I'm so conflicted about all this because I truly don't know WHERE I come down on this issue! Was it the real estate market that did this, or was it people wanting "more" and thinking the ride would never end? Is it about keeping up with the Joneses or a "need" because they had to move because of their job?
Was this the going price and all they could get? I just don't know and on the one hand I feel so sorry for them, then I feel angry that too many Corporations/Companies took advantage of people! But in the end I'm so afraid and scared about what it's doing to this country! Or what "we the people" have let them do to us!
Seriously, I'm becoming more and more depressed and angry so much of the time. My stomach stays in knots wondering how really bad this is going to get!
And here's the REAL KICKER! I consider my family one of the LUCKY ones!! We bought our home 25 years ago for $68,000! I live in a GREAT neighborhood and have good neighbors too! We can walk to the Gulf of Mexico to the beach, or ride a bike and we have a very large lot! I KNOW my house is worth more than what I paid for it. We've improved it ourselves, adding a huge 28'x48' double story garage/workshop behind our house (my husband actually built it)! The house isn't too big 1600 sq. ft., 3 bdr, 2 bath but it's not too small either. It's just about right! Because of "when" we bought it they can't raise my taxes anymore than 3% a year, but my insurance does keep getting higher and higher! And since we live so close to the Gulf we have Flood Insurance too! We COULD have done the "moving on up thing" but never wanted to, and now I'm so thankful we didn't! If my husband and I died tomorrow my kids would benefit financially from the bare land alone because of our location! We even bought another 5 acres of land as an investment back in '89, but won't sell right now because we can actually wait to see if prices get better. We don't need them to get much better, but we can wait a while.
My husband retired early and was a "blue-collar" worker with the phone company. His mother who had Alzheimer's came to live with us and that's why he retired. I always worked, but am now on disability due to two car accidents, but I do well enough now. We have health insurance through our Union Company and it's better than most. We had a 401K and saved some money... so you see we aren't rich, but we're making it! We budget our money and I have been known to go to many many garage sales getting some great deals.
I've complained about America becoming a "throw away society" for many many years, just because that's how I feel. But I also can't help but feel DEEP DEEP sorrow about what is happening to so many other Americans! I actually cry about it and work myself up into real anxiety!
Is there any real answer one way or the other... my question I started with just doesn't seem to have an answer!
I also know that many, many people have lost their jobs and through no FAULT OF THEIR OWN just can't make it! My sorrow grows daily and it seem very dark to me!
Some made things happen to them, some HAD THINGS HAPPEN TO THEM! And some days it's just too much to take in for me! My heart goes out to all those who have become part of a throw away society!!
It seems to me that America MUST get it together some time soon, or we won't BE what we once were!
Sorry for the rant, I'm just in one of those moods!
