be the same again. The AR-15 worshippers can have a shootout in their own country. The racists, white supremacists and Nazis can hate in another country. The evangelicals can be hypocrites in their own country. The tree huggers and quiche eaters can be at peace in their country. The GOP RW deplorable nutcase drumpf supporting incomprehensible fox propaganda network devotees can be mesmerized and brainwashed in their own country. The stable, rational, sane Democrats can run a normal all inclusive country. Oh, and the Bernie supporters can have an island all to themselves where everything is free.

KY_EnviroGuy

(14,488 posts)
24. Some days I suspect the Repugs would prefer that.
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 06:12 AM
Mar 2018

Their actions tend to drive people of different beliefs, economic status and political aspirations into certain areas of the U.S. to further divide us. Red states (including mine) are constantly passing laws, budgets and regulations that tend to drive away the poor, disabled and anyone else that may need assistance. Further, they do lots of things that show bias toward white Christians and people of privilege.

It's very ironic that many of those who vote red are the very ones that would be pushed away or forced into further misery. Therefore, those voters are considered disposable.

.................

Poiuyt

(18,117 posts)
6. You can run, but you cant hide
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 03:34 AM
Mar 2018

I thought about what it would be like to move to a different country, but I don’t think I’d be happy. America is my home, so I’d be just as upset reading the news.

Of course, I’d have better healthcare!

byronius

(7,391 posts)
8. "You are fighting the most important fight of all -- you live in the heart of the beast."
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 03:51 AM
Mar 2018

"I envy you. You North Americans are very lucky. You are fighting the most important fight of all – you live in the heart of the beast."

-- Che Guevara

nocalflea

(1,387 posts)
11. Rebuilding this nation, what an opportunity.
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 04:03 AM
Mar 2018

I am an American through and through . I have no desire to leave.

If my greatgrandparents could make a success of homesteading a ranch in the fucking desert after watching their parents lose everything in the Civil War (their own damned fault) , I can put up with the imperfections of my fellow citizens to build a better future for all.

Out of ashes, we rise.

DFW

(54,302 posts)
19. I have the best of both worlds, but remain American to my core
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 04:56 AM
Mar 2018

Some people renounce their US citizenship, something I would never do. I was born there, grew up there, and it is my identity.

Not "my country, right or wrong," but rather, "my country for better or for worse." For family reasons and work reasons, I live in Germany, much to my personal financial detriment. But when I head for the States, as I do a few times a year, I head "home." I wouldn't be so obsessed with improving it if that were no longer the case, or if I considered the place a total lost cause..

WePurrsevere

(24,259 posts)
25. I'm almost 58 and disabled. I was adopted by Americans but at birth...
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 07:57 AM
Mar 2018

and for the first almost year and a half of my life I was a dual citizen of the U.S. and Canada.

Late last year, thanks to DNA testing, I found my bio families and am in the slow process of reunification. Sadly both bio parents are deceased but those who know about me so far have been welcoming, especially the Canadian side.

One Canadian cousin that I've become very close with thinks I probably have a very good case to have my dual citizen status returned to me and then, if we choose to, I might be able to move to Canada with hubby. I know I want the former and we're starting to look into the later. It's not only because of Trump and off the deep end crazies but they certainly are extra motivation.

phylny

(8,368 posts)
34. I know it's not the same country, but a friend of mine was born in Germany
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 09:00 AM
Mar 2018

to a German mother and U.S. serviceman father, then adopted by Americans. She just got her German passport a few months ago.

Best of luck to you.

whathehell

(29,034 posts)
31. Maybe it's because I've lived through many a crisis in this country
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 08:33 AM
Mar 2018

that I'm not understanding this "America will never be the same again" meme.

Ive lived through Watergate, the 60's Riots, Vietnam, even the Kennedy Assassination, so I don't view the country as being terribly "fragile".

Chump has only been in ONE year, and looks to be on a definite
exit ramp...In addition, Republican Legislators are retiring in droves...This ain't The End, people..In fact, this may be SO bad a 'moment' that radical change is likely to follow.




Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
33. Where's the principle in all these cut-and-run fantasies,
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 08:50 AM
Mar 2018

longing to run instead of stand and fight? Although most of us never seem to think this through, an influx of America's weaklings would hardly strengthen democracy in other nations, which all have their own right wings that have to be fought.

Political dynamics are complex. It makes me wonder if America's left could actually end up stronger for the sifting out? A sort of national clearing of the decks for battle.

Fresh_Start

(11,330 posts)
35. can you convince him to talk to 80 year old male Trumpkins
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 09:23 AM
Mar 2018

he'd have a easier time awakening them than someone who doesn't look like them

BBbats

(89 posts)
36. I've looked into it.
Fri Mar 16, 2018, 09:53 AM
Mar 2018

It's not easy,especially at my age(64 soon to be 65).
There isn't a high demand for my skills(musician)unless you're famous or wealthy.There is a band in Ireland who would like to have me as a member. I also had a contact in Switzerland who may be opening a bar/club that features American roots music.The governments want to know if I would be a burden on their social systems.They also want to know if a musician of their nationality couldn't do the gig.I've had some health problems the last few years(they pretty much left me broke) & had to start collecting my Social Security early as well as going on medical assistance.Unless you have some $$$ it isn't easy.

I've decided to stay & try & work & get active in Dem politics & do what I can to improve things for the future.

Luciferous

(6,078 posts)
53. My daughter has talked about moving overseas. She is currently in college and I have
Sat Mar 17, 2018, 10:44 AM
Mar 2018

been trying to talk her in to doing a semester abroad to see how she likes it.

still_one

(92,061 posts)
54. Those who feel that way sure won't be involved in undoing what has occurred,
Sat Mar 17, 2018, 10:53 AM
Mar 2018

and setting the country in the right direction.

Curiously, those who may be considering leaving at this time would be doing so just when all this may come crashing down on the trump administration and the republican party, and if nothing else, I sure wouldn't want to miss that for the world

Latest Discussions»General Discussion»Today my 84 year old very...