what is the worst name you ever called your SO...the worst you have ever been called?

[greenbriar]

I once called my husband a jerk to his face...never before and never after




I had an x boyfriend call me a bitch...that is why he is an x boyfriend





additionally, I am always surprised when older people use language like that..

naive I know, but still surprised

[nichomachus]

1. Poopy-head n/t

[Warpy]

2. My ex and I were remarkably civil to each other

all things considered. Nasty fights weren't what broke us up.

[Yael]

3. Names don't bother me

The day I decided to divorce him, I put him on virtual 'ignore'. That to me spoke volumes over anything I could call him (or him, me).

[C_U_L8R]

4. fat

oh was that a mistake.
I was young and stupid and paid for it dearly.

[El Supremo]

9. That is by far the worst name to use.

That can get you in the morgue.

[C_U_L8R]

27. tell me about it

I was dead meat

[supernova]

5. I was regularly called a bitch

by my ex husband. Hence the EX.

I don't remember calling him names. I probably did an some point just out of sheer anger at the abuse. I do remember desperately trying to moderate arguments all the time. Ironically, so they didn't get "abusive."

:P

Yeah, that tactic worked real well. :sarcasm:

[scarletwoman]

6. Worst thing I ever called one of my SOs: "asshole".

Worst thing I was ever called by one of my SOs: "stupid white woman" -- he was an American Indian.

[Canuckistanian]

7. I think I once said "slob". Not sure, because I lost consciousness.

And woke up on the floor behind the couch.

[MrSlayer]

8. I'm not much of a name caller.

When the wife and I argue it's usually very low key. No screaming, no name calling because it's idiotic.

[TalkingDog]

10. In an incredibly drunken moment of utterly drunken exasperation

I told him he was one stupid m*therf*cker if he didn't know how drunk I was......

He laughed his ass off. (as it was already abundantly clear exactly how inebriated I was)

I think Ass (or jackass) is about the worst I've called him.

While I don't like abusive language, I come from a family that tends to say what's on it's mind and sometimes in very colorful terms. Intention is everything, so I tend to get angrier at snark or passive aggressive bullshit than heated language.

[seabeyond]

11. ass, asshole, bitch (he can be a worse bitch than a girl), girlie man

you man you, such a man... nag, he is more nag by far than i, even my boys are bigger nags

but always.... it was in love, joking, funny, teasing

i have never, ever called my husband a "name" ever, when i am mad. name calling is such pre adolescent. i dont name call with anyone though.

[Maddy McCall]

12. So you're a tough gal about namecalling...

but when your husband gets drunk and abuses you, you just come to DU and whine about it?

Isn't this thread a lounge topic?

:shrug:

[greenbriar]

18. no its not a lounge topic I am curious to see the results

because I have never heard someone call someone they loved a c@%t

like McNasty did

I was really surprised


this has nothing to do with me and my issues


:)

thanks tho

[TalkingDog]

35. Umm.. C*nt? No. Sorry, that'd be a "get the f*ck out of my house" moment.

C*nt, Sl*t, or even the somehow quaint, whore..... out of bounds. I think if a man ever called me a whore, I'd laugh. What an incredibly stupid thing to call somebody.... it would have the same effect as calling me a prostitute. My response would likely be: WTF?

Bitch, bitchy, ass... not nice, but not irrevocable... especially since I can be rather....harsh sometimes.

[LWolf]

13. "asshole."

I don't have a SO anymore, lol.

I have been called bitch and cunt by various men over the course of my life.

In my youth I was often called "slut" by other females.



I have also been called a best friend, a partner, and many other good things.

[A Brand New World]

14. I've will be married for 33 years this coming Saturday and we

have not once exchanged in a name calling incident. Totally uncalled for in a successful marriage as far as I'm concerned.

[greenbriar]

21. congrats on 33 years

that is awesome

[XemaSab]

15. I've been called both a slut and a frigid bitch

This is why I am single. :D

[Staph]

16. During the argument that ended our engagement,

I called my thankfully-ex-fiance a slime bucket, pond scum .... and finally escalated to ocean scum. He never called me any nasty names. Infidelity was his specialty.

[greenbriar]

23. sorry

to hear that

[cynatnite]

17. In almost 20 years of marriage we've never called each other names...

unless it's teasing or in good fun. Never during an argument. We both know some things can't be taken back so we're careful about what we say to each other. We come from broken homes where fights got nasty and have no desire to repeat any of that.

[MannyGoldstein]

19. Late For Dinner

Worst thing I've ever been called by my family.

[apocalypsehow]

20. My wife told me to "quit being an ass" one time, but since I was being one I deserved it (I quit).

Other than that, I can't really think of any name-calling between us. We have a strong relationship (and, yes, I love her very much).

[mzteris]

22. wow - I guess I do have the worst

"husband" in the world. My not-soon-enough-to-be-ex. Heck my never-should-have-married-him father of my children.

The language he uses to talk to me, about me, usually at top volume no matter where - well, let's just say they're all the kinds of words that are as nasty and mean as you can think of.

[greenbriar]

24. I am sorry

I know it must hurt

[MonkeyFunk]

25. "noodlehead"

and he calls me a spazztard when I try to play videogames.

[stevedeshazer]

26. I've never in 27 years called my wife what McCain did

I've never called her a b****, either.

I've told her to f*** off a few times, and she has told me the same more than once.

Worst thing I was ever called was 'f*cking fagg*t' by two drunk guys who chased me up an alley because they didn't like my punk gear. That was 1978.

[ZombieHorde]

28. I have never called my SO a nasty name,

and she has never called me a nasty name while she was awake. She called me a bastard once while she was asleep. It really took me off guard since it was so out of the blue.

[greenbriar]

29. are you sure it was you she was calling that to?

maybe it was her boss?

[ZombieHorde]

30. If I remember right she used my name.

Sometimes I do bad things, such as sleep around, in her dreams. She had a couple of bad ex's.

[babydollhead]

31. nut fuck

[greenbriar]

32. bwahaha

never heard that before

[supernova]

33. The relationship I want

is one where we don't name call when we are angry.

Being upset and angry is fine.

But not the name calling and not the intimidation and bullying tactics that were a regular feature of my first marriage.

Respect counts a lot with me.

[Mind_your_head]

34. self-delete

[dysfunctional press]

36. we trade nasty names in jest all the time...

she still hasn't found a suitable comeback for when i call her a "fuck-hole"...but she's working on it.

[csziggy]

37. Even when I threw him out we did not call each other names!

We respect each other and neither of us are the type to call names - even on people we detest.

I did throw him out once - but it only lasted a few days before I found him and asked him back. We celebrated our 30th anniversary together last summer so that was only a short term aberration.

[Xenotime]

38. How about "sweet tits"