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cynatnite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 07:25 PM Original message |
You don't have to spank a child in order for them to be a good person... |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 07:28 PM Response to Original message |
1. k/r |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 07:28 PM Response to Original message |
2. Logical consequences are much more effective, with the only downside being |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 07:51 PM Response to Reply #2 |
12. exactly. hitting instills fear to get child to behave. logical conseq (i like) takes time, |
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muffin1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 07:28 PM Response to Original message |
3. K&R |
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madamesilverspurs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 07:36 PM Response to Original message |
4. Yeah, I still remember |
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nenagh (657 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 10:43 PM Response to Reply #4 |
43. I have never heard that phrase...'Adult Temper Tantrums' |
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Richardo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 07:37 PM Response to Original message |
5. delete |
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Raine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 07:44 PM Response to Original message |
6. My parents NEVER spanked me or my brother |
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Luminous Animal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 07:46 PM Response to Reply #6 |
8. My parent's spanked and when I grew up I decided that it was an abusive thing to do... |
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SoutherDem (317 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 07:45 PM Response to Original message |
7. My dad spanked, my Mom didn't |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 08:11 PM Response to Reply #7 |
29. you are right. my sister does not have kids.... but she is a lawyer and a child advocate. |
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Texasgal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 07:48 PM Response to Original message |
9. I'm pro-parenting |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 07:49 PM Response to Original message |
10. spanked, even with a belt. and fine with it. worked for me. i didnt like and made sure |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 07:54 PM Response to Reply #10 |
13. But you wouldn't do it with your own children -- which says a lot. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 08:01 PM Response to Reply #13 |
20. i saw with two brothers how ineffective of a parenting tool it was. not to mention |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 08:09 PM Response to Reply #20 |
27. I think I've told this story here before |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 08:49 PM Response to Reply #27 |
37. wow. that would traumatize me, not to mention the kid being walloped on. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 09:10 PM Response to Reply #37 |
39. It just may be a part of why I'm anti-spanking. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 09:57 PM Response to Reply #13 |
42. you know why i think it doesnt bother me. i knew, always, that my parents did it as punishment, |
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Imagevision (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 07:50 PM Response to Original message |
11. I send them to their room early, they disrespect their mom? their ass is grass |
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muffin1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 07:57 PM Response to Reply #11 |
17. Ass is grass? |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 08:12 PM Response to Reply #17 |
31. Sounds like something a Stephen King stepfather would say. |
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muffin1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 08:14 PM Response to Reply #31 |
34. Yeah, I had a flashback just seeing those words. |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 07:55 PM Response to Original message |
14. I remember when my oldest was a toddler. A friend insisted that we needed to spank her. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 08:02 PM Response to Reply #14 |
21. the most ironic, and i have seen it, is a parent spanking a child saying ... NO HITTING |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 08:13 PM Response to Reply #21 |
33. i love that. i think that is the most hilarious thing. i have seen that one myself. |
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Zanzoobar (618 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 07:56 PM Response to Original message |
15. My old man pounded us almost every day |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 07:59 PM Response to Reply #15 |
19. Do you think frequent spankings could have made you wilder? |
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Zanzoobar (618 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 08:13 PM Response to Reply #19 |
32. No clue |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 07:56 PM Response to Original message |
16. Fellow non-spanker |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 07:59 PM Response to Original message |
18. I don't think all spanking is abuse. But I do think it's wrong. |
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whatchamacallit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 08:03 PM Response to Original message |
22. Never took my hand to my kid, never had to |
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abelenkpe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 08:03 PM Response to Original message |
23. No spanking here |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 08:04 PM Response to Original message |
24. I think hitting a kid with a belt or other object is child abuse, plain and simple. |
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YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 09:23 PM Response to Reply #24 |
41. True. |
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Avalux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 08:05 PM Response to Original message |
25. I agree with you. I didn't spank my three kids. |
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backscatter712 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 08:07 PM Response to Original message |
26. Talk to anyone in the psychological community - they'll cite research & tell you spanking is harmful |
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Philippine expat (412 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 08:10 PM Response to Original message |
28. Maybe not |
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muffin1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 08:12 PM Response to Reply #28 |
30. Bullshit |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 08:28 PM Response to Reply #28 |
35. not ever? |
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cynatnite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 09:09 PM Response to Reply #28 |
38. striking a child is no more right than an adult striking another adult.... |
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madrchsod (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 08:30 PM Response to Original message |
36. i never spanked any of my kids... |
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YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-02-11 09:22 PM Response to Original message |
40. I think there is a point where a child out grows it and it just makes them hate their parents. |
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