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Edited on Thu Mar-03-11 02:11 PM by Avant Guardian
I am well known at work as the 'librul' one. I was just shooting the breeze with him in his office when the subject of abortion came up. He got all hyper and excited talking to me about it, asking me about my position. I just kept saying over and over, "Abortion should be legal, but I don't think people should use as a form of birth control." He would not hear my answer. He just kept getting more and more and more hyper and excited, cutting me off and talking over me every time I answered him. He started in with the frantic RW abortion questions, "What about the first trimester? The second trimester? What about the third trimester?...". I just kept saying, "Abortion should be legal, but I don't think people should use as a form of birth control." The whole 'debate' was absurd. He could not handle my position because it didnt fit neatly into the RW steered national debate (all that trimester bullshit that the right always harps about when talking about abortion.) And he couldn't handle it BECAUSE HE COULDNT DISAGREE WITH IT!
Over the next couple of months, he tried coming at me with easily shot down RW talking points whenever possible. Examples: One day he started claiming that our state deficit was caused by, 'socialism,' because we have a Democratic governor. I asked him, 'Give me an example of socialism that she has implemented.' Of course he couldn't, so he started in with the hyper excitement BS. He bragged that, 'Sarah Palin's Alaska' has so much extra budget money that they give it away to the citizens every year. I answered him, 'In Alaska everyone gets a check every year because they socialized their oil industry.' What could he say to that? He went mute then walked away red faced.
A few weeks later we were setting up an IT conference in a building at work, some electrical work had been done in the room recently. He said something like, 'Good thing the electrical work wasn't done by the government or a union, otherwise we would still be waiting, everyone knows that government workers and union workers are lazy and incompetent'. I shot back at him, 'you work for the government, Peter'. (We work at a state college). He stopped and thought for a second, then just said, 'Oh," and dropped the subject. Obviously he had never contemplated the issue beyond the bumper sticker slogans that he hears on Limbaugh and FOX.
After that incident, he started acting very condescending towards me. With the slightest disagreement on anything we were working on, he would get all hyper and excited, cutting me off and talking over me as if we were talking about abortion or something. It started turning into subtle attacks on my work ethic, capacity to multitask...etc. Finally one day I took him aside and told him, 'Peter, you do know that it is OK to disagree, don't you?' He started with the hyper bullshit again, so I just bluntly cut him off and told him that if he continued his escalating condescending hyperactive bullshit towards me I would sue him for workplace harassment. I told him I would be putting up with no more of his, 'unwanted, unwarranted, hostility,' towards me.
With that, the political talking points stopped and he started trying to be nice to me again, but in a walking on eggshells sort of way. To this day he acts scared of me. He occasionally tosses out a condescending remark, but afterward (upon realizing it) he acts all weird towards me for a few days. I just let his slip ups slide, I dont need the drama at work, but he acts deeply psychologically wounded by it all. He was a condescending train wreck for nine solid months because I had a mild disagreement with him. To me the whole thing was petty and pathetic. All I did was fire back on his talking points a few times, no big deal right?
I came to the conclusion that if you disagree with a republican they 'hate' you for it, and they never get over it, ever. And this guy is a fucking MINISTER.
I am one of two liberals in my department, the other one is our department director :)
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