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Cant trust em Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-21-10 02:22 PM
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When talking with international people about US politics, I always wind up feeling defensive...
Edited on Fri May-21-10 02:23 PM by Cant trust em
even though I usually agree with them. I still wind up feeling like this isn't their business.

I was talking with this British guy last night about how corrupt our political "system" is. I didn't disagree with anything he said, but still pretty annoying.

It's like I can bitch and moan about my sister, but if someone from the outside has anything to add, then it's not going to end up well.

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Flaneur Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-21-10 02:23 PM
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1. You should feel defensive. We're an embarrassment.
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bobbolink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-21-10 02:25 PM
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2. Exactly.
And it hasn't changed. :(
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mwrguy Donating Member (396 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-21-10 02:36 PM
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10. an embarrassment and a threat
all rolled up into one.

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Uzybone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-21-10 02:25 PM
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3. Depends on which international people
Western Europeans can generally look upon our political system with disdain.

Everybody else is by far more corrupt than we are.
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rockymountaindem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-21-10 02:29 PM
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4. After that giant expense scandal that swept their Parliament?
I would say that the British are not ones to talk about that subject at the moment.
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Zix Donating Member (881 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-21-10 02:34 PM
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8. That was ghastly, but we're not embarassed about it. We're ANGRY about it - AT THEM.

It's not my fault my politicians are hideous liars! And they've been told, now. Hopefully there will be some sort of improvement. David Cameron's cut ministers' salaries, for a start.

There are plenty of things Britain could be embarassed about but I don't think the expenses scandal is one of them.
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Zix Donating Member (881 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-21-10 02:31 PM
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5. Everyone gets defensive when their nation is questioned. I'm Scottish and it makes my blood boil

when people insult my country. Unless it's my countrymen, of course...

I do think it's difficult to compare like with like across national boundaries and if you're in the unfortunate position of being born in a country that actually does have problems it often hurts worst of all to hear it from foreigners.

These days I try to be humourous about it and acknowledge if people are actually right. Nothing wrong with talking up your achievements, though!
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Cant trust em Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-21-10 02:33 PM
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7. You're Scottish?!?!?!? Don't even get me started!
Just kidding.

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Zix Donating Member (881 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-21-10 02:36 PM
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11. Kidding, huh? HUH?

Purrum up, buddy! Them's, uh... kiddin' words...

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Commie Pinko Dirtbag Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-21-10 02:46 PM
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15. Let's experiment. OK, here it goes...
Haggis is gross.
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Zix Donating Member (881 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-21-10 02:52 PM
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16. .
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Raaaaarrrrgh!



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WeDidIt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-21-10 02:32 PM
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6. The thing is, our poltiics affects them more than their politics affects us
and you actually have a say in our politics whereas they don't. This will put them on point and make them agressive when discussing American politics with Americans. The only way they get any say in our politics is to convince an American of their viewpoint.

That's why you get the defensive feeling because they are always going to be aggressive about US politics.
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Zix Donating Member (881 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-21-10 02:38 PM
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12. Excellent point. If America gets a cold, the rest of the world gets pneumonia.

I'm really wishing the States could get rid of the drug war stuff. I firmly believe the only reason anyone else has hung onto prohibition is because of the American stance. It's very sad for a lot of people in Scotland, lots of lives destroyed.
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sui generis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-21-10 02:35 PM
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9. one thing you can be sure of
Edited on Fri May-21-10 02:36 PM by sui generis
as a general rule if a European is sharing an opinion with you, it's because they trust you enough to be able to discuss it without judgment. And also because politics makes them feel a little superior, BUT recall we've rubbed "America über Alles" in their faces forever and felt superior about it.

Tit for tat. :P

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Nye Bevan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-21-10 02:42 PM
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13. Our political system is really not that much more corrupt than theirs
Edited on Fri May-21-10 02:44 PM by Nye Bevan
Google Lord Ashcroft scandal, "cash for questions" and of course the Parliamentary expenses scandal.

The thing that I am terribly embarrassed to discuss with Europeans is of course our health system. Of course since Obama's reform my embarrassment has gone down some, but when people from most European countries get full medical care free of charge they have a right to feel superior in this regard.
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Codeine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-21-10 02:43 PM
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14. A few hours on the websites of foreign newspapers
will quickly disabuse you of the notion that American politics are uniquely corrupt or compromised. Europeans are canny enough to realize they know way more about our politics than we know about theirs, so they use that as an effective debating tool. Our own fault for being provincial.
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Sen. Walter Sobchak Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-21-10 03:09 PM
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17. It depends on what their bitching about
I tend to get pretty irritable with the people who complain about our "way of life" since I am a SoCal Suburban Douchebag and proud of it but most other issues don't really bother me.

I always laugh when the issue of evolution comes up, since to listen to the European media you would think the creationism museum in Kentucky is as popular as Disneyland.
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Zix Donating Member (881 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-21-10 04:11 PM
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19. "they're", darling, not "their".

Oh, the irony.

:P
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NNN0LHI Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-21-10 03:12 PM
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18. Like Otis the town drunk. He may be a drunk but he is our drunk
So don't be fucking with him.

Don
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