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I still think that misogynist language is inherent in our culture. You can't get away from it. Words that originally had anti-woman intent became enfolded. They've become part of the norm, acceptable in culture. I think it contributes to pathologies like whole sale hatred or rape culture.
I'm old enough to remember and I came from a place when being called a bitch was fighting words. You didn't take that shit. You didn't let people disrespect you. (Sometimes, you landed in jail, but that's another story)
It's one of the reasons I hang on to my right to an expert potty mouth. I have a strong personality and people I know understand they will be challenged on sexism, homophobic hatred and racism in words as strong as I can get away with. (I'm not stupid, I don't get far with that shit with certain hard core bikers I know, although they are fare more receptive than you'd think)
I used to think, like the poster, that racist language was much less acceptable (other than from racists who are fucking everywhere the pukes)
I've kinda of changed my mind about that since on this particular progressive board, (it's everywhere in the progressive community )I've seen racist words and intent treated the same way misogynist words are, as long as it isn't 'blatant' The New York Times comic was just the last example. Evidently the people who want to move on, or because they don't "get" it, can categorically deny racism. Jesus.
I hear "That's so Gay" as an insult, 'Fag" or "Faggy" "homo" (As homophobic hate, those types of words have also become part of the "norm", but since insulting and hating gays also has much in common with insulting and hating women, I consider them misogynist as well)
Anyway, I've heard that shit from a couple of my adult children, who should know better AT LEAST that to say it in front of me. It's part of their slang. Totally pisses my off and if they're going to say that shit, they get to listen to my opinion on it.
In Seattle Gays are being attacked pathological haters. Gays have a strong community up here, and their community has been invaded, they are being physically attacked and called names simply from walking down they street. (Like "Gaydar" is real and these assholes can tell someone's sexuality by looking at a body)
My point is that language DOES matter. It does affect society in a broad based way, and it DOES affect behavior. I'm not the language police, what I want, is thought and consideration about what words mean, not what one wants them to mean.
Oh, and saying "retard" is just as shitty. Insult an entire community without any fucking consideration or humanity at all.
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