Ellen Goodman: The Man Who Won’t Change

[devilgrrl]

I was going to give this a good leaving alone. But there I was flying home from a mellow family visit when El Rushbo filled—and I do mean filled—the screen before me, delivering what he called “my first ever address to the nation.” Who knew there’d been a coup while I was gone? Hail to the Chief?

Dressed in a style David Letterman later labeled as “Eastern European Gangster,” Rush Limbaugh delivered a rousing 85-minute sermon to conservative true believers that included an unapologetic hope that President Obama will fail. Ah yes, a talk radio host who’d rather be (far) right than have his country rescued. Charming.
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Despite watching Limbaugh’s rant at 30,000 feet, I read glowing reviews saying that “it will be talked about for years and even decades.” And so I am forced to return to the subject our man Rush implied just days earlier: “Why don’t women like me?”
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Gosh. Was it something he said? Could it have the teensiest bit to do with all those “feminazi” cracks? Was it his warning that “the last place you want to be is between a liberal who gets herself pregnant and a morning-after pill”? Was it his crack that Hillary would lose because Americans didn’t want to see a woman age in office? Or his description of New York Sen. Kirsten Gillibrand as “marginally hotter than the former senator.” If that were the only problem we could cure it with duct tape.
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What finally happened at that Female Summit? When women callers who love Rush told him how to woo women who didn’t, he balked. Pompous? “I’m not changing that.” Stop with the “babe” talk? “Why do I have to change who I am?” Be more vulnerable? “You’re trying to emasculate me here.” He was the commander in chief of the conservative crouch.

None of this is world-shattering. Let him entertain us. What makes it notable is that the Man Who Won’t Change has used his ample body to fill the vacuum of Republican leadership. And the biggest gap in his public approval is among exactly those who left the party in droves: independent women.

more: http://www.truthdig.com/report/item/20090304_ellen_goodman_rush_limbaugh/

[JohnnyLib2]

1. Happy to recommend!

[Jackpine Radical]

2. Somebody oughtta take Rush aside & tell him about the birds & bees.

How the hell does a "liberal herself pregnant?" Lesbian parthenogenesis?

[jkshaw]

3. Timothy Egan of the NY Times

described Rush as the "sweaty, swollen man in the black, half buttoned shirt."

To me, he looks life-threateningly fat, as though he has some kidney disease or as though he's on a steroid regime to combat a kidney disease. How can he have female fans, and how can they say they "love him"? It's more than I can fathom.

[omega minimo]

4. " You don’t "own" women unless you can listen to them." --- Ellen Goodman

Posted on Mar 5, 2009

By Ellen Goodman


" Now a touch of reality here. Women don’t tune in to talk radio as much as men. Talk radio has been the forum of the “angry white man” since the 1990s. Women have had quite enough men yell at them, thank you, and Rush is more than vaguely reminiscent of the boss from hell. This one (we) can fire.

But Rush, who brags “I own the men,” asked “what must I do now to own the women?” Well, sweetie, Oprah owns the women. If Rush talks at women, Oprah talks with women.

Just imagine Limbaugh in marriage therapy letting his wife speak for an uninterrupted five minutes. You don’t own women unless you can listen to them.

More to the point, remember that Oprah is all about change. Rush, however, is the prototype of the Man Who Won’t Change."

Ellen Goodman’s e-mail address is ellengoodman(at)globe.com.

[Warpy]

5. Oh, we've all met guys just like him

"I want you to love me just the way I am and to accept my rotten treatment of you and my ridicule of everything you are and to hell with anything you might want or need."

Sadly, most of them do seem to find wives and breed, bringing up their sons to be the same way.

[Captain Hilts]

6. Calling Chelsea Clinton "the White House dog" didn't help him. Radio is ranting men. Ugh! nt