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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 02:18 PM Original message |
Girl, 12, told she can't play ball with boys |
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monmouth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 02:21 PM Response to Original message |
1. LOL. I just posted this in the lounge. Couldn't believe it. Some men |
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SharonAnn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 03:45 PM Response to Reply #1 |
13. What "deja vu". When Iwas 12, I also was told that I couldn't play basketball with |
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FlyingSquirrel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 05:24 PM Response to Reply #13 |
23. That's funny - my daughter mows the lawn and my son doesn't |
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ccharles000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 08:31 AM Response to Reply #23 |
52. When I was 13 my mom let me walk around the block... |
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ensho (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 11:43 AM Response to Reply #13 |
58. they usually tell girls they can't play after they develop breasts |
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femrap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 07:34 PM Response to Reply #1 |
34. I wonder if you know that the word, 'wuss' |
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Echo In Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 06:55 AM Response to Reply #34 |
42. Chauvinism/jingoism still runs rampant in our "modern" society |
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femrap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 11:03 PM Response to Reply #42 |
71. Our civilization has OD'd on masculine.... |
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drbtg1 (932 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 11:40 AM Response to Reply #34 |
56. Fast Times at Ridgemont High... |
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cbc5g (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 11:26 PM Response to Reply #1 |
75. As a guy If you hurt a girl you will be punished by the guys in school |
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Selatius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 02:24 PM Response to Original message |
2. The other parents are a bunch of fucking pansies. nt |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 06:39 PM Response to Reply #2 |
29. I sympathize with her problem. However, no mixed team rule |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 06:38 AM Response to Reply #29 |
40. where was the "no mixed team" rule while she was playing for years? |
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Echo In Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 06:58 AM Response to Reply #40 |
43. Rules are changed when the fragile egos of "gladiators" are ruffled |
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newmajority (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 02:24 PM Response to Original message |
3. One would think that a 6 foot 1 12 year old would be an asset to any basketball team |
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Systematic Chaos (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 02:34 PM Response to Reply #3 |
5. She's already stated her future goal. It's not the WNBA. |
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stevedeshazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 04:42 PM Response to Reply #5 |
17. I hope she makes it |
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tblue37 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 04:59 PM Response to Reply #17 |
19. God, I love those pictures of Obama addressing crowds the size of a |
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stevedeshazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 05:14 PM Response to Reply #19 |
22. At an estimated 75,000, this crowd would be Oregon's sixth largest city. |
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nolabels (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 06:48 PM Response to Reply #5 |
31. If she has enough skills they will have to let her in |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 06:49 PM Response to Reply #31 |
32. I don't think she would win any lawsuits. |
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nolabels (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 07:22 PM Response to Reply #32 |
33. I don't think there are many males trying to get into the WNBA |
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Winterblues (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 11:31 AM Response to Reply #33 |
54. While you may be correct that a few women could take some punishment |
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nolabels (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 12:24 PM Response to Reply #54 |
66. I don't understand if this sarcasm or not but my understanding of basketball.......... |
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Winterblues (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 12:46 PM Response to Reply #66 |
67. Have you been watching any of the NBA playoffs? |
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nolabels (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 03:02 PM Response to Reply #67 |
70. Yes i have been watching all them i possibly could |
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femrap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 07:39 PM Response to Reply #32 |
35. Given that we live in a Patriarchy where |
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malakai2 (483 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 08:31 PM Response to Reply #35 |
38. Okay, so patriarchy aside... |
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femrap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 11:12 PM Response to Reply #38 |
72. Patriarchy does reign over our society....you |
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malakai2 (483 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-28-08 12:20 AM Response to Reply #72 |
79. Two points |
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femrap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-28-08 12:01 PM Response to Reply #79 |
80. Boys who have better skills than their age |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 08:12 PM Response to Reply #32 |
37. the thing is though is that she's been playing with them for years |
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Kitty Herder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 11:33 PM Response to Reply #5 |
76. Good for her! |
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ProfessorGAC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 07:10 AM Response to Reply #3 |
45. That's The Same Thing I Thought |
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TheWraith (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 02:30 PM Response to Original message |
4. If it's a size issue, why not just bump her up a couple of grades? |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 02:36 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. that was my thought too |
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gristy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 03:15 PM Response to Reply #6 |
8. Younger players can always play on an older team. |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 03:08 PM Response to Reply #4 |
7. Apparently it's a boob issue |
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pnorman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 04:54 PM Response to Reply #7 |
18. "a boob issue" |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 06:34 PM Response to Reply #4 |
25. The article explains it. |
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smoochy (34 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 03:25 PM Response to Original message |
9. Go Girl! |
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juno jones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 03:26 PM Response to Original message |
10. From the story: |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 03:27 PM Response to Original message |
11. I hope the boys are pissed off at their parents over this |
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Kitty Herder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 11:38 PM Response to Reply #11 |
77. Totally agree. |
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bean fidhleir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 03:34 PM Response to Original message |
12. I hope her parents have had her checked for a pituitary tumor |
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Blue Poppy (116 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 04:39 PM Response to Reply #12 |
15. Just because one is that tall at that age doesn't mean they have a tumor... |
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bean fidhleir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 05:05 PM Response to Reply #15 |
20. But statistically a tumor is more likely, given that sex/age/size nexus |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 06:36 PM Response to Reply #20 |
28. Stop further growth? Are you kidding? |
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bean fidhleir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 06:12 AM Response to Reply #28 |
39. I think you missed the word "if" (nt) |
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stevedeshazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 05:12 PM Response to Reply #15 |
21. I'm always astonished that women who are tall aren't supposed to be tall. |
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jberryhill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 06:35 PM Response to Reply #21 |
27. Is your wife 12 years old? /nt |
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stevedeshazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 06:44 PM Response to Reply #27 |
30. I think you know the answer to that n/t |
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havocmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 11:21 PM Response to Reply #27 |
73. Girls commonly have a pre-pubescent growth spurt. With boys, it comes after puberty sets in |
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girl gone mad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 04:41 PM Response to Reply #12 |
16. I agree. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 06:35 PM Response to Reply #12 |
26. Height is genetic. |
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d_b (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 04:35 PM Response to Original message |
14. lol |
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nichomachus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 05:32 PM Response to Original message |
24. Even in adult leagues |
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dflprincess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-26-08 07:52 PM Response to Original message |
36. Several years ago one of my nephew's had an assistant coach on his baseball team |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 06:43 AM Response to Reply #36 |
41. "I bet you wish they played like girls now." |
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JTFrog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 07:01 AM Response to Reply #36 |
44. My Ex told my son one day he threw like a girl. I went into my closet and pulled out my glove and |
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Echo In Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 07:13 AM Response to Reply #44 |
46. The crux of the problem is how language reflects mindset |
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JTFrog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 07:38 AM Response to Reply #46 |
47. Why do I find your post incredibly insulting? |
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ProfessorGAC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 07:52 AM Response to Reply #47 |
48. I Think Echo Was Agreeing With You! |
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JTFrog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 08:21 AM Response to Reply #48 |
50. "And why are some women attracted to men who abide such negative views of women anyhow?" |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 11:43 AM Response to Reply #50 |
57. Nah - you're right - it was a "they ask for it" post in the guise of agreeing with you. |
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ProfessorGAC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 11:57 AM Response to Reply #57 |
60. You Serious Bloo? |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 12:04 PM Response to Reply #60 |
61. Yup. I could be wrong of course, I just don't preface my statements with the disclaimer... |
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ProfessorGAC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 12:07 PM Response to Reply #61 |
62. Well Color Me Surprised |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 12:08 PM Response to Reply #62 |
63. :P |
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Kitty Herder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 11:40 PM Response to Reply #57 |
78. I agree. That's how I read it. nt |
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Echo In Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 07:53 AM Response to Reply #47 |
49. It's a complicated topic. No offense intended |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 08:27 AM Response to Reply #46 |
51. i was proud of son the other day. at 13 talking about how he placed in the mile |
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noonwitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 09:28 AM Response to Original message |
53. At 12 and 6'1", she's probably a lot taller than the boys |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 11:36 AM Response to Original message |
55. That *is* pretty weak - at that age there isn't enough difference to justify it. |
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FormerOstrich (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 11:54 AM Response to Original message |
59. Beaverton, Oregon |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 12:09 PM Response to Original message |
64. "so they weren't fouling her hard." |
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Goblinmonger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-28-08 12:27 PM Response to Reply #64 |
81. I found that wording interesting |
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hokies4ever (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 12:15 PM Response to Original message |
65. Gender separation in sports is considered acceptable in our society |
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Fox Mulder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 01:25 PM Response to Original message |
68. You'd think any basketball team would want her on their team. |
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Westegg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 01:34 PM Response to Original message |
69. Gosh, I assumed females ruled in "Beaverton." |
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cbc5g (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-27-08 11:25 PM Response to Original message |
74. You can say patriarch society or misogyny but it wasn't just male parents there |
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Reader Rabbit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-28-08 12:54 PM Response to Original message |
82. Why is there always this ridiculous assumption that women are fragile? |
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